There Is No 'Point B': Awakening of a Software Engineer

by Sriram Ramakrishnan

I spent three decades of my life running towards a ‘Point B.’ ‘Point A,’ or ‘where I am,’ was never enough, and I constantly sought a Point B, ‘where I should be,’ where there will be more money, more comfort, more goodness, more righteousness, and in short, more happiness. And one day, I realized, as clear as a blue sky, that ‘Point B’ is an illusion. Until I was 10 years old, I was hopping around like a puppy, eating, pooping, and playing, without any care whatsoever. Then hormones and “life stories” started happening, like heartbreaks, career, money, relationships, stress and traumas, that started this journey towards a Point B. Better grades, better jobs, better salary, better relationships, better this, better that, Point B seemed to be a constantly eluding moving target. When I realized that money and career weren’t the Point B I was looking for, I came across the supposedly greatest Point B of all, “Enlightenment! Nirvana!” I became a seeker, traveled to ashrams and monasteries, practiced yoga and meditations, “soul-searching” travels around 25 countries, all towards the Point B called “enlightenment.” Until, one day, after 15 years of intense “seeking,” a simple, direct, and crystal-clear recognition dawned in me that Point B is an illusion. A realization that there is nowhere else to go, nothing more to do, the present moment is all there is! Better bank balance may or may not happen, better relationships may or may not happen, better life may or may not happen, but the present moment is all there is. Whether in Chennai, or Paris, or London, or locked up in a toilet, I’m always “right here.” Whether sick, or healthy, or rich, or poor, it is always “right now.” Only “right here” and “right now” exist in the entire universe, ever. Everything else is a story. Enlightenment is not miracles and long dreadlocks. Enlightenment is not smiling blissfully ever after. Enlightenment is a simple recognition that we are already home, right here, right now! There is no Point B.

200 pages, Kindle Edition

Published March 28, 2024

About the author

Sriram Ramakrishnan is a software architect by profession who hails from Chennai, a beautiful city in South India. He had a brief stint in Germany and Cyprus in the mid-2000s, before moving to the USA, where he has been residing for the past 15 years. He is an avid traveler who has visited more than 25 countries, has been on several backpacking road trips around the world, including England, Scotland, Iceland, Australia, Canada, Germany, France, and all the 50 states of the USA. Apart from traveling, he loves writing, and riding his Harley Davidson motorcycle. He never misses his daily meditation and yoga practice.

His motto in life, “Don’t hurt yourself. Don’t hurt others. With these 2 rules, do whatever you want in life”.

Reviews

[Bookmist24 · Rating 5 out of 5]

There Is No 'Point B'" is a very engaging and transformative journey through the life of one software engineer in which he came upon a profound truth: reality-the only time available is now. Sriram Ramakrishnan has written his book of memoir based on his 30-year searching for himself, where he marked his travels through the corporate world to various other spiritual retreats across 25 countries.
The writing style of the author is simple, and yet meaningful, and there are several instances where Ramakrishnan cracks jokes and shares profound truths. He very lucidly paints his journey from a child to a diligent and determined working man with an aim of getting to 'Point B'-a place he believes exists for achievement, happiness, and realization.
His thoughts and anecdotes from experiences in the technology sector, in relationships, and in spirituality give practical life teachings for anyone stuck with the rat race of endless self-optimization. The rude awakening he gives readers, and makes them rethink their desires, is that that 'Point B' is a mirage.
These details go beyond the conventional autobiography in that it is evident from the start that ''There Is No 'Point B' ' is not a tale of regained purpose or of the author's salvation; rather, it is a roadmap to satisfaction in an increasingly disoriented world. Whether one is an overworked executive, a seeker of life's meaning, or just a layman looking for a change in one's life, this is a book worth reading since it provides a somewhat resonating perspective on what it means to be 'enlightened'. It is an odyssey of a man, Ramakrishnan, ex-software engineer, seeker of the divine, and after that, software engineer again.

[Shruthi Inkit writings · Rating 4 out of 5]

"There is No Point B" offers a profound exploration of the relentless pursuit of happiness and the realization that the present moment is all there is. The author takes us on a journey through decades of seeking—across careers, money, and even enlightenment—only to discover that the ultimate peace lies in accepting where you are right now. This book is a powerful reminder to stop striving for an elusive future and to embrace the simplicity and beauty of the present moment.

