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Dance Lovers Collection
It Takes Three To Tango
They say it takes two to tango, but for us, three is the magic number.
When I was sent to Barcelona to be with my ageing aunt, I wasn’t thinking about love and romance, let alone falling in love with two men. But I never imagined men like Rafe and Constantin existed. Older Constantin with his quiet, intense demeanour and voice that entraps me, and Rafe whose sweet expansiveness hits me harder and quicker than I ever thought possible. When Constantin’s bar needs repairing, we realise my life and Rafe's betrayed, wounded heart also need some tender love and care. It’s then I start believing the only way we can fix all of it is together . . . the three of us.
Three men from different countries, shaped by different experiences, and with varying visions of life are brought together by the need for companionship. Set against the backdrop of Gaudi’s city, It Takes Three To Tango is the story of three men who discover each other and learn the meaning of life and love. Add in an indomitable ageing star, tango dancing, Spanish lessons, and a dash of silk, and it’s going to be the journey of a lifetime.
When I was sent to Barcelona to be with my ageing aunt, I wasn’t thinking about love and romance, let alone falling in love with two men. But I never imagined men like Rafe and Constantin existed. Older Constantin with his quiet, intense demeanour and voice that entraps me, and Rafe whose sweet expansiveness hits me harder and quicker than I ever thought possible. When Constantin’s bar needs repairing, we realise my life and Rafe's betrayed, wounded heart also need some tender love and care. It’s then I start believing the only way we can fix all of it is together . . . the three of us.
Three men from different countries, shaped by different experiences, and with varying visions of life are brought together by the need for companionship. Set against the backdrop of Gaudi’s city, It Takes Three To Tango is the story of three men who discover each other and learn the meaning of life and love. Add in an indomitable ageing star, tango dancing, Spanish lessons, and a dash of silk, and it’s going to be the journey of a lifetime.
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Published December 15, 2024
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December 10, 2024
Overall I really enjoyed this book. It's the first book of this author I've read. I received the book as an ARC and wanted to get my review out quickly! I really enjoyed all the characters. Going into their personal traumas was interesting and I enjoyed how we got to see them all bloom into more confidence. I always love the daddy cliché and age differences. I like that he's a widower. I appreciate that the books are low angst but boy was I stressed briefly even though I was sure it would resolve. Florencio is such a cute and sassy bottom and I love his personality and appreciate that he's a power bottom. I love the straight in denial. I felt I related to Rafe a lot. He's such a cute character. I like how the relationship got introduced and the lack of coincidence in the beginning. I think it was well thought out and cute. Also Estrella is a beautiful queen. She's the linchpin I think. The story is in first person from each of the throuples perspective, but I find I quite like it. I like seeing more insight into the individual thoughts and feelings. Constantin kept pulling on my heartstrings. I hope to see fanart of them all someday soon.
My only complaints are simple ones:
One is that viruses aren't treated with antibiotics but that's just a little medical thing from my side. And the other is I kind of wish the timeline was more explained? I felt like I was never too sure until the end how much time had passed between interactions. But that might just be a me thing. I'm also just a big baby and the angst almost made me cry but I know it's needed for plot! It wasn't too difficult of a resolution, so I'm very pleased by it.
I've never done a review for an ARC before so I apologize if it's a bit sporadic and messy! But overall I enjoyed the book and the spice scenes were very enjoyable. Can't wait to read more books from them in the future.
My only complaints are simple ones:
One is that viruses aren't treated with antibiotics but that's just a little medical thing from my side. And the other is I kind of wish the timeline was more explained? I felt like I was never too sure until the end how much time had passed between interactions. But that might just be a me thing. I'm also just a big baby and the angst almost made me cry but I know it's needed for plot! It wasn't too difficult of a resolution, so I'm very pleased by it.
I've never done a review for an ARC before so I apologize if it's a bit sporadic and messy! But overall I enjoyed the book and the spice scenes were very enjoyable. Can't wait to read more books from them in the future.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
December 28, 2024
A Joyfully Jay review.
3.75 stars
This is the first book I have read by author Jem Wendel and it has a really nice feel to it. It is the second book in the Dance Lovers collection and I had not read the first one and this works fine on its own. The story offers POVs from all three men, as we get acquainted with Rafe, Constantin, and Florencio. The men are balanced on page, as the chapters rotate between each character. They are all looking for something or someone, but none of them truly know what that might be.
I did like the setting and the warm tone the narrative offered for all three men and I would look into more from this author in the future.
Read Michelle's review in its entirety here.
3.75 stars
This is the first book I have read by author Jem Wendel and it has a really nice feel to it. It is the second book in the Dance Lovers collection and I had not read the first one and this works fine on its own. The story offers POVs from all three men, as we get acquainted with Rafe, Constantin, and Florencio. The men are balanced on page, as the chapters rotate between each character. They are all looking for something or someone, but none of them truly know what that might be.
I did like the setting and the warm tone the narrative offered for all three men and I would look into more from this author in the future.
Read Michelle's review in its entirety here.
December 8, 2024
It takes three to Tango is the second book in the Dance Lovers Collection series. It is a mmm , with age gap set in Barcelona (Spain). The characters are very well developed and the writing is good.
Rafe is an English writer who has been dumped by his fiancée and is in Barcelona “enjoying” his honey moon, but alone. Not only has he lost his fiancée, but also a contract with her father's publishing house.
Constantin is a widower who owns a tango bar in Barcelona, who has lost the illusion of finding love again.
Florencio is an Argentinian boy, financially dominated by his father, who has been sent to watch over his aunt, a former celebrity.
The three men coincide in that bar and by circumstances of life end up living in Florencio's aunt's house.
This is the kind of mmm I like, the three have no previous relationships, they communicate, they agree on how to carry out their relationship.
I have to say that it is set in my country, not in the city where I live, although I know it. I want to give a round of applause to whoever helped the author with the expressions in Spanish. Don't worry, everything is translated. Also with the food and drink. It is very well set in the city, showing monuments.
Rafe is an English writer who has been dumped by his fiancée and is in Barcelona “enjoying” his honey moon, but alone. Not only has he lost his fiancée, but also a contract with her father's publishing house.
Constantin is a widower who owns a tango bar in Barcelona, who has lost the illusion of finding love again.
Florencio is an Argentinian boy, financially dominated by his father, who has been sent to watch over his aunt, a former celebrity.
The three men coincide in that bar and by circumstances of life end up living in Florencio's aunt's house.
This is the kind of mmm I like, the three have no previous relationships, they communicate, they agree on how to carry out their relationship.
I have to say that it is set in my country, not in the city where I live, although I know it. I want to give a round of applause to whoever helped the author with the expressions in Spanish. Don't worry, everything is translated. Also with the food and drink. It is very well set in the city, showing monuments.
December 21, 2024
What an absolutely brilliant read
Firstly, let me say I’ve got this book from gay romance reviews, and this is me leaving my honest review.
This is a brand-new author to me, and I am so thankful to find them. I thoroughly enjoyed the storyline and how different all three main characters are.
We start with Rafe who had just been told on the eve of his wedding, that his bride no longer wanted him, but also with that he lost a contract for his books as he was going to be published by the fathers company, so Rafe was in a bad place. He decided to go to Barcelona which had been booked for their honeymoon, but he just needed time away. He had found a pub that he felt very relaxed and he could read his books with a nice glass of wine, beautiful music And this is where he meets Constantine.
Constantine is a widow. He had lost his husband to cancer, and he decided to continue their dream of owning a pub with live music and good wine, but he has been 10 years since he lost his husband, and he was just living in limbo. But there was something that had him wanting to spend time with the Englishman. Con played the piano and sang in a band and after seeing this gentleman many times in his bar he decided to join him for a drink. But that night didn’t end the way he wished and he really has chased Englishman away. But the next night he is back again, but this time he draws the attention of a beautiful young man and this stirs up confusion in Constantine.
Florencio had always been a disappointment to his father, who reminded him of this all the time. 1 he was gay 2 He wanted to teach dancing, so to his father, he was expendable. When Florencio’s father contact him to tell him he needs to leave Argentina to fly to Barcelona. His great aunt is dying, and everyone else in the family is important and busy. Florencio is given four hours to be at the airport. One evening as he is exploring Barcelona he comes across a pub that he can hear proper Tango music being played. And this is where he meets Rafe. He goes to ask him to dance, but he is quickly told that he is straight. Florencio quickly tells him that a dance is very different to a hook up. And they start to talk and this is when Constantine comes over to apologise to Rafe for the night before. And this is where their friendship starts, even tho Constantin and Florencio are honest with themselves about the attraction they feel for Rafe. Florencio auntie decide to invite both men over for dinner and this is where the conversation comes up about Rafes return to England.
