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My Year of Casual Acquaintances: A Novel
“A fun, entertaining novel! I can’t imagine anyone who wouldn’t enjoy this book as much as I did.” –Leslie A. Rasmussen, award-winning author
When Mar Meyer's husband divorces her for another woman, she reacts by abandoning everything in her her home, her friends, even her name. Though it's not easy to start over, Mar is young-looking, fit, and ready for new adventures—as long as she can keep things casual.
With each passing month, Mar goes from one acquaintance to the next. Among a fellow gym member down on her luck, a flirty hip-hop instructor, a bossy but comical consultant, a kindly older gentleman... and Charlie, a handsome best-selling novelist who wants more from Mar than she's able to give. She learns something new from each encounter. But can she change enough to open herself up to happiness and true connection?
Surrounded by an ensemble of quirky, endearing characters, Mar follows a tortuous and unpredictable path as she navigates the first year of her reinvented life. My Year of Casual Acquaintances is packed with laugh-out-loud moments mingled with scenes of loneliness and self-doubt that will put a lump in your throat.
When Mar Meyer's husband divorces her for another woman, she reacts by abandoning everything in her her home, her friends, even her name. Though it's not easy to start over, Mar is young-looking, fit, and ready for new adventures—as long as she can keep things casual.
With each passing month, Mar goes from one acquaintance to the next. Among a fellow gym member down on her luck, a flirty hip-hop instructor, a bossy but comical consultant, a kindly older gentleman... and Charlie, a handsome best-selling novelist who wants more from Mar than she's able to give. She learns something new from each encounter. But can she change enough to open herself up to happiness and true connection?
Surrounded by an ensemble of quirky, endearing characters, Mar follows a tortuous and unpredictable path as she navigates the first year of her reinvented life. My Year of Casual Acquaintances is packed with laugh-out-loud moments mingled with scenes of loneliness and self-doubt that will put a lump in your throat.
323 pages, Kindle Edition
Published September 26, 2024
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Ruth F. Stevens
3 books75 followersRuth F. Stevens likes to create stories that will make you laugh and cry, as she did with her debut novel, Stage Seven. She has a duology of funny-sad contemporary novels from Black Rose Writing: My Year of Casual Acquaintances (Sept. 2024) and The Unexpected Guests (Dec. 2024).
Ruth says: “I find myself motivated to write about the topics that worry me the most. Since I worry about a great many things, there is never a shortage of material. I’m also a big believer in the power of laughter to ease our pain and anxiety. Humor is a component in anything I write, no matter how serious the subject matter.”
A former public relations professional, Ruth has been writing for her entire career—including hundreds of articles for magazines, newspapers, and journals—but creative writing is her passion. She took up this endeavor full-time after quitting her day job in 2017. At last count, she’s written two plays and three novels. In her spare time, she enjoys travel, hiking, winetasting, hip hop, Broadway musicals, movies, leading a book club, and visiting her grandsons in Manhattan.
Ruth is a resident of Torrance, California. She is a former public relations professional (in NY and LA) and proud member of the Dramatists Guild of America, the Women Fiction Writers Association, and a volunteer and acquisitions editor for AlzAuthors.
Ruth says: “I find myself motivated to write about the topics that worry me the most. Since I worry about a great many things, there is never a shortage of material. I’m also a big believer in the power of laughter to ease our pain and anxiety. Humor is a component in anything I write, no matter how serious the subject matter.”
A former public relations professional, Ruth has been writing for her entire career—including hundreds of articles for magazines, newspapers, and journals—but creative writing is her passion. She took up this endeavor full-time after quitting her day job in 2017. At last count, she’s written two plays and three novels. In her spare time, she enjoys travel, hiking, winetasting, hip hop, Broadway musicals, movies, leading a book club, and visiting her grandsons in Manhattan.
Ruth is a resident of Torrance, California. She is a former public relations professional (in NY and LA) and proud member of the Dramatists Guild of America, the Women Fiction Writers Association, and a volunteer and acquisitions editor for AlzAuthors.
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October 14, 2024
In a Nutshell: A contemporary fiction about a woman who grabs a second chance at living life on her own terms. An atypical story structure, an interesting but somewhat unlikeable middle-aged lead, almost a “coming-of-age’ kind of arc, well-written secondary characters. This book took time to grow on me, but once it did, I enjoyed it. Recommended!
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Plot Preview:
Bookish Yays:
💐 A coming-of-age kind of story for a middle-aged character – unusual and refreshing. The first-person writing helps further in understanding Mar’s point of view.
💐 Mar is not an easy protagonist to like, especially at the start. She is uppity, judgemental, a bit selfish, and much stubborn. It is tough to root for her when she's jumping to rude opinions about everyone around her. Of course, all this only proves that Mars is human and that age doesn’t necessarily mean maturity. I love how she grows in awareness and selflessness as the book progresses. She shows that it is never too late to change our behaviour and learn from others.
💐 Love the story structuring. It is almost episodic, with the chapter divisions being in a one-month-one-acquaintance format.
💐 There are a surprising number of insensitive people in this book who bear grudges for longer than needed. Some are from Mar's family. It goes to show how family isn't necessarily the only support we get. At the same time, I love how Mar has a great relationship with her daughter-in-law – so unusual and wonderful to see this in fiction.
💐 There is a romance angle in the story but it never supersedes the core theme of Mar’s independence. I love how the writing never opts for the ‘romance is the key to happiness’ angle.
💐 Unlike stories where friends or family members form the path towards new happiness, this story hinges its action on ‘casual acquaintances’, as the title clearly indicates. All these strangers becomes a part of Mar’s life for varying short periods, and demonstrate how we can also learn from such short interactions. The variety of the acquaintances is great; they differ in age as well as gender.
💐 Though there are too many characters thanks to the above structuring, they are written in a way that aren’t confusing. It is very easy to remember who is who.
💐 While every interaction has a new realisation to offer to Mar, I appreciate how not every acquaintance led to a positive lesson. It's not a Mitch Albom kind of work where strangers spout philosophical learnings. Rather, the morals are a result of the interaction and not just a part of some random casual-yet-moralising conversation.
💐 Unlike what the blurb says, I didn’t find many laugh-out-loud moments in the story. Even better, I found it encompassing a gamut of emotions, from anger to bitterness to pride to love to despair and hopelessness. It is funny at times, but it is also introspective.
💐 I had read this author’s debut work ‘Stage Seven’, and though it could have done with some finetuning, I was touched by the way she wrote about Alzheimer’s in that book. This book also has some scenes depicting the struggles of a senior citizen with memory issues, and yet again, these are the most emotionally impactful scenes of the entire novel.
