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The Virgin
Jonah Bennett is a virgin.
At twenty-seven, his inexperience is the most humiliating secret Jonah has. The men he’s met always want to move faster than he does, and after one particularly disastrous first—and last—date, he’s forced to turn to his best friend for help. Spencer is one of the few people Jonah trusts, but when he confesses his secret, Jonah fears their friendship may be over.
Spencer Givens is great with his hands.
An artist by trade, Spencer has always been creative with his talents and generous with his time, so offering his body to his best friend feels like a logical solution to what Jonah thinks is his biggest problem. The plan is simple—a little fooling around between friends until Jonah is ready to try dating again.
But Spencer soon realizes he doesn’t want Jonah to date other people. The more time they spend together, the deeper in love he falls. Their agreement was only meant to be temporary, and even though the threat of losing Jonah is real, Spencer is desperate to make it permanent. If you love something you’re supposed to let it go, but Spencer doesn’t think he can. And more than that, he doesn’t want to.
Does Jonah feel the same? Or is their friendship ruined forever?
Breakfast at Bennett’s is a four book series consisting of The Virgin, The Jock, The Princess, and The Outcast. For maximum enjoyment, it is best to read the series in order.
At twenty-seven, his inexperience is the most humiliating secret Jonah has. The men he’s met always want to move faster than he does, and after one particularly disastrous first—and last—date, he’s forced to turn to his best friend for help. Spencer is one of the few people Jonah trusts, but when he confesses his secret, Jonah fears their friendship may be over.
Spencer Givens is great with his hands.
An artist by trade, Spencer has always been creative with his talents and generous with his time, so offering his body to his best friend feels like a logical solution to what Jonah thinks is his biggest problem. The plan is simple—a little fooling around between friends until Jonah is ready to try dating again.
But Spencer soon realizes he doesn’t want Jonah to date other people. The more time they spend together, the deeper in love he falls. Their agreement was only meant to be temporary, and even though the threat of losing Jonah is real, Spencer is desperate to make it permanent. If you love something you’re supposed to let it go, but Spencer doesn’t think he can. And more than that, he doesn’t want to.
Does Jonah feel the same? Or is their friendship ruined forever?
Breakfast at Bennett’s is a four book series consisting of The Virgin, The Jock, The Princess, and The Outcast. For maximum enjoyment, it is best to read the series in order.
202 pages, Kindle Edition
Published March 28, 2024
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E.M. Denning
96 books539 followersEM Denning has more than twenty romance novels under her belt and has become an author you can rely on to bring you emotionally endearing, soft and fuzzy, stories. She is well known among her friends for her love of naps and sarcasm. She spends her free time reading as many romance novels as she can get her hands on.
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October 22, 2024
A cute, sweet palette cleanser of a book, I love me a friends to lovers, demi awakening book. Jonah and Spencer were so sweet, hot and perfect for each other. They were literally just two idiots in love. It was just a nice, low angst story with some sexy times and really beautiful writing. I’ll definitely read the rest of the series!
August 5, 2024
This review is a little spoilerish. Keep that in mind before reading.
Jonah and Spencer, along with Damon, have been best friends for years. Jonah is closed off. Spencer is an easy going bear. Damon is a bit of a mystery.
Jonah, twenty-seven, has a problem with dating. Hell, with guys in general. He doesn't like being a virgin, but having sex with a guy just to do it doesn't feel right. He's tried, oh how he's tried, but he's never able to follow through. After a meet-up with a Grindr date that really could've ended badly, Jonah calls Spencer to rescue him. He's had too much to drink, he'd forgotten his credit card at home, and he's not exactly in the best area. Spencer, being the great friend he is, takes off immediately to rescue him.
The liquid courage helps Jonah open up to Spencer in ways he's never opened up to anybody. He tells him he's a virgin and how nothing ever seems to go right, to feel right, when it comes to guys. It doesn't take long before Spencer is seeing Jonah in a different light, and all that sexual experience that Jonah wants? Yeah, Spencer wants to be the one to educate him. He takes a big chance by suggesting that Jonah's first time be with him. He makes it clear that his suggestion isn't purely to help Jonah. He's doing it for selfish reasons too because he really wants his best friend.
This starts their secret 'more than friends' relationship. They're still best friends, but now they're secretly playing around. It takes a while before they go all the way, so to speak, but that doesn't stop them from doing pretty much everything else. The problem is when both catch real feelings but are too scared of destroying the friendship to share them.
Jonah and Spencer, along with Damon, have been best friends for years. Jonah is closed off. Spencer is an easy going bear. Damon is a bit of a mystery.
Jonah, twenty-seven, has a problem with dating. Hell, with guys in general. He doesn't like being a virgin, but having sex with a guy just to do it doesn't feel right. He's tried, oh how he's tried, but he's never able to follow through. After a meet-up with a Grindr date that really could've ended badly, Jonah calls Spencer to rescue him. He's had too much to drink, he'd forgotten his credit card at home, and he's not exactly in the best area. Spencer, being the great friend he is, takes off immediately to rescue him.
The liquid courage helps Jonah open up to Spencer in ways he's never opened up to anybody. He tells him he's a virgin and how nothing ever seems to go right, to feel right, when it comes to guys. It doesn't take long before Spencer is seeing Jonah in a different light, and all that sexual experience that Jonah wants? Yeah, Spencer wants to be the one to educate him. He takes a big chance by suggesting that Jonah's first time be with him. He makes it clear that his suggestion isn't purely to help Jonah. He's doing it for selfish reasons too because he really wants his best friend.
This starts their secret 'more than friends' relationship. They're still best friends, but now they're secretly playing around. It takes a while before they go all the way, so to speak, but that doesn't stop them from doing pretty much everything else. The problem is when both catch real feelings but are too scared of destroying the friendship to share them.
I'm just going to go ahead and throw this out... all of that dragged on way too long, in my opinion. While I understood where each man was coming from, I also felt that as close as they were, things should've been resolved in that regard long before it was.