This is a beautiful story about a man learning to believe, and trust in the feelings that he’s feeling for two other men. He had never been attracted to a man before that but accepted what he was feeling right now. Constantine doesn’t believe that he would find love again, so to have these feelings now was confusing. Could he trust his feelings?? And then we have. Florencio Who is a beautiful man. Who needs to accept that Family is not always through Blood. That the men in his life will be there to support him to comfort him to understand him and accept him for who he is. This is a fantastic read. It is a little bit of a slow burn, but you totally understand why. They have the passion and the connection that these three men have is just outstanding and another main character is the auntie Estella who is just a Spitfire who you know you could talk to for days on end and still never be bored. She Tells it how it is and lives every second. A brilliant read. I am so excited to read more from this author. This book is an easy five star rating. Absolutely couldn’t put the book down and found myself reading it through the night.
Firstly, let me say I’ve got this book from gay romance reviews, and this is me leaving my honest review.
This is a brand-new author to me, and I am so thankful to find them. I thoroughly enjoyed the storyline and how different all three main characters are.
We start with Rafe who had just been told on the eve of his wedding, that his bride no longer wanted him, but also with that he lost a contract for his books as he was going to be published by the fathers company, so Rafe was in a bad place. He decided to go to Barcelona which had been booked for their honeymoon, but he just needed time away. He had found a pub that he felt very relaxed and he could read his books with a nice glass of wine, beautiful music And this is where he meets Constantine.
Constantine is a widow. He had lost his husband to cancer, and he decided to continue their dream of owning a pub with live music and good wine, but he has been 10 years since he lost his husband, and he was just living in limbo. But there was something that had him wanting to spend time with the Englishman. Con played the piano and sang in a band and after seeing this gentleman many times in his bar he decided to join him for a drink. But that night didn’t end the way he wished and he really has chased Englishman away. But the next night he is back again, but this time he draws the attention of a beautiful young man and this stirs up confusion in Constantine.
Florencio had always been a disappointment to his father, who reminded him of this all the time. 1 he was gay 2 He wanted to teach dancing, so to his father, he was expendable. When Florencio’s father contact him to tell him he needs to leave Argentina to fly to Barcelona. His great aunt is dying, and everyone else in the family is important and busy. Florencio is given four hours to be at the airport. One evening as he is exploring Barcelona he comes across a pub that he can hear proper Tango music being played. And this is where he meets Rafe. He goes to ask him to dance, but he is quickly told that he is straight. Florencio quickly tells him that a dance is very different to a hook up. And they start to talk and this is when Constantine comes over to apologise to Rafe for the night before. And this is where their friendship starts, even tho Constantin and Florencio are honest with themselves about the attraction they feel for Rafe. Florencio auntie decide to invite both men over for dinner and this is where the conversation comes up about Rafes return to England.
This is a beautiful story about a man learning to believe, and trust in the feelings that he’s feeling for two other men. He had never been attracted to a man before that but accepted what he was feeling right now. Constantine doesn’t believe that he would find love again, so to have these feelings now was confusing. Could he trust his feelings?? And then we have. Florencio Who is a beautiful man. Who needs to accept that Family is not always through Blood. That the men in his life will be there to support him to comfort him to understand him and accept him for who he is. This is a fantastic read. It is a little bit of a slow burn, but you totally understand why. They have the passion and the connection that these three men have is just outstanding and another main character is the auntie Estella who is just a Spitfire who you know you could talk to for days on end and still never be bored. She Tells it how it is and lives every second. A brilliant read. I am so excited to read more from this author. This book is an easy five star rating. Absolutely couldn’t put the book down and found myself reading it through the night.
December 8, 2024
When you see a dance and it inspires you, you have seen something amazing.
When the author announced the second book in their dance series and gave a brief overview I was intrigued. But sometimes the most amazing things happen, like world renowned dancers giving us this book just as I am reading it. My social media was flooded with videos of Derek Hough and Mark Ballas dancing the tango the same week I was reading this book, I call that serendipity.
It Takes Three to Tango is a beautiful story of three lost souls finding their way together through friendship, food, music and yes dance.
Rafe after a broken wedding, goes on his honeymoon. Constantin, a widower, believes you can only find love once and has dedicated his life to running the tango and bar he built with his husband. And Florencio, the “odd man” in his family sent to Barcelona to take care of his dying great aunt, more like spy and try to get all her money for his father.
These three unlikely men meet and become friends. They discover lost muses, their lost passions and a chance a lightning striking a second time.
When the author announced the second book in their dance series and gave a brief overview I was intrigued. But sometimes the most amazing things happen, like world renowned dancers giving us this book just as I am reading it. My social media was flooded with videos of Derek Hough and Mark Ballas dancing the tango the same week I was reading this book, I call that serendipity.
It Takes Three to Tango is a beautiful story of three lost souls finding their way together through friendship, food, music and yes dance.
Rafe after a broken wedding, goes on his honeymoon. Constantin, a widower, believes you can only find love once and has dedicated his life to running the tango and bar he built with his husband. And Florencio, the “odd man” in his family sent to Barcelona to take care of his dying great aunt, more like spy and try to get all her money for his father.
These three unlikely men meet and become friends. They discover lost muses, their lost passions and a chance a lightning striking a second time.
December 7, 2024
This was so gorgeous! A delicious slow burn with hurt/comfort and tonnes of sweet moments with the backdrop of Barcelona and tango dancing.
The connection and chemistry between Florencio, Constantin and Rafe was beautiful, their communication especially at the beginning of the relationship while they navigated who the three of them would work was fabulous (not something you get all the time with MMM, but with Rafe’s sexual awakening it made it all the more important).
The connection and chemistry between Florencio, Constantin and Rafe was beautiful, their communication especially at the beginning of the relationship while they navigated who the three of them would work was fabulous (not something you get all the time with MMM, but with Rafe’s sexual awakening it made it all the more important).
December 9, 2024
A lovely slow-burn romance in a beautiful setting and very well-written. I enjoyed this story a lot and loved how naturally the 3 MC's feelings developed for each other and how perfectly they fit together. All 3 had distinct attributes and personalities that complimented each other well and the patience Flo and Con had for Rafe was sweet. The addition of Estrella as the catalyst for these 3 spending so much time together was great and she had a major impact on each of the MCs from beginning to end. There was some family and relational angst, especially towards the end but the epilogues were perfect to conclude this story.
December 6, 2024
Jem does it again but takes it to the next level. Once I knew this story was in the works I wanted a piece of it. My first introduction to Jem was through the world of ballroom with two amazing friends to partners to lovers. So when I read there would be a second book with three strangers, the sensual element of the tango, silk and an awakening, I was all in. Well we were given the poly book for the last half of the year. These 3 men are so different but so perfect for one another. They reach have hurts that have followed and defined them but once they are ready, it's a perfectly coordinated dance, though not without a misstep or two. In the end the world has a way of bringing together like souls to form a perfect triad.
An author, a bar owning pianist and a tango teacher he who have different backgrounds, cultural differences, language limitations and varying capacities for love.
Rafe is a low-key British author who has a broken marriage, a broken contract and a broken spirit. He dashed off to Barcelona solo hoping to gain some perspective and come up with a plan for the rest of his life.
He wanders into the Tango bar owned by Con in honor of his husband who died many years ago from a quick and devastating cancer diagnosis. Con has poured his entire being into Valery's. His own area that is his own is playing and singing while others dance. He doesn't mind being on the sidelines of the dance as he is deeply connected with the movement and an essential part of the dance. He's a native Spaniard though not from Barcelona, he has wine in his blood but his passions led him to forge his own path.
Flo/Cio is an Argentinian Tango dancer/teacher who was forced to Barcelona by his familial obligations by his father who lords over his family. He needs to infiltrate his aunt's life who is dying but has amassed great wealth. He has no desire to fall in line with his father's wishes, herather enjoys the company of his aunt and is soon to learn there is more to her than meets the eye. He first encounters Rare asking him to dance. Rafe believes himself to be straights and blurts out as much. But Tango isn't gender specific, dancing is just dancing. It's a way to connect and be together. Through this interaction Con is added to the mix and a friendship is forged.
