This is the last book published before author’s death in 1996, and it’s a fitting one. Using the imagery of holding, lifting, and drinking a cup of wine, he talks about the basics of the spiritual life, and the cup imagery here illustrates spiritual potential in our life, right until death. This book is slim, but like some other slim books, it has much power.
The author uses real-life scenes from his work in a community for physically and mentally challenged people as some examples, which connect nicely with the book’s theme. The title comes from the Gospel of Matthew, where the mother of the sons of Zebedee asks if the boys can get seat next to Jesus in his kingdom, and Jesus pretty much answers that they first must go through life with its sufferings and joys (for James, his martyrdom comes soonish, executed by Herod – John is the only apostle not to die by martyrdom, but lives a long life with other sufferings of the Christians in Ancient Rome, including at least one time of exile as it’s told in the book of Revelation).
He also talks about how he became a priest, and what kinds of cups he has used in life, including the glass ones used in the community he worked in. But the main question of the book is: can we accept and live our spiritual life as it happens during our lifetime? Can we accept our own cups? The main part of the book is divided into the three actions of drinking: holding, lifting, drinking.
Holding: reflecting on life, looking critically even when it’s scary; holding our own cup (our own choices, life). It’s both a cup of sorrow, and of joy; there may be moments of joy within sorrow, and whatever cup is like in whatever point of life, there is always hope and hope of good future in afterlife to think about.
Lifting: to affirm and celebrate life together, contributing to the community. To find people you can trust to be open about yourself with, to be grateful of life.
Drinking (and to the bottom of the cup): accepting our life (not easy) and being true to ourselves. Yearning for beyond’s freedom. Having moments of silence with thinking, a good community, and good actions.
And going through this with the support of the Holy Spirit. We have the cup of Communion during Mass, but thinking about the cup of our (spiritual) life is also important. To think about our lives, to have a community, and to have hope for a good future of afterlife: and we drink our own cup, using our senses to examine it, and drink it slowly and with appreciation, with a connection to God.
Yes, this book is a slim book full of things to ponder about, with a good after-feels. Recommended to all interested.