Jonah is the oldest of three sons. Their dad was a single father who also was trying to run a successful diner. Colby is the middle one, and Taylor is the youngest. While I saw where the author was going with the brothers, I would've liked to have seen more as far as the oldest, middle, and youngest thing. Jonah always tried to keep his head down, and to stay out of trouble, because he knew his dad had it bad enough as he tried to navigate single parenthood while they were growing up. I get all that. What I didn't get was enough of on-page interactions with the brothers to show me why Jonah had to basically go nuclear when he - probably for the first time ever - wanted attention solely on himself for a moment when he had important news to share. I get it. Trust me, I get it. I was the youngest of three girls, but I was more the Jonah character because I was the one who had to keep my head down and not make waves. Up until that point in the book, I'd been told how and why Jonah was the way he was with Colby and Taylor. I wasn't really shown.
I loved the brothers a lot. I also love their father and Damon, though Damon is a bit of a mystery.
There were a couple of other things that bugged me, though not enough for me to rate the book lower. One time in particular I was wanting to reach inside the book and knock Jonah and Spencer's heads together. ;) Jonah had an issue with saying 'no' when he really should've said no, and Spencer didn't push it when he wanted to with every fiber of his being. I was happy with how that turned out, but I saw Jonah as lacking a backbone when he should've spoken up. I can't say more about that without giving too much away.
Jonah does eventually come to realize that the reason he couldn't ever go all the way with another man was because he's demisexual, which I think I had figured out from very early on in the book. He had to have trust and an emotional connection, something he'd not even come close to having with the other guys he'd attempted to hook up with in the past.
When they made their relationship public, I don't think it was much of a surprise to anybody.
Overall, this is a nice friends-to-lovers story. You can't not love Spencer. He's just an all around good guy. As for Jonah, well, I'm not going to say I loved him, but I won't say I disliked him either. He just had me wanting to pull my hair out a few times, especially when it came to the 'issue with saying no' thing that I mentioned above.
I'm eager to read the others in the series, especially Taylor's after reading the blurb for Colby's, The Jock.
March 31, 2024
It was cute and sweet, but not something that will stay with me! Curious about the other characters in the book.
January 24, 2025
Jonah & Spencer
Rating: 3.7⭐
- Teachers/Coworkers
- Best Friends to Lovers
- Friends with Benefits
- Smexy Lessons
- First Times
- Demi Rep
- Opposites Attract
- Low Angst
- Size Difference
This was a cute best friends to lovers story. After confessing to Spencer that he's never had sex and has trouble feeling comfortable with anyone to get that intimate, these two decide to fool around to give Jonah experience. They decide to keep the arrangement to themselves and Spencer gives himself freely for Jonah. Spencer was very patient and caring with Jonah, building up his confidence along the way. Doesn't take long for Spencer to realize that he wants to keep Jonah for himself and he doesn't want him to use his new experience on anyone else. Jonah's feelings flare as well but they both fear the possible rejection.
Content Warnings (may contain spoilers):
- Graphic sexual content between consenting adults
- Explicit language
- Mentions of parental death (past; off-page)
Verse: Yes
HEA: Yes
POV: Dual
Breakup: No, but there's some time apart before officially dating
Cheat: No
OM/OW Drama: Yes; A students guardian constantly ask Jonah out even though Jonah isn't interested.
Ages: 27 & 32
Rating: 3.7⭐
- Teachers/Coworkers
- Best Friends to Lovers
- Friends with Benefits
- Smexy Lessons
- First Times
- Demi Rep
- Opposites Attract
- Low Angst
- Size Difference
This was a cute best friends to lovers story. After confessing to Spencer that he's never had sex and has trouble feeling comfortable with anyone to get that intimate, these two decide to fool around to give Jonah experience. They decide to keep the arrangement to themselves and Spencer gives himself freely for Jonah. Spencer was very patient and caring with Jonah, building up his confidence along the way. Doesn't take long for Spencer to realize that he wants to keep Jonah for himself and he doesn't want him to use his new experience on anyone else. Jonah's feelings flare as well but they both fear the possible rejection.
Content Warnings (may contain spoilers):
- Graphic sexual content between consenting adults
- Explicit language
- Mentions of parental death (past; off-page)
Verse: Yes
HEA: Yes
POV: Dual
Breakup: No, but there's some time apart before officially dating
Cheat: No
OM/OW Drama: Yes; A students guardian constantly ask Jonah out even though Jonah isn't interested.
Ages: 27 & 32
October 1, 2025
This was a cute, sweet palette cleanser read; especially the narration by Kirt Graves! The tropes are pretty typical and the story isn’t overly complicated, but I enjoyed the characters and the intimacy of it all. I also really liked that the MC realized he’s Demi 🥹 love to see some Demi rep!!
March 30, 2024
Jonah is desperate to lose his v card but struggles with connections and the idea of a hook up - enter his best friend Spencer! Oh wow this is a beautiful, emotional read with a wonderful connection between the two MC's and a great representation of the varied shades of rainbow in the world.
Am super looking forward to the continuing books in this series!
Am super looking forward to the continuing books in this series!
January 9, 2025
story of Jonah and Spencer
This is a best friends to more romance, featuring Jonah Bennett and Spencer Givens and is book one in the Breakfast At Bennett’s series.
Jonah is twenty-seven, a teacher and has difficulty getting comfortable enough to get past the first date. He wants something special but being a secret virgin at this age has him thinking he might try the casual thing to just get it over and done with. Things don’t go so well and once Spencer, his best friend, comes and rescues him, Jonah spills the beans which has Spencer offering to teach him a thing or two.
This is a low angst, sweet and loving story between two best friends who realise they have feelings for each other.
I really enjoyed it and I’m looking forward to book two to find out about Jonah’s brother.
Things to expect in this book are:
Book 1 in series
MM romance
Low angst
Best friends to more
Virgin MC
Both teachers
S*x lessons & FWB
All the firsts
Bit of spice
Both catch feelings
Demi rep
All in
Sweet HEA
This is a best friends to more romance, featuring Jonah Bennett and Spencer Givens and is book one in the Breakfast At Bennett’s series.
Jonah is twenty-seven, a teacher and has difficulty getting comfortable enough to get past the first date. He wants something special but being a secret virgin at this age has him thinking he might try the casual thing to just get it over and done with. Things don’t go so well and once Spencer, his best friend, comes and rescues him, Jonah spills the beans which has Spencer offering to teach him a thing or two.
This is a low angst, sweet and loving story between two best friends who realise they have feelings for each other.
