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A Knock at the Door
Christmas 1975 and Queen’s Bohemian Rhapsody is riding high in the charts. In a residential street just outside Cardiff a loud knocking breaks the stillness of the evening. When Rob Parsons, a young lawyer, opens his door, he finds a homeless man standing before him, clutching a bag of belongings and a frozen chicken. Rob and his wife Dianne invite Ronnie Lockwood into their home, cook his chicken and offer him shelter for the night. What happens next is an astonishing story of human kindness, self-learning, incredible pain, unbelievable hope and the sheer power of love to change a life.
A Knock at the Door is the true story of this homeless man who entered the home of a young couple, became a dustman and lived as part of their family for over forty-five years until his death. But this is not just Ronnie’s story – it is also that of the young couple and their children. Outwardly their lives were worlds apart – as Ronnie emptied rubbish bins, the lawyer flew on Concorde. And yet the two men discovered they had similar struggles, and the day came when at the lowest moment of their lives the couple turned to the homeless man for help. But there were remarkable turnarounds for both Rob and Ronnie. Ronnie, spent much of his spare time volunteering, including in a homeless centre and ended up having a £1.6 million well-being centre named after him. Rob left the law practice and he and Dianne began a charity that touches the lives of millions of people. You will never have read a story like this before, but at its heart is a simple whether we are a lawyer or a dustman – tomorrow doesn’t always have to be like yesterday.
A Knock at the Door is the true story of this homeless man who entered the home of a young couple, became a dustman and lived as part of their family for over forty-five years until his death. But this is not just Ronnie’s story – it is also that of the young couple and their children. Outwardly their lives were worlds apart – as Ronnie emptied rubbish bins, the lawyer flew on Concorde. And yet the two men discovered they had similar struggles, and the day came when at the lowest moment of their lives the couple turned to the homeless man for help. But there were remarkable turnarounds for both Rob and Ronnie. Ronnie, spent much of his spare time volunteering, including in a homeless centre and ended up having a £1.6 million well-being centre named after him. Rob left the law practice and he and Dianne began a charity that touches the lives of millions of people. You will never have read a story like this before, but at its heart is a simple whether we are a lawyer or a dustman – tomorrow doesn’t always have to be like yesterday.
358 pages, Kindle Edition
Published November 21, 2024
About the author
Rob Parsons
65 books23 followersRob Parsons OBE is an international speaker on family issues and the author of many best-sellers including The Heart of Success and The 60-Minute Father. Over half a million people have attended his live seminars.
He is the founding chairman of Care for the Family.
He is the founding chairman of Care for the Family.
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January 10, 2026
I listened to the audio book, which is read by Rob Parsons. I didn't just sob. I UGLY WAILED sobbed. whilst in traffic. Run. Read it and then support their charity. I hope to be as kind and generous as the people in this book.
January 1, 2025
Laughter and tears in equal measure. It’s not often I get hooked on a book but I finished this in 5 days. Absolutely incredible story and written in such an enticing way.
March 21, 2025
Wanted to read this for ages and worth the wait. Very sweet recollections of a unique family. Humorous but I shed (many) tears at the end
November 19, 2024
4.5 ⭐
Reading this book felt so good for the soul.
At times deeply moving, at others gently hilarious, I found "a knock at the door" so hard to put down. I've never read anything by Rob Parsons before this (but will certainly look to in future, he writes brilliantly!). But more than that, the story he tells is beautiful. The endorsements describe this as a "hopeful" book - I didn't really take that onboard before I started it, but having read it I wholeheartedly agree. It is so hopeful, and real, and emotional. The parts about Ronnie's childhood are honestly heartbreaking and are hard to read. And having ME myself, I found the part about Dianne's struggle with it painful to read too, as it hit so close to home. But it's mostly told with sensitivity and care, and I'm so glad these stories *are* being told. To be honest I would have loved to hear more from Dianne's perspective of actually being the one living with ME - but as this book is written from Rob's perspective I guess I'll let that slide.
The narrative became somewhat disjointed and rushed towards the end of the book, compared to the first 2/3rds. But despite this it remained absorbing and easy to read.
Thank you Rob, for sharing your (and Ronnie and Dianne's!) story. What an encouraging yet challenging one it is. We need more people like Ronnie and Rob and Dianne in the world ❤️
Reading this book felt so good for the soul.
