I have several issues with this book:
First, there are not footnotes. But when you read the entire book, you'll see that there's a website with the footnotes. There are pages listed but I couldn't see how they corresponded to the text. I know Bohannon said she was saving the publisher pages of works citied, but given the fact this is based (assumingly) on scientific research, this is sloppy and lazy. IMO
Second, there's a very brief refence to those born with sexually ambiguous traits. This needs far more attention. See Alicia Roth Weigel's The Inverse Cowgirl for an enlightening memoir of this subject.
Third, I assume this book was written before Roe vs. Wade was overturned. Why else such a hopeful conclusion instead of a call to action?
quotes:
I know some people still struggle with this idea, but most of the scientific community agrees that biological sex is fundamentally separate from human gender identity. The belief that the sex typical features of a person's body inevitably assign them a gender identity and behavior to match is sometimes called biology ISM or, more broadly from a gender essentialism. Gender essentialism is a natural extension of sexism; Societies that form deep cultural beliefs about what a gender “should be” also tend to believe that a person is one of two genders from birth depending on how their body looks. 2
in the Biological Sciences, there's still such a thing as the “male norm” (also called “male bias”). The male body is what gets studied in the lab. Unless we're specifically researching ovaries, uteri, estrogens, or breasts, the girls aren't there. Think about the last time you heard about a scientific study--some article about a new window into obesity, or pain tolerance, or memory, or aging. That study likely didn't include any female subjects. That's as true for mice as it is for dogs, pigs, monkeys, and all too often humans. By the time a clinical trial for a new medication starts testing on human subjects, it might not have been tested on female animals at all. 3M
many researchers default to male subjects for practical reasons: it's hard to control for the effects of female fertility cycles, particularly in mammals. A complex soup of hormones floods their bodies regularly; Male sex hormones seem more stable period a good scientific experiment aims to be simple. As a scientist and a prominent lab once told me, using males “just makes it easier to do clean science.” The variables are easier to control, making the data more interpretable with less work, and the results more meaningful. Taking the time to control for the female reproductive cycle is considered difficult and expensive; The ovary itself is thought of as a “confounding factor.” So, unless the scientist is specifically asking a question about females, the female sex is left out of the equation. Experiments run faster, papers come out sooner, and researchers are more likely to get grant funding and 10 year. 4
Most of the time, female gluteofemoral fat resists being metabolized. These areas are the first places women gain weight and the last places they lose it. As such, these are popular sites for women to get liposuction, with tummy tucks close second period 9
Most Women's bodies begin preparing for pregnancy and childhood, not because it's a woman's destiny to be a mother, but because human pregnancy sucks, and our bodies have evolved ways to help us survive it. 10
On top of that commodity average adult humans metabolism is massively higher than a chimps in part because our brains are essentially supercomputers that run on fat and sugar. Feeding and maintaining these things is neither easy nor straightforward. Betting on a big brain, in evolutionary terms, is actually not a safe bet. 239
This it's also true in classroom settings. But because speech in many such places is controlled by formal constraints, like being called on by a teacher, the likelihood of your being called on is the biggest predictor of how many words you'll speak. As a rule, girls are called on less in classroom settings, and as a result they speak less than boys. And yet we seem to believe the opposite. That belief is so deep, it defies reality: when listening to recorded conversations, we're pretty good estimating how much time each person speaks if both participants are the same sex. But when we listen to a conversation between a man and a woman, we usually think the woman talks more than she actually does--even if she's reading a script with the same number of words as she'd spoken opposite another female. 247
Only 20% of the people who buy and read novels are men. 248
Men and their lives dramatically more often than women. It's not exactly the battle of the sexes you'd want to win, but in this arena men are far ahead. There are a few ways of interpreting this. More women than men suffer from clinical depression, but most depressed people are not suicidal. It is, however, a dangerous comorbidity: people who become suicidal after suffering from depression may be more likely to act on suicidal thoughts. Still, women are significantly less likely to attempt suicide than men. 256-7
