Better Man

by Bruce Langdon

BETTER MAN describes one man’s journey through romantic relationships. The author navigates college as a gay man, then graduate school, and then present day as a practicing licensed clinical mental health counselor. This book is a story about love, heartbreak, and the difficult lessons learned while traveling the treacherous road of dating. Striving to become a better man, the author learns about his own values, what he’s looking for in a partner, and that sometimes the bravest thing you can do is run. Getting through breakups, navigating partners with differing values, and having the realization that just because sparks fly when you meet doesn’t always mean it’s meant to be—these are just a few of the harder truths the author learns along the way. BETTER MAN is a firsthand account of three major relationships told through the eyes of the author as he experienced them.As the author gets further in his study of psychology and gains a greater understanding of things like communication and what it means for a relationship to be “healthy,” his relationships continue to grow increasingly toxic. Will he throw in the towel and simply decide it’s best to assume he’s had his last kiss? Or dust himself off and begin again?Let’s hope there’s a hopeless “new” romantic on the other side of the door.So now, on to the story of us…

232 pages, Paperback

Published March 9, 2024

Reviews

[Book Love · Rating 5 out of 5]

In “Better Man,” Bruce Langdon takes readers on a poignant journey through the complexities of romantic relationships. From navigating college as a gay man to his present role as a licensed clinical mental health counselor, Langdon shares his story of love, heartbreak, and self-discovery. 💑

Langdon’s narrative is raw and honest, offering a firsthand account of his experiences in three major relationships. Through his journey, he learns valuable lessons about love, values, and the courage it takes to move on. As he delves deeper into the study of psychology, Langdon gains insights into communication and healthy relationships, but he also grapples with the toxicity that can seep into intimate connections. 🧠

“BETTER MAN” is a compelling read that will resonate with anyone who has experienced the highs and lows of love. Langdon’s storytelling is both engaging and relatable, making this book a must-read for those seeking to understand the complexities of modern relationships. 📘

[Brice Bradshaw · Rating 5 out of 5]

I think any Swiftie will appreciate this book because Taylor is all over it

[Cole · Rating 3 out of 5]

Bruce Landgon shares his experiences of navigating gay relationships and growing up en route to becoming a mental health counselor. He strives to become a better man, and yes that’s 100% a Taylor Swift reference. This book is great for The Swifties™ because the quotes and references are truly littered throughout the book. It’s a quick read, and interesting in its ability to find Taylor Swift references for truly every aspect of life. That said, even as someone who loves a pun or a perfectly placed pop culture reference, I have to say that this book wasn’t for me. I can see the potential and think maybe if it took more of a clinical psychology framework approach I might have enjoyed it a bit more but it read as an anthology of anecdotes that didn’t match up to its Big Reputation.

Reviewed as part of #GoodreadsGiveaways Many thanks to Fulton Books and the author for the #gifted copy in exchange for an honest review.