Playing in Traffic: My Journey from Autism Diagnosis to the Indy 500 Flagstand

by Aaron Likens, Mark "Bones" Bourcier (editor), Doug Boles (foreword)

“Playing in Traffic” is the inspirational true story of one man’s triumph over adversity. As a boy, Aaron Likens wanted nothing more than to fit in. Walking invisibly through everyday life was miles better than dealing with the chaos he found while trying to navigate his way around the roadblocks he found in school, in personal relationships, and in employment situations as a young adult. How ironic that someone who preferred not to be noticed would end up pursuing, and landing, one of the most visible jobs in chief starter of the Indianapolis 500, watching a celebrity wave the green flag to start the biggest automobile race in the world and the twin checkered flags that fly over its winner. At 20-years of age he was diagnosed with Asperger syndrome, a condition now on the autism spectrum. For years Aaron struggled to cope with the reality that his life was different. But at least now he knows that there’s a reason for that difference; that’s better than the daily hurt he endured while wondering why things that came so easily to others were major hurdles for him. His diagnosis also brought out the best in those who believed in him. That started at home with his father, but then expanded to include friends in auto racing as well as individuals in the field of autism awareness, some of whom helped him unlock a hidden gift for training students, teachers, doctors, police officers, and FBI agents about autism. Ultimately, this is a feel-good story of overcoming obstacles both seen and unseen. But from the first page to the last – between the green and checkered flags, if you like – the life of Aaron Likens serves a reminder that with dedication, love, and patience, all things are possible.

362 pages, Kindle Edition

Published May 13, 2024

Reviews

[Rachel Cavender · Rating 5 out of 5]

Aaron's journey from young, starry-eyed race fan to chief starter of the Indy 500 is incredibly inspiring. In the book he details all the triumphs and defeats along the way to achieving his lifelong dream, with plenty of life lessons and humorous anecdotes along the way.

Not only does Aaron spin his life story into a compelling narrative, putting you directly in the driver's seat (or flag stand) as he faces life-or-death scenarios, white-knuckle racing, and a rollercoaster of emotions as he pursues his dream-- he also gives an incredible inside look into what life is like for someone on the Autism spectrum. From stereotypes and misconceptions he faced growing up, to coming to terms with his diagnosis, losing and regaining hope, and deciding to use his natural talent for public speaking to spread knowledge and awareness and fight back against misinformation about Autism, Aaron truly helps the reader understand all the joys, challenges, and differences that aneurotypical people may face throughout their lives, and firmly reinforces the message that Autism is not something to be viewed as a hindrance.

For anyone passionate about racing, curious about the journey towards becoming chief starter for the greatest spectacle in racing, or wanting to gain understanding about those on the Autism spectrum, Playing In Traffic is an absolute joy to read.

[Matt Alexander · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book is an absolute must-read for fans of motorsport and lovers of an inspirational story alike.

Beautifully written, this is a rollercoaster true story of dreams, heartaches, bumps and bruises that will have you laughing and crying along with the author as he takes you on his journey.

Most importantly this book is an eye-opener for those of us who have no experience of life on the Spectrum and teaches important lessons about inclusion, acceptance and understanding.

[Stephen Taylor · Rating 5 out of 5]

It’s an absolute pleasure and privilege to have met Aaron personally through both working in motorsport. Equally, it was a joy to read Aaron’s journey in motorsport to achieve his lifelong goal and dream of flagging the 500. I hope to watch him doing so for many years to come and wish him every continued success.

[Barb Niebruegge · Rating 5 out of 5]

I have just finished reading "Playing in Traffic" and could barely see the words for the tears of joy for Aaron's accomplishments. His writing style and detailed recollection of each step of his journey along with entertaining anecdotes is so polished and readable. He swept the reader along with anticipation each step of the way.

[Marsha Iddings · Rating 5 out of 5]

One of the best books I’ve ever read on Aspergers. I laughed and I cried. I could identify with Aaron on various points in my own life and as I have observed the struggles of my husband, son and daughter.

[Tim Durham · Rating 5 out of 5]

Fantastic book. Aaron does an amazing job telling the story of his life, achieving his dreams through hardship, in a relatable way. I highly recommend this to anyone in or out of the racing world.

[Hudson Lee · Rating 5 out of 5]

Great story about a great person. Really recommend if you are into Indycar racing or the Indy 500.

[Jessica Houlton · Rating 4 out of 5]

Heartwarming story and great way to get excited for the upcoming race!