So, if there is a Female Brain, It may be more prone to depression and anxiety in certain kinds of self harm, but it's far less vulnerable to catastrophic failures like suicide. 258
The human brain reaches peak synaptic density--when the most neurons are the most wired to other neurons--when we're around two. That's part of why toddlers starts seeming so much smarter all of a sudden. It's also part of why they throw so many tantrums calling the emotional centers of the brain are more densely connected to every other part of the brain, the theory goes, and once you start a kind of exponential emotional “cascade,” it’s hard to stop. 267
The Brain of a standard toddler is effectively rewiring itself, dramatically reshaping material it just built. One theory, in fact, for the development of childhood autism has to do with this pruning process--some scientists think certain kinds of autistic brains over prune and under prune some regions, leaving others alone. 267
While female and male brains prune themselves roughly the same amount, male brains prune later and faster. 269
During the toddler transition, the adolescent struggle, or any of those long years in between, the children's brains are doing the most is social learning: paying extremely careful attention to what others want, trying to predict those wants, and likewise trying to figure out ways of quickly communicating their own wants two others. 270
And theory of mind--building a model of another's internal cognitive state, mapping out its potential desires, and communicating accordingly--it's something human beings are extraordinarily good at period 270
Not unlike adolescence, however, those brain changes do seem to come with a short term functional cost: problems with short term memory, emotional regulation, and sleep dysregulation (not simply from an uncomfortable body, but also from hormone levels rising and falling in the brain itself.) … But For those who give birth, human mother's brain, as exhausted and buggy as it feels to use, uniquely adapts to succeed at this extremely difficult task, meaning it unleashes quite a lot of how we've gone about a day and learns new ways to do things. 274
There are essentially 2 networks the brain uses to deal with challenges and threats. The 1st is the sympathetic-adrenal-medullary axis (SAM). We mostly use SAM in classic fight-or-flight moments, when things happen fast. Say you hear a tsunami alarm and realize you have to run. Your brain sends a signal to your adrenal medula to pump epinephrine throughout your body. That's the same stuff ER doctors use to restart your heart after a heart attack. 279-280
The second network for stress is the hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal axis (HPA). The HPA axis is what triggers the release of cortisol—the classic “stress molecule.” You always have a bit of cortisol in your body. If you need to be vigilant, cortisol is how your body is going to pull it off. But when cortisol levels are high for a long time, they disrupt the sleep cycle. They screw with digestion. They make short- and long-term memory wonky. Cortisol suppresses the immune system. It hardens arteries. A little bit of stress is good; a lot of stress is famously bad. The HPA axis is something our brains us in longer, grinding “life stress” periods. 280
As for HY babies who went through gender reassignment as newborns because of “ambiguous genitalia”? 284
That’s the core of what sexism is: a massive set of rules that work to control reproduction. 381
So we keep tweaking the settings. In fact, it’s one of the first things any human culture looks to in times of cultural flux. The first thing ISIS does when it take over a town? It forces locals to serve as religious police and sends them on patrol to make sure women cover their bodies when men are around. And when France gets especially nervous about the Muslim population, the government reestablishes the country’s “Frenchness” by making rules against women wearing hijabs on the beach. But it’s not just a modern thing, and if we pull the camera back a bit, it really has nothing to do with Islam. European colonists made a big fuss about “covering up” the bodies of Native American women. Aztecs spread their own sex standards to the people they conquered, too. Throughout history, when cultures with different sex rules come in contact , some rules get abandoned and others get violently enforced. 384-5
Forty-eight of fifty states in the United States allow child marriage with the “permission” of the parents—a legally sanctioned form of child abuse. Unfortunately, the United States allows parents to do all sorts of things to their children, usually under the mantle of “religion” or “cultural preference.” For example, in twenty-one of our fifty states, it is legal to force one’s daughter—no matter her age—to go through with a pregnancy when she doesn’t want to or, even worse, is too young to be able to understand the physical and existential consequences of doing so. 393