I really enjoyed it and I’m looking forward to book two to find out about Jonah’s brother.
Things to expect in this book are:
Book 1 in series
MM romance
Low angst
Best friends to more
Virgin MC
Both teachers
S*x lessons & FWB
All the firsts
Bit of spice
Both catch feelings
Demi rep
All in
Sweet HEA
March 13, 2024
The virgin is the first novel in a new series by the author.
A good start to the book as Jonah tries to talk to his best friend about his status, wanting someone or rather Spencer to talk too.
Jonah, 27 years, and still was a V card holder and was quite angst with feelings about it. Therefore his personal opinion of himself was at a low.
Spencer was a sculpturist who hadn't made the transition to online selling his creations yet.
After a bad night Jonah calls Spence for help, at this point I noted there was a far amount of telling narrative which I couldn't connect to.
Fast scenes progress and the question pops up from a helpful Spencer. A few awkward moments with them navigating the friends to lovers theme. I loved the references used with the ferraris vs the bike with training wheels.
I was definitely intrigued what Spencer would make out of can tabs.
A good ending as secrets find their way of coming out for their romance.
An enjoyable story for both characters povs with a HEA ending.
I received an advanced reader copy and this is my honest thoughts.
A good start to the book as Jonah tries to talk to his best friend about his status, wanting someone or rather Spencer to talk too.
Jonah, 27 years, and still was a V card holder and was quite angst with feelings about it. Therefore his personal opinion of himself was at a low.
Spencer was a sculpturist who hadn't made the transition to online selling his creations yet.
After a bad night Jonah calls Spence for help, at this point I noted there was a far amount of telling narrative which I couldn't connect to.
Fast scenes progress and the question pops up from a helpful Spencer. A few awkward moments with them navigating the friends to lovers theme. I loved the references used with the ferraris vs the bike with training wheels.
I was definitely intrigued what Spencer would make out of can tabs.
A good ending as secrets find their way of coming out for their romance.
An enjoyable story for both characters povs with a HEA ending.
I received an advanced reader copy and this is my honest thoughts.
April 5, 2024
First time author for me and I loved this book. It's such a sweet story, low angst, a best friends to lovers novel with a loving family and great friends.
It was beautiful to see Jonah and Spencer discover their feelings had always been much more than just a friendship. Jonah being a virgin opened a gate to love each other in a way that meant everything for both of them.
Also, it was a self-discover journey for Johan as he finally got to truly understand himself and why he had never been able to have sex with anyone else.
It's a quick read, heartwarming and comforting read that I enjoyed very much. I can't wait to read about the other Bennett brothers.
It was beautiful to see Jonah and Spencer discover their feelings had always been much more than just a friendship. Jonah being a virgin opened a gate to love each other in a way that meant everything for both of them.
Also, it was a self-discover journey for Johan as he finally got to truly understand himself and why he had never been able to have sex with anyone else.
It's a quick read, heartwarming and comforting read that I enjoyed very much. I can't wait to read about the other Bennett brothers.
April 12, 2024
"I need someone to give me enough time to get comfortable with them before I take the big plunge, you know, but no one seems to want that"
January 11, 2025
Cute, heart-warming friends-to-lovers romance that made me happy! Also yay for demisexual rep!
March 30, 2024
2.75
it was lacking something.
it was lacking something.
June 12, 2024
old post reposted
We interrupt your regularly schedule reading to bring you something that won't fucking trigger my already too thin mental state. I want to read more dark romance and finish some other series, but I'm trying to be kind to my body while it's struggling to take care of itself, hence a cute low-angst romance. "The Virgin" is the first novel in E.M. Denning's Breakfast at Bennett's series.
["Jonah Bennett is a virgin.
At twenty-seven, his inexperience is the most humiliating secret Jonah has. The men he’s met always want to move faster than he does, and after one particularly disastrous first—and last—date, he’s forced to turn to his best friend for help. Spencer is one of the few people Jonah trusts, but when he confesses his secret, Jonah fears their friendship may be over.
Spencer Givens is great with his hands.
An artist by trade, Spencer has always been creative with his talents and generous with his time, so offering his body to his best friend feels like a logical solution to what Jonah thinks is his biggest problem. The plan is simple—a little fooling around between friends until Jonah is ready to try dating again.
But Spencer soon realizes he doesn’t want Jonah to date other people. The more time they spend together, the deeper in love he falls. Their agreement was only meant to be temporary, and even though the threat of losing Jonah is real, Spencer is desperate to make it permanent. If you love something you’re supposed to let it go, but Spencer doesn’t think he can. And more than that, he doesn’t want to.
Does Jonah feel the same? Or is their friendship ruined forever?"]
I loved this book. It wasn't entirely angst-less. There was a lot of self-doubt and self-discovery (through hard times) and feelings of isolation and that "yes, I'm fine" feeling where you're really far from fine.
But Spencer and Jonah were amazing. They were best friends with a close relationship, who could just tell each other's mood with a look. Adding trust and intimacy to that? All of the feelings. So much fluff and reassurance and love. And friends/family who aren't that shocked. ;)
Like..can I have the rest of this series now? I loooove the brothers and all of their friends and the dad and the dinner and the titles?!?! The titles are flipping Breakfast Club references!
#thevirgin #thejock #theprincess #theoutcast #breakfastatbennetts #breakfastatbennettsseries #emdenning #books #queerbooks #queererotica #bodicerippers #bookstagram #bookphotography #ilovebooks
We interrupt your regularly schedule reading to bring you something that won't fucking trigger my already too thin mental state. I want to read more dark romance and finish some other series, but I'm trying to be kind to my body while it's struggling to take care of itself, hence a cute low-angst romance. "The Virgin" is the first novel in E.M. Denning's Breakfast at Bennett's series.
["Jonah Bennett is a virgin.
At twenty-seven, his inexperience is the most humiliating secret Jonah has. The men he’s met always want to move faster than he does, and after one particularly disastrous first—and last—date, he’s forced to turn to his best friend for help. Spencer is one of the few people Jonah trusts, but when he confesses his secret, Jonah fears their friendship may be over.
Spencer Givens is great with his hands.