💐 Though the prime focus is Mar’s life, the plot covers several themes through her new life choices and the new connections she makes. These include parenting struggles, loneliness, infidelity, judgement bias, bullying, and senior citizen problems. As the themes are spread across multiple characters, they don’t overwhelm the core plot.
💐 The book is 321 pages long, but it is written at a fast pace and the pages flow by quickly.
💐 Petey the dog. As marvellous as all dogs are!
💐 The story ends at just the right cusp of a major change in Mar’s life. This isn’t strictly a cliffhanger, nor is it an abrupt ending as there is enough evidence for us to know what will happen next. I loved the way it was written. No forced tying of all plot threads into a neat bow.
Bookish Mixed Bags:
🌷 The prologue was good, but I didn’t like it for one reason: it offers in advance a look at a key incident coming much later in the plot.
🌷 Through her various attempts at fitness, Mar ends up joining a yoga class as well. It was a relief to see the yoga asanas being referred to by their actual Sanskrit names instead of stupid/rude simplifications such as downward dog or cat camel. At the same time, I wish people would stop using the word ‘yogi’ for anyone who practices yoga. Yogi means something very different: a person with a high level of spiritual insight that others must aspire to, which most common people won’t achieve. Simply going to a yoga class doesn’t make you a yogi. Using the word in fiction gives it greater validity even when it is wrong.
Bookish Nays:
🌵 Mar is 50 but looks 40 – This point is drilled in us again and again. There are so many references to how youthful she is and how she doesn't look her age that it almost begins to sound defensive after a point.
🌵 Too much alcohol, which always annoys me but might not bug other readers. Right at the start, Mar declares that she is genetically immune to getting affected by alcohol, and she goes to prove this right every chance she gets. I found it difficult to reconcile her health and fitness obsession with her excessive alcohol consumption.
🌵 There are a couple of sex scenes in the book. While these are semi-closed-door, the writing in these scenes is a bit too reliant on telling than showing. It felt quite stilted to read. Also, "yoga bondage"??!!?? I can’t even! Please. Just. Don’t! This spiritual practice has already been corrupted in many ways by Westerners (and even some Indians.) Please leave bondage out of yoga!
(There’s also mention of “goat yoga”, which is apparently a newish trend in California. First I heard of “doga”; now this! I am quite annoyed at how the sacred idea of yoga is being twisted into this nonsensical charade. This point isn’t a negative of the book but of the concept itself.)
All in all, I liked this book a lot, though it took some time to grow on me. The start was tough because Mar looked down on everyone. But as she improved, so did my liking for the book. That said, this novel needs to be read more for the characters Mar interacts with than for her alone. Some of these new acquaintances are jerks, but they offers an authentic glimpse of the kind of people we too deal with in real life.
I am very happy that this sophomore novel flows so much better than ‘Stage Seven’, which was the author’s debut. I am keen to know what happens next in Mar’s life, so count me in for the sequel. A preview of it is included in this book, and it seems to be written from Charlie’s perspective – Interesting!
Recommended to readers of women’s fiction who enjoy middle-aged protagonists, an experimental story structure, realistic life lessons, and a somewhat unlikeable lead.
3.75 stars.
My thanks to WOW! Women On Writing and author Ruth F. Stevens for a complimentary copy of 'My Year of Casual Acquaintances'. This review is voluntary and contains my honest opinion about the book.
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Plot Preview:
When Margaret’s husband of twenty-eight years divorces her for another woman, she decided to give up everything from her present life and begin anew. She changes her name to Mar and moves into a smaller home on the beachfront. This doesn’t mean that she has forgiven her husband. Au contraire, she is quite bitter about what happened and hence very judgemental in her behaviour towards everyone.
As her job offers flexible work-from-home timings, Mar joins a swanky health club to explore new adventures. Every month, she meets a new person – either through her work or through her club – who ends up impacting her life and teaching her something new. Will these experiences help Mar let the past go?
The story comes to us in Mar’s first-person perspective.
Bookish Yays:
💐 A coming-of-age kind of story for a middle-aged character – unusual and refreshing. The first-person writing helps further in understanding Mar’s point of view.
💐 Mar is not an easy protagonist to like, especially at the start. She is uppity, judgemental, a bit selfish, and much stubborn. It is tough to root for her when she's jumping to rude opinions about everyone around her. Of course, all this only proves that Mars is human and that age doesn’t necessarily mean maturity. I love how she grows in awareness and selflessness as the book progresses. She shows that it is never too late to change our behaviour and learn from others.
💐 Love the story structuring. It is almost episodic, with the chapter divisions being in a one-month-one-acquaintance format.
💐 There are a surprising number of insensitive people in this book who bear grudges for longer than needed. Some are from Mar's family. It goes to show how family isn't necessarily the only support we get. At the same time, I love how Mar has a great relationship with her daughter-in-law – so unusual and wonderful to see this in fiction.
💐 There is a romance angle in the story but it never supersedes the core theme of Mar’s independence. I love how the writing never opts for the ‘romance is the key to happiness’ angle.
💐 Unlike stories where friends or family members form the path towards new happiness, this story hinges its action on ‘casual acquaintances’, as the title clearly indicates. All these strangers becomes a part of Mar’s life for varying short periods, and demonstrate how we can also learn from such short interactions. The variety of the acquaintances is great; they differ in age as well as gender.
💐 Though there are too many characters thanks to the above structuring, they are written in a way that aren’t confusing. It is very easy to remember who is who.
💐 While every interaction has a new realisation to offer to Mar, I appreciate how not every acquaintance led to a positive lesson. It's not a Mitch Albom kind of work where strangers spout philosophical learnings. Rather, the morals are a result of the interaction and not just a part of some random casual-yet-moralising conversation.
💐 Unlike what the blurb says, I didn’t find many laugh-out-loud moments in the story. Even better, I found it encompassing a gamut of emotions, from anger to bitterness to pride to love to despair and hopelessness. It is funny at times, but it is also introspective.
💐 I had read this author’s debut work ‘Stage Seven’, and though it could have done with some finetuning, I was touched by the way she wrote about Alzheimer’s in that book. This book also has some scenes depicting the struggles of a senior citizen with memory issues, and yet again, these are the most emotionally impactful scenes of the entire novel.
💐 Though the prime focus is Mar’s life, the plot covers several themes through her new life choices and the new connections she makes. These include parenting struggles, loneliness, infidelity, judgement bias, bullying, and senior citizen problems. As the themes are spread across multiple characters, they don’t overwhelm the core plot.
💐 The book is 321 pages long, but it is written at a fast pace and the pages flow by quickly.
💐 Petey the dog. As marvellous as all dogs are!