When Flo's aunt offers her home to host a dinner, the three men are set on a course that will change their lives. Things that get each knew will never be the same. But thanks to the will to want to thrive creates a glue to support and love more deeply. Auntie as Aunt Estrella( who is so freaking fabulous) prefers to be known is more than nonagenarian, she a former Hollywood starlet of those glorious days of old. Rafe and Con immediately know how amazing it is to be in her presence. The bonds are forming but none of the men know what to do. Flo knows he falling deeply for Rafe but he intrigued by Con. Con has hidden in heart behind the steel of his grief for Valery. Not only is he not ready to share his heart, he thought it impossible for cupid to strike again let alone twice. He is unsure how to proceed, how to fit in with these two you get men, will they even want what he has to offer. Rafe is at a loss. He's attracted to not one but two gorgeous men. He's never ever felt this toward any man. He's quickly learning that Barcelona bringing out the very best parts of him. He's ready leap in with both feet and he could care less about the fallout.
One of the greatest aspect of this story is the communication. It takes the story from sensual and explorative to real. How does one share? When you are all in and not quite all the way with another, how can you thrive? Can love grow and be equally shared. Can everyone find their role while ensuring the needs of all parties are met. These conversations all happen. While not always perfect, the ability to want to check in with all parties is beautiful to see. There are a few missteps to start and lots of thinking to be had but when the dance begins you won't but be able to look away. These three heat it up but in a way that makes sense for a virgin, a celibate widower and their bossy power bottom. The evolution from touches to kisses to exploring with silk and learning to give and receive makes for many a cold shower moment.
However this isn't a romance without flaws. While one tragedy brings the men physically closer together another threatens to keep them apart for good. While the love is strong, the love is meant for three not two. Each man must stand up for themselves in their own ways in order to fully present to one another. I normally do not love the book focusing on things beyond the romance but it actually enhanced the storylines that each man had a fully thought out background and things that needed to be resolved before the love could be shared. It also have a clearer picture of our MMCs .
You will not want miss this story. Pre-order, add it to your Want to Read list and on release day, take PTO because once you crack it open it will be hard to put down. Jem has easily become a 1-Click author in my book. If you are new to poly, this is a great way to see how easily and organically love with three can work. If you adore poly MM as much as I do, then you will love this story with no established coupling. I do not give out 5 stars without true consideration even for authors I love. But I have no notes, no flaws that killed my view of a character or situation. All I can say is keep the Dance Lovers coming!!!
An author, a bar owning pianist and a tango teacher he who have different backgrounds, cultural differences, language limitations and varying capacities for love.
Rafe is a low-key British author who has a broken marriage, a broken contract and a broken spirit. He dashed off to Barcelona solo hoping to gain some perspective and come up with a plan for the rest of his life.
He wanders into the Tango bar owned by Con in honor of his husband who died many years ago from a quick and devastating cancer diagnosis. Con has poured his entire being into Valery's. His own area that is his own is playing and singing while others dance. He doesn't mind being on the sidelines of the dance as he is deeply connected with the movement and an essential part of the dance. He's a native Spaniard though not from Barcelona, he has wine in his blood but his passions led him to forge his own path.
Flo/Cio is an Argentinian Tango dancer/teacher who was forced to Barcelona by his familial obligations by his father who lords over his family. He needs to infiltrate his aunt's life who is dying but has amassed great wealth. He has no desire to fall in line with his father's wishes, herather enjoys the company of his aunt and is soon to learn there is more to her than meets the eye. He first encounters Rare asking him to dance. Rafe believes himself to be straights and blurts out as much. But Tango isn't gender specific, dancing is just dancing. It's a way to connect and be together. Through this interaction Con is added to the mix and a friendship is forged.
When Flo's aunt offers her home to host a dinner, the three men are set on a course that will change their lives. Things that get each knew will never be the same. But thanks to the will to want to thrive creates a glue to support and love more deeply. Auntie as Aunt Estrella( who is so freaking fabulous) prefers to be known is more than nonagenarian, she a former Hollywood starlet of those glorious days of old. Rafe and Con immediately know how amazing it is to be in her presence. The bonds are forming but none of the men know what to do. Flo knows he falling deeply for Rafe but he intrigued by Con. Con has hidden in heart behind the steel of his grief for Valery. Not only is he not ready to share his heart, he thought it impossible for cupid to strike again let alone twice. He is unsure how to proceed, how to fit in with these two you get men, will they even want what he has to offer. Rafe is at a loss. He's attracted to not one but two gorgeous men. He's never ever felt this toward any man. He's quickly learning that Barcelona bringing out the very best parts of him. He's ready leap in with both feet and he could care less about the fallout.
One of the greatest aspect of this story is the communication. It takes the story from sensual and explorative to real. How does one share? When you are all in and not quite all the way with another, how can you thrive? Can love grow and be equally shared. Can everyone find their role while ensuring the needs of all parties are met. These conversations all happen. While not always perfect, the ability to want to check in with all parties is beautiful to see. There are a few missteps to start and lots of thinking to be had but when the dance begins you won't but be able to look away. These three heat it up but in a way that makes sense for a virgin, a celibate widower and their bossy power bottom. The evolution from touches to kisses to exploring with silk and learning to give and receive makes for many a cold shower moment.
However this isn't a romance without flaws. While one tragedy brings the men physically closer together another threatens to keep them apart for good. While the love is strong, the love is meant for three not two. Each man must stand up for themselves in their own ways in order to fully present to one another. I normally do not love the book focusing on things beyond the romance but it actually enhanced the storylines that each man had a fully thought out background and things that needed to be resolved before the love could be shared. It also have a clearer picture of our MMCs .
You will not want miss this story. Pre-order, add it to your Want to Read list and on release day, take PTO because once you crack it open it will be hard to put down. Jem has easily become a 1-Click author in my book. If you are new to poly, this is a great way to see how easily and organically love with three can work. If you adore poly MM as much as I do, then you will love this story with no established coupling. I do not give out 5 stars without true consideration even for authors I love. But I have no notes, no flaws that killed my view of a character or situation. All I can say is keep the Dance Lovers coming!!!
December 14, 2024
It Takes Three to Tango by Jem Wendel is the second book in her Dance Lovers collection. It is the story of three men, each bringing past baggage to Barcelona who meet and over time form a loving relationship. Rafe Anderson has come to Barcelona on what should have been his honeymoon but his ex-fiancé left him right before the wedding. He is a writer who also lost his writing contract because it was with her father’s publishing company and he is adrift about what he is going to do next. He wanders the streets and finds himself listening to tango music from a piano at Casa de Valery which is owned and run by Constantin Marin. Constantin had found the love of his life in his husband Valery and they had been very happy together until he got sick and died leaving Constantin bereft. The bar had been Valery’s dream and Constantin was going to make sure it came true and has been doing so by working constantly there ever since. He also believes that you only get true love only once in your life so he hasn’t been looking for anyone else. Florencio Delgado has been living in Buenos Aires teaching tango lessons and getting an allowance from his father who owns a media empire. He has been a great disappointment to his family because he doesn’t want anything to do with the business and he also likes men. His father basically supports him so when he sends him to Barcelona to see his great-aunt Estrella, he has no choice to go. He’s there to check up on her because she is old and not well and his father wants to make sure she isn’t leaving all her money to anyone but him. Estrella was famous in her own right and knew many people and lived a glorious lifestyle. She now lives in a 1920’s mansion with her helper, Juana. Florencia is also walking the streets of Barcelona when he goes into Constantin’s bar and sees Rafe. He finds himself attracted to him and asks him to dance, but Rafe tells him he’s straight. This starts a conversation between them and Constantin where Rafe tells them he is an author and what has happened to him, Florencio tells why he is in Barcelona, and Constantin says he is related to the Ortero wine family but most aren’t nice people. When Florencio returns home, he tells his aunt about the two men he met and she tells him to invite them to dinner. This starts a series of dates where they tour Barcelona, get to know one another and also Estrella, Florencio starts teaching Rafe the tango while Constantin plays the piano, and they all find themselves attracted to each other. When Rafe is supposed to go home Estrella tells him he is welcome to stay with them which he does, as does Constantin when something happens at the bar and it needs remodeling before it can be opened again. This leads Rafe to find an idea for a new book and they help him out with the research. Rafe is developing feelings for both men and Constantin kisses him. When he tells Florencio he is upset but he also begins to get feelings for Constantin which leads to more kissing between all of them and then on to some hot love scenes. Then something happens that causes Constantin to pull away and Rafe has to go back to England because his mother is ill, which leaves Florencio bereft because he thinks they won’t be coming back and he knows he loves them. Luckily things get solved and they realize they belong together and love each other. I really enjoyed this book. Each man had a complicated past that they brought to the relationship. Rafe was usually sunny and willing to jump into anything that came along although he worried about his future. Florencio was bothered by his relationship with his family but became very close with Estrella and she showed him her love. Constantin thought he had lost any chance at love, plus he was 20 years older than the other two so he was sure that he could never be in a relationship with them. Each of these things made the men stronger and they realized they belonged together. Estrella was a driving force in the events in the story and I especially liked what happened in the epilogues when she showed them how much she cared for them. I highly recommend this book, especially if you like stories about 3 men who bring battered pasts with them into a relationship but find that this helps them to be better partners as they fall in love together.