An artist by trade, Spencer has always been creative with his talents and generous with his time, so offering his body to his best friend feels like a logical solution to what Jonah thinks is his biggest problem. The plan is simple—a little fooling around between friends until Jonah is ready to try dating again.
But Spencer soon realizes he doesn’t want Jonah to date other people. The more time they spend together, the deeper in love he falls. Their agreement was only meant to be temporary, and even though the threat of losing Jonah is real, Spencer is desperate to make it permanent. If you love something you’re supposed to let it go, but Spencer doesn’t think he can. And more than that, he doesn’t want to.
Does Jonah feel the same? Or is their friendship ruined forever?"]
I loved this book. It wasn't entirely angst-less. There was a lot of self-doubt and self-discovery (through hard times) and feelings of isolation and that "yes, I'm fine" feeling where you're really far from fine.
But Spencer and Jonah were amazing. They were best friends with a close relationship, who could just tell each other's mood with a look. Adding trust and intimacy to that? All of the feelings. So much fluff and reassurance and love. And friends/family who aren't that shocked. ;)
Like..can I have the rest of this series now? I loooove the brothers and all of their friends and the dad and the dinner and the titles?!?! The titles are flipping Breakfast Club references!
#thevirgin #thejock #theprincess #theoutcast #breakfastatbennetts #breakfastatbennettsseries #emdenning #books #queerbooks #queererotica #bodicerippers #bookstagram #bookphotography #ilovebooks
September 3, 2024
I enjoyed this book. Wanted to give a 5 star, but the fact that Spencer was described as being hairy as a rug at one point took half a star and Grant another half star. I can't do hairy guys it's a trigger and there was no warning for that. Was slightly grossed out by that description so it got a four star.
Jonah has never had sex with another man because he can't get comfortable with them and they won't give him the time to feel that or safe. His latest boyfriend ditches him and he tries going to a bar to have a random hook up, but it doesn't work either so after a few too many he confesses to his best friend who picks him up what's wrong.
Spencer wants to help Jonah have the time he needs to feel comfortable and safe with sex. So he offers himself up which isn't a hardship for him at all. They do it without telling others, but of course how obvious they are lets others in on it, but no one talks about it.
I wish they would have talked a little more at times instead of thinking there was a deadline that they'd have to give each other up. If they would have talked then the Grant disaster wouldn't have happened. The man who's an uncle raising one the kids that Jonah tutors tries using that fact to get a date with Jonah who's said no multiple times. He doesn't like Grant only went out cause thought the nephew would be there too. I loved how Jonah laid him out for what he did because it was low down and dirty.
It gave Jonah some clarity and he went and told Spencer what he really wanted which was him without having to let him go. Love that Jonah is Demisexual and Spencer is Bi. The sex was hot and sweet as well. Spencer giving Jonah what he needed to explore what he wanted and needed.
I enjoyed the side characters (Not Grant). Colby and Taylor who are Jonah's brothers. I really can't wait for their books or Ethan, their dad's book. Taylor loves growing trees and leaving them as surprises since they get too big and because of the weather he can't put them outside. Jonah was always the one that got overlooked because one he didn't want to really be in spotlight and two the other two needed it more. So when he wanted to say he was with Spencer and got overshadowed by his brothers I liked that they tried making up to him what happened. I can't wait to get to Taylor's book the most.
Hard to believe that this came out in March of this year. Seems like I saw The Princess one advertising ages ago instead of a few months back. This one was great and my second book by E.M.
Jonah has never had sex with another man because he can't get comfortable with them and they won't give him the time to feel that or safe. His latest boyfriend ditches him and he tries going to a bar to have a random hook up, but it doesn't work either so after a few too many he confesses to his best friend who picks him up what's wrong.
Spencer wants to help Jonah have the time he needs to feel comfortable and safe with sex. So he offers himself up which isn't a hardship for him at all. They do it without telling others, but of course how obvious they are lets others in on it, but no one talks about it.
I wish they would have talked a little more at times instead of thinking there was a deadline that they'd have to give each other up. If they would have talked then the Grant disaster wouldn't have happened. The man who's an uncle raising one the kids that Jonah tutors tries using that fact to get a date with Jonah who's said no multiple times. He doesn't like Grant only went out cause thought the nephew would be there too. I loved how Jonah laid him out for what he did because it was low down and dirty.
It gave Jonah some clarity and he went and told Spencer what he really wanted which was him without having to let him go. Love that Jonah is Demisexual and Spencer is Bi. The sex was hot and sweet as well. Spencer giving Jonah what he needed to explore what he wanted and needed.
I enjoyed the side characters (Not Grant). Colby and Taylor who are Jonah's brothers. I really can't wait for their books or Ethan, their dad's book. Taylor loves growing trees and leaving them as surprises since they get too big and because of the weather he can't put them outside. Jonah was always the one that got overlooked because one he didn't want to really be in spotlight and two the other two needed it more. So when he wanted to say he was with Spencer and got overshadowed by his brothers I liked that they tried making up to him what happened. I can't wait to get to Taylor's book the most.
Hard to believe that this came out in March of this year. Seems like I saw The Princess one advertising ages ago instead of a few months back. This one was great and my second book by E.M.
March 3, 2025
Such a good quick read
This was a great quick read, yet it had a lot of stuff that makes you think. It's about finding yourself, standing up for yourself, realizing you're worthy, and lots of love. Jonah is the oldest of his brothers. Growing up with his mom passing away and his dad grieving while also running a diner and raising three boys Jonah did his best to help his dad at the Diner and with his brothers which in turn made him keep his feelings and wants to himself as to not stress out his dad or get in the way. He relied on himself and didn't let people be privy to how he was feeling or be vulnerable with them. The fact that he's 27 and a vigin is weighing heavy on him because he can't seem to be comfortable with being intimate with someone even though he really wants to. He has many first dates but hardly ever second ones because most men don't like to wait to get to know someone before they try to have sex with them, and that isn't Jonah. But when his best friend Spencer comes to his rescue after another failed attempt to be intimate with someone, he spills his biggest secret. He's embarrassed and feels small, but Spencer doesn't make him feel that way. Instead, he goes to Jonah with a proposal. He'd be more than happy to show Jonah what he's been missing if Jonah is comfortable with that and he'd go at Jonah's pace and they'd stop when they ran their course until Jonah was ready to date again. Except neither know what's waiting for them at the end of all this. Spencer is Jonah's best friend. He doesn't have family, and since meeting Jonah and in turn Jonah's family, he finally feels like he's part of one again after so long of being alone. When he offered to help Jonah, he wasn't prepared what just one kiss would do to either of them. I absolutely love how close Jonah and Spencer are and how Jonah is closed off, but Spencer doesn't let him stay that way. They know each other and are comfortable with each other and have even had some attraction for each other as well, but that first kiss really sealed the deal. They're both scared of their growing feelings with every touch, kiss, and caress, but they don't want to stop, so they keep it to themselves. In the end, though, the truth sets them free, and they see all the ways they make each other better. They were sweet, steamy, and so swoony I didn't want the book to end. I'm super excited for the rest of the family's books!