Plot:
The narrative follows the author's personal journey from a life of constant striving to a deep realization that there is no "Point B"—only the here and now. Through candid reflections and insightful revelations, the book challenges readers to question their own pursuit of "more" and consider the possibility that they are already where they need to be. It’s a relatable and introspective read for anyone feeling disconnected or searching for meaning.

Overall Feedback:
"There is No Point B" is a refreshing take on the spiritual journey, free from the pretentiousness often found in self-help and enlightenment books. The author's straightforward approach and honest storytelling make this book a must-read for those seeking a deeper understanding of contentment and fulfillment. It’s an eye-opening read that encourages readers to stop chasing and start living.

[Priya · Rating 4 out of 5]

There Is No 'Point B' by Sriram Ramakrishnan is a thought-provoking exploration of the author's journey, both personal and professional, within the realm of software engineering. This book offers a refreshing perspective on the human experience, encouraging readers to let go of the constant pursuit of "more" and instead appreciate the beauty of the present moment.

The author emphasizes that awakening is not about seeking something new or missing. It’s about realizing that nothing was missing in the first place—that this moment is already home. Awakening, as Ramakrishnan describes, is a clear and simple recognition of a truth that has always been there. It's a shift in awareness, like a snake shedding its skin, happening only when one is truly ready. The process of awakening, according to the book, cannot be taught or learned through rituals or practices; it simply dawns on you.

Ramakrishnan also touches on the universal nature of trauma, noting that everyone experiences it in some form, and these experiences leave an impact. He addresses fear as well, suggesting that the only way to overcome it is to face it head-on and come out stronger on the other side.

Overall, There Is No 'Point B' is an enlightening read, especially recommended for those interested in spiritual growth and introspection.

[Team Might · Rating 5 out of 5]

In his book, “There Is No ‘Point B’ ‘” Sriram Ramakrishnan guides readers from the geeky rationality of software design and development to the ethereal landscape of enlightenment. This is not a book that provides ready and glib answers; nor is it a sap-starved melodrama – instead, it is an unvarnished confessional of a man on a thirty-year search for happiness. Ramakrishnan tells a compelling story of his journey from the pursuit of a corporate career to finding inner spiritual meaning in life through travelling to twenty-five countries. Where this book is different is – a software engineer / programmer dealing with esotericism / spirituality in his way which is analytical and logical. The author’s revelation, there is no Point B, is written in the style of a simple and direct code, and philosophical theories can be understood by anyone with no previous exposure to such expertise. Ramakrishnan doesn't promise miracles or endless bliss; instead, he offers a profound yet simple truth: there isn’t only now, No, this is one of the biggest lies there is, the present moment is all we have. This book is must-read for all individuals who believe that life has become little more than an endlessly repeated cycle of upgrading, in the current society obsessed with results.

[Sofi · Rating 5 out of 5]

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"There Is No 'Point B': Awakening of a Software Engineer" by Sriram Ramakrishnan is a captivating odyssey through the mind of a software engineer turned philosopher. Ramakrishnan's introspective journey is a mesmerizing blend of technical insight and existential reflection, inviting readers to ponder life's deeper questions while navigating the complexities of the digital age. With wit, wisdom, and a touch of whimsy, he challenges conventional wisdom and invites us to embrace the inherent uncertainty of existence. This book isn't just about software engineering; it's a profound exploration of the human experience and our quest for meaning in a world defined by constant change. Ramakrishnan's unique perspective is both enlightening and inspiring, offering a refreshing antidote to the often overwhelming pace of modern life. "There Is No 'Point B'" is a must-read for anyone seeking clarity in a chaotic world, reminding us that the journey itself is the destination. Ramakrishnan's eloquent prose and profound insights will linger in the minds of readers long after they've turned the final page.

[AANVI WRITES · Rating 4 out of 5]

In the chaos of life, we often lose ourselves to the constant pressure of achieving something, always caught in a rat race for success and a secure future. We forget to live in the present. This book serves as an eye-opener for those striving to achieve their goals. The author, drawing from his experience in the IT industry, provides a valuable glimpse into the world of software, offering insights into the realities of the industry, including technical terms and the challenges faced in the software domain.

