Okie dokie then. My mom bought this book on Audible (sigh) and I had been seeing it in our shared list for months and finally curiosity won out and I tried it. I don't generally read tell-all books, because I have zero interest in monetarily supporting someone who is trying to profit off of an "insider" perspective on drama or scandals or illegal, immoral, unethical, or whatever other type of general shittiness they were a party to but failed to do anything about when it mattered. So you will not see me reading any of those. Not from John Bolton or Michael Cohen or Omarosa or any of the others who want to cash in on their perspective from within the dumpster fire. (Also, there is an entire Listopia list dedicated to Trump tell-alls. There are 248 books on it currently. O_O No other recent president has a list. Just sayin'.)
Anyway... Trump tell-alls = Hard pass. To be fair, I have never and do not ever intend to read any tell-all style books about any administration. History and analysis and investigative journalism are fair game; insider cash-grab books are not.
I was curious about this one though because of who Rick Wilson is... or at least who I thought he was. (And he wasn't actually IN the administration, but was a Republican political "expert".) I really only knew of him through his "never Trump" activism, in the form of some interviews, and a WHOLE LOT of Lincoln Project ads. Well, there's a reason they say you should never meet your heroes. Not that Rick Wilson was ever anywhere close to being a hero of mine, but I really enjoyed the LP ads, and REALLY misjudged Rick Wilson based on them.
Whoops. Well, at least his book disabused me of any mistaken notions of decency in Mr. Wilson. It's OK that I say that. He says so himself. He is, admittedly, not a nice man, and that was my (missed) cue to stop reading. I should have just stopped there, but I was still curious, so I continued, and regret doing so. At one point, after I decided to stop listening to this garbage, I texted my mom and I was like "DID YOU ACTUALLY LIKE THIS??" She said she found it amusing, but... guys, my mom is not really a critical reader. She's not like me, who can and often does side-eye every leaf, she's a "isn't the forest pretty" kind of reader. In other words, I think she enjoyed the snide cattiness of Wilson's anti-Trumpery out of pure anti-Trump sentiment and missed all of Wilson's own brand of shittiness.
-- Sexism? Check.
-- Thinly veiled racism? Check.
(Hint: Using standard sexist and racist dog-whistle terms and then saying that it isn't sexist or racist doesn't actually make it not sexist or racist. Thank you for coming to my Ted Talk.)
-- Fat-shaming? Check. I'm no fan of Chris Christie, but I did not find the constant commentary about Christie's weight amusing or funny or even witty. One would think that someone as (ahem) creative and intelligent and specifically experienced as POLITICAL STRATEGIST Rick Wilson would be able to think of things OTHER than his weight, body size, or general appearance to criticize. There's no shortage of mistakes or blunders to choose from, after all. Apparently one would be wrong though.
-- Gaslighting? Check. Check. Check.
Here's the thing. I just have this really weird quirk where I dislike when someone is lying to me, or lying about me. And that, friends, is apparently what Rick Wilson built his career on. I made it to the chapter of "unsolicited advice" for Democrats, and... Oof. NOPE.
His "commentary" on Democrats' "gun policy" is framed by his oppositional stance to any gun policy change in general. He is definitively pro-gun. OK, sure, he's allowed to be. But, that, paired with his "Just win, baby" M.O. means that he will use any means to achieve his goal, even if it means completely lying and misrepresenting facts and policy positions he doesn't agree with. He has claimed for years that Democrats want to "take people's guns" (A thing nobody actually wants, and no Democratic administration has even hinted at... but a lie that is still widely believed anyway. Thanks Rick Wilson - way to add to the discussion!) Essentially, he's accused anyone who wants more stringent gun regulations of having the most extreme stance in order to scare people into voting against any type reform as a slippery slope argument. He claims that Democrats just don't understand how baked into American culture guns are and to just give it up already. It's in the Constitution - something that has never been changed or altered in any way since it was handed down personally by a flag-waving Jesus (probably), so it's a moot point. A dead issue. (Pun intended?)
Hmmm... Could it possibly be the decades of propaganda and lies that are actually what's "baked in" regarding gun policy? He mentions that after a school shooting, there's usually some sort of short-lived polling that asks people about gun reform, and then it just... goes away again, showing JUST how important the issue is (ie: not at all).
I found this utterly repulsive. He doesn't seem to care that kids are dying - that's only a momentary blip on a poll questionnaire, and then back to business as usual, status quo, - another victory for accomplishing nothing. Yet somehow wanting to actually prevent more kids from being gunned down in their classrooms is framed as the un-American stance.
Likewise with his comments on "Pro-abortion" advocates, who are just really mean for alienating all of the Evangelicals and "everyone outside of New York City"(??) with all of their "Death to All Babies" t-shirts and... Oh, what's that? That's... not a thing? Huh. Weird. Well still, if Democrats could just not be so RIGID in their demand for the right to control their own bodies by being allowed to remove an unwanted clump of cells, then conservatives would TOTALLY be on board with them, and Democrats could TOTALLY "win". Democrats just need to change their stance just... like a TEENSY tiny bit to like, not want to be able to have bodily autonomy. Simple!
It's so mind-boggling for him to have such a holier than thou tone regarding the Pro-Choice movement (which is NOT "pro-abortion", regardless of how Rick Wilson's lies try to frame it) in the same chapter as he hand-waves away actual live human children being murdered in their classrooms. Though, to be fair, I don't recall that he ever claims to care about the unborn "babies" here either. It's just about how the stance alienates conservatives, so we should change ours to align with theirs, and then Boom! Just win, baby! That's what REALLY matters. The winning.
You cannot fucking make this shit up. Well, apparently Rick Wilson can.
What baffled me the most is that he claimed all of these "Democratic Positions" as though there was some sort of blood pact within the monolithic Democratic party to conform to a singular thought and policy position, with no deviation. Which is... hilarious, given the fact that the Democratic party has so many different factions that often we can't fucking agree on anything enough to get anything actually done. If Rick Wilson was being ingenuous with his advice, THAT would have been it: Align behind a cohesive platform.
But, I mean, this is from the guy whose party did just that and made their singular platform "Whatever Donald Trump says", so maybe we shouldn't take that advice either. Honestly, why he thinks that any Democrat would want to take ANY advice from one of the architects of political discourse that led us to having Donald Trump as president is beyond me. He seemed to know readers would balk, and in that I was entirely predictable, but sometimes we are predictable, and sometimes we're right to be. I will not take advice from a 30-year career political consultant who specializes in attack ads and disingenuous lies, and whose only advice for Democrats boiled down to "Be Republican". No thanks. I'll pass.
Anyway, so I can't really comment on the rest of the book, because that's the point where I Noped out and deleted the audiobook from my phone. Maybe the rest was a delight of wit and brilliant observation and insight.
But I doubt it. That doesn't seem to be in his skillset, and even though he and I agree on Trump being a liar, conman, and criminal, that agreement's not enough to redeem this book for me. And honestly I don't think that there's going to be any revelation at the end of the book that is going to magic us out of the current uber-divisive political climate either. His "unsolicited advice" chapter makes it pretty clear that any advice he'd give on anything would be just more of the same conservative talking points that have led us to right freaking here in the first place.
The only good thing that I can say about this experience is that it's over and I now never have to think about Rick Wilson again.