💐 The story ends at just the right cusp of a major change in Mar’s life. This isn’t strictly a cliffhanger, nor is it an abrupt ending as there is enough evidence for us to know what will happen next. I loved the way it was written. No forced tying of all plot threads into a neat bow.
Bookish Mixed Bags:
🌷 The prologue was good, but I didn’t like it for one reason: it offers in advance a look at a key incident coming much later in the plot.
🌷 Through her various attempts at fitness, Mar ends up joining a yoga class as well. It was a relief to see the yoga asanas being referred to by their actual Sanskrit names instead of stupid/rude simplifications such as downward dog or cat camel. At the same time, I wish people would stop using the word ‘yogi’ for anyone who practices yoga. Yogi means something very different: a person with a high level of spiritual insight that others must aspire to, which most common people won’t achieve. Simply going to a yoga class doesn’t make you a yogi. Using the word in fiction gives it greater validity even when it is wrong.
Bookish Nays:
🌵 Mar is 50 but looks 40 – This point is drilled in us again and again. There are so many references to how youthful she is and how she doesn't look her age that it almost begins to sound defensive after a point.
🌵 Too much alcohol, which always annoys me but might not bug other readers. Right at the start, Mar declares that she is genetically immune to getting affected by alcohol, and she goes to prove this right every chance she gets. I found it difficult to reconcile her health and fitness obsession with her excessive alcohol consumption.
🌵 There are a couple of sex scenes in the book. While these are semi-closed-door, the writing in these scenes is a bit too reliant on telling than showing. It felt quite stilted to read. Also, "yoga bondage"??!!?? I can’t even! Please. Just. Don’t! This spiritual practice has already been corrupted in many ways by Westerners (and even some Indians.) Please leave bondage out of yoga!
(There’s also mention of “goat yoga”, which is apparently a newish trend in California. First I heard of “doga”; now this! I am quite annoyed at how the sacred idea of yoga is being twisted into this nonsensical charade. This point isn’t a negative of the book but of the concept itself.)
All in all, I liked this book a lot, though it took some time to grow on me. The start was tough because Mar looked down on everyone. But as she improved, so did my liking for the book. That said, this novel needs to be read more for the characters Mar interacts with than for her alone. Some of these new acquaintances are jerks, but they offers an authentic glimpse of the kind of people we too deal with in real life.
I am very happy that this sophomore novel flows so much better than ‘Stage Seven’, which was the author’s debut. I am keen to know what happens next in Mar’s life, so count me in for the sequel. A preview of it is included in this book, and it seems to be written from Charlie’s perspective – Interesting!
Recommended to readers of women’s fiction who enjoy middle-aged protagonists, an experimental story structure, realistic life lessons, and a somewhat unlikeable lead.
3.75 stars.
My thanks to WOW! Women On Writing and author Ruth F. Stevens for a complimentary copy of 'My Year of Casual Acquaintances'. This review is voluntary and contains my honest opinion about the book.
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Connect with me through:
My Blog || The StoryGraph || Instagram || X/Twitter || Facebook ||
October 5, 2024
At fifty, Mar Meyer finds herself doing something she never dreamed possible-starting over. Her husband leaving her for another woman, Mar is faced to navigate uncharted territories like finding a new home, making new friends, and even dating. This is the story of the year of her rebirth.
Throughout the months, Mar does just as the title suggests- meets a variety of people, some of which having a more long term presence than others. From younger friends, to forging a stronger relationship with her son, to the one that may have gotten away, Mar grows in what she never dreamed possible. But leaving one’s comfort zone does not come without some element of discomfort. Can Mar rebuild her world when finding newfound happiness feels so fleeting?
One of the reasons I decided to read My Year of Casual Acquaintances was because I read and enjoyed author Ruth F. Stevens last novel, Stage Seven. Though very different stories, there is a common thread of touching upon Alzheimer’s and its effects, a disease that must be important to the author.
While I enjoyed being taken along on Mar’s journey of self discovery, I couldn’t help but be frustrated with some of her decisions in the moment- namely those revolving around her son and Charlie, a man she dates. In those instances I felt Mar came across as frustratingly selfish and a tad self serving. Then again, one could argue everyone has their own set of work to do on oneself, regardless of age.
Throughout the months, Mar does just as the title suggests- meets a variety of people, some of which having a more long term presence than others. From younger friends, to forging a stronger relationship with her son, to the one that may have gotten away, Mar grows in what she never dreamed possible. But leaving one’s comfort zone does not come without some element of discomfort. Can Mar rebuild her world when finding newfound happiness feels so fleeting?
One of the reasons I decided to read My Year of Casual Acquaintances was because I read and enjoyed author Ruth F. Stevens last novel, Stage Seven. Though very different stories, there is a common thread of touching upon Alzheimer’s and its effects, a disease that must be important to the author.
While I enjoyed being taken along on Mar’s journey of self discovery, I couldn’t help but be frustrated with some of her decisions in the moment- namely those revolving around her son and Charlie, a man she dates. In those instances I felt Mar came across as frustratingly selfish and a tad self serving. Then again, one could argue everyone has their own set of work to do on oneself, regardless of age.
September 25, 2024
My Year of Casual Acquaintances was a book formatted unlike any other I have read. It takes a look at a middle-aged, newly divorced woman's life as she struggles to figure out what she wants her new life to look like. Each month introduces a new acquaintance, someone who impacts her life meaningfully, no matter how small a time span. As the year passes, she learns more about herself and what parts of life she wants to prioritize.
I thought this book was well-written, fun, and entertaining. The characters felt very real, and I found myself rooting for most of them. The story felt very realistic, which was compelling to me. The small bit of romance woven throughout the book was well done.
I did feel that some of the dialogue was a bit formal or unlike how actual human beings talk to each other, but this was relatively rare. I also didn't love the physical descriptors of every character- it felt a bit body shaming at some points, or at least overly focused on body size and shape. This was a minor part of the book, but something that consistently happened.
I am excited that the sequel is also being released this year- I have never seen such a quick succession in novel release dates, but I can't wait to see how the story continues! It left off at a place I am very interested to see more of.
Thank you to the publisher and Netgalley for the eARC! This book will be released on September 26th, and I definitely think it is worth the read.
I thought this book was well-written, fun, and entertaining. The characters felt very real, and I found myself rooting for most of them. The story felt very realistic, which was compelling to me. The small bit of romance woven throughout the book was well done.
I did feel that some of the dialogue was a bit formal or unlike how actual human beings talk to each other, but this was relatively rare. I also didn't love the physical descriptors of every character- it felt a bit body shaming at some points, or at least overly focused on body size and shape. This was a minor part of the book, but something that consistently happened.
I am excited that the sequel is also being released this year- I have never seen such a quick succession in novel release dates, but I can't wait to see how the story continues! It left off at a place I am very interested to see more of.