Beyond the technical aspects, the author also emphasizes the simplicity of life and the importance of living in the moment. Through engaging narration and personal experiences, the author encourages readers to embrace the present rather than chase spiritual mastery. Ramakrishna's approach, his authenticity and genuine perspective are enlightening. He invites readers to reflect on life's existence in the digital age and to embrace its uncertainties. The book effectively conveys the message that true happiness lies in the present moment, highlighting how focusing too much on reaching point B can lead to unnecessary stress and dissatisfaction. Overall, it's a valuable and insightful read.

[Anmol Agarwal · Rating 5 out of 5]

The book is not necessarily a page-turner which keeps you on your toes all the time but then again, it doesn't strive to be that either. In its own right, it blends in firmly, with something more to offer, with other books in the genre of self-help and spirituality. The conclusion that the author draws from his life lessons is, for sure reflection-worthy for all of us.

The cover is a classy design representing spirituality in a Gautama Buddha-like serene figure. I had the kindle edition so can't say for the paper quality and binding but word wise and other text options worked perfectly.

This book stands out from the rest for its unique perspective of looking at the situations and the circumstances we face in our daily lives. Laced with personal encounters, we see the author acting upon his desire to search for something more meaningful which we all keep looking for and then after so many different experiences, his realisation of the truth that he perceives is very satisfactory and contenting for the reader as well. Overall, a very interesting take on spirituality and self-help. Appreciate the effort!

[Shweta · Rating 4 out of 5]

There is No Point B" represents a relatable reading experience for individuals who have ever felt discontent, unsettled, or distant from their existence. It presents a fresh outlook on the human journey, urging readers to release the constant pursuit of more and instead, embrace the magnificence of the present moment.

The book serves as a poignant reminder that genuine enlightenment does not revolve around attaining a mystical state or obtaining spiritual mastery, but rather about appreciating the simplicity and splendor of the current moment.

It is a modest and genuine depiction of the author's personal exploration, free from pretentiousness and the lofty proclamations typical of gurus. The author recounts his voyage of self-discovery and the startling realization that there is no ultimate goal, no "Point B", to strive towards.

The book provides a candid and introspective narrative of the author's pursuit of joy, satisfaction, and enlightenment.

[Alankrit · Rating 5 out of 5]

"There Is No 'Point B': Awakening of a Software Engineer" by Sriram Ramakrishnan explores the journey of a software engineer grappling with personal and professional challenges. The narrative is a blend of memoir and motivational guide, offering insights into the tech industry while delving into the author's personal growth.

Ramakrishnan's writing is reflective and honest, capturing the complexities of career pressures and the quest for purpose. He emphasizes the importance of resilience, adaptability, and self-discovery, making it relatable for anyone in a demanding field. The book is structured around key life lessons that resonate well, blending technical insights with philosophical musings.

Overall, it's an engaging read for tech professionals and anyone seeking inspiration in their career journey. The author's candid approach makes it a valuable resource for those looking to navigate their own "Point A" to find meaning in their work.

[Madiha Reads · Rating 4 out of 5]

In this book, the author invites me to reflect on a time when life seemed uncomplicated and full of joy. They paint a vivid picture of how, as time passed, various challenges and aspirations started to influence their experiences, driving them into an unending quest for a brighter future. It's a relatable examination of the intricacies of life.

The author helps me realize that true happiness isn't about reaching some far-off "Point B." Instead, it's about understanding that we're already where we need to be—in the present moment. The message is clear: contentment comes from appreciating life as it is right now.

This book feels modest and real, offering a genuine look into the author's personal journey. There's no sense of being talked down to or any lofty claims like you'd get from some gurus. It’s refreshing and honest, making the exploration feel approachable and down-to-earth.

It offers thoughtful insights and encourages deeper introspection in an easy-to-understand way.

[Yuvika Singh · Rating 4 out of 5]

In his book There Is No ‘Point B’ Ramakrishnan investigates the interconnected nature of career advancement along with happiness and mindfulness practice. This text opposes conventional standards of success by supporting people to move their attention from social confirmation to living in the moment. As a software engineer Ramakrishnan brings his analytical skills to spirituality so he can teach profound ideas to contemporary readers. His encounters in 25 different countries enrich the depth of his philosophy about becoming enlightened. The book successfully reorganizes complicated ideas but some readers may experience lagging speed especially throughout the central chapters. The lack of proper guidance in mindfulness techniques would have improved its practical application. Readers who wish to find new approaches to achieving life satisfaction will find 'There Is No ‘Point B’ a compelling book.

