Lessons in life from Caught in Providence’s viral sensation Judge Frank Caprio, known as the “Nicest Judge in the World” whose courtroom became a worldwide beacon of compassionate justice—and an unforgettable watch for millions of fans
Frank Caprio is “that judge”—the one you love on social media or TV, whose videos you and your friends and family talk about and share with each other. Now, Judge Caprio brings to the page the same wisdom and spirit of decency that viewers around the world have come to treasure.
From 1985, when he first took the bench, to when he stepped down in 2023, Judge Caprio dispensed true compassion to a continuous flow of regular people in his municipal traffic court in Providence, Rhode Island. As showcased in the four-time Emmy nominated show Caught in Providence, his courtroom is a place where defendants are treated with dignity, and where the deserving are given a break—not a pass or get-out-of-jail-free card, but the chance to right their lives and care for their families.
In Compassion in the Court, Judge Caprio shares transformative stories and lessons from his life and courtroom, Wisdom he gained from his immigrant parents Stories shared by individuals of all ages who appeared in court How he developed the ability to tell when someone is not telling the truth The power of growing up with someone who believed in him—and how he’s tried to provide the same for everyone who appears before him How a person’s worth isn’t measured by the mistakes they make, but by their ability to learn from those mistakes Caprio’s memories will challenge readers to become somebody—to value their past and their family, to confront their realities, and to believe that, through respect, compassion, and understanding, they can succeed. This book will touch your heart, uplift your spirit, and renew your faith in others, and in yourself.
Frank Caprio was an American judge and politician who served as the chief judge of the municipal court of Providence, Rhode Island, and chairman of the Rhode Island Board of Governors for Higher Education. His judicial work was televised on the program Caught in Providence.
I finished this book in one sitting. I laughed and I cried! Like many others, I first discovered Judge Frank Caprio through social media clips, and who wouldn’t love the compassion he shows in his courtroom? This book is a collection of wisdom drawn from his life and career, and it’s just as inspiring as the moments that made him a viral sensation.
The first part of the book shares his personal story. What I really appreciated is that, despite his remarkable accomplishments, he didn’t turn this into an 800-page autobiography filled with every detail of his life—something many modern autobiographies tend to do. Instead, he carefully selected the moments that truly shaped him and his values. One scene that resonated deeply with me was when his mother gave him all her savings so he could continue school. That hit home because I, too, grew up with parents who counted every penny to make sure I could go to college.
The second part of the book, which focuses on stories from his courtroom, is incredibly moving. While I recognized a few from videos I’d seen before, the one that stood out was House of Hope. He encourages readers to look it up, so I did, and I cried like a baby, just like all the other YouTube viewers. The strength and kindness in these stories are incredible.
Beyond the stories, Judge Caprio offers great advice, and I found myself deeply relating to his perspective. Like I said earlier, it is a book of wisdom. I highly recommend and I am seriously considering purchasing a few copies to share as gift.
After consuming so many stories about true crime, corruption in law enforcement, and political scandals, The Compassion in the Court felt like a light in the darkness. Judge Caprio is truly an angel in the way he sees and treats people.
Great memoir and crimson interview! Some favorite quotes:
“Empathy and compassion, often mentioned in this book, are similar in spirit but are not the same. Put simply: empathy is our ability to feel another’s pain; compassion motivates us to help them”
“My father was not educated but he had the soul of a poet”
“Under my robe, I have a heart, not a badge”
“Things may have only moved an inch, but they have moved”
“What I thought of as doing the right thing caused more harm than it did good. How was that justice?”
“I have been very fortunate. But it is important to note that I’ve been open to being fortunate. I have often said that it’s a lot of work to be lucky. What I mean by that is that when you put yourself out there with an open heart and a positive mindset, the world comes to you with untold possibilities.”
“I believe that the secret to a long and successful marriage is not just finding someone you can live with for forty years— it’s finding someone you can’t live without”
This is a great book! I enjoyed getting to learn about Judge Caprio's family history. He truly was America's Nicest Judge. He touched many lives. He will forever be remembered and missed by those who were fortunate enough to know him. This world definitely needs more people like Judge Caprio in it!