December 22, 2024
This book caught my attention from the first pages and drew me in quickly. I found all the MCs interesting, each in their own right and with their own baggage in tow. Constantine still mourns the loss of his husband ten years ago, living his life around the tango bar they planned in Barcelona, Spain. Rafe is a author, reeling from his wedding being called off the day before it and is now in Barcelona on what should have been his honeymoon, without a wife and without the book deal for his upcoming book series. Florencio finds himself sent to Barcelona from Argentina with 4 hours notice, charged with finding out what is in his great aunt’s will for his father. The three meet in Constantine’s bar, and through a series of events, all end up living with Florencio’s aunt Estrella, where they all act on the attraction between them, trying to figure out if a triad is what they want and can they work it out. All does not go smoothly in the romance department, as there are outside forces at work on each man to increase the stress levels and questioning for each, but the tango is one thing that does hold them together. The relationship that each one has with Estrella is heart-warming to observe, as this dying woman enjoys their company and the companionship it offers as they learn more about her and her fascinating life. The three men together realize a sense of home, safety and security is present when they are together, the missing parts of themselves are filled with each other the more time they spend together as the feelings deepen into love.
The romance is a slowly moving one, Rafe never having had an attraction to any man before, but once he accepts it is there, he enthusiastically embraces learning more from his two men, and they are more than willing to teach. I had a really positive feeling reading about their developing relationship as it unfolded. I also felt Rafe’s excitement and positivity as he delved into Estrella’s life for the biography he was writing, and I also enjoyed his enthusiasm in learning Spanish, especially when he could swear in Spanish rather than English. That was cute.
Overall, I had a very positive feeling from this book all the way through. All the characters seemed very real to me and I enjoyed the interactions between them. I was also very pleased with Florencio’s final conversation with his father. There is some spice and steam, but fitting in very well with the narrative in how this triad worked for these men. It was an interesting and engaging read, one I would recommend if you like the MMM dynamic. This author did a very nice job with three men and not a lot of angst, just a naturally developing attraction and relationship.
I received an advance copy of the book and this is my voluntary review.
The romance is a slowly moving one, Rafe never having had an attraction to any man before, but once he accepts it is there, he enthusiastically embraces learning more from his two men, and they are more than willing to teach. I had a really positive feeling reading about their developing relationship as it unfolded. I also felt Rafe’s excitement and positivity as he delved into Estrella’s life for the biography he was writing, and I also enjoyed his enthusiasm in learning Spanish, especially when he could swear in Spanish rather than English. That was cute.
Overall, I had a very positive feeling from this book all the way through. All the characters seemed very real to me and I enjoyed the interactions between them. I was also very pleased with Florencio’s final conversation with his father. There is some spice and steam, but fitting in very well with the narrative in how this triad worked for these men. It was an interesting and engaging read, one I would recommend if you like the MMM dynamic. This author did a very nice job with three men and not a lot of angst, just a naturally developing attraction and relationship.
I received an advance copy of the book and this is my voluntary review.
January 31, 2025
With such a straightforward title (on how to say it's about a throuple all polite-like) and that cover...? Let's say I had low expectations. And was that much more surprised by the sensual, slow... Dance (if you pardon the pun) this book brought to me. The main characters all had very defined stories and personalities (but that's mostly a good thing with 3 POVs that constantly switch) and the story was therefore condensed in terms of time and space, they all had to end up living in not just the same city but the same house because they wouldn't have the opportunity to form their unique connection otherwise. The most important character was a nice suprise as well - I feel like female authors especially in gay romance have this tendency to really double down on female characters. They are strong, competent and radiating natural authority and demanding respect just by breathing. It often feels like overcompensating (Florencio has a sister and she fit this to a T even being a barely likeable character) but it made sense with Estrella. (Did I vet the names right? I am terrible at that.)
It was a very good story of how a three men can fall in love, kept interesting mostly through their individual journeys and character arcs, as they all have things to figure out and some personal growth to do. So let's go with four stars!
Lastly, I can't help addressing the personal pet peeve comment because while I respect it, I kind of feel differently. English is my second language but I had some contact with Spanish, which was used here. And for me, there's something special about seeing a phrase or even a word and being able to understand because I dod understand everything they used here and felt that much prouder for it. Like being let on a secret. That's what I like about an author using a foreign language to sprinkle throughout the book with a specific character usually - it adds a bit of flavour and even 'teaches' you a new word or two. Translation is nice but sometimes takes away that sense pf accomplishment from me. You can translate things easily these days, especially since I only read ebooks so I am all for keeping a sence of mystery. I have been able to understand some Russian, German at times, I saw mine and our neighbours language a bit mangled by a daring author and I enjoyed them all. The explanations kind of cheapened the experience the way explaining jokes does - it may be helpful but defeats the purpose in a way.
It was a very good story of how a three men can fall in love, kept interesting mostly through their individual journeys and character arcs, as they all have things to figure out and some personal growth to do. So let's go with four stars!
Lastly, I can't help addressing the personal pet peeve comment because while I respect it, I kind of feel differently. English is my second language but I had some contact with Spanish, which was used here. And for me, there's something special about seeing a phrase or even a word and being able to understand because I dod understand everything they used here and felt that much prouder for it. Like being let on a secret. That's what I like about an author using a foreign language to sprinkle throughout the book with a specific character usually - it adds a bit of flavour and even 'teaches' you a new word or two. Translation is nice but sometimes takes away that sense pf accomplishment from me. You can translate things easily these days, especially since I only read ebooks so I am all for keeping a sence of mystery. I have been able to understand some Russian, German at times, I saw mine and our neighbours language a bit mangled by a daring author and I enjoyed them all. The explanations kind of cheapened the experience the way explaining jokes does - it may be helpful but defeats the purpose in a way.
December 29, 2024
There is a special magic about this romance. An unusual magic - after all we are all led to believe tango is a dance for two. In this story it becomes a dance best suited to three. A simple magic - the wonder of Barcelona. A warm magic - that of family, found or otherwise. Three magics, three men, one city, one aged aunt, a love that will become something more than magical.
A story of love and romance, of family, faithfulness but also of dancing lessons, Spanish lessons, letting go of everything and embracing life as it presents itself to you. This is a story that wants to embrace us as much as it wants to be embraced. Its characters encourage us to remember we can be who we want and with whom we want, what matters most is our happiness.
Florencio leads the story, with his visit to his aunt, one that his father has forced him into so that an inheritance is guaranteed. Florencio sees himself as the failure of the family, gay and uninterested in the business his father runs escaping to Barcelona is exactly what he needs as are his aunt and the two men he meets.
Rafe has been let down by everyone he thought supported him. Used badly and then thrown aside by his wife-to-be and his agent this author wonders if he will ever be able to find the spark to write again and how he will ever be able to face home again.
Constantin is a bar owner in Barcelona, a widower of ten years he doesn't know if he will ever recover from the grief of losing his true love, his husband, but he keeps their business going, day after day, whilst also drowning his sorrows.
These three need one another, they are fated to meet and the journey they take us on is simply beautiful. Jem Wendel captures the beauty and spirit of Barcelona, its people and culture and wraps it around these three men like a cocoon, using it as part of the healing process they all need that perhaps we, as the reader, can take some solace from too. Just as these three become companions, this book is a beautiful companion, a book to take your time with, to savour and discover. After all this is the story of a journey of a lifetime and it is one that will stay with you long after the final page.
A story of love and romance, of family, faithfulness but also of dancing lessons, Spanish lessons, letting go of everything and embracing life as it presents itself to you. This is a story that wants to embrace us as much as it wants to be embraced. Its characters encourage us to remember we can be who we want and with whom we want, what matters most is our happiness.
Florencio leads the story, with his visit to his aunt, one that his father has forced him into so that an inheritance is guaranteed. Florencio sees himself as the failure of the family, gay and uninterested in the business his father runs escaping to Barcelona is exactly what he needs as are his aunt and the two men he meets.
Rafe has been let down by everyone he thought supported him. Used badly and then thrown aside by his wife-to-be and his agent this author wonders if he will ever be able to find the spark to write again and how he will ever be able to face home again.