Thank you to the publisher and Netgalley for the eARC! This book will be released on September 26th, and I definitely think it is worth the read.
October 5, 2024
I so rooted for this character!
Mar, an attactive middle-age woman still licking her wounds after a messy divorce, is smart and insightful and determined to turn things around. The friends and acquaintances who travel in and out of Mar’s life are an endearing and eclectic group with complicated situations of their own. I loved every storyline. Stevens has created an interwoven plot that comes full circle and lands with a most satisfying ending.
This story will resonate with anyone who has imagined a do-over or has had to push the restart button on life. FIVE STARS HIGHLY RECOMMEND!
Mar, an attactive middle-age woman still licking her wounds after a messy divorce, is smart and insightful and determined to turn things around. The friends and acquaintances who travel in and out of Mar’s life are an endearing and eclectic group with complicated situations of their own. I loved every storyline. Stevens has created an interwoven plot that comes full circle and lands with a most satisfying ending.
This story will resonate with anyone who has imagined a do-over or has had to push the restart button on life. FIVE STARS HIGHLY RECOMMEND!
December 15, 2024
Mar-Newly divorced and trying to figure out her current reality, is a compelling character. On the surface she is leading a privileged life, going to the gym, walking at the beach, and meeting many new people. Her personal life is another story, trouble with her adult son, a complicated work environment, and some difficulty with all of her new acquaintances. A bonus for me, the setting is my neighborhood, but anyone can relate to the gym, restaurants, and other venues. Steven’s writing is witty and well thought out. This book is a great book club discussion, and I am gifting copies to family members for Christmas!
October 16, 2024
3.5/5
A very well-written chick flick that I enjoyed reading immesely. It was funny and heartwarming, and I liked the main character (Mars) for most part. My only gripe is that she sometimes acted a bit recklessly and seemed younger than she was supposed to be.
A very well-written chick flick that I enjoyed reading immesely. It was funny and heartwarming, and I liked the main character (Mars) for most part. My only gripe is that she sometimes acted a bit recklessly and seemed younger than she was supposed to be.
August 6, 2025
Fun and quick read! I liked that it focused on humanity, and how the connections we make with people (either by choice or circumstance) have an impact on our lives.
September 6, 2024
What a wonderful surprise this book was - it was so much more than I expected!
Mar, the main character was so completely relatable and I really felt like I was on this rollercoaster of a ride with her as she navigated life after divorce, meeting new friends, dating, discovering new interests and trying to repair her fragile relationship with her son.
There were so many layers to the story, the writing was immersive and I felt like I was reading an autobiography. The characters were well written, I particularly liked Victor and Sunny. A thoroughly enjoyable read.
4 ⭐️ Thanks to Netgalley, Ruth F. Stevens and Black Rose for an ARC in return for an honest review.
Mar, the main character was so completely relatable and I really felt like I was on this rollercoaster of a ride with her as she navigated life after divorce, meeting new friends, dating, discovering new interests and trying to repair her fragile relationship with her son.
There were so many layers to the story, the writing was immersive and I felt like I was reading an autobiography. The characters were well written, I particularly liked Victor and Sunny. A thoroughly enjoyable read.
4 ⭐️ Thanks to Netgalley, Ruth F. Stevens and Black Rose for an ARC in return for an honest review.
December 29, 2025
My Year of Casual Acquaintances by Ruth F Stevens is a wonderful contemporary women's fiction. We meet Mar, a recently divorced woman who drops everything from her past and tries to start over. However, she has zero intention of becoming serious with anyone - neighbors, friends, or dates!
We follow Mar for a year as she finds and meets different people on her journey of rediscovery. Some relationships last and others fall to the wayside. But in each, Mar learns something about herself. However, she isn't truly happy because she isn't allowing real connection. The question is - can she? Will she?
I laughed and cheered and sighed over Mar. She has a big heart but is afraid to let anyone see it. As someone who has had to start over (on more than one occasion), I understand her reluctance. But like Mar, I've learned it is worth putting yourself on the line.
We follow Mar for a year as she finds and meets different people on her journey of rediscovery. Some relationships last and others fall to the wayside. But in each, Mar learns something about herself. However, she isn't truly happy because she isn't allowing real connection. The question is - can she? Will she?
I laughed and cheered and sighed over Mar. She has a big heart but is afraid to let anyone see it. As someone who has had to start over (on more than one occasion), I understand her reluctance. But like Mar, I've learned it is worth putting yourself on the line.
October 25, 2024
Absolutely wonderful and thoroughly satisfying!
My Year of Casual Relationships by Ruth F. Stevens is a new adult contemporary novel filled with memorable characters, unlikely friendships, love and loss, and self-discovery. Mar Meyers is an icon for healing, growth, and second chances.
The main character, Margaret ‘Mar’ Meyers, is putting together a new life, including a new persona after her husband of 28 years leaves her for one of his employees. As often happens, Mar loses not only Henry (good riddance!) but also their couple friends, who gravitate toward the newly-formed couple rather than the newly single Mar. Worst though is the contentious relationship that develops with her only child, Michael, who’s married and has a young son of his own, Mar’s grandson, Benny. Michael inexplicably takes his father’s side in the divorce, even though Henry is the one who had the affair and broke up the marriage. I ached for Mar with every unhappy and ugly interaction with her son but had strong suspicions as to the underlying reasons for his behavior all along.
Mar’s mother, who lives across the country from LA in New York City, is another unfulfilling relationship in her life. Whether due to her British stiff-upper-lip demeanor or the fact that she’s completely self-absorbed, she’s no source of comfort or support for her daughter when she needs it the most. She seems so cold and unfeeling, which may be the reason for some of Mar’s own personality flaws. Mar struggles with being standoffish, critical, and expressing empathy. She is well-known for speaking her mind without considering the consequences of her words until it is too late. However, despite her initial emotional distance, she experienced significant personal growth as the story progressed, and I liked her more and more for it.
The author’s writing style is smooth and comfortable, and it drew me into Mar’s life from page one. I was genuinely interested in what Mar thought and had to say. The descriptions of the fitness center, Mar’s waterfront apartment, restaurants, and clubs she frequents are vivid, and I could easily picture the characters in these settings. I enjoyed the names Mar initially gave to the women regulars at the fitness center, which also created a strong image of each. However, I was glad she got past this superficiality and eventually got to know them and their true identities. I was delighted to see at the end of the book that the planned sequel is already in the works and is scheduled for publication very soon. I’m not ready to leave Margaret’s story behind.
With its relatable and sympathetic main character and realistic plot, I recommend MY YEAR OF CASUAL RELATIONSHIPS to readers of contemporary and women’s fiction.