At times deeply moving, at others gently hilarious, I found "a knock at the door" so hard to put down. I've never read anything by Rob Parsons before this (but will certainly look to in future, he writes brilliantly!). But more than that, the story he tells is beautiful. The endorsements describe this as a "hopeful" book - I didn't really take that onboard before I started it, but having read it I wholeheartedly agree. It is so hopeful, and real, and emotional. The parts about Ronnie's childhood are honestly heartbreaking and are hard to read. And having ME myself, I found the part about Dianne's struggle with it painful to read too, as it hit so close to home. But it's mostly told with sensitivity and care, and I'm so glad these stories *are* being told. To be honest I would have loved to hear more from Dianne's perspective of actually being the one living with ME - but as this book is written from Rob's perspective I guess I'll let that slide.
The narrative became somewhat disjointed and rushed towards the end of the book, compared to the first 2/3rds. But despite this it remained absorbing and easy to read.
Thank you Rob, for sharing your (and Ronnie and Dianne's!) story. What an encouraging yet challenging one it is. We need more people like Ronnie and Rob and Dianne in the world ❤️
September 14, 2025
What a story!!
As I had an Uncle who had a serious brain injury and was like Ronnie. Everyone in the family adored him....just like Ronnie. This book was awesome. Rob and Diane were amazing and ordinary....a straight forward couple who chose to walk the extra mile for Ronnie. I enjoyed it so much.
Well written and interesting.
As I had an Uncle who had a serious brain injury and was like Ronnie. Everyone in the family adored him....just like Ronnie. This book was awesome. Rob and Diane were amazing and ordinary....a straight forward couple who chose to walk the extra mile for Ronnie. I enjoyed it so much.
Well written and interesting.
December 5, 2024
Brilliant and thought provoking
I loved this book it was a great read and my only regret is not having met Ronnie. It confirmed that I want to do something for those young people that leave care and have no support.
I loved this book it was a great read and my only regret is not having met Ronnie. It confirmed that I want to do something for those young people that leave care and have no support.
January 8, 2026
Phenomenal book that truly makes you experience every emotion under the sun. Many tears were shed during the week that it took me to finish the book; I couldn’t put it down. Ronnie Lockwood and Rob Parsons have left a lasting impression on me.
April 11, 2026
I don't tend to cry when reading books but my goodness, this one was an exception.
The whole book is a moving true story but the last few chapters will punch you in the gut with emotion.
It's the true story of a family who took a homeless man into their lives and family and the impact that had on everyone.
It's a heartwrenching insight into the bleak future many people without homes or families face.
It's how the charity Care for Families came about.
It will definitely leave you thinking.
I hope it's not 'I couldn't do that' but rather 'What can I do?'
A must read.
The whole book is a moving true story but the last few chapters will punch you in the gut with emotion.
It's the true story of a family who took a homeless man into their lives and family and the impact that had on everyone.
It's a heartwrenching insight into the bleak future many people without homes or families face.
It's how the charity Care for Families came about.
It will definitely leave you thinking.
I hope it's not 'I couldn't do that' but rather 'What can I do?'
A must read.
May 11, 2026
So good!!! What an incredibly inspiring story told in a beautiful way. It’s real, relatable, but also so unique! The author does a great job endearing you to the storyline and characters in a way that makes you feel like you journey right along with him in his life. And so by the end, you are so attached to them that you feel the love & grief right along with him. It’s powerful and very moving. Especially loved listening to this on audio because the author reads it and his accent just really helps you remember the place and time that this all took place.
February 5, 2026
I've just finished this lovely book.
This book had a little of everything. It is very enjoyable although quite sad. And was very funny at times (the part in the maternity made me laugh out loud)
I'd recommend this book to everyone
This book had a little of everything. It is very enjoyable although quite sad. And was very funny at times (the part in the maternity made me laugh out loud)
I'd recommend this book to everyone
April 3, 2026
A must read which teaches you the importance of empathy, forgiveness and openness.
Would recommend to anyone as it’s easy to digest and talks about a whole range of life aspects in an approachable manner.
Would recommend to anyone as it’s easy to digest and talks about a whole range of life aspects in an approachable manner.
January 24, 2026
A true story ,a lovely heart touching account of how a small act of kindness became a life’s work. Interesting told from two points of view.
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March 3, 2026I never like to rate someone’s personal story, but wow, there are some seriously good people in this world! Heartwarming and heartbreaking at the same time.
May 2, 2026
An interesting true story of a couple who take in a homeless man they knew from their youth and how he becomes part of their family.
May 6, 2026
It’s got to be a good book if it makes you cry!