Constantin is a bar owner in Barcelona, a widower of ten years he doesn't know if he will ever recover from the grief of losing his true love, his husband, but he keeps their business going, day after day, whilst also drowning his sorrows.
These three need one another, they are fated to meet and the journey they take us on is simply beautiful. Jem Wendel captures the beauty and spirit of Barcelona, its people and culture and wraps it around these three men like a cocoon, using it as part of the healing process they all need that perhaps we, as the reader, can take some solace from too. Just as these three become companions, this book is a beautiful companion, a book to take your time with, to savour and discover. After all this is the story of a journey of a lifetime and it is one that will stay with you long after the final page.
December 20, 2024
It Takes Three to Tango by Jem Wendel is an beautiful story that blends slow-burn romance, hurt/comfort dynamics, and heartfelt moments, all set against the vibrant backdrop of Barcelona and the passion of tango dancing.
Florencio, Constantin, and Rafe share an undeniable connection that’s as deep as it is electric. Their chemistry leaps off the page, drawing you into their journey as they explore what it means to build a relationship between three people. What truly makes this story shine is how thoughtfully the characters communicate, especially in the early stages of their relationship. This level of emotional honesty is a rare and beautiful thing in MMM romances, and it’s handled with exceptional care here.
Rafe’s sexual awakening adds an extra layer of depth and vulnerability to the narrative. His journey of self-discovery is both poignant and empowering, making his connection with Florencio and Constantin feel all the more meaningful. The way the three navigate their unique dynamic—ensuring each person feels valued and understood—is nothing short of inspiring.
Set against the picturesque streets of Barcelona and infused with the rhythm and passion of tango, the setting adds richness and texture to the story. It’s as if the city itself becomes a silent character, amplifying the romance and intensity of their relationship.
This is more than just a romance; it’s a story of healing, trust, and the beauty of finding love in unconventional ways. Wendel captures the complexities of a polyamorous relationship with grace and authenticity, making this book a standout in its genre.
It Takes Three to Tango is a tale that will tug at your heartstrings and leave you rooting for Florencio, Constantin, and Rafe every step of the way. It’s a must-read for fans of heartfelt, character-driven romances with a unique twist.
Florencio, Constantin, and Rafe share an undeniable connection that’s as deep as it is electric. Their chemistry leaps off the page, drawing you into their journey as they explore what it means to build a relationship between three people. What truly makes this story shine is how thoughtfully the characters communicate, especially in the early stages of their relationship. This level of emotional honesty is a rare and beautiful thing in MMM romances, and it’s handled with exceptional care here.
Rafe’s sexual awakening adds an extra layer of depth and vulnerability to the narrative. His journey of self-discovery is both poignant and empowering, making his connection with Florencio and Constantin feel all the more meaningful. The way the three navigate their unique dynamic—ensuring each person feels valued and understood—is nothing short of inspiring.
Set against the picturesque streets of Barcelona and infused with the rhythm and passion of tango, the setting adds richness and texture to the story. It’s as if the city itself becomes a silent character, amplifying the romance and intensity of their relationship.
This is more than just a romance; it’s a story of healing, trust, and the beauty of finding love in unconventional ways. Wendel captures the complexities of a polyamorous relationship with grace and authenticity, making this book a standout in its genre.
It Takes Three to Tango is a tale that will tug at your heartstrings and leave you rooting for Florencio, Constantin, and Rafe every step of the way. It’s a must-read for fans of heartfelt, character-driven romances with a unique twist.
December 31, 2024
This story takes place in Barcelona when three men are drawn together, each a different piece of a puzzle that only works when all pieces are present. Florencio is the one taking care of his aging aunt, at the orders of his father. Once there, he realizes his aunt is someone special who has been missing from his life and that, as the pawn of his father for many years, he has been tasked with a not so honorable task of securing his aunt’s inheritance for his father.
Constantin is a widower who runs a Tango bar (honoring the dream of his deceased husband and love of his life). This is where he meets Rafe, a young English author drowning his sorrows while away on his solo honeymoon after being jilted by his ex-fiance. Rafe and Florencio meet and hit is off as well. It takes some doing, but the three forge a friendship and Constantin and Florencio both sort of have their sights set on the up-til-now straight Rafe. They eventually decide they are like the Three Musketeers, all for one and one for all. They hit a few snags along the way, but they work through them and find a way to make things work.
This was a sweet story, but it felt a little long to me. Perhaps it was the slow burn feeling really slow, but it took me a bit to get through it. I enjoyed the interactions with Florencio’s aunt and learning about her Hollywood past, but I was really eager to find out how everything played out with the distribution of the Will. It pretty much goes how you would guess, but everything is wrapped up pretty nicely and the epilogues are a nice touch to show how things end up a bit farther down the road.
Review written for Love Bytes Reviews.
December 17, 2024
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I rated this book 4.5 stars, so I rounded it up to 5 stars. I’m new to Jem Wendel’s work. I thought this was a good addition to the Dance Lovers Collection. I really enjoyed Constantin, Florencio and Rafe’s story. Rafe an English writer is in Spain after being dumped by his fiancée just towards their wedding and to make matters worse he was also let go from his publishing contract, at his ex-fiancées father’s publishing house. Constantin has spent the last 10 years running the tango bar that was his deceased husband Valery’s dream. He also doesn’t believe that someone can be struck by the love bug twice in one lifetime and he’d already lost his soul mate. Florencio, an Argentinian is sent to Spain to help take care of his great-aunt.
His family are a bunch of money hungry a*seholes that don’t deserve him, apart from his great-aunt Estrella who’s an amazing person and I’d absolutely love to meet in real life, wow the stories she could tell. His father always threatens to take away Florencio’s allowance in order to keep him in line. Even though he’s 26 years old he can’t afford to live in Buenos Aires on his dance teacher salary if he didn’t receive money from his father. I loved seeing the relationship between the three of them grow as the book progresses and I thought their chemistry was off the charts. I’m looking forward to reading the next book, as well as more books by Jem Wendel in the future. I’d recommend this book and author to others.
******I received a complimentary copy of this book through GRR. I would still happily review this book even if I purchased it myself. My thoughts and feelings about this book are completely unbiased******
I rated this book 4.5 stars, so I rounded it up to 5 stars. I’m new to Jem Wendel’s work. I thought this was a good addition to the Dance Lovers Collection. I really enjoyed Constantin, Florencio and Rafe’s story. Rafe an English writer is in Spain after being dumped by his fiancée just towards their wedding and to make matters worse he was also let go from his publishing contract, at his ex-fiancées father’s publishing house. Constantin has spent the last 10 years running the tango bar that was his deceased husband Valery’s dream. He also doesn’t believe that someone can be struck by the love bug twice in one lifetime and he’d already lost his soul mate. Florencio, an Argentinian is sent to Spain to help take care of his great-aunt.
His family are a bunch of money hungry a*seholes that don’t deserve him, apart from his great-aunt Estrella who’s an amazing person and I’d absolutely love to meet in real life, wow the stories she could tell. His father always threatens to take away Florencio’s allowance in order to keep him in line. Even though he’s 26 years old he can’t afford to live in Buenos Aires on his dance teacher salary if he didn’t receive money from his father. I loved seeing the relationship between the three of them grow as the book progresses and I thought their chemistry was off the charts. I’m looking forward to reading the next book, as well as more books by Jem Wendel in the future. I’d recommend this book and author to others.
******I received a complimentary copy of this book through GRR. I would still happily review this book even if I purchased it myself. My thoughts and feelings about this book are completely unbiased******
January 3, 2025
This is such a sweet heartfelt story. Three strangers meeting and coming together. The form a friendship and then the friendship leads to more. It sucks you right in and keeps you hooked.
Constantin owes a bar that he and his late husband wanted. He lives upstairs above the bar and he just goes about his night when it's bar time. He will play the piano for others and then help with bar duties. He is older and has seen it all.
Rafe is an English author who decides to go to Spain on his not-honeymoon. He has hit a wall when it comes to writing and now just wants to forget his past. He also lost a contract for one of his series so now he has to figure out something else.
Florencio is from Argentina and was sent to come stay with his aunt who was a former famous celebrity. He is to gather any and all information that he can from his aunt and report back to his father however Florencio isn't able to do that because he doesn't like it nor want too.
When all three of them meet and hang out at the bar together, they become friends. Rafe learns how to tango from Florencio and Constantin plays the piano for them. These three learn so much about each other and when things start going bad for Rafe & Constantin, they go to live with Florencio at his aunts house as that is what they are ordered to do by her.
