The idea itself—of writing about things so common in everyday life—is mind-blowing. Desi explored her thoughts on 30 items. Take, for example, a book, a pillow, money, a toy, a flag, death, and a house. Who among us isn’t familiar with these?
As an author herself, it’s no wonder that she listed ‘book’ as the first item to talk about. I picked up this book because I have read Faces and Places and The Art of Solitude. I liked how she connected a paragraph to the next and the wit in her choice of words. I could relate to most of her ideas. So, I expected the same with The Book of Everyday Things. I was rewarded.
This time, too, I wanted to give her a high five – if she were next to me – when I read about bread. Yeah, the ultimate solution is indeed to bake your own bread to your own liking. The only difference is that I’m not a fan of breadmakers. I giggled at the sentence “...like my loaf of bread, it preferred to succumb to the pull of gravity rather than face the world with its head held high.”
When I arrived at Memories and read “… what separates us, homo sapiens, from other living creatures on this planet is precisely our dependence on the soundness of the mind to enable us to live our lives.” I argued. No, Desi. This time, I beg to differ. Luckily, I kept on reading. Finally, I got her point. Memory here is not about the activity of remembering. It is about the content that is being remembered. That content is called stories. “… it’s the stories that make us what we are.” True. High five.
This book is indeed packed with a lot. Philosophy. That’s one obvious thing. About each of these 30 items, Desi shared her philosophy. A lot of them, I had never seen presented the way she did. My jaw dropped again and again. How could an everyday-taken-for-granted item bring such an astonishing point of view?
History. How on earth did that cup of tea land on, for instance, the late Queen Elizabeth’s table every single afternoon without fail? It had something to do with Java, you know! How did our ancestors decide to invent money to bring happiness? Did you know that there was a time when soap was not a luxury item in malls like today, because even the king did not take a bath? Did you know that in the early days of shoes, a pair of shoes could be worn on either foot?
Biography. One might find this book an autobiography of Desi Anwar. Her parents, her sister, her childhood, her hobbies, and even her dreams. I mean, the ones she sees when she falls asleep.
When you finish reading The Book of Everyday Things, I think your day-to-day will never be the same.