I voluntarily reviewed this after receiving an Advanced Review Copy through WOW! Women On Writing Book Tours.
My Year of Casual Relationships by Ruth F. Stevens is a new adult contemporary novel filled with memorable characters, unlikely friendships, love and loss, and self-discovery. Mar Meyers is an icon for healing, growth, and second chances.
The main character, Margaret ‘Mar’ Meyers, is putting together a new life, including a new persona after her husband of 28 years leaves her for one of his employees. As often happens, Mar loses not only Henry (good riddance!) but also their couple friends, who gravitate toward the newly-formed couple rather than the newly single Mar. Worst though is the contentious relationship that develops with her only child, Michael, who’s married and has a young son of his own, Mar’s grandson, Benny. Michael inexplicably takes his father’s side in the divorce, even though Henry is the one who had the affair and broke up the marriage. I ached for Mar with every unhappy and ugly interaction with her son but had strong suspicions as to the underlying reasons for his behavior all along.
Mar’s mother, who lives across the country from LA in New York City, is another unfulfilling relationship in her life. Whether due to her British stiff-upper-lip demeanor or the fact that she’s completely self-absorbed, she’s no source of comfort or support for her daughter when she needs it the most. She seems so cold and unfeeling, which may be the reason for some of Mar’s own personality flaws. Mar struggles with being standoffish, critical, and expressing empathy. She is well-known for speaking her mind without considering the consequences of her words until it is too late. However, despite her initial emotional distance, she experienced significant personal growth as the story progressed, and I liked her more and more for it.
The author’s writing style is smooth and comfortable, and it drew me into Mar’s life from page one. I was genuinely interested in what Mar thought and had to say. The descriptions of the fitness center, Mar’s waterfront apartment, restaurants, and clubs she frequents are vivid, and I could easily picture the characters in these settings. I enjoyed the names Mar initially gave to the women regulars at the fitness center, which also created a strong image of each. However, I was glad she got past this superficiality and eventually got to know them and their true identities. I was delighted to see at the end of the book that the planned sequel is already in the works and is scheduled for publication very soon. I’m not ready to leave Margaret’s story behind.
With its relatable and sympathetic main character and realistic plot, I recommend MY YEAR OF CASUAL RELATIONSHIPS to readers of contemporary and women’s fiction.
I voluntarily reviewed this after receiving an Advanced Review Copy through WOW! Women On Writing Book Tours.
January 14, 2025
When Margaret Meyer’s long-time husband suddenly leaves her for another woman, Margaret is understandably blindsided. Reeling in anger, she vows to purge everything from her old life and make a clean break. Margaret moves out of their marital home, buys a cozy apartment, and changes gyms. In her earthly fifties (but as fit and young-looking as someone ten years younger), she looks forward to meeting other people and creating new experiences. But Margaret will not let her heart get broken again—she’ll keep things strictly casual.
Margaret approaches her first year as a single woman cautiously optimistic and meets some memorable characters along the way, including a cute hip-hop instructor, a dreamy novelist, and an older gentleman who teaches her a thing or two about what’s important. But could she be missing out on something great by keeping everyone at arm’s length? One thing is sure: it will be a transformative year!
“My Year of Casual Acquaintances” by Ruth F. Stevens is the first book in the absorbing, highly character-driven South Bay series. Being a newly divorced woman in her fifties, Margaret enters a whole new world, and readers experience all the ups and downs as she navigates these uncharted waters. From dipping her toes into the dating scene (and partaking in some sensual encounters) to confronting her commitment fears, Margaret’s journey is immersive, hilarious, and root-worthy.
Margaret’s challenges extend beyond her personal life. There is much work to be done, tackling unfavorable politics at work and repairing the strained relationship between her and her adult son. The author has done an excellent job of highlighting Margaret’s personal growth as she begins to look at the world through a different lens, one where she isn’t going to shy away from confrontation or allow her ex-husband to paint himself as the “good parent” in her son’s eyes. Margaret has developed a backbone, and witnessing her transformation was inspiring.
Stevens’ novel is the perfect candidate for a book club or discussion because you’ll want to keep gushing about the characters long after the final page. The author dazzles readers with a multidimensional ensemble cast whose antics will stimulate laughter and cause you to shed a tear or two. From the locker room banter at Seaside Fitness and one handsome instructor’s issues down below to the endearing heart-to-hearts and a good samaritan who helps Margaret in a time of need, “My Year of Casual Acquaintances” by Ruth F. Stevens leaves an unforgettable mark.
In addition to its book-club-worthy buzz, this novel will appeal to readers who enjoy second-chance romances with a strong emphasis on personal transformation. Stevens also examines the importance of friendship and belonging as Margaret’s community expands. The fun doesn’t have to end after the final page, as the second installment of the South Bay series is also available!
Margaret approaches her first year as a single woman cautiously optimistic and meets some memorable characters along the way, including a cute hip-hop instructor, a dreamy novelist, and an older gentleman who teaches her a thing or two about what’s important. But could she be missing out on something great by keeping everyone at arm’s length? One thing is sure: it will be a transformative year!
“My Year of Casual Acquaintances” by Ruth F. Stevens is the first book in the absorbing, highly character-driven South Bay series. Being a newly divorced woman in her fifties, Margaret enters a whole new world, and readers experience all the ups and downs as she navigates these uncharted waters. From dipping her toes into the dating scene (and partaking in some sensual encounters) to confronting her commitment fears, Margaret’s journey is immersive, hilarious, and root-worthy.
Margaret’s challenges extend beyond her personal life. There is much work to be done, tackling unfavorable politics at work and repairing the strained relationship between her and her adult son. The author has done an excellent job of highlighting Margaret’s personal growth as she begins to look at the world through a different lens, one where she isn’t going to shy away from confrontation or allow her ex-husband to paint himself as the “good parent” in her son’s eyes. Margaret has developed a backbone, and witnessing her transformation was inspiring.
Stevens’ novel is the perfect candidate for a book club or discussion because you’ll want to keep gushing about the characters long after the final page. The author dazzles readers with a multidimensional ensemble cast whose antics will stimulate laughter and cause you to shed a tear or two. From the locker room banter at Seaside Fitness and one handsome instructor’s issues down below to the endearing heart-to-hearts and a good samaritan who helps Margaret in a time of need, “My Year of Casual Acquaintances” by Ruth F. Stevens leaves an unforgettable mark.
In addition to its book-club-worthy buzz, this novel will appeal to readers who enjoy second-chance romances with a strong emphasis on personal transformation. Stevens also examines the importance of friendship and belonging as Margaret’s community expands. The fun doesn’t have to end after the final page, as the second installment of the South Bay series is also available!