This love story will touch your heart, give you laughs, make you feel part of the story. All of them have their own story that you can't help but have a heart for each one of them. I love how they all come together and what happens :) Sorry no spoilers.
I received an ARC through Gay Romance Reviews and this is my honest review.
Constantin owes a bar that he and his late husband wanted. He lives upstairs above the bar and he just goes about his night when it's bar time. He will play the piano for others and then help with bar duties. He is older and has seen it all.
Rafe is an English author who decides to go to Spain on his not-honeymoon. He has hit a wall when it comes to writing and now just wants to forget his past. He also lost a contract for one of his series so now he has to figure out something else.
Florencio is from Argentina and was sent to come stay with his aunt who was a former famous celebrity. He is to gather any and all information that he can from his aunt and report back to his father however Florencio isn't able to do that because he doesn't like it nor want too.
When all three of them meet and hang out at the bar together, they become friends. Rafe learns how to tango from Florencio and Constantin plays the piano for them. These three learn so much about each other and when things start going bad for Rafe & Constantin, they go to live with Florencio at his aunts house as that is what they are ordered to do by her.
This love story will touch your heart, give you laughs, make you feel part of the story. All of them have their own story that you can't help but have a heart for each one of them. I love how they all come together and what happens :) Sorry no spoilers.
I received an ARC through Gay Romance Reviews and this is my honest review.
December 15, 2024
Takes Three To Tango is a great read concerning three men at a critical point in their lives meeting up in Barcelona and making a life changing connection. Rafe is an author who has been used badly by his intended bride and his agent. Constantin, a widower trying to live his dead husband’s dream by running the bar he dreamed of running. Florencio, a younger man, sent to oversee his great aunt Estrella’s demise and to ensure his father gets his inheritance.
All three are unhappy and are drawn to each other when they eventually meet at the bar. There are a number of issues they have to get past if they are to have a future together. Rafe needs a new agent and a publisher willing to give him a chance to write the book he has in mind. He is also a straight man as far as he knows. Constantin has become a workaholic and cannot see beyond the bar until he sees Rafe on his own and then with Florencio. Florencio wants to make his own way in life away from his oppressive father. Coming to Barcelona to stay with his aunt gives him more options. Meeting two handsome men he wants more than a night with is also something he needs to investigate.
The Tango is a strong theme as the two younger men learn to dance together with Constantin providing the accompanying music and voice. The great aunt also provides a peaceful haven for the three as well as being providing the support they all need.
A quiet and magical read with lovely characters who have lost their way but find a new way together.
All three are unhappy and are drawn to each other when they eventually meet at the bar. There are a number of issues they have to get past if they are to have a future together. Rafe needs a new agent and a publisher willing to give him a chance to write the book he has in mind. He is also a straight man as far as he knows. Constantin has become a workaholic and cannot see beyond the bar until he sees Rafe on his own and then with Florencio. Florencio wants to make his own way in life away from his oppressive father. Coming to Barcelona to stay with his aunt gives him more options. Meeting two handsome men he wants more than a night with is also something he needs to investigate.
The Tango is a strong theme as the two younger men learn to dance together with Constantin providing the accompanying music and voice. The great aunt also provides a peaceful haven for the three as well as being providing the support they all need.
A quiet and magical read with lovely characters who have lost their way but find a new way together.
December 16, 2024
This book is a superbly written story about a love between three broken souls that find what they need in each other. Wendel has crafted a riveting story that follows three men that meet in Barcelona, Spain. Constantin, originally from Gran Canaria, owns a tango bar in Barcelona named La Casa de Valery. He opened the bar in honor of his late husband, Valery, who died ten years prior. Rafe, from England, was supposed to be on his honeymoon, but was dumped a day before the wedding. He went on the honeymoon anyway. Rafe found the bar and spent days there drinking and reading a book. This caught the attention of Constantin, and they began a friendship, staying after the bar closed, drinking and talking. Florencio eventually found his way to the bar too and became friends with Constantin and Rafe. Florencio was sent to Barcelona by his father to stay with his dying aunt Estrella, who happened to be a famous star who loved tango dancing from the 60s and 70s. Rafe was a tango dance instructor. The bar becomes the meeting place of the three men. The men developed a beautiful friendship/relationship, as well as with Florencio’s elderly aunt. Constantin and Rafe are gay, and Rafe believes he is straight. I enjoyed reading about how their relationship evolved and became a throuple. The plot was well developed and vividly described Barcelona, each of the men and their intense personalities, the lovely Estrella, and the complex lives of the men. I was enthralled with the words and read long into the night because I couldn’t put my Kindle down. Kudos Jem, a job well done!
February 26, 2025
An absolute dream of a book. I loved the first in this series of standalones, Not Strictly Ballroom, but somehow, this was even better!
The prose is so visual and wonderfully descriptive that you find yourself walking down the twisting roads of Barcelona, right alongside the main characters. The dialogue flows beautifully and never feels unrealistic, and the peppering of Spanish words is a lovely addition.
I don't read a lot of MMM romances; I find I have to be in the right mood for them. I didn't hesitate with this book though, because I knew Jem Wendel would do it well, and I was not disappointed. As the three of them meet each other at the same time, rather than an established couple or pair of friends +1, there is a feeling of equity in the relationship that can sometimes be missing in MMM romance.
The story develops naturally incorporating events and incidents from both within and external to the relationship. This clever weaving of the two aspects makes the book a real page-turner. The emotions of the characters, and not just the MCs are portrayed perfectly and really allow the reader to feel what they feel.
Each of the three characters are fully formed: the jilted, nerdy, English writer having an existential crisis on his should-be-honeymoon; the silver fox bar owner still grieving his husband who died ten years ago and the Sexy Argentinian Drama Twink desperate to get out of his family's choke-hold.
I strongly recommend this book to any lovers of romance, exotic locations, sexy dancing, nonagenarian dancers and true love.
The prose is so visual and wonderfully descriptive that you find yourself walking down the twisting roads of Barcelona, right alongside the main characters. The dialogue flows beautifully and never feels unrealistic, and the peppering of Spanish words is a lovely addition.
I don't read a lot of MMM romances; I find I have to be in the right mood for them. I didn't hesitate with this book though, because I knew Jem Wendel would do it well, and I was not disappointed. As the three of them meet each other at the same time, rather than an established couple or pair of friends +1, there is a feeling of equity in the relationship that can sometimes be missing in MMM romance.
The story develops naturally incorporating events and incidents from both within and external to the relationship. This clever weaving of the two aspects makes the book a real page-turner. The emotions of the characters, and not just the MCs are portrayed perfectly and really allow the reader to feel what they feel.
Each of the three characters are fully formed: the jilted, nerdy, English writer having an existential crisis on his should-be-honeymoon; the silver fox bar owner still grieving his husband who died ten years ago and the Sexy Argentinian Drama Twink desperate to get out of his family's choke-hold.
I strongly recommend this book to any lovers of romance, exotic locations, sexy dancing, nonagenarian dancers and true love.
December 28, 2024
A FANTASTIC HEARTFELT READ!💕🇪🇸
The much anticipated second book of the Dance Lovers Collection was such a triple treat!
“Family are people who love and support you, who you trust and have shared values.”
Three amazing, gorgeous men, Constantine Marin, Rafe Alderson and Florencio Delgado, all from different backgrounds, broken souls, from different parts of the world come together first as friends who meet each other in Constantine’s bar and then as a found family in this fantastic heartfelt love story!
The music, the atmosphere and the settings was incredible where these three men navigated the perils of possessiveness, jealousy, family neglect, trust, found family, second chances and the joys of being a throuple!
“Would you like to dance?”
“I’m . . . err, straight.”
“Cariño! I asked if you wanted to dance with me, not if you wanted to fuck me!”
The tango steps Florencio taught Rafe intricately depicted how their throuple relationship started out with intricate basic steps with pivots and blocks…
I loved the nicknames that Rafe gave them and how Florencio great aunt Estrella was the catalyst in their romance blossoming.
This was an incredible engaging read with funny moments, sad moments and steamy dancing both inside and outside their bedroom!
I voluntarily received an ARC and this is my honest non biased review.
The much anticipated second book of the Dance Lovers Collection was such a triple treat!
“Family are people who love and support you, who you trust and have shared values.”
Three amazing, gorgeous men, Constantine Marin, Rafe Alderson and Florencio Delgado, all from different backgrounds, broken souls, from different parts of the world come together first as friends who meet each other in Constantine’s bar and then as a found family in this fantastic heartfelt love story!