Compassion in the Court by Frank Caprio Audio Version Overall Grade: A- Information: A Writing/Organization: A Narration: A Best Aspect: Such a great message of caring and humanity from a judge who has seen a lot. Worst Aspect: A bit repetitive and more personal stories from the author would have been enjoyed. Recommend: Yes.
Judge Caprio grew up with no money, but he had the most important wealth in the world: family. The parts about his father were beautiful. I cried when they drove to see his brother for a few fleeting seconds. And I cried when his mom showed him the money she had saved.
Champion wrestler….teacher….worked his way through college…this man is incredible. He’s an excellent writer, as well. I thought it was really interesting that he can tell when people are lying. I fully believe that! A man in this business as long as he has been…he isn’t just dismissing cases for every person that walks through his door. He knows people. But he cared even for those who lied or were angry. I feel like the story of his friend Richard sums him up nicely. No man is his enemy, simply a person struggling like everyone else. And the acknowledge your mistakes chapter….wow! This man is something else.
I loved the breakdown and format of this book. Part I: My Family Made Me the Person I Am Today. Part II: Compassion. Part III: Respect (LOVED this part!). Part IV: Understanding. The chapters were easily digestible and the values and charges to the readers were clear and compelling. I genuinely felt the desire to grow after reading this book. Judge Caprio knocked it out of the park. It reminded me of Michael Caine’s “Blowing the Bloody Doors Off.” Easy to read, fantastic appeals for growth, and soaked with humanity.
Judge Caprio is truly a compassionate judge with pearls of wisdom. This book is light reading that is encouraging to the reader and upholds basic standards for how to treat others. Although it was sometimes repetitive, the gems were worth repeating so no harm done. I am a little disappointed in some of the company he keeps. It’s a little contradictory to his moral standard.
In this book America's "nicest judge" (in his own opinion) has written page after page about just how nice, kind, understanding and compassionate he is. But since he finally is willing to admit (on page 235) that he is actually "far from perfect," I'm willing to give him two stars.
I would say this book simply grounded me. Of course I’ve never met Judge Frank Caprio but throughout the book I kept missing him. His words reminded me why kindness, compassion, and empathy matter so much in our world , especially today. Through the book he shows us that justice can be both fair and deeply human.
The book touched on so many meaningful themes, such as compassion for children and families living under oppression and humanitarian crisis, empathy for inmates, and the struggles of those within the health care system. He reminded me that sometimes when people lash out, it’s not always about us and often rooted in overwhelming pain or circumstance. His compassion extended to children, people with disabilities, immigrants, the elderly, the homeless, those living in poverty, and victims of abuse and people who are often unseen or unheard.
I also appreciated how he spoke about the value of mentorship and volunteerism, and how we can all find a sense of purpose in it. He emphasized respect, “keeping your side of the street clean,” and how giving respect is the foundation of receiving it. Through different people he met and experiences he had he explained the power of a good attitude, a smile, and laughter. How this can change not only how we feel inside but our environment at the moment.
What stood out most for me was how he often chose community service instead of fines, creating not just accountability but positive change for both the community and the individual. He honored “the ordinary” everyday people, those who are often ignored, and made them feel important. And how he made that happen with such grace and thoughtfulness was beautiful. He reminded us the importance of deep friendships and how little gestures, like bringing food to someone who is sick, can actually change someone’s life.
This book beautifully captured the sense of community that makes life meaningful. It showed me that change does not always come from big, dramatic acts, but from small, consistent efforts to bring hope, compassion, and healing into ordinary lives. Judge Caprio’s purpose with his TV show and his life’s work is to restore our faith in humanity.
I gave this book five stars because it restored my faith in the goodness of humanity. It’s a beautiful reminder that kindness matters, and I truly believe everyone should read it.
Thank you to Netgalley and the publisher for the arc of this book. In Compassion in the Court: Life-Changing Stories from America's Nicest Judge you get to read about Judge Frank Caprio. Judge Frank Caprio first caught my attention on a Facebook post. His treatment of people in his courtroom was inspiring. He tells his family history and his life story. He also tells some stories about cases that were in his courtroom. The way Judge Caprio ran his courtroom should be an example to all Judges. I already had a great respect for him prior to reading this book but after reading this book I am in absolute awe of him. I did not want to put this book down once I starting reading it. This book is heartwarming. I may have needed a tissue a time or two due to how good of a person Frank Caprio is and his acts of kindness. If you read one biography this year, make it this book.
