It’s hard to know where to begin with Kyte Runner. There is a lot going on and so many themes, acceptance, betrayal, class, courage, cowardice, cruelty, culture, devastation, doubt, forgiveness, friendship, guilt, humanity, lies, longing, love, loyalty, prejudice, redemption, religion, secrets, selfishness, suicide, survival, violence, war, weakness etc. Khaled Hosseini throws every message in there. It involves a pretty wide range of emotions as well and some graphic descriptions of rape, murder, beatings, and suicide.
The story pretty much revolves around Amir. It starts in war-torn Afghanistan in the 70’s with him as a 12-year-old boy playing with kites and other things with his friend and the son of the help, Hassan. After the Taliban take over his family moves to Pakistan. It ends with him as a married adult in the US in the 90’s. As a backdrop it brings up events during this time like the Russia invasion to the Taliban take over, the Cold War and 9/11.
As I said, the boys are really into flying kites or at least Amir is. Hassan’s job is to retrieve the kite. Every year there is a kite contest that Amir really wants to win. There is an interesting dynamic to their friendship. They both genuinely seem to care for each other, but they both know their place in society. Unfortunately, the help seems to be conditioned to be servile. Amir is a little cruel to Hassan, but you can still see that in his own childish conditioned way he does care for him. It just took him maturing to understand that. I don’t really blame him completely for this superior attitude. These were just children who were at the mercy of adults. All countries have a certain type of class system, although some are more obvious than others. We’ve read many books and have seen many movies where people of different classes form a bond. Usually, the privileged character has some introspection.
Some may think that the author goes too easy on Amir and makes him just as much of a sympathetic character as Hassan. It may seem like that on the surface, but I think he’s pointing out how complex people and situations can be. Amir is very different than his father and feels like his father doesn’t respect him. That and the fact that his mother died while giving birth to him has kept them from forming a bond. He’s jealous of his father’s relationship with Hassan, this may be why he is sometimes cruel to Hassan and ultimately drives him and his father Ali to leave.
One of Amir and Hassan’s bullies is Taliban. He has blonde hair and blue eyes which probably plays a part in him being so monstrous. This is a kid who didn’t feel like he belonged because he looked different, so he tried too hard to be tough.
Amir’s father tells him that the only true sin is theft. Amir argues isn’t murder or lieing a sin and the father says, "When you kill a man, you steal a life. You steal a wife's right to a husband, rob his children of a father. When you tell a lie, you steal someone's right to the truth. When you cheat, you steal the right to fairness. There is no act more wretched than stealing." It may be a little over-simplified, but it resonated with me.
I’ve read some reviews on this book, and they are pretty polarized. Some people complain that it’s too westernized. Khaled Hosseini is an America-Afghan. It has the feeling of being inspired by some actual events in his life. Although it revolves around Muslins and Afghanis, it’s written through a pretty western view, which may put some people off, but I think as an American myself, I was able to relate to a lot of the universal messages in it. Take that for what you will.