This was a great quick read, yet it had a lot of stuff that makes you think. It's about finding yourself, standing up for yourself, realizing you're worthy, and lots of love. Jonah is the oldest of his brothers. Growing up with his mom passing away and his dad grieving while also running a diner and raising three boys Jonah did his best to help his dad at the Diner and with his brothers which in turn made him keep his feelings and wants to himself as to not stress out his dad or get in the way. He relied on himself and didn't let people be privy to how he was feeling or be vulnerable with them. The fact that he's 27 and a vigin is weighing heavy on him because he can't seem to be comfortable with being intimate with someone even though he really wants to. He has many first dates but hardly ever second ones because most men don't like to wait to get to know someone before they try to have sex with them, and that isn't Jonah. But when his best friend Spencer comes to his rescue after another failed attempt to be intimate with someone, he spills his biggest secret. He's embarrassed and feels small, but Spencer doesn't make him feel that way. Instead, he goes to Jonah with a proposal. He'd be more than happy to show Jonah what he's been missing if Jonah is comfortable with that and he'd go at Jonah's pace and they'd stop when they ran their course until Jonah was ready to date again. Except neither know what's waiting for them at the end of all this. Spencer is Jonah's best friend. He doesn't have family, and since meeting Jonah and in turn Jonah's family, he finally feels like he's part of one again after so long of being alone. When he offered to help Jonah, he wasn't prepared what just one kiss would do to either of them. I absolutely love how close Jonah and Spencer are and how Jonah is closed off, but Spencer doesn't let him stay that way. They know each other and are comfortable with each other and have even had some attraction for each other as well, but that first kiss really sealed the deal. They're both scared of their growing feelings with every touch, kiss, and caress, but they don't want to stop, so they keep it to themselves. In the end, though, the truth sets them free, and they see all the ways they make each other better. They were sweet, steamy, and so swoony I didn't want the book to end. I'm super excited for the rest of the family's books!
July 7, 2024
27 Jahre alt und noch immer eine Jungfrau. Jonah Bennett schafft es kaum über ein erstes Date hinaus. Und wenn doch, dann wird er nach dem zweite Date auch schon wieder abgeschrieben. Dabei sieht er nicht schlecht aus, geht einer geregelten Arbeit nach und ist sozial durchaus verträglich. Aber es macht einfach nicht klick und seine Zurückhaltung schreckt offensichtlich jeden Mann ab. Keiner von ihnen ist gewillt Jonah ein wenig mehr Zeit zu geben.
Einzig seinem besten Freund Spencer Givens kann er sich anvertrauen. So wie Jonah arbeitet auch Spencer als Lehrer an der hiesigen High School. Im Gegensatz zu Jonah ist Spencer erfahren und selbstbewusst in Bezug auf seine Sexualität. So bietet er Jonah an, sich seiner anzunehmen und Jonah soll mit ihm seine ersten, richtigen Erfahrungen auf diesem Feld machen. Beide sind sich jedoch bewusst, dass dieses Experiment schief gehen und ihre enge Freundschaft zerstören kann. Was kann es schaden, wenn Jonah ein wenig Erfahrung sammelt und sein Selbstbewusstsein aufbaut, ehe er sich wieder ans Daten macht?
Doch schnell zeigt sich, dass da mehr als nur diese enge Freundschaft ist. Jonah kann sich auf Spencer einlassen und Spencer bringt sehr viel Geduld mit Jonah auf. Manchmal ist es ein wenig seltsam zwischen ihnen. Vor allem dann, wenn sie sich bei Jonahs Familie oder an ihrem Arbeitsplatz befinden. Beide müssen sich eingestehen, dass sich da zwischen ihnen mehr entwickelt und das macht ihnen Angst. Einer Aussprache gehen sie lieber aus dem Weg, damit ihre Freundschaft keinen Schaden nimmt.
Ich mag diese Geschichten sehr, wo sich zwischen zwei Freunden mehr entwickelt und sie zu Liebenden werden. Das Setting umfasst neben den zwei Hauptprotagonisten noch die Familie von Jonah (zwei Brüder und der Vater), sowie ihren Freund Damon und Nash, seines Zeichens bester Freund von Jonahs nächstjüngerem Bruder. E.M. Denning bringt immer wieder schöne Geschichten heraus, die man einfach nicht weglegen kann. So konnte ich mich auch hier kaum von der Geschichte losreißen und freue mich schon auf Colbys Geschichte.
Einzig seinem besten Freund Spencer Givens kann er sich anvertrauen. So wie Jonah arbeitet auch Spencer als Lehrer an der hiesigen High School. Im Gegensatz zu Jonah ist Spencer erfahren und selbstbewusst in Bezug auf seine Sexualität. So bietet er Jonah an, sich seiner anzunehmen und Jonah soll mit ihm seine ersten, richtigen Erfahrungen auf diesem Feld machen. Beide sind sich jedoch bewusst, dass dieses Experiment schief gehen und ihre enge Freundschaft zerstören kann. Was kann es schaden, wenn Jonah ein wenig Erfahrung sammelt und sein Selbstbewusstsein aufbaut, ehe er sich wieder ans Daten macht?
Doch schnell zeigt sich, dass da mehr als nur diese enge Freundschaft ist. Jonah kann sich auf Spencer einlassen und Spencer bringt sehr viel Geduld mit Jonah auf. Manchmal ist es ein wenig seltsam zwischen ihnen. Vor allem dann, wenn sie sich bei Jonahs Familie oder an ihrem Arbeitsplatz befinden. Beide müssen sich eingestehen, dass sich da zwischen ihnen mehr entwickelt und das macht ihnen Angst. Einer Aussprache gehen sie lieber aus dem Weg, damit ihre Freundschaft keinen Schaden nimmt.