I really enjoyed this. The love and compassion of Judge Frank Capiro is something that I wish everyone had a little piece of in them.
The logic and just the simplicity of taking a step back from situations and assessing what others are going through really helps people to slow down and be an actual human being that treats others like human beings too. It reminds me of the scene in Ted Lasso ‘Be curious, not judgemental’.
There were many moments in this that resonated with me and made me think twice about situations. The love he has for his family is incredible.
I received this book for my birthday from a friend who knows how much I love watching Judge Frank’s videos - and how easily they make me cry. This book brought me so much joy and just as many tears. The world truly needs more people like Judge Frank - people who choose to listen before passing judgment, and who lead with compassion. I deeply admire the man he was and feel grateful that he touched so many lives simply by showing kindness to those who needed it most. I highly recommend this book; it’s a beautiful reminder that there are good people in the world.
Wonderful account of Judge Caprio's life and lessons learned throughout his childhood and career. Endearing court stories of people who came through the Judge's courtroom who just needed a hand on the shoulder to help them get through their current struggles. Biggest takeaway for me as a reader, was the profound and deep reflection of faith, honor, love, commitment, respect and compassion he has carried his entire life. Lessons we should all emulate. I am sorry I was not near any of his book signings to meet him in person, but as you read this life account of Frank Caprio, at the end you will feel his hand on your shoulder. Prime example of what an empathetic, compassionate human being can release into the world, when we all need a little love and understanding.
A little hokey and ideological at times - or am I just a jaded NYer? - but a lovely and uplifting book that made me tear up more than once. Judge Caprio is the type of gentleman I grew up around and whose insight and kindness exuded from their being. This is evident on the page, and I love that he shared so much of his wholesome wisdom with us. Add to that a compassionate and caring human, and you have the makings of one of the best damn judges our rickety legal system has ever seen.
I have been a huge fan of Frank Caprio since clips of his courtroom started appearing on the internet. It has been such a joy to read his autobiography! Hearing his personal retelling of cases that impacted his life was inspiring. I’m so thankful to NetGalley and the publisher for allowing me to read this galley. Praying for Judge Caprio in his health journey.
Nothing makes me smile more than watching clips from Caught In Providence with Judge Caprio. His kindness and empathetic demeanor are so powerful. I really enjoyed this memoir. I just wish he read the audiobook!
Nothing incredibly profound to speak of but really an example of kindess and heart. I loved hearing more about his family and upbringing than actual stories from the bench, although those are marked with compassion. I have seen clips of his courtroom interactions and he seems like a delight.
I have watched many videos of “caught in Providence” and this is why I purchased the book. I think there is so much positivity in this book that needs to be read and treasured by all people.
RIP Frank 🥲 What an amazing man. Fascinating learning about his background. The writing style is simple, but the advice is poignant. Love the stories from his courtroom.
what a lovely book. it was nice seeing where he came from and more about the human we've all come to love. i recommend this book. it made me think about my own ways.
I enjoyed Mr. Caprio's personal stories more than his parking ticket offenders for the most part. He definitely has a lot of compassion and listens to others with empathy in his small Rhode Island town. I did wonder how he didn't already know everyone, though, considering he lived in a small town.
First book finished in quite some time so that’s nice. Not sure I’ll hit my goal of 52 books in the year which is okay. Felt really nice to read about Frank Caprio’s perspective on life and how much he values compassion, respect, and understanding (along with some other values). Definitely a guy who lived a worthwhile and admirable life and loved what he did.
Memoirs are my absolute favorite genre to read because I love how much leeway authors have in crafting the tone and voice of their life story. I especially love hearing about the inward reflection and small nuggets of gold that everyone can distill from their life story when looking backward.
I admire Judge Caprio and his approach to the law, compensating for the gaps in the legal system that create unfair sentences and punishments for marginalized communities. I also loved how I could tell instantly that I would enjoy having a conservation with him, as I would be mesmorized by his wealth of experience and knowledge.
