Back in the Spring I finished up my burnout reading, it just didn't feel good to read about it, it brought up stuff I thought I'd put to bed, I was 'better', I was ready to move on, I had accepted things. And then I did pretty much all of the things that lead up to my physical collapse in 2021 in Spring/Summer 2022, siiiigh, learning your lessons is f*cking hard.
Fast forward to September and that feeling of a fresh start it can bring, and this book, which I'd requested my library buy back in February 2022 is sitting on my to-read shelf at home. In my humble opinion, this book is a stand out in the genre of burnout reading. It doesn't tell you that you can 'meditate, yoga, self-care, insert any other ritual for calm' your way out of this shit. Instead it lays out what the author sees as the history of burnout, what causes it (plot twist it's probably not what you think), and what likely needs to change for burnout to not be the cultural phenomenon we're currently seeing.
At a high level you'll learn that burnout has it's roots in the changing job conditions that started in the 70's and are prevalent today (more work, less pay, general inequality, and being tethered to work by our phones). It lays out how we've been sold a lie that 'work' will give our lives meaning and purpose. From experience I've found this to be true, I did all of the things society told me to do to have a fulfilling job, and I wasn't bloody happy, job title, salary, success, and it was misery. What has given my life more meaning and purpose is having more to give to my family and friends.
But this book also doesn't place the blame squarely on our employers and organizations, it also sets up this juicy premise, the plot twist if you will. Essentially it says we tend to burnout because our 'work' ideals are out of alignment with what our work can actually give us. Below is the example of how this played out for me, but it will look different for others, it's why folks with 'dream' jobs still suffer burnout.
My 'dream' job was to move up the corporate ladder in my organization get a title that others would see as valuable (this seems so damn shallow now), get the salary. So salary and respect... but here's the problem, my work ideals don't match up to that life. I wanted a job where I help people, my coworkers but also my community, I wanted a job where I did a lot of work, lots of deliverables in excel, spending hours in spreadsheets (I know, I'm a sick person), but I've always said I'd be happiest in a broom closet, alone, with two screens, excel and a ton of numbers work, turns out that's true. With the 'salary and respect' role I ended up doing a tonne of bureaucratic BS, and despite the fact that my employer has a massive HR department, I ended up with a metric f*ck tonne of HR things to handle. There was pressure from the senior staff for deliverables I couldn't care less about (answering the general public's facebook outrage day in and day out is exhausting), there were decisions that had everything to do with politics and nothing to do with the greater good of my Province. What I'm able to see now is how mismatched all of this was to my core person. While I could do my job well, I hated 90% of what I did during my workdays. It's not surprise that after 5 years of this I burned out in spectacular fashion.
This book was the missing piece that let me better understand why I'd burned out, and what I'd need to do moving forward to ensure it didn't happen again.
My only criticism of this work is that it does approach a lot of the discussion about how we change our burnout culture on theological approaches. That being said I completely see how these approaches could apply to us more secular folks so I haven't dinged it any stars, and to be honest, I'm the poster child for agnostics so if it didn't rub me the wrong way, hopefully it will be fine for others, but we've all got our own tolerances.
Overall this book is a strong recommend from me to anyone who thinks they might be experiencing burnout, anyone who just wants to understand it, and anyone who would like to avoid it for themselves.