103 First Dates: MisMatchDotCom

by Frank Lazarus

At the age of sixty, Frank Lazarus finds himself thrust into the unpredictable world of dating after his wife of twenty-five years files for divorce. What follows is a seven-year journey filled with laughter, tears, and profound self-discovery as Frank navigates the ups and downs of modern romance.In "103 First Dates," Frank shares his remarkable tale with humor, emotion, and insight, chronicling each of his encounters with potential soulmates. From awkward blind dates set up by well-meaning friends to navigating the bewildering landscape of online dating, Frank's social calendar becomes as busy as that of a one-armed paper hanger.As he delves into the world of swipes, profiles, and first impressions, Frank's experiences offer a relatable and entertaining glimpse into the trials and triumphs of finding love later in life. His story resonates with anyone who has dipped their toes into the waters of online dating or who has contemplated the prospect, as well as those happily ensconced in long-term relationships, grateful to avoid the pitfalls of modern courtship.Switching genres from his previous works, including "The Murder Gambit," "The Phenom," and "Recruiting Murder," Frank Lazarus captivates readers with his candid and compelling narrative. "103 First Dates" is more than just a chronicle of romantic escapades—it's a testament to the resilience of the human heart and the enduring hope for love, no matter one's age or circumstances.With its blend of humor, emotion, and wisdom, "103 First Dates" is sure to captivate readers, leaving them laughing, crying, and cheering on Frank's quest for a second chance at love.

265 pages, Hardcover

Published March 15, 2024

About the author

Frank Lazarus is a retired financial services executive turned mystery author. He has written nine books, including seven in his popular BROWN & MCNEIL MURDER MYSTERY SERIES. Drawing inspiration from thriller masters like Patterson, Silva, Grisham, and Siegel, Lazarus brings his Wall Street experience to crafting compelling crime fiction.

A native of West Philadelphia, he earned his degree in Business Administration from St. Joseph's University. When he's not plotting his next mystery, Frank enjoys time with his three adult children and five grandchildren. He currently lives on Hilton Head Island with his partner, Deb, where the coastal setting provides the perfect backdrop for writing his intricate mysteries.

Reviews

[Stephen Hyde · Rating 5 out of 5]

It's a very humorous read. I laughed at almost every date description, and the author's Seinfeld-type humor was evident on nearly every page. I highly recommend this book for people looking for a good laugh.

[Samuel Darasy · Rating 5 out of 5]

I really enjoyed 103 First Dates: MisMatchDotCom. Frank Lazarus tells his story with honesty, humor, and a surprising amount of heart. What stood out to me most was how real everything felt, from the awkward first dates to the emotional highs and lows of starting over later in life.

The book is funny without trying too hard, but it’s also thoughtful and reflective. Beyond the dating experiences, it’s really a story about resilience, self-discovery, and the courage it takes to open yourself up again after loss and change. Even if you’re not dating, or nowhere near your sixties, the emotions and lessons here are very relatable.

I appreciated how Frank shared each experience candidly, without pretending to have all the answers. It made the journey feel authentic and easy to connect with. This book made me laugh, reflect, and appreciate how complicated (and hopeful) modern relationships can be.

Overall, this was an engaging and heartfelt read, especially for anyone curious about online dating, second chances, or the idea that it’s never too late to hope for love.

[Sophia Garcia · Rating 4 out of 5]

I came across 103 First Dates through a post by Abigail Taylor in a book club, and the first thing that caught my attention was the cover—it’s clever, inviting, and perfectly matches the lighthearted yet honest tone of the book.

Frank Lazarus does a fantastic job capturing the ups, downs, and unexpected turns of dating with humor and authenticity. Every chapter feels like you’re hearing stories from a close friend who’s been through it all but still believes in love and laughter. It’s the kind of book that makes you smile, reflect, and maybe even see your own experiences in a new way.

[Lorgan · Rating 5 out of 5]

The title 103 First Dates immediately grabbed my attention—it’s clever, funny, and instantly made me curious about the stories inside. Frank Lazarus clearly has a gift for turning real experiences into something both entertaining and meaningful. I can’t wait to dive deeper into this book and see how each story unfolds.

Thanks to Abigail Taylor, whose post on a book club helped me discover this gem!

[Ryahn Johnson · Rating 4 out of 5]

103 First Dates is such a refreshing and witty take on real-life romance. Frank Lazarus brings humor, honesty, and heart to every story, making it both entertaining and relatable. His storytelling feels effortless and full of charm—an enjoyable read from start to finish.

I discovered 103 First Dates through a post by Abigail Taylor on a book club.

[Lucy Álvarez · Rating 5 out of 5]

I laughed and laughed and laughed. As a single woman in my seventies it was so refreshing to hear the male perspective of these dates we all have to endure. It was a quick read and very much enjoyable!

[Samuel Turner · Rating 4 out of 5]

Spotted this book on a post by Abigail Taylor and decided to give it a try—so glad I did! It’s funny, engaging, and full of insight about real-life dating adventures.