March 3, 2025
Perhaps the best review I can give to ‘My Year of Casual Acquaintances’ is that I bought its sequel within about ten minutes of finishing it.
The novel tells the story of Mar Meyer, a 50-something woman, fresh from divorce but affluent enough to live overlooking the Californian coast and to retain membership at what sounds like quite an exclusive fitness club.
What starts as a rather empty existence for Mar soon gets filled up in a number of ways. From the over enthusiastic 30-something Whitney to the overly pessimistic ‘Judge’ Judy, Mar learns a little something about herself with every encounter and new person she meets.
Some of them are more influential than others – Sunny and Grace become something closer to friends; Nancy and Vincent challenge Mar’s selflessness; Charlie is the main romantic interest, while Jax is a noisy distraction and Nic a malevolent (posing as benevolent) nuisance.
Then of course there is Audrey and Petey but you’ll have to read the book for them.
It’s not strictly a decision by Mar to meet all of these new people, rather it’s a more organic result of putting herself forward more and choosing to get involved in the things around her. While she is a somewhat unlikable character at the beginning of the novel (though not to the extent that others felt, at least for me), as she jumps the various hurdles thrown at her, she becomes a more rounded person with whom we can empathise.
In truth, there’s not too much wrong with this novel that I can point to as a glaring fault. I did think the schism between mother and son mended perhaps a little too easily – I feel like the meet-ups and arranged events would have been a tad more uncertain and unnerving for Mar. I also thought that Vincent got glossed over just a little too easily as well, as if suddenly realising that the end was in sight and let’s get there quickly.
But these are minor things that mostly come to my attention after finishing the novel and having a day or two to process it. As I say, I went and bought the second book almost immediately after finishing, so that’s a solid review in and of itself.
My thanks to Black Rose Writing, via NetGalley, for the eARC of this novel in exchange for an honest review.
The novel tells the story of Mar Meyer, a 50-something woman, fresh from divorce but affluent enough to live overlooking the Californian coast and to retain membership at what sounds like quite an exclusive fitness club.
What starts as a rather empty existence for Mar soon gets filled up in a number of ways. From the over enthusiastic 30-something Whitney to the overly pessimistic ‘Judge’ Judy, Mar learns a little something about herself with every encounter and new person she meets.
Some of them are more influential than others – Sunny and Grace become something closer to friends; Nancy and Vincent challenge Mar’s selflessness; Charlie is the main romantic interest, while Jax is a noisy distraction and Nic a malevolent (posing as benevolent) nuisance.
Then of course there is Audrey and Petey but you’ll have to read the book for them.
It’s not strictly a decision by Mar to meet all of these new people, rather it’s a more organic result of putting herself forward more and choosing to get involved in the things around her. While she is a somewhat unlikable character at the beginning of the novel (though not to the extent that others felt, at least for me), as she jumps the various hurdles thrown at her, she becomes a more rounded person with whom we can empathise.
In truth, there’s not too much wrong with this novel that I can point to as a glaring fault. I did think the schism between mother and son mended perhaps a little too easily – I feel like the meet-ups and arranged events would have been a tad more uncertain and unnerving for Mar. I also thought that Vincent got glossed over just a little too easily as well, as if suddenly realising that the end was in sight and let’s get there quickly.
But these are minor things that mostly come to my attention after finishing the novel and having a day or two to process it. As I say, I went and bought the second book almost immediately after finishing, so that’s a solid review in and of itself.
My thanks to Black Rose Writing, via NetGalley, for the eARC of this novel in exchange for an honest review.
October 6, 2024
"Who can I call for you?"
This line resonated with me because if I was in an accident or trouble, who would I want someone to call for me? This is a book that many women can relate to, even for just that line. Margaret has recently divorced and is starting her life over. As can happen with relationships, sometimes friends choose the other person. This leaves the remaining party to seek out new friends and acquaintances, which can be a daunting task for some people. She meets a variety of people at the fitness center, and we have an inside look into some disaster meetings and some that really take off. I loved the interactions with the various women and even the men that Margaret thinks about having a potential relationship with at different times.
This book is also about discovering who we are, figuring out relationships with those around us, and what we want from life. Margaret learns a lot of this as she experiences these brief relationships. One of her lightbulb moments was visiting with her former neighbor and learning some truths about her son and ex-husband. In the first half of the book, her relationship with her son Michael is tense. You can see the animosity from him leaping off the pages. However, when the truth comes to light, it changes their dynamics. I was glad to see this because I did not appreciate Michael's attitude towards Margaret.
I thought that Margaret was a little self-centered and absorbed in herself, but this year of self-discovery made her a more aware woman, changing the relationships around her for the better. I think we can all take away a little something from this book and apply it to our own lives.
I really enjoyed the book, and we give it 5 paws up.
This line resonated with me because if I was in an accident or trouble, who would I want someone to call for me? This is a book that many women can relate to, even for just that line. Margaret has recently divorced and is starting her life over. As can happen with relationships, sometimes friends choose the other person. This leaves the remaining party to seek out new friends and acquaintances, which can be a daunting task for some people. She meets a variety of people at the fitness center, and we have an inside look into some disaster meetings and some that really take off. I loved the interactions with the various women and even the men that Margaret thinks about having a potential relationship with at different times.
This book is also about discovering who we are, figuring out relationships with those around us, and what we want from life. Margaret learns a lot of this as she experiences these brief relationships. One of her lightbulb moments was visiting with her former neighbor and learning some truths about her son and ex-husband. In the first half of the book, her relationship with her son Michael is tense. You can see the animosity from him leaping off the pages. However, when the truth comes to light, it changes their dynamics. I was glad to see this because I did not appreciate Michael's attitude towards Margaret.
I thought that Margaret was a little self-centered and absorbed in herself, but this year of self-discovery made her a more aware woman, changing the relationships around her for the better. I think we can all take away a little something from this book and apply it to our own lives.
I really enjoyed the book, and we give it 5 paws up.
October 9, 2024
ENG
Margaret, who introduces herself as Mar, has been in a new apartment for a year.
After divorcing her husband, she decided to sell her house and move out on her own.
She is an editor, and she is so lucky she can do her jobs whenever she wants to.
She decided to join a gym near the new house where she lives.
The book is about a year of encounters with people she meets mainly at the gym. Also recounted is her conflicted relationship with her son Michael.
The book is divided into 12 parts, each corresponding to a month and an encounter.
Most of the encounters are rapid affinity and rapid loss of interest. However, instead of simply stopping interacting with the person, she stops attending classes or areas of the gym where she has latched on to these people.
The book, from my point of view, starts out very slow and even a bit boring, but becomes something interesting from the time she interacts with Connor, a very peculiar 3-year-old child. Things happen afterwards that put her in need of more open dialogue with her son and change some things about herself.