January 12, 2026
forever thankful to be one of the lucky ones who can call Ronnie family
February 8, 2026
Heartwarming and heartbreaking
February 23, 2026
Ik heb het met moeite droog kunnen houden. Wat een prachtig verhaal!
March 10, 2026
lovely book about kindness and the good it can do.
December 10, 2024
“We three are firm friends, aren’t we?”
I read this delightful memoir in two formats - the hardback, and the audiobook. I’ll definitely give the edge to the audiobook, as Rob himself reads it and his reading gives so much depth of emotion to the story. I was trying not to cry on public transport during the last few chapters!
The story is that of Ronnie, a homeless man with learning difficulties who had a hard start in life. But a knock on the right door on a cold winter’s night changed everything for him. Rob and his wife Dianne welcomed him into their home, and over time, their lives and hearts too. Not that the journey was all sunshine and roses, as this book frankly admits. But it is a powerful reminder that those whom society has cast off as being of no use often have so much to give. Read if you’re looking for a deeply touching and true story to curl up with by the Christmas tree!
I read this delightful memoir in two formats - the hardback, and the audiobook. I’ll definitely give the edge to the audiobook, as Rob himself reads it and his reading gives so much depth of emotion to the story. I was trying not to cry on public transport during the last few chapters!
The story is that of Ronnie, a homeless man with learning difficulties who had a hard start in life. But a knock on the right door on a cold winter’s night changed everything for him. Rob and his wife Dianne welcomed him into their home, and over time, their lives and hearts too. Not that the journey was all sunshine and roses, as this book frankly admits. But it is a powerful reminder that those whom society has cast off as being of no use often have so much to give. Read if you’re looking for a deeply touching and true story to curl up with by the Christmas tree!
July 5, 2025
A very heartwarming story about three people who did remarkable things.
A few years ago I was speaking with a couple who had taken in a man with special needs and now I wish I had paid more attention and asked more questions. I thought what they were doing was admirable but never considered that it was likely rewarding for them as well.
It makes me want to be a kinder person.
A few years ago I was speaking with a couple who had taken in a man with special needs and now I wish I had paid more attention and asked more questions. I thought what they were doing was admirable but never considered that it was likely rewarding for them as well.
It makes me want to be a kinder person.
April 21, 2026
5 stars. This book had me sobbing, laughing, and honestly wanting to be a better human being. It’s one of those rare reads that really stays with you long after you’ve finished it.
I listened to it on Audible, which made it even more powerful, Rob Parsons reading it in his warm Welsh accent adds so much heart and authenticity to the stories. It felt like being personally spoken to, rather than just reading a book.
The reflections are moving, down-to-earth, and often deeply challenging in the best way. It’s emotional without being overwhelming, and uplifting without feeling forced.
A genuinely beautiful and impactful read that I’d highly recommend.
I listened to it on Audible, which made it even more powerful, Rob Parsons reading it in his warm Welsh accent adds so much heart and authenticity to the stories. It felt like being personally spoken to, rather than just reading a book.
The reflections are moving, down-to-earth, and often deeply challenging in the best way. It’s emotional without being overwhelming, and uplifting without feeling forced.
A genuinely beautiful and impactful read that I’d highly recommend.
April 1, 2026
This is probably the most humbling book I have ever read. I loved that Rob and Dianne are pretty much the same age as my parents so there was a nostalgic element to reading a book which starts in the early 70s. What incredible kindness this couple showed Ronnie. The only reason it isn’t a full 5 starts from me is the religious element. Rob Parsons gives too much credit to the Almighty when actually 100% of the credit should go to Rob and Dianne. ❤️ Ronnie ❤️
February 5, 2026
A book everyone should read written by a man we should all aspire to be.
January 24, 2026
Beautiful telling of a beautiful family and their kindness
Such a beautiful story. It moved me tears on occasion but also prompted laughter many times. Ronnie was considered for much of his life to be the least and the lost but Rob and Dianne made him feel accepted and loved. There will be a Ronnie that we all have known or know now. Let's change our perceptions and see them for the joy and willingness to help rather than for their inability to speak eloquently.
I must praise Rob and Dianne to for their work with Care for the Family. Thank you to for Rob and John helping to find Shirley innocent. You did an excellent thing.
Such a beautiful story. It moved me tears on occasion but also prompted laughter many times. Ronnie was considered for much of his life to be the least and the lost but Rob and Dianne made him feel accepted and loved. There will be a Ronnie that we all have known or know now. Let's change our perceptions and see them for the joy and willingness to help rather than for their inability to speak eloquently.
