Hello Flower: A real life story of narcissistic love and invisible abuse

by Martina Gruppo

A memoir documenting a narcissistic love story spanning several decades.

Self-deprecating, heartbreaking and sometimes funny, this is ultimately a realistic and revealing insight into how even the strongest person can be susceptible to the most insidious form of abuse—and yet find the courage to walk away and shine again.

258 pages, Kindle Edition

Published May 25, 2024

Reviews

[Ellen MY · Rating 5 out of 5]

Reading this story is like watching videos of surfers being towed out in turbulent surf to ride impossibly enormous waves, like they do off the coast of Portugal. You know, since the video has already been posted without a leading headline about disaster, that the surfer will come out the other side of that washing machine surf, but you still hold your breath. That’s how I felt reading this. Martina Gruppo has a gift for storytelling. She’s led an amazing life of adventure and risk taking, and has suffered through loss and grief, but still manages to stand back up again, dust herself off, and power forward once again. Self publishing is yet another risky adventure but here we are! I hope that a publisher picks up this book and sees it for what her readers do.

[steffi Seitz · Rating 5 out of 5]

A hard story but enlightening

This is a hard story to read but is insightful to those who are dealing with abusive relationships with a narcissist.

This non fiction book tells the story of this abuse and how she finally got out of it and resumed her life.

[Amy · Rating 3 out of 5]

this was a very hard read.

[Literary Titan · Rating 5 out of 5]

Hello Flower: A Real Life Story of Narcissistic Love and Invisible Abuse, by Martina Gruppo, is a compelling and insightful non-fiction biographical account that delves into the pervasive and insidious nature of narcissistic abuse. Gruppo's narrative is a stark reminder that narcissism, an often unseen and underestimated form of abuse, can ensnare even the most resilient individuals. The subtlety and unpredictability of this psychological manipulation make it a particularly dangerous form of harm.

In Hello Flower, Gruppo provides victims and readers with the tools to recognize and recover from narcissistic abuse, offering practical advice for those currently in abusive relationships or those who have managed to break free. Her writing is raw and genuine, showcasing her talent as a storyteller and her bravery in recounting her own harrowing experiences of manipulation, humiliation, and mental abuse at the hands of a narcissist. Gruppo's candid reflection on her youthful naivety adds a poignant layer of vulnerability to her story. Gruppo's publicized recounting of her experiences is both urgent and captivating, making the book a gripping read. Her words serve as a soothing balm for those who have endured similar trauma, helping them to identify and understand the disorder. She encapsulates the despair of dealing with a narcissist in a powerful statement: “It doesn’t matter what you do, say, how you dress, or how hard you try—you simply aren’t there. You don't matter.” This painful truth, especially when the narcissist is a close family member or partner, is the first step toward healing.

This book is an invaluable resource for anyone seeking to understand narcissism and its effects. Gruppo's work is not only an educational tool but also a guide for those looking to reclaim their lives and self-worth after enduring narcissistic abuse. Her insights and encouragement help readers emerge stronger and ready to live life to the fullest.

I highly recommend Hello Flower to anyone seeking to learn about narcissistic abuse or to find solace and guidance on their path to recovery. Martina Gruppo's book is a testament to resilience and a beacon of hope for those striving to heal from invisible wounds.