[Farah · Rating 5 out of 5]

In this inspiring story that Sriram narrates, the author reveals his three decades odyssey from a great software engineer to an even greater seeker of spirituality. It starts in the business environment where he establishes himself in the corporate world and he works well his job but still he doesn’t fulfils here. It takes him through 25 countries ranging from tech start up nerve centers to quaint monasteries. The story – his story – expertly nails down the geography of his career problems, his search for spirituality, and personal changes. Following one another with the logical succession, each of the chapters forms a successful progression which leads the reader to the final revelation about the so-called ‘Point B.’ The growth is very believable and makes the entire narrative very credible as well.

[Anuv · Rating 5 out of 5]

‘There is no ‘Point B’ is an engaging book that nurtures the human mind on how to adopt the culture of mindfulness in the society. Ramakrishnan’s transition from a young ambitious software engineer to a mindfulness therapist is a great story everyone can follow. In its capability of explaining and illustrating various spiritual ideas, this book can be considered to be weak only in enhancing their clarity for practical use. This is made even more interesting by the fact that the author has learnt the culture and customs of different countries. As it has been said, the main idea to enjoy the present is rather explicit, it would have been helpful to provide more practical information on how to put it into practice. In other words, it’s a kind of a great book for everyone who seeks meaning in their life.

[Samata · Rating 4 out of 5]

The book focuses on the never-ending race that most of us are unknowingly a part of. We start running this race just as we enter our teens and keep running it throughout our lives. All our efforts are focused on increasing our earnings, living a grander life, and enjoying greater comforts. We never pause to think that what we have achieved till now might be the best life has to offer. Despite being unsure about what might happen in the very next moment, we never stop planning for a better future. Consequently, we stop living in the present and enjoying what we have today.

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[G.Gayathri, Chawdeswari · Rating 5 out of 5]

The author recalls a time when life was simpler and more carefree, and then describes how life’s challenges and desires led them to constantly chase a better future. They even sought enlightenment, traveling, and practicing various spiritual practices, only to discover that the idea of a perfect “Point B” is a false promise.

The realization comes that the present moment is all that truly exists. No matter where you are or what your circumstances, you are always “right here” and “right now.” The book emphasizes that real contentment comes from recognizing that there is no need for a distant “Point B” because we are already at home in the present moment.

[Shaly · Rating 5 out of 5]

The book is very useful in terms of offering practical advice that can be applied to a person’s every day life. Unlike the philosophical notions the writer provides real life solutions on how to attain tranquility in the midst of work confusion. An important insight he provides is the way to apply mindfulness in a business environment. The book also contains practical exercises and reflection points which assist the reader to implement ideas being presented. But in ruthless totaling up all, his way of spirituality and mindfulness is pragmatic and effective to make spirituality workable for working people.

[Christine · Rating 2 out of 5]

This one was just not for me. And while I did finish it, I will admit that I really just skimmed the last 25% of the book.

I felt like this could have been good. The overall message and the discussions about mental health could have been helpful to me and others. But at the end of the day, this just felt like a lot of words with no point or purpose. The writing style was really strange (this book definitely broke the record of all books I have ever read in how many times the word "poop" was used bizarrely) and just was really hard for me to get over.

I received an advance review copy for free and I am leaving this review voluntarily.

[Shreya · Rating 5 out of 5]

"There Is No 'Point B': Awakening of a Software Engineer" by Sriram Ramakrishnan offers an introspective look at the challenges faced by tech professionals. Blending personal narrative with motivational insights, Ramakrishnan emphasizes resilience and the search for purpose in a demanding industry. His honest reflections and practical advice make the book a compelling read for anyone navigating their career. It serves as both inspiration and guidance, highlighting the journey of self-discovery in the tech world.

[Varsha Dubey · Rating 5 out of 5]

The author always thought, “There is a Point B and I need to get there.” he had no idea where that Point B was or how to get there. But he always felt, “Something’s missing" and that somehow became his inspiration to search for it which in the end resulted in this book.
From one job to another, from one country to another, author traveled to 25 countries looking for that ‘Point B.’ He stayed in Vedic ashrams, Buddhist monasteries, Benedictine monasteries, South American Shamans, attended spiritual retreats, sometimes meditated 12 hours a day, even tried being a part-time monk for a year practicing renunciation and non-attachment seeking that Point B where “everything will be okay.”

