The Wrong Side of 35: Life Lessons from an Aging Grappler

by Chris Jessulat

It's said there's more philosophy that can be found on the mats of a jiu jitsu academy than in any Ivy League school in America. The Wrong Side of 35 is an exploration of that idea, not from the perspective of a world champion, the head of a global affiliate, or by a team of celebrity athletes... but rather from the lens of a regular guy from a small town, an aging hobbyist who wanted to answer for himself just what he had learned over the course of his grappling career, what it was for, and what it all meant.

Whether you're a grizzled ol' veteran or you've never stepped foot in a martial arts academy, you will find The Wrong Side of 35 an honest, and sometimes irreverent, reflection on the lessons learned over a lifetime in martial arts, and how they apply both on - and off - the mats.

109 pages, Kindle Edition

Published May 4, 2024

Reviews

[Matt Rudnitsky]

"The Wrong Side of 35" by Chris Jessulat offers a refreshingly authentic glimpse into the world of martial arts, not from a champion's vantage point but through an everyday practitioner's eyes. Jessulat, a seasoned participant in various grappling sports, delves deep into the philosophical and practical impacts of martial arts on his life and extends these lessons to the reader with an honesty that's as engaging as it is enlightening.

This book stands apart in the martial arts genre by focusing on the 'regular' individuals who train for the love of the sport rather than glory. It explores perseverance, the value of community, and the profound life lessons that emerge from commitment and passion. Jessulat peppers her narrative with personal anecdotes and reflections that deeply connect with anyone who has ever questioned the value of their pursuits in the face of aging or adversity. His message is clear: martial arts is more than a sport; it's a tool for personal growth, a community builder, and a lifestyle enhancer, regardless of age or skill level.

This book motivates anyone contemplating martial arts or those already on the mats who question their continued participation as they age. Jessulat's work and accompanying podcast and blog create a robust support system for the martial artist in every reader. If you've ever considered stepping onto the mats—or returning—let "The Wrong Side of 35" inspire you to take that plunge.

Dive into this profound read and join a community that values resilience and personal growth.

[Aaron Ferris · Rating 5 out of 5]

A great read! I think most people will be able to relate to the stories in this book whether you are a martial artist or not!