I must praise Rob and Dianne to for their work with Care for the Family. Thank you to for Rob and John helping to find Shirley innocent. You did an excellent thing.
April 19, 2026
Such a beautiful and moving story, I laughed & cried in equal measure. This book will stay with me for a long long time
October 2, 2025
A homeless man knocks at the door of a young couple and somehow he becomes part of the family for 45 years. This is heart warming, nostalgic and very funny in parts. There is not a hint of self righteousness in the telling, rather a very honest admittance of annoyance and frustration with Ronnie at times with no glossing over of problems. I laughed often but also cried at the end and felt humbled.
March 4, 2026
This seems like it will be an interesting story, Ronnie is definitely a unique person, he strikes me as someone with learning difficulties but given this was the mid 70’s this probably wasn’t understood, despite this however he clearly appreciates the kindness that Rob and Diane has shown to him. I also enjoyed the stories from Rob’s childhood he clearly had a tough upbringing, his father obviously loved him and wanted the best for him teaching him about respect and finance but it doesn’t seem like there was much affection between them.
Rob and Diane are such genuine people, I think there was an element of just wanting permission from the other with regards to Ronnie, despite what they said and maybe even thought, I don’t think there was ever a chance they would have kicked Ronnie out. The Christmas story was nice and it’s good how Rob’s father was able to open up and showed respect for Ronnie. I really like the way Rob goes into his own childhood he also had a tough upbringing but it juxtaposes really nicely with the horror that Ronnie experienced, knowledge around learning difficulties was basically non existent at that time which meant he just floated around a system that didn’t know what to do with him, but that doesn’t absolve the people in power from the awful way he was allowed to be treated and then it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy, if you get told you are useless by everyone you will start to believe it, Rob had the same but he was lucky to find someone that was willing to give him a chance, Ronnie eventually got that but not till much later.
It’s good that Ronnie is continuing to grow in confidence, getting him a job is the best thing for him, it gives him a consistent structure and something to really excel at. That is when he is at his happiest when he feels needed because he can do things for others. His reaction to the new room made sense but it was a necessary boundary to set especially with Diane having a baby. Fortunately they were able to make clear that they still loved Ronnie and wanted to have him around regularly but it was important that they also had their own space. It was good that he took to Katie well and wasn’t jealous that she would take up more of Rob and Diane’s time (it wouldn’t be intentional but it could have been a defensive mechanism). The reaction about him losing his first payslip was a sad section, he makes mistakes as everyone does but it will always seem more existential to him as he likely has been abused in the past for making a mistake, it’s why moments like the ones welcoming him into the church are so important for him to feel loved and appreciated by his peers.
The section where Rob acknowledges the what ifs that he always asks himself with regards to Ronnie is really telling, because we all evaluate our lives and wonder if we did the right thing in certain areas and what would have happened if things were different. It was also challenging to read about Rob and Diane drifting apart as well as Diane’s illness, it was a situation that happens to so many of us where we get so bogged down in the day to day we lose track about what is actually important. Diane’s line about giving them everything but time was a really good one. There were some heartwarming parts in these chapters as well, I like the commitment from the football teams to get Ronnie a goal and how well he responded to Rob’s “chef speciality” trick, it all boils down to him wanting to belong. The decision about him leaving is such a challenging one, he is a member of the family there’s no doubt but logistically it was always going to be a challenge as their children begin to grow up and equally would it be best for him to be able to be a bit more independent?
I think most people would empathise with the torture that Rob’s brain put him through during the death of his father, there is always an idea that our parents are ever-present within our lives and because of that we take them for granted and never truly know them. Ultimately though, the only thing you do know is that you love them and that’s the most important thing. The final few chapters are a great reminder of just how difficult the Covid lockdown was and how many moments it robbed from us. The idea that Ronnie wouldn’t have understood why he couldn’t see others and that Rob and Diane wouldn’t have been able to visit him is heartbreaking. Also the fact that 100’s of people were unable to say goodbye to a person that really made a difference in their lives. I think Rob sums it up best by acknowledging that Ronnie had changed his life as much as he had changed Ronnie’s and it all started from a single moment of empathy over 50 years earlier.