There is a romantic story, too.
At the end of the reading, I found out that the book has a sequel “The Unexpected Guests”.
If I'm honest, I've read better; I wouldn't know whether to recommend this book or not.
I received an advance review copy for free, and I am leaving this review voluntarily.
ITA
Margaret, che si fa chiamare Mar, si trova da un anno in un nuovo appartamento. Dopo aver divorziato dal marito, ha deciso di vendere casa per andare a vivere da sola. Di lavoro fa l'editore. Vicino alla nuova casa dove abita ha deciso di iscriversi in una palestra.
Il libro racconta un anno di incontri con persone che lei incontra in palestra, principalmente. Inoltre viene raccontato il rapporto conflittuale con suo figlio Michael.
Il libro è diviso in 12 parti, ogni parte corrisponde a un mese e un incontro.
La maggior parte degli incontri sono rapida affinità e rapida perdita di interesse. Però invece di semplicemente smettere di interagire con la persona, smette di frequentare dei corsi o delle zone della palestra dove ha attaccato bottone con queste persone.
Il libro, dal mio punto di vista, parte molto lento e anche un po’ noioso, diventa qualcosa di interessante da quando interagisce con Connor, un bambino molto particolare di tipo 3 anni. A seguito succedono delle cose che la mettono in necessità di dialogare più apertamente con il figlio e di cambiare delle cose di sé stessa.
C’è una storia romantica.
Alla fine della lettura ho scoperto che il libro ha un seguito che si intitola “The Unexpected Guests”.
Se devo essere onesta ho letto di meglio, non saprei se consigliarlo o meno.
Ho ricevuto una copia gratuita. Questa recensione contiene la mia opinione ed è pubblicata liberamente
Margaret, who introduces herself as Mar, has been in a new apartment for a year.
After divorcing her husband, she decided to sell her house and move out on her own.
She is an editor, and she is so lucky she can do her jobs whenever she wants to.
She decided to join a gym near the new house where she lives.
The book is about a year of encounters with people she meets mainly at the gym. Also recounted is her conflicted relationship with her son Michael.
The book is divided into 12 parts, each corresponding to a month and an encounter.
Most of the encounters are rapid affinity and rapid loss of interest. However, instead of simply stopping interacting with the person, she stops attending classes or areas of the gym where she has latched on to these people.
The book, from my point of view, starts out very slow and even a bit boring, but becomes something interesting from the time she interacts with Connor, a very peculiar 3-year-old child. Things happen afterwards that put her in need of more open dialogue with her son and change some things about herself.
There is a romantic story, too.
At the end of the reading, I found out that the book has a sequel “The Unexpected Guests”.
If I'm honest, I've read better; I wouldn't know whether to recommend this book or not.
I received an advance review copy for free, and I am leaving this review voluntarily.
ITA
Margaret, che si fa chiamare Mar, si trova da un anno in un nuovo appartamento. Dopo aver divorziato dal marito, ha deciso di vendere casa per andare a vivere da sola. Di lavoro fa l'editore. Vicino alla nuova casa dove abita ha deciso di iscriversi in una palestra.
Il libro racconta un anno di incontri con persone che lei incontra in palestra, principalmente. Inoltre viene raccontato il rapporto conflittuale con suo figlio Michael.
Il libro è diviso in 12 parti, ogni parte corrisponde a un mese e un incontro.
La maggior parte degli incontri sono rapida affinità e rapida perdita di interesse. Però invece di semplicemente smettere di interagire con la persona, smette di frequentare dei corsi o delle zone della palestra dove ha attaccato bottone con queste persone.
Il libro, dal mio punto di vista, parte molto lento e anche un po’ noioso, diventa qualcosa di interessante da quando interagisce con Connor, un bambino molto particolare di tipo 3 anni. A seguito succedono delle cose che la mettono in necessità di dialogare più apertamente con il figlio e di cambiare delle cose di sé stessa.
C’è una storia romantica.
Alla fine della lettura ho scoperto che il libro ha un seguito che si intitola “The Unexpected Guests”.
Se devo essere onesta ho letto di meglio, non saprei se consigliarlo o meno.
Ho ricevuto una copia gratuita. Questa recensione contiene la mia opinione ed è pubblicata liberamente
January 23, 2025
My Year of Casual Acquaintances was a surprisingly delightful read in the midst of a cold and dreary winter. It doesn't hurt that the book is set in South Bay, near the Pacific Ocean, and the protagonist enjoys long walks on the beach. It also doesn't hurt that Mar, the main character, is intelligent, adventurous, fit, witty and independent. Not bad for a middle-aged, self-absorbed divorcee who is starting her life over and trying out a handful of new friendships. Despite the casual quality of these relationships, Mar inadvertently learns something about herself during each one and gradually gains insight about herself and grows into the kind of friend and family member others begin to care about. The writing is sharp and flows well, the characters are well drawn, and the details make this novel realistic and fun. And, of course, there's a potential romance that keeps the reader turning the pages! A highly recommended read for fiction lovers!
September 28, 2024
3.5⭐️ Mar Meyer’s marriage is over after 28 years and it’s time to put the pieces of her life back together. The big relationships in her life are a mess. Her mother is distant and her son is angry, so Mar’s reinvention is shaped by virtual strangers.
MY YEAR OF CASUAL ACQUAINTANCES takes a unique approach by introducing us to a new person each month who helps Mar find her way in her new reality. Some of these characters move through her life quickly, while others establish themselves more firmly, but all of them help Mar chart her future.
I enjoyed seeing how the author wove these tangential characters into Mar’s life. It’s a good reminder that even small pebbles can create big ripples. This is a slow moving, reflective story. I was surprised at the amount of depth found in this novel and found myself wanting more at the conclusion. Fortunately Ms. Stevens gives us a glimpse at what happens after the final page with a sneak peek at a sequel.
Thank you to NetGalley and Black Rose Writing for an advance copy in exchange for my unbiased review.
MY YEAR OF CASUAL ACQUAINTANCES takes a unique approach by introducing us to a new person each month who helps Mar find her way in her new reality. Some of these characters move through her life quickly, while others establish themselves more firmly, but all of them help Mar chart her future.
I enjoyed seeing how the author wove these tangential characters into Mar’s life. It’s a good reminder that even small pebbles can create big ripples. This is a slow moving, reflective story. I was surprised at the amount of depth found in this novel and found myself wanting more at the conclusion. Fortunately Ms. Stevens gives us a glimpse at what happens after the final page with a sneak peek at a sequel.
Thank you to NetGalley and Black Rose Writing for an advance copy in exchange for my unbiased review.