Ich mag diese Geschichten sehr, wo sich zwischen zwei Freunden mehr entwickelt und sie zu Liebenden werden. Das Setting umfasst neben den zwei Hauptprotagonisten noch die Familie von Jonah (zwei Brüder und der Vater), sowie ihren Freund Damon und Nash, seines Zeichens bester Freund von Jonahs nächstjüngerem Bruder. E.M. Denning bringt immer wieder schöne Geschichten heraus, die man einfach nicht weglegen kann. So konnte ich mich auch hier kaum von der Geschichte losreißen und freue mich schon auf Colbys Geschichte.
April 1, 2024
If you enjoy reading friends to lovers romance,with quirky friends, found family, and younger brother drama, than this is the book for you!
Jonah and Spencer have been best friends practically since they met each other at work. They've stayed close friends throughout the years and have become an integral part of each other's lives. Jonah is a virgin who can't quite connect to any of the men he's tried dating in the past. They are always trying to rush him, or expect him to put out after the first date, but that's not what Jonah wants. Jonah gets to a point where he confides in Spencer about what he's struggling with. From there; as they say, the rest is history.
This story was truly adorable. I adored the connection and bond Jonah and Spencer have with each other. Spencer wanted to help Jonah and be that safe person for him to explore his wants with, and while it wasn't entirely selfless, he offered with good intentions. What really stood out to me was how these men both cared about each other so profoundly, to the point where things got a bit awkward because they were so worried that their friendship would get ruined. They didn't want to lose each other, and despite struggling to communicate at first, they eventually got there.
I will say there is a tiny bit of angst involved, nothing major, but it's there. I enjoyed the banter between the MC's along with the banter that occured with the side characters. This is a high steam romance, so if that's not your favorite than this may not be the best book for you. The relationship that these men have is really sweet and endearing, and the side characters just help bring it all together. I loved the found family aspect that was woven into the pages of this story. I'm so excited to see who's story is going to be next! Is it going to be Damon's? Or maybe Taylor's? Perhaps Colby's? I'm looking forward to finding out!
Jonah and Spencer have been best friends practically since they met each other at work. They've stayed close friends throughout the years and have become an integral part of each other's lives. Jonah is a virgin who can't quite connect to any of the men he's tried dating in the past. They are always trying to rush him, or expect him to put out after the first date, but that's not what Jonah wants. Jonah gets to a point where he confides in Spencer about what he's struggling with. From there; as they say, the rest is history.
This story was truly adorable. I adored the connection and bond Jonah and Spencer have with each other. Spencer wanted to help Jonah and be that safe person for him to explore his wants with, and while it wasn't entirely selfless, he offered with good intentions. What really stood out to me was how these men both cared about each other so profoundly, to the point where things got a bit awkward because they were so worried that their friendship would get ruined. They didn't want to lose each other, and despite struggling to communicate at first, they eventually got there.
I will say there is a tiny bit of angst involved, nothing major, but it's there. I enjoyed the banter between the MC's along with the banter that occured with the side characters. This is a high steam romance, so if that's not your favorite than this may not be the best book for you. The relationship that these men have is really sweet and endearing, and the side characters just help bring it all together. I loved the found family aspect that was woven into the pages of this story. I'm so excited to see who's story is going to be next! Is it going to be Damon's? Or maybe Taylor's? Perhaps Colby's? I'm looking forward to finding out!
November 14, 2025
3.5 Stars
This is a sweet story. Jonah is lovely, and Spencer is a gentle soul. They are best friends who add some benefits in to help Jonah gain some experience.
Jonah has some issues from being the oldest in a family where his mother died—he has tried to make himself as invisible and unobtrusive as possible. Which means he never talks about his feelings or in any way allows his own feelings or issues be a burden on anyone. This is not particularly healthy, and causes some conflict in his burgeoning relationship with Spencer. Spencer just wants to be with Jonah. His biggest issue is not wanting to ruin his place in his found family, i.e. Jonah’s family, by getting his relationship with Jonah wrong.
I enjoyed watching these two move from friends to friends-with-benefits to boyfriends. I liked the side characters, too.
I do feel this book suffered a little by having too much interiority. There were some scenes that were almost entirely in the character’s head. There needed to be more action, or at least more dialogue. Being so much in their heads made some of their thoughts feel repetitive.
Also, Damon is supposed to be best friends with these two, but it didn’t really feel like it. I would have liked for them to have shared more with him or to at least have more scenes with him to establish how close they are. As it is, it almost feels as if Damon is their best friend just for the third book to work as a brother’s best friend story.
I listened to the audiobook, and Kirt Graves did a lovely job, making each character feel distinct.
This is a sweet story. Jonah is lovely, and Spencer is a gentle soul. They are best friends who add some benefits in to help Jonah gain some experience.
Jonah has some issues from being the oldest in a family where his mother died—he has tried to make himself as invisible and unobtrusive as possible. Which means he never talks about his feelings or in any way allows his own feelings or issues be a burden on anyone. This is not particularly healthy, and causes some conflict in his burgeoning relationship with Spencer. Spencer just wants to be with Jonah. His biggest issue is not wanting to ruin his place in his found family, i.e. Jonah’s family, by getting his relationship with Jonah wrong.
I enjoyed watching these two move from friends to friends-with-benefits to boyfriends. I liked the side characters, too.
I do feel this book suffered a little by having too much interiority. There were some scenes that were almost entirely in the character’s head. There needed to be more action, or at least more dialogue. Being so much in their heads made some of their thoughts feel repetitive.
Also, Damon is supposed to be best friends with these two, but it didn’t really feel like it. I would have liked for them to have shared more with him or to at least have more scenes with him to establish how close they are. As it is, it almost feels as if Damon is their best friend just for the third book to work as a brother’s best friend story.
I listened to the audiobook, and Kirt Graves did a lovely job, making each character feel distinct.
March 30, 2024
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A confession and an offer = some hot sexy times and a sweet HEA.
