Playing With Fire: Confessions of a Sex Therapist

by Martin Blinder

Playing With Fire is an informal, comedic look at the very serious condition of sex addiction, definitely too explicit for the youngsters. The chronical of successive passions owes a debt to the venerable Penthouse letters--those pornographic kiss-n-tells which start off stating that their authors always thought the editors concocted such reports of outrageous good fortune until the most amazing thing actually happened to them. From the moment Peter X is caught "in extremis" with a medical school cadaver, it's clear that virtually any brand of kink is fair game for this sullied character. After that disaster the protagonist redirects his studies, and becomes certified in the only subject he can think about.Peter gains prowess from the methodical private tutoring of a sexology teacher, and soon accepts that certain relationships about nothing weightier than hooking up. He inherits a grilfriend from a married client, but marvels at the superficiality of the "I knew nothing of Melissa's daily routine, let alone her inner self. Fine with me. I had what I wanted." The man simply lacks the will to deny assistance to frustrated women, no matter the setting. He's a hardwired hedonist who violates the doctor-patient ethic even in a convent, where his controlling Id makes him think, "...habit and all, this nun is a fox."Dr. X addresses the penetrating questions scientists shrink away from, such as "which gay women might have sex with a man and under what circumstances?" as a busy therapist, Peter finds it rewarding to get to the bottom of matters. He lives one lurid scenario after another, so the reader doesn't have to. Who thinks fractional fatherhood sounds pleasant? Does anyone really crave work as a toe-jam janitor? Didn't think so.In order to stay employed, Dr. Peter X maintains a low public profile. Under that pseudonym he's the next thing to a phantom. Dr. Martin Blinder is a past faculty member of US San Francisco & Past adjunct faculty of Hastings College. He's appeared on Oprah, Sally, and other first-name shows, and also provided expert commentary to news organizations. He's best known for supplying instrumental defense testimony in the murder trial of San Francisco Supervisor Dan White, who served a reduced prison sentence after the acknowledged shooting of Mayor George Moscone fellow Supersisor Harvey Milk. Dr. Blinder's assessment was later mis-summerized and referred to as the "Twinkie Defense"PLeaying With Fire is racy, thicker with historical reference than one might expect, and raised from the level of the basic premise by funny expressions. GO ahead and laugh if alone, become a little disgusted if judgemental people are lurking nearby, consider adding a new adventure to the playbook if you have a game collaborator, or just feel superior to the poor souls who are servants to animalistic impulses. The best way to keep this book from the impressionable is to stow it between the mattress and the box spring. Nobody would ever look there. ---Clarion Review in Foreward Magazine

117 pages, Kindle Edition

First published September 14, 2011