I’m not sure why I read this, especially considering that I won’t be performing anytime soon bc of covid, but I rly don’t regret it. Beside the 2/3 chapters on media exposure, contracts, and touring advice, I would recommend this to anybody, bc Livingston ties up stage advice w some invaluable life advice
Here are a few of the points / quotes that stuck w me :
1. Any performance is a conversation bw u and ur audience, and everybody in that audience wants “to feel as though ur speaking to each of them as individuals.” Given that conversations are 2 sided, you must take the time to absorb the energy of ur audience and respond back.
Its such an obvious idea but it rly resonated w me. It explains why soloing over a song and recording it is so different from playing it live; I’m not responding to my listeners, I’m not giving anybody what they want/need from me. + That then explains why practicing by myself makes me happy, but the feeling before/during/after a performance is so much better; I’m gaining from playing + from the audiences approval AND from the fact that I’m giving them something (more exchange than I realized here)
Also- so applicable to daily life. Every person you talk to is going to be in a different condition so you have to make adjustments accordingly, just as you would w a new audience. To do that, you must have a certain degree of neutrality, so that you are able to be spontaneous and respond to the moment.
He says that on a stage you would establish this neutrality by not saying anything for a moment and just listening/observing/etc, and in life I’m sure you can do exactly the same; be mindful of the people around you.
It would be cool to follow around a band or musician on tour and see how they change after each show, or just get each artist to write their thoughts down after each one. Absorbing so much so fast has to have some significant effects
2. The emphasis he places on flexibility- “not waiting for things to line up properly, but moving ahead with what you’ve got right now. I like controlled movement, even in the wrong direction”
This is so important. Your music (or wtv ur craft is) is never going to improve if you’re always waiting for inspiration. You need discipline: “parts that move don’t rust and freeze.”
3. “The ability to forgive is very attractive. When an audience sees that you can forgive yourself, they make the assumption that you can forgive them, too. That makes them comfortable, and comfortable audiences are happy to pay your salary.”
4. Prayer as “a place of stillness in your life” - I’m not religious (and Livingston points out that you can still pray w/o believing) so my thought automatically went to RZA, who said that “prayer is opening up your heart” .... thats cheesy ash but in silence and stillness you will inevitably reveal your vulnerabilities and sometimes that’s exactly what you need to do.
Anyways this was great, I got a little bored towards the end hence the 4/5 but it overall did make me want to take his class at Berklee lol, forget regular college