Such a cute story. BFF to lovers will always be my favourite, and Jonah and Spencer were a wonderful pairing. Fellow teachers who just clicked on Jonah’s first day.
They have great chemistry and are fantastic friends, which makes for an excellent basis for their arrangement. Spencer is a great teacher. I would happily accept my own bear of a man to tell me what to do!
Of course, our boys worry about their growing feelings and fear that the other might not feel the same. But the prospect of Jonah going on a date makes sure these two figure out exactly what they want. Swoon!
We also get to know their other BFF Damon, and the rest of the Bennett clan, who no doubt will be equally entertaining.
A confession and an offer = some hot sexy times and a sweet HEA.
Such a cute story. BFF to lovers will always be my favourite, and Jonah and Spencer were a wonderful pairing. Fellow teachers who just clicked on Jonah’s first day.
They have great chemistry and are fantastic friends, which makes for an excellent basis for their arrangement. Spencer is a great teacher. I would happily accept my own bear of a man to tell me what to do!
Of course, our boys worry about their growing feelings and fear that the other might not feel the same. But the prospect of Jonah going on a date makes sure these two figure out exactly what they want. Swoon!
We also get to know their other BFF Damon, and the rest of the Bennett clan, who no doubt will be equally entertaining.
April 8, 2024
E.M. Denning's The Virgin is a really romantic story where demi-sexual Jonah and his best friend Seth take their friendship into intimacy.
**Spoiler Alert**
Josh is an intelligent, attractive man who has never found a romantic connection strong enough to allow him to enjoy a sexual experience. Jonah is so anxious about not finding a man he can enjoyably date, much less have sex with, that he works himself into a frustrated emotional state. Seth teaches at the same school Jonah does. Their friendship is close enough that Seth recognizes Jonah is in a bad emotional state. Seth convinces Jonah to share his problematic lack of sexual experience, and TRUST me, Seth offers a solution to Jonah's problem. Seth's solution is sexy, steamy and gratifying. Seth's honest pleasure in Jonah helps the poor man relax and allow himself to open up. E.M. Denning writes sensuous and sexy descriptions of Jonah and Seth's intimate explorations. Arousingly graphic and in no way coarse or shallow, Denning's take on romantic relationships is beautiful.
**Spoiler Alert**
Josh is an intelligent, attractive man who has never found a romantic connection strong enough to allow him to enjoy a sexual experience. Jonah is so anxious about not finding a man he can enjoyably date, much less have sex with, that he works himself into a frustrated emotional state. Seth teaches at the same school Jonah does. Their friendship is close enough that Seth recognizes Jonah is in a bad emotional state. Seth convinces Jonah to share his problematic lack of sexual experience, and TRUST me, Seth offers a solution to Jonah's problem. Seth's solution is sexy, steamy and gratifying. Seth's honest pleasure in Jonah helps the poor man relax and allow himself to open up. E.M. Denning writes sensuous and sexy descriptions of Jonah and Seth's intimate explorations. Arousingly graphic and in no way coarse or shallow, Denning's take on romantic relationships is beautiful.
September 16, 2025
A Joyfully Jay review.
4 stars
This audiobook felt very tender and sweet, with lots of love and a fair amount of angst, as Jonah and Spencer navigate their changing relationship. Narrator Kirt Graves gave all the characters a robust voice, with lots of gravitas and playfulness as needed. Jonah’s the eldest of three sons, raised up by his widowed father. He has always felt a lot of pressure to keep his emotions and needs very contained, so he wouldn’t create any more struggle for his dad to manage, and this self-sacrifice has left him pretty isolated emotionally. His voice reflected the insecurity and frustration with his perceived shortcomings that permeated his POV.
It’s a very cute story and I really liked it. I would absolutely read on in the series.
Read Veronica’s review in its entirety here.
4 stars
This audiobook felt very tender and sweet, with lots of love and a fair amount of angst, as Jonah and Spencer navigate their changing relationship. Narrator Kirt Graves gave all the characters a robust voice, with lots of gravitas and playfulness as needed. Jonah’s the eldest of three sons, raised up by his widowed father. He has always felt a lot of pressure to keep his emotions and needs very contained, so he wouldn’t create any more struggle for his dad to manage, and this self-sacrifice has left him pretty isolated emotionally. His voice reflected the insecurity and frustration with his perceived shortcomings that permeated his POV.
It’s a very cute story and I really liked it. I would absolutely read on in the series.
Read Veronica’s review in its entirety here.
January 16, 2025
1.5 stars. Meh. I liked the premise but didn’t get a whole lot from this story. The MCs hit the sheets at 20% (with virtually no contemplation or discussion on how it would affect their best friend status), and from there, they were either 1) having sex or 2) interminably ruminating over whether the other wanted more than just sex. There were some family dynamics thrown in, but it was all pretty basic. Also, the lack of communication was silly and trite. I get that the MCs were scared and didn’t want to have a convo about the state of things between them—no one likes to put themselves out there and be vulnerable—but as a romance reader, it’s frustrating when the plot and tension rely so heavily on the MCs inability to talk. Even though this was repetitive, predictable, and flat, it was somehow still better then a one star read so I’m gonna go ahead and round up.
March 28, 2024
This was a cute, quick, and low angst read- perfect for a cozy weekend afternoon. I especially loved Spencer and how much he cared for Jonah. He was so focused on Jonah's comfort and making sure he was happy. I am excited to see more of their other guys in their stories. I am not the biggest fan of the best friends to lovers trope, and I am really not a fan of the whole "I'm secretly in love with you but too scared to tell you so I won't say anything and hurt myself by encouraging you to go out with someone else" trope, and this book had both. That doesn't take away from enjoying this being a good story, there are just a few aspects that don't line up for me and what I prefer to read in books.
March 29, 2024
It’s hard to express how much I love this book. E.M. Denning is able to pack so many feelings into this book. It’s impossible not to fall in love with the characters and their journey.
The best part, however, is representation. I don’t know of any other author who can write representation as well as E.M. Denning. This book covers not only the societal pressure of virginity, but demisexuality. I feel like these topics aren’t explored as thoroughly they should. E.M. Denning also brings a level of respect and care that is inspiring to read.
The plotline was engaging and as always the world building is on point. In fact, I’ve fallen in love with this world and I’m so excited to see what comes next.