“There is no Point B” is not some knowledge to learn or a spiritual practice to follow. It is a simple observation of what is happening.

Lines I love from the book -

“Do you want to know the secret of my enlightenment? I don’t mind whatever happens.” ​- J Krishnamoorthy

“I am in the ocean” to “I am the ocean!”

“Wounded people wound people.”

'I wanted to find the joy that doesn’t go away no matter what life threw at me. '

[Priyanka · Rating 5 out of 5]

In "There Is No 'Point B': Awakening of a Software Engineer," Sriram Ramakrishnan shares his personal journey through the tech landscape, addressing both the challenges and triumphs he faced. The book combines memoir and motivational guidance, encouraging readers to embrace resilience and find purpose in their work. Ramakrishnan's candid storytelling and practical insights make it a thought-provoking read for professionals seeking direction and inspiration in their careers.

[Williams Fulton · Rating 5 out of 5]

This is complete. Nothing more need be said.

[✨ ੈ✩‧April ♡ ʚ♡⃛ɞ✨ · Rating 4 out of 5]

This review is from a giveaway- thank you for including me as a giveaway winner! This review is from a giveaway- thank you for including me as a giveaway winner!"There Is No 'Point B': Awakening of a Software Engineer" by Sriram Ramakrishnan is a reflective exploration of the author's personal and professional journey in the world of software engineering. Through a series of anecdotes and insights, Ramakrishnan shares lessons learned, challenges faced, and his evolving perspective on career and life.

The book offers a candid portrayal of the software engineering profession, delving into technical nuances and the intricacies of problem-solving in a rapidly evolving industry. Ramakrishnan's experiences provide valuable glimpses into the day-to-day realities of software development, offering practical advice and strategies for aspiring engineers.

While the book provides a solid foundation of technical wisdom and career insights, its appeal may be limited to readers with a specific interest in software engineering or those seeking firsthand accounts of navigating the tech industry. The narrative style, though earnest and informative, may not engage readers outside the field, as it primarily focuses on technical challenges and professional growth within the software engineering domain.

Moreover, while Ramakrishnan's reflections are genuine and insightful, some readers may find the narrative lacking in broader context or overarching themes that transcend the software engineering profession. The book predominantly remains within the realm of technical expertise and personal anecdotes, which could limit its broader appeal to a more diverse audience.

Overall, "There Is No 'Point B'" offers a sincere and informative perspective on the experiences of a software engineer, providing valuable insights and practical advice for those within the field. However, readers outside the software engineering profession may find the book less accessible or relevant to their interests, as it primarily focuses on technical challenges and career reflections within a specific industry context.

[She Reads · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book and the blurb resonate well with me because I have been a Software Techie myself for more than a decade and on a spiritual path for the past two years, the path of seeking enlightenment through meditation and sound healing. And thus going with this book has been apt for me.

The book traverses through the journey of the protagonist who emphasizes the fact that most of the people keep searching and looking for something else, termed as ‘Point B’. The place where one aspires to be, the place that is better than the current place. But the right question raised here is whether that place even exists or is just a delusion. It is so true that even I have seen this mindset in the people close to me that ‘if I earn this much, I can retire happily and travel the world’ or ‘Let us hustle now and we can enjoy after 60’. But the question arises that ‘what if’ that never happens?

In continuation, I appreciate how the author stating his example has highlighted that the power lies in the present and being mindful then and there. And true seeking is just what one sees and feels in the instance. A powerful message with great exemplification.

This is a nice read for self-improvement, and introspection and for anyone who is into meditation and kundalini yoga as well. This is written with a smooth flow making it easy to read and grab the aspects.

[Tinu Somani · Rating 5 out of 5]

The book is written with honesty and simplicity, so it is applicable to anyone who has ever been under constant pressure to improve, achieve, or seek something beyond what they have। Though Ramakrishnan's teachings are old-fashioned, they are presented in a manner that is both comprehensible and constructive, particularly for those who are trapped in the perpetual cycle of self-improvement।

The book's main message is that true happiness is found in the present moment rather than pursuing a long-term goal। Ramakrishnan does a great job of showing how our obsession with "Point B" can cause unnecessary stress, dissatisfaction, and a constant sense of lack.