My personal opinion is that some readers will benefit more from this book than others, depending on the wounds they are trying to heal. I struggle with complex post-traumatic stress disorder (C-PTSD), which originated in surviving a number of years of sadistic child sexual abuse (SCSA). I didn't find the suggestions in this book helpful. For one thing, there are some readers who will not benefit from being instructed to "list all their triggers" assumedly alone, without the support and guidance of a therapist. In years of intensive therapy, my trauma-informed therapist has never once asked me to list my triggers, and I was quite shaken by the idea of just sitting down by myself and literally going through those years, listing it all out... I don't know, I think it brings up a sense of shame, feeling out of control and overwhelmed, it brings up memories I simply don't have the capacity to deal with while also trying to cope with my daily tasks and responsibilities of normal life. Then there's figuring out your hierarchy of needs, which wasn't new to me, but did bring up some frustration. Whichever lowest level of the needs hierarchy you struggle with, I don't believe it's enough simply to say 'How will I fix this?' For some trauma survivors, that's just too much, too big a question, to address out of the blue. "I don't know, I guess I'll just go die real quick?" Again, it brings up a sense of inadequacy and shame. I suppose it probably depends what happened to you, and when, and what kind of support you had before the age of 7, and so on, but I can only speak for myself.
Please understand this is my personal response based on my own history of extreme trauma, and other readers may find something beneficial from reading this book. I was just disappointed because I'm trying to look out for books like this that may help me.
I received a copy of this book from Zeitgeist via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.