5 stars for a sweet and impactful story.
The best part, however, is representation. I don’t know of any other author who can write representation as well as E.M. Denning. This book covers not only the societal pressure of virginity, but demisexuality. I feel like these topics aren’t explored as thoroughly they should. E.M. Denning also brings a level of respect and care that is inspiring to read.
The plotline was engaging and as always the world building is on point. In fact, I’ve fallen in love with this world and I’m so excited to see what comes next.
5 stars for a sweet and impactful story.
April 2, 2024
The Virgin took two of my favorite tropes (inexperienced MMC and friends to lovers) and delivered a loving, hot, cozy-but-angsty book!!!
I love both of these characters so much! EM Denning has a way of writing characters that live in my head rent free after I have finished the book. She writes the vulnerability of her characters in a way that makes it feel like they are real, and then she takes that character's vulnerability and comforts it with another character's love -- it's this recipe with her books that I just cannot get over! It makes me feel so happy and is why I'll always recommend EM Denning's books. They always hit.
Jess’s overall enjoyment: 4/5⭐️
Spice level: 3/5 🌶️
Angst level: 2.5/5 ❤️🩹
Plot: 4/5 🗺️
Writing: 4/5 🖊️
“It’s as selfish as it is selfless, because I can’t stop thinking about how fucking great it would be…to be the first one to show you how amazing you could feel.”
I love both of these characters so much! EM Denning has a way of writing characters that live in my head rent free after I have finished the book. She writes the vulnerability of her characters in a way that makes it feel like they are real, and then she takes that character's vulnerability and comforts it with another character's love -- it's this recipe with her books that I just cannot get over! It makes me feel so happy and is why I'll always recommend EM Denning's books. They always hit.
Jess’s overall enjoyment: 4/5⭐️
Spice level: 3/5 🌶️
Angst level: 2.5/5 ❤️🩹
Plot: 4/5 🗺️
Writing: 4/5 🖊️
“It’s as selfish as it is selfless, because I can’t stop thinking about how fucking great it would be…to be the first one to show you how amazing you could feel.”
March 20, 2024
Jonah and Spencer were so great together! I loved them individually and together. Both had their insecurities, both were afraid to open up about their true feelings. I loved the chemistry between the two, and hoped they would end up together in the end.
Jonah, embarrassed about his virgin status at 27, continued to go on dead end dates, and eventually ventured over to Grindr. When that was a bust he confessed everything to Spencer. Spencer, not wanting Jonah to put himself in a compromising situation, suggested a friends with benefits situation where he could keep a protective eye on Jonah.
Jonah, embarrassed about his virgin status at 27, continued to go on dead end dates, and eventually ventured over to Grindr. When that was a bust he confessed everything to Spencer. Spencer, not wanting Jonah to put himself in a compromising situation, suggested a friends with benefits situation where he could keep a protective eye on Jonah.
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March 29, 2024Best friends to lovers, with Spencer coming to the realization that he doesn't want Jonah looking anywhere else for his first times... this book is quintessentially E.M... mostly low angst, just a little bit kinky and a well balanced opposites attract read, where the little bit of tension that is inevitable is resolved quickly...
It was fun getting to know Jonah and get a glimpse into his brothers personalities... as well as getting to know Jonah's other friend... who I'm sure will make his presence known again :)
If you're looking for your next fluffy, feel good low angst read, then definitely add The Virgin to your TBR
It was fun getting to know Jonah and get a glimpse into his brothers personalities... as well as getting to know Jonah's other friend... who I'm sure will make his presence known again :)
If you're looking for your next fluffy, feel good low angst read, then definitely add The Virgin to your TBR
November 9, 2025
AUDIOBOOK REVIEW
Super sweet friends to lovers with a Virgin MC and lots of teach me moments.
Jonah is a 27 year old virgin and though it sounds unlikely, the reason that he is makes total sense when it comes out in the end.
Spencer has always been attracted to Jonah but kept him firmly in the friend zone in his mind till Jonah has a disaster of a failed hookup and blurts it all out to Spencer.
This is a cozy, low angst, sweet and a little spicy friends to lovers with mutual pining, lots of emotional support, and a great HEA.
Kirt Graves is one of my favorite male narrators, he does both parts and is a great voice actor. I enjoyed his narration and the whole book experience.
Super sweet friends to lovers with a Virgin MC and lots of teach me moments.
Jonah is a 27 year old virgin and though it sounds unlikely, the reason that he is makes total sense when it comes out in the end.
Spencer has always been attracted to Jonah but kept him firmly in the friend zone in his mind till Jonah has a disaster of a failed hookup and blurts it all out to Spencer.
This is a cozy, low angst, sweet and a little spicy friends to lovers with mutual pining, lots of emotional support, and a great HEA.
Kirt Graves is one of my favorite male narrators, he does both parts and is a great voice actor. I enjoyed his narration and the whole book experience.
March 11, 2024
I thought I was done with EM Denning but I got an ARC opportunity for this book through Kate Hawthorne’s Patreon and so here we are, sucked back in. And I really enjoyed this! I related hard to Jonah. Even though friends to lovers can be a bit frustrating at times cause to me it’s the perfect foundation for a romantic relationship but for them it’s all about worrying what could go wrong and would the friendship survive. But besides that, there’s a sweet friend group and a family that is supportive, if frustrating at times. I will look for more in this series.
March 28, 2024
Logical to Magical...
This story is as awesome as it is frustrating!! I love books that make you want to jump in and smack the characters on the back of the head! Jonah and Spencer are perfect for each other. They just need to get out their own way. Jonah has a big heart and wants to cross that final line with someone. When Spencer realizes he wants to be that someone, the chemistry is off the charts. It's sweet, loving and perfect. I love the atmosphere at Bennett's and can't wait to see what's in store for Jonah's brothers!!!
This story is as awesome as it is frustrating!! I love books that make you want to jump in and smack the characters on the back of the head! Jonah and Spencer are perfect for each other. They just need to get out their own way. Jonah has a big heart and wants to cross that final line with someone. When Spencer realizes he wants to be that someone, the chemistry is off the charts. It's sweet, loving and perfect. I love the atmosphere at Bennett's and can't wait to see what's in store for Jonah's brothers!!!
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