Rating - 8/10
Rob and Diane are such genuine people, I think there was an element of just wanting permission from the other with regards to Ronnie, despite what they said and maybe even thought, I don’t think there was ever a chance they would have kicked Ronnie out. The Christmas story was nice and it’s good how Rob’s father was able to open up and showed respect for Ronnie. I really like the way Rob goes into his own childhood he also had a tough upbringing but it juxtaposes really nicely with the horror that Ronnie experienced, knowledge around learning difficulties was basically non existent at that time which meant he just floated around a system that didn’t know what to do with him, but that doesn’t absolve the people in power from the awful way he was allowed to be treated and then it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy, if you get told you are useless by everyone you will start to believe it, Rob had the same but he was lucky to find someone that was willing to give him a chance, Ronnie eventually got that but not till much later.
It’s good that Ronnie is continuing to grow in confidence, getting him a job is the best thing for him, it gives him a consistent structure and something to really excel at. That is when he is at his happiest when he feels needed because he can do things for others. His reaction to the new room made sense but it was a necessary boundary to set especially with Diane having a baby. Fortunately they were able to make clear that they still loved Ronnie and wanted to have him around regularly but it was important that they also had their own space. It was good that he took to Katie well and wasn’t jealous that she would take up more of Rob and Diane’s time (it wouldn’t be intentional but it could have been a defensive mechanism). The reaction about him losing his first payslip was a sad section, he makes mistakes as everyone does but it will always seem more existential to him as he likely has been abused in the past for making a mistake, it’s why moments like the ones welcoming him into the church are so important for him to feel loved and appreciated by his peers.
The section where Rob acknowledges the what ifs that he always asks himself with regards to Ronnie is really telling, because we all evaluate our lives and wonder if we did the right thing in certain areas and what would have happened if things were different. It was also challenging to read about Rob and Diane drifting apart as well as Diane’s illness, it was a situation that happens to so many of us where we get so bogged down in the day to day we lose track about what is actually important. Diane’s line about giving them everything but time was a really good one. There were some heartwarming parts in these chapters as well, I like the commitment from the football teams to get Ronnie a goal and how well he responded to Rob’s “chef speciality” trick, it all boils down to him wanting to belong. The decision about him leaving is such a challenging one, he is a member of the family there’s no doubt but logistically it was always going to be a challenge as their children begin to grow up and equally would it be best for him to be able to be a bit more independent?
I think most people would empathise with the torture that Rob’s brain put him through during the death of his father, there is always an idea that our parents are ever-present within our lives and because of that we take them for granted and never truly know them. Ultimately though, the only thing you do know is that you love them and that’s the most important thing. The final few chapters are a great reminder of just how difficult the Covid lockdown was and how many moments it robbed from us. The idea that Ronnie wouldn’t have understood why he couldn’t see others and that Rob and Diane wouldn’t have been able to visit him is heartbreaking. Also the fact that 100’s of people were unable to say goodbye to a person that really made a difference in their lives. I think Rob sums it up best by acknowledging that Ronnie had changed his life as much as he had changed Ronnie’s and it all started from a single moment of empathy over 50 years earlier.
Rating - 8/10
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May 3, 2026
I came across A Knock at the Door after seeing a story about its release on my Facebook feed, and I’m grateful I did.
It tells the true story of a man whose former Sunday school classmate appeared on his doorstep one Christmas Eve, and never really left, becoming part of the family for the next 45 years.
As I read, I kept returning to one of my favorite Bible passages, Matthew 25:40: “Amen, I say to you, that which you did unto these, the least of my brothers and sisters, that you have truly done unto me.” I was struck, and genuinely moved, to see that same verse echoed near the book’s conclusion, reinforcing the heart of the story.
What makes this book so compelling is that it never feels self-congratulatory. Rob Parsons doesn’t present his actions as extraordinary heroism, but rather as a natural extension of compassion, love, and quiet moral conviction. It’s a powerful reminder of what faith looks like when it is lived, rather than simply professed.
Ronnie’s life could have unfolded very differently had he knocked on another door. Instead, he found a family willing to offer him something he had never truly known: belonging. Through their care, he experienced stability, dignity, and the simple but profound truth that he mattered; that he was worthy of love exactly as he was.
By contrasting his own upbringing, marked by encouragement, generosity, and support, with Ronnie’s far more institutional and emotionally distant childhood, Parsons highlights an uncomfortable but important truth: who we become is shaped not only by our abilities, but by whether someone chose to believe in us, care for us, and stand beside us at the right moment. Talent may open doors, but love and support are what allow us to walk through them.
For readers looking for a genuinely uplifting story about kindness, empathy, and the quiet power of doing the right thing, A Knock at the Door is difficult to surpass.