November 2, 2024
My Year of Casual Acquaintances was not only a romance, but a story of how Margaret went in search of herself and found an unlikely crew of castmates in her new life adventures. Recently divorced and slightly on the outs with her son, Margaret isn't sure where she fits in the world anymore. One a quest to find her place she finds friends, new and old, love and lust, and a little sprinkling of what she doesn't want in her life. She learns to stand up for herself and those she loves, and how much value she brings to the world.
The story is left just open-ended enough that I can't wait to read what happens in the sequal!
**Thank you BookSirens and Ruth F. Stevens for sending this book for review. All opinions are my own.**
The story is left just open-ended enough that I can't wait to read what happens in the sequal!
**Thank you BookSirens and Ruth F. Stevens for sending this book for review. All opinions are my own.**
October 28, 2024
My Year of Casual Acquaintances by Ruth F. Stevens is a delightful romp through main character Margaret’s life after divorce. Stevens is so adept at character development that readers will develop their own feelings about each of the casual acquaintances in Margaret’s life and the role they play in her transition to being a single woman following her divorce. It’s a well-written fictionalized look at life’s challenges and the need to seek companionship when we are at our most vulnerable and how people who come and go in our lives may provide something that we need even if we didn’t realize we needed it. Well done!
August 14, 2024
My Year of Casual Acquaintances is so much more than the light fictional read I expected. What makes this more are the unexpected layers of content. There isn't just one dilemma that needs solving, but many, which adds to the relatability factor of the book in its entirety.
Stevens has an exceptional way of writing that is not only relatable, but also thoroughly draws the reader in as if the reader is part of the story. The characters, though in some ways seeming to be a compilation of personality traits, are also very believable. I feel as though I have met each one of these characters, in some way, in my own life.
Another unexpected, but very much appreciated, aspect of the story is how beautifully Stevens weaves the dilemmas, growth, changes and lives of the characters throughout the book. At first, I was sad that some of the characters were so short lived; then very pleasantly surprised when some were re-woven back into the story in such a way as to add greater depth and breadth to the overall story.
Finally, and a true testimony to Stevens’ talent, I could not put the book down and I cannot wait for the next book in the series! This is extremely unusual for me with a book of fiction!
Stevens has an exceptional way of writing that is not only relatable, but also thoroughly draws the reader in as if the reader is part of the story. The characters, though in some ways seeming to be a compilation of personality traits, are also very believable. I feel as though I have met each one of these characters, in some way, in my own life.
Another unexpected, but very much appreciated, aspect of the story is how beautifully Stevens weaves the dilemmas, growth, changes and lives of the characters throughout the book. At first, I was sad that some of the characters were so short lived; then very pleasantly surprised when some were re-woven back into the story in such a way as to add greater depth and breadth to the overall story.
Finally, and a true testimony to Stevens’ talent, I could not put the book down and I cannot wait for the next book in the series! This is extremely unusual for me with a book of fiction!
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August 15, 2024This novel offers a fresh and engaging perspective on one woman's journey through the emotional landscape of her first year post-divorce. Margaret’s struggle to navigate the delicate balance between forming new friendships and keeping people at arm's length out of fear of being hurt again will resonate with many divorcées.
The author skillfully weaves together a diverse cast of characters, from those grappling with life’s challenges to those basking in success. Each interaction, whether fleeting or profound, contributes to Margaret’s journey of self-discovery and personal growth.
The author skillfully weaves together a diverse cast of characters, from those grappling with life’s challenges to those basking in success. Each interaction, whether fleeting or profound, contributes to Margaret’s journey of self-discovery and personal growth.
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September 30, 2024Grab this book, get cozy, and let Ruth F. Stevens take you on an entertaining ride with "My Year of Casual Acquaintances." Margaret, the main character, has monthly adventures with different people, a year after getting divorced. Her experiences throughout the year allow her to grow in ways she couldn't have predicted. Mar shows us that the best of life can certainly be ahead of you in your fifties. I loved the steamy bits and can't wait to see how the relationship with "Sexy Eyes" unfolds in the sequel. A delightful read!
March 4, 2025
My Year of Casual Acquaintances is a well-written novel that engages the reader right from the start! The main character, Margaret, is a woman of a certain age, and I could not help but to root for her, especially as I traverse that mid-life phase myself. In each chapter, Margaret meets someone new, hence the casual acquaintances from the title. These characters remind me of all the folks we encounter over our own lives, those who might stay for a season (or more or less), those we learn from and move on in life. These "episodes" lent a fast pace to the book, and I could not put it down. Ruth Stevens knows how to write a story, and I'll definitely read more from her.
August 29, 2024
I enjoyed this novel very much.I stayed up much too late on more that one occasion trying to finish this book. (to be honest, I didnt want the book to end) The characters were well rounded. each one had believable interactions with the main character and each one left me wanting more…. The best kind of read as far as I am concerned. Now to find more books by this author as she is "new to me".
I received an advance review copy for free, and I am leaving this review voluntarily.
I received an advance review copy for free, and I am leaving this review voluntarily.
January 13, 2025
My Year of Casual Acquaintances is a touching, humorous and personal novel that resonated with me because it illustrates how a gym can become a Mecca of friendship, relationships and new horizons. I met MANY of my lifelong friends in the pursuit of my (almost) six-pack abs. At any age and under many circumstances, it can be like group therapy only with weights, treadmills, aerobics or a swim. Thank you, Ruth Stevens, for articulating my experience.
October 18, 2024
Really enjoyed this book. The beginning put me off a bit admittedly, but Mar(garet) really redeemed herself throughout the story and it was very enjoyable to read about. All of the side characters were interesting and written well. Nothing felt artificial or fake here, real stories about real people. All of the plot points were moving in some way. Loved the pace and that the writing seemed to flow naturally. Makes for a soothing read. Looking forward to reading the sequel.
August 29, 2024
This is more than just a fun and easy read. This is deep and rooted and has so many layers turning this into such a meaningful read. The characters are relatable and believable which is so important in stories like this.
October 12, 2024
As someone who is often cynical and pessimistic, I loved the relatable story of a middle-aged character reeling from rejection and trying to reinvent herself. We can all soften our hearts, and through Marg, we get to meet colorful characters who, month by month, influence her growth and shape her life's journey. Some dialogue moments are laugh-out-loud. Who can't resonate with being awkward? I am looking forward to the next one by this author.
August 15, 2024
Such a wonderful read. Depth, layered characters and a middle aged woman as the MFC? Loved it!!
October 23, 2024
Enjoy this book. Easy to relate to and connect with main character. I loved all the local references
October 27, 2024
Beautifully painted characters that are depicted with great care. Stevens has a wonderful knack for capturing the essence of a person or a moment, making all her books a pleasure to read. Highly recommend!
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