Restore Me!: But Privately, Please

by Susan Agbenoto

• Restore Me! dives right into the matter from the first Who cares for the one who gives care? You may be caught in the complex place of taking care of a congregation, a group of people, or even one while dealing with your own personal issues.



• You may be wondering why you feel empty, fatigued, not relevant to society, yet feeling the need to appear strong to others. Restore me! gives you the opportunity to honestly assess your life from the inside, not as others see you, but as you see yourself without the masks. It brings you face to face with the reality of the dichotomy between your internal struggles and your external successes, and then offers keys to breaking you free of the cage you may find yourself in.



• Through these dynamic pages Dr. Agbenoto has one-on-one sessions with you in the privacy of your home. She gives you the opportunity to identify and confront problems, prays with you, and empowers you to take the necessary next steps. Restore me! leaves you challenged, renewed in restorative hope and refreshed. Pick up your copy and begin your journey of restoration!

150 pages, Kindle Edition

Published May 13, 2024

About the author

Meet Dr. Susan Agbenoto, who will navigate your perspectives into those beyond the physical, and will inspire you to boldly identify and grasp spiritual concepts you can practically apply. Susan obtained her Doctor of Ministry degree from The United Theological Seminary, and has been serving as a lay pastor within a large church network.

Though she works with an Investment company and analyzes figures to articulate their embedded story, she still finds time to immerse herself in reading and fine-tuning various literary pieces and half-jokingly declares that “there is always more to write, but a book must have an end.” Apart from writing, Dr. Agbenoto has been invited to speak in both religious and corporate forums. Outside of her writing adventures, Dr. Agbenoto likes to travel and experience the authenticity of other places, especially places with rich ecclesiastical narratives.

Her curiosity, faith, and love for God and his Word, immerses you into a place of restorative hope and renewal. Her conversational tone while explaining practical spiritual concepts make her books easy to read. Dr. Agbenoto’s intertwining passions of prayer and the study of theology, translates into a tangible encounter with the divine as you read, leaving you intellectually stimulated, spiritually refreshed and wanting more.

Reviews

[Nerdybibliophilee]

In “Restore Me!”, Dr. Susan Agbenoto explores the unspoken challenges faced by caregivers and leaders who continually give to others, only to feel depleted, invisible, and unappreciated, offering a deeply personal and transformative reading experience.

This book’s unique impact lies in its ability to resonate deeply with individuals struggling to maintain a facade while facing personal struggles, as Dr. Agbenoto’s empathetic yet pragmatic approach empowers readers to shed their pretenses and address their inner turmoil, providing a sense of personalized guidance and mentorship.

The book offers profound insights through prayers and exercises that foster introspection, with a particularly impactful exploration of the disconnect between inner turmoil and outward achievement, a common yet often unspoken experience that Dr. Agbenoto tackles with a refreshingly empathetic approach, making readers feel acknowledged and understood.

Whether you’re a caregiver, leader, or individual facing life’s challenges, Restore Me! provides a comprehensive guide to healing, offering both spiritual and practical tools to support your journey toward wholeness, and encouraging you to prioritize rest and restoration without guilt.

For those who have sacrificed their own well-being for the benefit of others and are now in need of rejuvenation, Dr. Agbenoto’s guide offers a thoughtful and empowering solution, making it a crucial read for anyone struggling with exhaustion or feeling overwhelmed.

[Deep Choudhary]

*Restore Me!* dives right into the matter from the very first line: “Who cares for the one who gives care?” With this bold question, Dr. Susan Agbenoto immediately speaks to those who may feel burdened with the weight of taking care of a congregation, a group, or even a single person, all while managing their own personal struggles. The book invites readers who have found themselves in this complex and often lonely role to look inward, to reflect deeply, and to allow themselves the permission to be honest about their own needs, vulnerabilities, and challenges.

This powerful work resonates with anyone who has ever wondered, *Why do I feel empty, fatigued, and irrelevant, yet compelled to put on a brave face for others?* Dr. Agbenoto gives you the opportunity to assess your life not through the lens of what others expect or see, but through your own eyes—free of any masks or facades. Through a compassionate and empathetic voice, she brings readers face to face with the internal conflict between outward success and inner struggle. She explores the reality of this dichotomy, acknowledging the loneliness that caregivers often feel, as they work tirelessly to support others while managing their own hidden battles.

In these dynamic pages, Dr. Agbenoto creates a unique, private experience for readers, as though she’s sitting with you in a one-on-one session within the safe space of your own home. She skillfully leads you through a process of identifying and confronting deeply rooted issues, offering prayers and practical insights for healing. Each chapter reads like an intimate conversation, as Dr. Agbenoto gently guides you to take the necessary next steps toward reclaiming your strength and sense of self. Her words are deeply comforting and encouraging, challenging you to go beyond surface solutions to find a path of true restoration.