As we learned in the “brain” chapter, brain tissue uses the most energy, pound for pound, of any tissue in the human body. And it’s fairly fragile stuff. 404
The payoffs were enormous. Islam's golden age produced algebra, chemistry, the magnetic compass, better modes of the navigation, and all sorts of advanced with in medicine and biology. While Europe was busy telling itself the plague was caused by the evil fog, Islamic doctors had already figured out the copper and silver instruments were best for surgery. The metals are anti microbial. Philosophy also flourished, with new ideas about humane government and social interdependence, many of which directly influenced the rise of the European enlightenment. The golden age of Islam, in other words, produced one of the most intellectual, egalitarian, cosmopolitan, and profoundly influential societies of the time period and women were right there at the fore, Contributing to its success. The slow decline of that civilization also happened to start with Islam absorb byzantium and became more influenced by western thought, including the increased inclusion of women and girls that were so popular in Persia, and the de emphasis of the importance of education and worldliness of anyone who happened to be female. 406-7
Roughly 65,000,000 adult Arab people are illiterate right now, of which 2/3 are women. 407
Supporting those stories is our shared switchboard of cultural norms: the things cultures do in common that help everyone signal to one another, “We belong here.” Generally speaking, the more common the switchboard, the stronger a local culture becomes. That’s a lot of what sociologists mean when they talk about “social cohesion”—it’s what happens when all of the common features of the switchboard, and all of the common stories, build this crazy human thing we call cultural identity. It’s the main reason we don’t dissolve into mutually warring family clans—we usefully trick ourselves into thinking people who aren’t related to us are actually our kin. It’s not just humanity’s crappy reproductive system driving sexism, in other words. It’s also our deep social drive. It’s hard to pit two of your most valuable and unique behaviors against each other. Though its evolutionary roots run deep, gynecology is uniquely human. So is our kinship behavior. Shared social rules are one of the main ways cultures build extendable identity. And sharing sex rules—not just being sexist, but being sexist in the same way as other members of our cultural group—is one of the big ways we reinforce group membership. We like the feeling of being with people who “share our values.” 409
Despite today’s sexist backlashes, I still think we’re moving irresistibly toward our species’ collective future: one of true egalitarianism between the sexes, supported by better gynecological medicine. We’re taking control of our reproductive systems. We’re deciding how we want to become pregnant, and when, and with whom, and we’re going to have a more even distribution between the sexes when it comes to childcare. 411 ?????????
The big assholes do enormous damage, but it’s the little assholes that chip away at every citizen’s confidence that they can rely on the other people to do what needs doing to make a country work. 413
The more clannish you become, the more corruption spreads, the more institutions break down—weakened by a lack of funding and public confidence—the more vulnerable you are to the big assholes. The world-changing assholes. The demagogues. The autocrats. The monsters. Monsters don’t have a very good record of bolstering human progress. Monsters who are given social power set us back, not just through death and destruction, but because recovering from monsters after they die is really hard. Assad is going to die one day, more than likely safe and warm in a bed, tucked into sheets with t really high thread count. But Syria? They won’t recover in our lifetime. Because all these beautiful institutions we build are fragile. Unless we work together, collectively, to reinforce them, we’ll lose them to any given asteroid and asshole. So really, when I think how to answer that question at the start of this chapter, it seems to me that loving someone isn’t the best thing a woman can do. The best thing any human being can do requires all of our uniquely human traits: our extended kinship behavior, narrative building, and problem solving. The best thing we do is create institutions to support and protect those fragile extended bonds. And those institutions, like them or not, are what allow us to overcome our less desirable behaviors: territoriality, sexism. They are the way we push beyond the limitations of our bodies’ evolution. They are the means by which we become truly free. 414
And I wish I could tell her, as I will tell my own children someday, that every power men have ever had over women is something we gave them. We just forgot. We forgot we can stop. 416