'Full of common sense and good humour. If you read only one book about transvestism read this one.' Skin Two 'Valuable insights.' - Cross-Talk 'It gave me personal insight...fun reading.' - Renaissance News 'Open and readable' GEMS news 'Not only a good read but also an easy read. This skilled communicator wears his learning lightly' - Repartee 'Revealing and often touching.' - Reflections 'The results of a major survey' - Birmingham Post 'Wonderful - to raise the spirits of the closeted and guilt ridden transvestite.' - Wildside Toronto 'Whether for titillation or serious study this volume will provide a good read.' Evening Telegraph 'For anyone who wants to know all the facts and figures the statistics and the secret thoughts of other cross dressers, this book is pure gold.' Transformation 'Cross dressing is cool, says Vernon Coleman.' - Evening Post The results of the major survey of crossdressers/transvestites. Providing answers to the many questions men and women most often ask and banishing long-standing myths about men who crossdress. The author of the book, Dr Vernon Coleman, is a qualified doctor and general practitioner. He has written over 100 books which have sold more than two million hardback and paperback copies in the UK and been translated into 24 languages. Many of his books have appeared on bestseller lists around the world. Dr Coleman has written columns for many of the world's leading magazines and newspapers and numerous TV radio programmes have been based on his books. His novel Mrs Caldicot's Cabbage War was turned into an award winning movie. What the papers say about Vernon Coleman and his Vernon Coleman writes brilliant books - The Good Book Guide No thinking person can ignore him - The Ecologist The calmest voice of reason - The Observer A godsend - Daily Telegraph Superstar - Independent on Sunday Brilliant - The People Compulsive reading -The Guardian His message is important - The Economist His advice is optimistic and enthusiastic - British Medical Journal Revered guru of medicine - Nursing Times It's impossible not to be impressed - Western Daily Press Marvellously succinct, refreshingly sensible - The Spectator Probably one of the most brilliant men alive - Irish Times King of the media docs - The Independent Britain's leading medical author - The Star Britain's leading health care campaigner - The Sun The patients' champion - Birmingham Post A persuasive writer whose arguments, based on research and experience, are sound -Nursing Standard The doctor who dares to speak his mind - Oxford Mail He writes lucidly and wittily - Good Housekeeping etc etc There are details of many other books by Dr Coleman on his author page on Amazon and on his website www.vernoncoleman.com
Men are very creepy including vernon Coleman. Essential reading for women . Wow One of the most illuminating being: ‘Being a transvestite is the ultimate narcissistic experience. I go all the way and make myself look as beautiful as possible!’
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It is so interesting to find out the wide variety of people and partners in the CD community. I liked the idea of policemen hitting on the CDs, this is very amusing, though not for the CD at the time.
Finally I found a book that describes my life. The true nature of my sexuality. The real fears I live with daily. The damning effects on relationships.
Yet still its the best way for me to release stress.
Cross dressing is not what many people think it is. The book is a serious study asking cross-dressing men questions about their fetish and collecting their answers to have a better portrait of the reasons why they do what they do. The first conclusion I read was that cross-dressing is a male thing since women are wearing on a daily basis what used to be considered as men's clothing. The second one is that while a woman in a business suit will impose professionalism, a man in a kilt will look exotic; he shouldn't even try a regular skirt if he wants to survive embarassment to the very least. Also, most of cross-dressers have no desire to become Transgenders and are very much satisfied to wear men's clothing in their everyday lives. We learn reading comments and conclusions how much this fetish is liberating for them and a way to escape their own persona. But for many it will remain a secret since they fear the consequences for sharing it with relatives or wives. At least a good proportion of wives will accept this fetish and many will even participate.
The first time I wear a skirt was because the one I bought my wife was too big and I jokingly said I would wear it at home; and I did. What an extraordinary feeling I got! The fabric was so silky and thin, it kept floating around my legs producing such a sensual feeling, I felt no constriction around my crotch and felt completely free especially without underwear and it felt so good! I totally agree with men who find that society and fashion are narrow minded. What if cross-dressing was the male answer to promote feminism?
Short read worth every page to have a better understanding of an inoffensive but freeing way to dress.
I am glad that I read this book and I wholeheartedly and convincingly recommend this book for those who seek to understand what it is to wear clothing of the opposite sex mainly female and why we do so.