By the end of *Restore Me!*, readers are left feeling not only refreshed and renewed but also empowered to take control of their own healing journey. This book is more than a self-help guide; it’s a personal roadmap to hope and restoration. For anyone ready to break free from the exhausting cycle of caregiving without support, *Restore Me!* offers the tools and encouragement to begin a transformative journey. Pick up your copy and allow Dr. Agbenoto to lead you toward a life that is not just about caring for others but also about restoring and caring for yourself.

[Gee Readssss]

Restore Me! : But In Privately Please (The People Cannot Know) is a Christian inspirational book written by the author Dr. Susan Agbenoto, published in May 2023. This book serves as a profound and compassionate resource for individuals engaged in caregiving, leadership, or ministry who are grappling with their own personal difficulties. Dr. Agbenoto tackles this sensitive topic with a deep awareness of the emotional and spiritual exhaustion that can engulf those who consistently prioritize the needs of others, often neglecting their own well-being. The narrative begins with a poignant and thought-provoking question: “Who tends to the caregiver?” This establishes a framework for a frank examination of the inner struggles experienced by leaders, caregivers, and anyone feeling the burden to maintain a façade of strength while confronting their own weaknesses. Dr. Agbenoto recognizes the frequently ignored truth that those who act as foundational support for others may themselves require healing, a theme that permeates the text. The book provides valuable insights through prayers and activities that encourage self-reflection, delving into the often unspoken disconnect between personal distress and outward success, a prevalent experience that Dr. Agbenoto approaches with a refreshingly compassionate perspective, helping readers feel seen and understood. Whether you are a caregiver, leader, or someone facing life’s hurdles, Restore Me! offers a thorough resource for healing, equipping you with both spiritual and practical strategies to aid your journey towards wholeness, while advocating for the importance of rest and rejuvenation without feelings of guilt. For those who have given up their own well-being for the sake of others and now seek revitalization, Dr. Agbenoto’s guide presents a thoughtful and empowering answer, making it an essential read for anyone dealing with exhaustion or feeling overwhelmed. At a concise 150 pages, it’s an ideal choice for those intrigued by this genre. Highly recommended from my side.

[Diya Ramwani]

Restore Me! is more than a book; it’s a lifeline for anyone who feels caught in the paradox of caring for others while neglecting their own emotional and spiritual health. Dr. Susan Agbenoto speaks directly to caregivers, leaders, and individuals who feel the weight of appearing strong while battling inner struggles. The book’s opening question—“Who cares for the one who gives care?”—pierces through societal expectations, inviting readers to confront their hidden pain without shame. This raw honesty sets the tone for a journey that is as healing as it is eye-opening.

What makes Restore Me! so powerful is its personalized approach. Dr. Agbenoto doesn’t just tell you what to do—she walks with you. Each chapter feels like a one-on-one counseling session, filled with relatable anecdotes, reflective questions, and heartfelt prayers. The book emphasizes authenticity, urging readers to take off the masks and face their inner selves. It’s not just a guide; it’s a mirror that reflects your true emotions and provides practical steps toward healing. The balance between spirituality and practical advice is beautifully done, making it accessible and impactful.

This book is a gift for anyone feeling drained, overlooked, or out of touch with themselves. It doesn’t just leave you with hope; it equips you with tools to rebuild your life from the inside out. By the last page, you feel renewed, empowered, and ready to prioritize your well-being without guilt. If you’re in need of restoration or know someone who is, this book is an absolute must-read.

[Maria]

I honestly didn’t realize how much I needed this book until I started reading it. Restore Me! speaks to the people who are always showing up for others but sometimes forget to take care of themselves. Dr. Agbenoto’s words felt encouraging and comforting, like advice from someone who truly understands the challenges of life. This book gave me a lot to reflect on and reminded me that it’s okay to need restoration too.

[Lily Brown]

What I enjoyed most about Restore Me! was how real the message felt. It doesn’t pretend that life is always easy, but it offers hope and encouragement for moving forward. Dr. Agbenoto writes with compassion and understanding, making the reader feel seen and supported. This is a book that many people can connect with, especially during difficult seasons.

[Chris]

There were many moments in this book where I felt like the author was speaking directly to my own experiences. It’s easy to focus on helping others and forget that we also need time to heal and recharge. I loved the reminder that asking for restoration is not a weakness. This book is filled with wisdom, encouragement, and a message that stays with you.

[Grace]

There were many moments in this book where I felt like the author was speaking directly to my own experiences. It’s easy to focus on helping others and forget that we also need time to heal and recharge. I loved the reminder that asking for restoration is not a weakness. This book is filled with wisdom, encouragement, and a message that stays with you.

[Debra Lynch]

Highly recommend!

[Ismael Yanes]

This book really made me stop and think about the things we often keep hidden from others. I appreciated the honesty and the reminder that even people who look strong on the outside can be struggling internally. The message is heartfelt and relatable, and I found myself going back to certain parts because they really spoke to me. A meaningful read for anyone who has been carrying a lot quietly.