It tells the true story of a man whose former Sunday school classmate appeared on his doorstep one Christmas Eve, and never really left, becoming part of the family for the next 45 years.
As I read, I kept returning to one of my favorite Bible passages, Matthew 25:40: “Amen, I say to you, that which you did unto these, the least of my brothers and sisters, that you have truly done unto me.” I was struck, and genuinely moved, to see that same verse echoed near the book’s conclusion, reinforcing the heart of the story.
What makes this book so compelling is that it never feels self-congratulatory. Rob Parsons doesn’t present his actions as extraordinary heroism, but rather as a natural extension of compassion, love, and quiet moral conviction. It’s a powerful reminder of what faith looks like when it is lived, rather than simply professed.
Ronnie’s life could have unfolded very differently had he knocked on another door. Instead, he found a family willing to offer him something he had never truly known: belonging. Through their care, he experienced stability, dignity, and the simple but profound truth that he mattered; that he was worthy of love exactly as he was.
By contrasting his own upbringing, marked by encouragement, generosity, and support, with Ronnie’s far more institutional and emotionally distant childhood, Parsons highlights an uncomfortable but important truth: who we become is shaped not only by our abilities, but by whether someone chose to believe in us, care for us, and stand beside us at the right moment. Talent may open doors, but love and support are what allow us to walk through them.
For readers looking for a genuinely uplifting story about kindness, empathy, and the quiet power of doing the right thing, A Knock at the Door is difficult to surpass.
June 21, 2026
Book 414 - Rob Parsons - A Knock at the Door
An inspirational and uplifting book... part biographical... part historical... all real.
I haven't read a book by Parsons in years...just after getting married I was given 'The 60 minute Father' and 'The 60 minute Marriage '... books I feel need to be read again... now added back to my list.
Parsons describes in this book how a man he hadn't seen since his childhood days arrived at his door, a few days before Christmas, and how he stayed for decades... I suppose I thought this would be a story about how he was welcomed and and became part of his family... that does happen... but reality is so much more than such a smooth ride.
Throughout the book we get a taste of the visitor's life ... growing up as someone with learning difficulties in the 60s and 70s... attending a 'backward school' and through to getting a job as a waste operative... bin man.
Rob and his wife, Dianne, slowly adjust to this man becoming part of their family... especially as their own blood family develops. Parsons’ faith is inspiring but the loss of family, the birth of his two children and indeed a long term family illness frames this book as a true reality of life.
Ronnie is the gentleman who joins the family for ‘a few days’ … and stays for 45 years. It is so emotional as we watch him get a job, become chief chair arranger at church and when Dianne falls ill, it is Ronnie who steps up and in his own quiet way… does the little jobs… so Rob can look after his wife.
With biographical details that are mirrored between the two men… I fell in love with Ronnie as much as they did and the ending is devastatingly real… through COVID … we all have lost so much.
I cried…properly cried big tears… thanks for letting us all in Rob… thanks Dianne.
Thanks Ronnie.
An inspirational and uplifting book... part biographical... part historical... all real.
I haven't read a book by Parsons in years...just after getting married I was given 'The 60 minute Father' and 'The 60 minute Marriage '... books I feel need to be read again... now added back to my list.
Parsons describes in this book how a man he hadn't seen since his childhood days arrived at his door, a few days before Christmas, and how he stayed for decades... I suppose I thought this would be a story about how he was welcomed and and became part of his family... that does happen... but reality is so much more than such a smooth ride.
Throughout the book we get a taste of the visitor's life ... growing up as someone with learning difficulties in the 60s and 70s... attending a 'backward school' and through to getting a job as a waste operative... bin man.
Rob and his wife, Dianne, slowly adjust to this man becoming part of their family... especially as their own blood family develops. Parsons’ faith is inspiring but the loss of family, the birth of his two children and indeed a long term family illness frames this book as a true reality of life.
Ronnie is the gentleman who joins the family for ‘a few days’ … and stays for 45 years. It is so emotional as we watch him get a job, become chief chair arranger at church and when Dianne falls ill, it is Ronnie who steps up and in his own quiet way… does the little jobs… so Rob can look after his wife.
With biographical details that are mirrored between the two men… I fell in love with Ronnie as much as they did and the ending is devastatingly real… through COVID … we all have lost so much.
I cried…properly cried big tears… thanks for letting us all in Rob… thanks Dianne.
Thanks Ronnie.
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