The music, the atmosphere and the settings was incredible where these three men navigated the perils of possessiveness, jealousy, family neglect, trust, found family, second chances and the joys of being a throuple!
“Would you like to dance?”
“I’m . . . err, straight.”
“Cariño! I asked if you wanted to dance with me, not if you wanted to fuck me!”
The tango steps Florencio taught Rafe intricately depicted how their throuple relationship started out with intricate basic steps with pivots and blocks…
I loved the nicknames that Rafe gave them and how Florencio great aunt Estrella was the catalyst in their romance blossoming.
This was an incredible engaging read with funny moments, sad moments and steamy dancing both inside and outside their bedroom!
I voluntarily received an ARC and this is my honest non biased review.
January 6, 2025
3.8 ⭐️
Constantine, Flo and Rafe make a really nice trio. To be honest, I almost didn’t want to read this because the blurb wasn’t really intriguing enough for me and I’d initially ignored it because I wasn’t sure what to expect and I didn’t want to be disappointed.
Turns out, this was really nice. Better than I expected and I must say the blurb to doesn’t really do justice to this book. Because the story of these three men was rather heartwarming and very beautiful.
I love seeing how each one of them slowly gravitated towards the other, the slow pining, the budding romance, the cute moments between them. It was really nice to see all three of them slowly develop feelings for one another without anyone being an afterthought. Those were the moments I loved most in this.
My only issue was the point where they finally went third base. The scene felt rushed, and didn’t have the grandiose I’d expected for it being Rafe’s first time and Constantine’s first time in 10 years. The scene was anticlimactic and I simply skimmed through it. Overall that scene didn’t do justice to the level of chemistry between these three men.
Anyway aside from that, I love everything else about this book, especially the part where Flo told his father to suck it.😹😹
*I received a complimentary Arc copy of this book from Gay.Romance.Reviews and this is my honest review.*
Constantine, Flo and Rafe make a really nice trio. To be honest, I almost didn’t want to read this because the blurb wasn’t really intriguing enough for me and I’d initially ignored it because I wasn’t sure what to expect and I didn’t want to be disappointed.
Turns out, this was really nice. Better than I expected and I must say the blurb to doesn’t really do justice to this book. Because the story of these three men was rather heartwarming and very beautiful.
I love seeing how each one of them slowly gravitated towards the other, the slow pining, the budding romance, the cute moments between them. It was really nice to see all three of them slowly develop feelings for one another without anyone being an afterthought. Those were the moments I loved most in this.
My only issue was the point where they finally went third base. The scene felt rushed, and didn’t have the grandiose I’d expected for it being Rafe’s first time and Constantine’s first time in 10 years. The scene was anticlimactic and I simply skimmed through it. Overall that scene didn’t do justice to the level of chemistry between these three men.
Anyway aside from that, I love everything else about this book, especially the part where Flo told his father to suck it.😹😹
*I received a complimentary Arc copy of this book from Gay.Romance.Reviews and this is my honest review.*
October 3, 2025
Rafe Alderson is on his honeymoon. Alone. In Barcelona. He was jilted by his fiancé two days before their wedding. He was also dumped by his publisher (fiancé’s dad) at the same time. With no job and no wife, he decides to take the trip he has paid for.
Constantin Marin is a widower of ten years, running a bar he opened in Barcelona, which he promised to his husband, Valery he would. He named the bar after him too.
Florencio Delgado has moved from his home in Argentina to care for his aging Aunt Estrella at the demands of his father. Flo loves to dance and teaches classes, much to his father’s disappointment and disgust.
The three men meet at Con’s bar and become fast friends. With circumstances affecting Rafe and Con, Flo and his Aunt invite them both to stay in her mansion. The three men navigate new relationships with each other and how to live their lives in Barcelona. They all love each other, and want to make the three of them work.
This book is so beautifully written by Jem Wendel, you can feel the tension and anticipation between the characters. It is so tenderly written, the love story develops naturally between Rafe, Con and Flo. I loved their honest communication, apart from one blip. Their boundaries were perfectly formed so not to upset or exclude one another.
I just adored this book.
Constantin Marin is a widower of ten years, running a bar he opened in Barcelona, which he promised to his husband, Valery he would. He named the bar after him too.
Florencio Delgado has moved from his home in Argentina to care for his aging Aunt Estrella at the demands of his father. Flo loves to dance and teaches classes, much to his father’s disappointment and disgust.
The three men meet at Con’s bar and become fast friends. With circumstances affecting Rafe and Con, Flo and his Aunt invite them both to stay in her mansion. The three men navigate new relationships with each other and how to live their lives in Barcelona. They all love each other, and want to make the three of them work.
This book is so beautifully written by Jem Wendel, you can feel the tension and anticipation between the characters. It is so tenderly written, the love story develops naturally between Rafe, Con and Flo. I loved their honest communication, apart from one blip. Their boundaries were perfectly formed so not to upset or exclude one another.
I just adored this book.
December 15, 2024
This is a very intense and complex story. These three men are so different but also complete each other and built a connection you don't expect.
Constantin - can't shake the grief of loosing his husband even after 10 years, convinced he will never love again but deep inside him is a core which looks for a connection to shake off the loneliness.
Florencio - never feeling he fits in with his family, lonely, drifing and not knowing what he actually wants from life
Rafe - drifting after being dumped privately and professionally, lost on what should have been his honeymoon and discovering so much about himself and became the glue to hold all of them together.
These three really hit me, I cried with Constantin (and could have throttled him), laughed with Florencio and cheered him on and discovered Barcelona with Rafe.
It is quite a slow burn, each character is written with so much depth, there is so much to discover about each of them and how they slowly merge into a trouple.
I love how the author used Tango to bind them together, to build a foundation on what they then discovered love. They overcome quite a lot and discover a found family, a new direction for life and letting go of the past.
Constantin - can't shake the grief of loosing his husband even after 10 years, convinced he will never love again but deep inside him is a core which looks for a connection to shake off the loneliness.
Florencio - never feeling he fits in with his family, lonely, drifing and not knowing what he actually wants from life
Rafe - drifting after being dumped privately and professionally, lost on what should have been his honeymoon and discovering so much about himself and became the glue to hold all of them together.
These three really hit me, I cried with Constantin (and could have throttled him), laughed with Florencio and cheered him on and discovered Barcelona with Rafe.
It is quite a slow burn, each character is written with so much depth, there is so much to discover about each of them and how they slowly merge into a trouple.
I love how the author used Tango to bind them together, to build a foundation on what they then discovered love. They overcome quite a lot and discover a found family, a new direction for life and letting go of the past.
December 22, 2024
Rafe, Florencio, & Constantin
I didn't initially know exactly what to expect going into this story. I absolutely loved Not Strictly Ballroom, so I knew that I'd enjoy this one, but certainly not to the extent I found myself feeling. The story is set up with a backing of dancing the Tango, but it's not the main arc of the story, like the dancing is in book 1. I loved getting to know each of the three gentlemen and hearing their stories. Each of them brought something special to their relationship, and it was sweet watching it grow as it did. I knew that having three strangers come together is tougher than having an established couple bringing in a third, so I was excited to see how Jem would put it together. I was not disappointed. Their relationship was not without its own level of drama, but it was their outside influences and triggers that really brought the three men together.
And Auntie Estrella. She was a powerhouse of a side character and brought a lot of her own strength into each interaction she held with the MCs. She connected so easily with the three of them, considering that they were all strangers to her only a short while before. Her influence and encouragement gave the men the space to explore their desires and feelings.
I loved reading It Takes Three To Tango! It is a fantastic new Dance Lovers book, and will be a fabulous reread when I get the chance to read both books in the series again, although both can absolutely be read as standalones.
I received an advance copy of this book and am volunteering my honest review.
I didn't initially know exactly what to expect going into this story. I absolutely loved Not Strictly Ballroom, so I knew that I'd enjoy this one, but certainly not to the extent I found myself feeling. The story is set up with a backing of dancing the Tango, but it's not the main arc of the story, like the dancing is in book 1. I loved getting to know each of the three gentlemen and hearing their stories. Each of them brought something special to their relationship, and it was sweet watching it grow as it did. I knew that having three strangers come together is tougher than having an established couple bringing in a third, so I was excited to see how Jem would put it together. I was not disappointed. Their relationship was not without its own level of drama, but it was their outside influences and triggers that really brought the three men together.
And Auntie Estrella. She was a powerhouse of a side character and brought a lot of her own strength into each interaction she held with the MCs. She connected so easily with the three of them, considering that they were all strangers to her only a short while before. Her influence and encouragement gave the men the space to explore their desires and feelings.
I loved reading It Takes Three To Tango! It is a fantastic new Dance Lovers book, and will be a fabulous reread when I get the chance to read both books in the series again, although both can absolutely be read as standalones.
I received an advance copy of this book and am volunteering my honest review.
December 22, 2024
Three men, after having met at a bar owned by one of them, all find themselves living in the same house due to various reasons. They slowly find genuine connection, respect, and love growing among them, but can they make it work with all three of them?
Overall, I do like each of the three MCs. I respect Rafe's bravery, curiosity, and open-mindedness after a failed relationship and flailing career. I sympathize with Florencio's struggle to find his own way without his family's support, as well as Constantin's fears and insecurities after the death of a loved one. The author provides a basic backstory for each man, but I would've liked a little more detail and depth there. I could've done without a misunderstanding between one MC and a supporting character, which causes the growing relationship among the trio to take a sharp left turn before correcting course to their HEA. To me, everything after that feels a bit rushed and flows a little less naturally than what came before it.
Despite the somewhat uneven pacing, this book was an overall enjoyable read, and I will be reading the next entry in the series. 3.5/5 stars, rounded to 4 stars.
I received an advance review copy for free, and I am leaving this review voluntarily.
Overall, I do like each of the three MCs. I respect Rafe's bravery, curiosity, and open-mindedness after a failed relationship and flailing career. I sympathize with Florencio's struggle to find his own way without his family's support, as well as Constantin's fears and insecurities after the death of a loved one. The author provides a basic backstory for each man, but I would've liked a little more detail and depth there. I could've done without a misunderstanding between one MC and a supporting character, which causes the growing relationship among the trio to take a sharp left turn before correcting course to their HEA. To me, everything after that feels a bit rushed and flows a little less naturally than what came before it.
Despite the somewhat uneven pacing, this book was an overall enjoyable read, and I will be reading the next entry in the series. 3.5/5 stars, rounded to 4 stars.
I received an advance review copy for free, and I am leaving this review voluntarily.
December 14, 2024
It takes Three to Tango is the second book in Jem Wendel's Dance Lovers Collection series. MMM with age gap and hurt/comfort, it is high angst. The characters were well written, well defined. It's slow burning but with a nice touch of spice when they finally consummate.
Rafe's fiancée left him two days before their wedding. Con owns a bar named after his late husband. Flo was sent to Barcelona to influence his aunt's will, making his awful father the major recipient. The three communicated well, setting the parameters for a successful poly relationship. Auntie, a former Hollywood star of old, invites the three to her mansion. She's supportive and adds a needed touch of humor.
The tango of the title is a sensuous dance. As is this story.
Not a quick read, a bit too intense for me at times. The book does deserve the five stars mainly due to the distinct characters. But I don't think this author and I are a good fit.
I received an advanced copy of this book and this is my review.
Rafe's fiancée left him two days before their wedding. Con owns a bar named after his late husband. Flo was sent to Barcelona to influence his aunt's will, making his awful father the major recipient. The three communicated well, setting the parameters for a successful poly relationship. Auntie, a former Hollywood star of old, invites the three to her mansion. She's supportive and adds a needed touch of humor.
The tango of the title is a sensuous dance. As is this story.
Not a quick read, a bit too intense for me at times. The book does deserve the five stars mainly due to the distinct characters. But I don't think this author and I are a good fit.
I received an advanced copy of this book and this is my review.
December 18, 2024
ARC Review
I have positive yet mixed feelings about this book. I absolutely loved the story and characters. The pacing just threw me for a loop sometimes.
The book follows three men (Rafe, Florencio, and Constantin) as their lives intertwine in Barcelona. The three men have a chance meeting at Constantin’s bar as Rafe is visiting from England and Florencio is visiting from Argentina. The three of them quickly find themselves living with Florencio’s dying aunt Estrella due to various circumstances. Estrella, and some others, work to nudge them all in the right direction.
Over the course of the book, there are happy times, sad times and of course, dancing. The trio fall for the each other while supporting one another through each of their circumstances.
If you love dancing, poly relationships, lovable characters, and a splash of Spanish - speaking the language not required - this book is for you! And while you’re at it, read the first of the collection Not Strictly Ballroom.
I have positive yet mixed feelings about this book. I absolutely loved the story and characters. The pacing just threw me for a loop sometimes.
The book follows three men (Rafe, Florencio, and Constantin) as their lives intertwine in Barcelona. The three men have a chance meeting at Constantin’s bar as Rafe is visiting from England and Florencio is visiting from Argentina. The three of them quickly find themselves living with Florencio’s dying aunt Estrella due to various circumstances. Estrella, and some others, work to nudge them all in the right direction.
Over the course of the book, there are happy times, sad times and of course, dancing. The trio fall for the each other while supporting one another through each of their circumstances.
If you love dancing, poly relationships, lovable characters, and a splash of Spanish - speaking the language not required - this book is for you! And while you’re at it, read the first of the collection Not Strictly Ballroom.
December 25, 2024
What a beautiful poly romance
I adored the first book in the series, Not Strictly Ballroom, and this is a fantastic follow up though it's not related in any way, apart from the dance aspect.
The three men have different backgrounds and situations and watching them find solace in each other, helping to heal their wounds and regain confidence, was so lovely. Rafe's awakening was gentle and believable, even when he realised he was falling for not one but two men. Constantin's sadness was written with such empathy and my heart hurt for him. Florencio was a firecracker but he was such a sensitive soul and I wanted to hug him.
Estrella was a marvellous character, one you would love to meet and spend hours talking to. I adored her and her clever mind and quick wit.
I don't know how Jem's going to follow up these two fantastic books as she's made it very difficult for herself, but I'm there. Can't wait.
I adored the first book in the series, Not Strictly Ballroom, and this is a fantastic follow up though it's not related in any way, apart from the dance aspect.
The three men have different backgrounds and situations and watching them find solace in each other, helping to heal their wounds and regain confidence, was so lovely. Rafe's awakening was gentle and believable, even when he realised he was falling for not one but two men. Constantin's sadness was written with such empathy and my heart hurt for him. Florencio was a firecracker but he was such a sensitive soul and I wanted to hug him.
Estrella was a marvellous character, one you would love to meet and spend hours talking to. I adored her and her clever mind and quick wit.
I don't know how Jem's going to follow up these two fantastic books as she's made it very difficult for herself, but I'm there. Can't wait.
December 28, 2024
4.5⭐️
The characters work here is pretty exceptional, the three main characters find themselves in the same place- Barcelona. Con haunted by the husband he lost, Rafe crushed by love and business, and Florencio seeking refuge from the domination and disdain of his father. The author pulled me in and almost immediately had me invested in these three men, it’s so well done. I like mmm romance but it can be hard to find ones that feel like a true balance, so I loved that Con, Rafe, and Florencio don’t know each other when the story begins. I liked how their interest and connection evolved organically. It’s a lovely slow build with some trust and some communication making room for a really beautiful bi-awakening for Rafe. With some help from the Tango and the amazing Estrella, these three manage a really wonderful new life with each other. Loved it!
I voluntarily reviewed a complimentary copy of this book.
The characters work here is pretty exceptional, the three main characters find themselves in the same place- Barcelona. Con haunted by the husband he lost, Rafe crushed by love and business, and Florencio seeking refuge from the domination and disdain of his father. The author pulled me in and almost immediately had me invested in these three men, it’s so well done. I like mmm romance but it can be hard to find ones that feel like a true balance, so I loved that Con, Rafe, and Florencio don’t know each other when the story begins. I liked how their interest and connection evolved organically. It’s a lovely slow build with some trust and some communication making room for a really beautiful bi-awakening for Rafe. With some help from the Tango and the amazing Estrella, these three manage a really wonderful new life with each other. Loved it!
I voluntarily reviewed a complimentary copy of this book.
December 18, 2024
This story gives you a peek into the lives of very special people. Estrella a celebrity in the sixties and a dancer. She is Florencio’s great aunt living in Spain, and is near the end of her days. Florencio was sent from Argentina to be with her because his father wanted to make sure he gets his inheritance. He is a dance teacher back home and is at odds with his immediate family. Juana has worked for Estrella for years as her housekeeper, friend and caretaker. RAFE is from England, a writer whose wedding was cancelled by his fiancé. He is a lost soul and adrift so goes on the honey moon to Spain alone. He meets Constantin at a bar in Spain. Constantin is a widower who owns a bar, he is from Gran Canaria. He is not close to his family except his cousin Luis and his family owns vineyards. These five unique individuals become a family, with love, happiness and sorrow.
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