It’s a decent memoir with a clear thesis statement, but it’s a tad repetitive and pedestrian at times. However, I do encourage anyone interested in working in the legal field to read this book (I read it in less than 2 days), seeing as we should all try to channel his compassionate ethos in the courtroom and in our everyday lives.
I was a lucky person to get to read "Compassion in the Court" by Frank Caprio, from NetGalley. I had seen a few moments of him on YouTube and Facebook posts. He sat as a judge in Rhode Island. In this book that is divided into parts, He shares of his childhood growing up in Providence Rhode Island. He speaks fondly his parents who came from immigrants. His family was poor but grew up happy and loved. He helped is father deliver milk during his childhood. Went on to college, taught school so he could go to law school at night to become a lawyer. the other parts of his book he writes of being a lawyer then went on to be a judge. He writes of the cases he had in traffic court and learning to show compassion for some of the people who came in. Some had some tough stories of how they owed these traffic violations. Over some of the years as a judge in traffic court were video taped and some shown on forums like facebook or youtube. Judge Frank Caprio writes of some of these cases and when he used compassion for certain situations. This is why the book is called "Compassion in the Court" he gives examples of what he had learned over the years for not being Judgemental and look at the people and the circumstances that brought them to traffic court. He speaks fondly of his parents who were the first to teach him to care and be kind to others. I very much enjoyed reading his book and the lessons he would like for others to learn and to show compassion for others. good book.
In Compassion in the Court, Frank Caprio is the famous judge on the hit TV show, Caught in Providence. He was a judge from 1985 to 2023. He served for 23 years for the Providence Municipal Court. He is known for his compassion in the court room and he tries to help others. He wanted to be a different type of judge one that had kindness, compassion, and dignity. He explained how he tries to make decisions based on everything he could learn from the individual and what brought them in front of his courtroom. Many of them were immigrants, poor people, people down on their luck. In the book, he shared how he grew up as immigrant himself and the challenges he faced.
He shared his first case and how his father discussed with him how he could have handled it better. His woman had parking tickets and she explained how she couldn’t pay it and that’s it. She basically told him flat out she wouldn’t be paying any of them. He ruled that a boot would be placed on her car. He tried to help him see that she would have no way to take her kids to school or drive. He helped him to realize that she was a person and focus on more what might be going on in their lives.
He shared the popular story of Victor Colella and how he was charged with speeding in a school zone. He was 96 years old still driving taking his son to get blood work who is handicapped. His son was 63 years old. He was deeply touched by this story and he dismissed the case. He later even met him outside the court room to hear his whole story and this older man advice was to do right and don’t bully and go to church every Sunday. He even celebrated his 100 birthday with him by bringing him a cake. There aren’t too many judges who would go that far.
I would recommend this awesome book to anyone who is curious about the life of judge Frank Caprio. He was often moved by trying to understand why the person in front of him came to be in his court room. They each had a story and a background that brought them there. I haven’t watched the full show but I recall seeing clips on social medias and he seems like a very compassionated judge. The stories presented were very touching and insightful and he tries to teach others to be kind to others. He tried to help us to view others as real people who have made mistakes but they have the ability to learn from their mistakes and change. There is tons of lessons we can learn in this book!
NOT ME OPENLY CRYING IN PUBLIC ON THE TRAIN AS I COMMUTE TO WORK. Ugh. Totally took me aback, because I did not expect this going into a biography-type book about a public servant of the government, yet here we are. I've seen clips of Frank Caprio, former judge who just retired in 2023, floating around on social media, and it struck me just how profundly empathetic and compassionate someone "in the establishment" could be, and it was a nice dose of feel-good. Judge Caprio's book reminds me that there are indeed, good humans in the world, and it inspires me to remind myself of shifting my perspective from the self level further out into a communal level. His stories moved me more than reading Barack Obama's biography, even though Judge Carpio's domain of power, as a judge in a municipal court, was not as nearly as expansive as the former president's once was--maybe it was because of the depth of intimacy he was able to tap in on in hearing cases, even though Judge Caprio did not see most of these defendants again after they left his court. I loved how grateful he is to be an American, even as the son of a poor immigrant Italian family, and how he turned his discriminatory experiences growing up into a force for good rather than easily curling inward towards the dark side. If you were to have asked me how I thought the law should be applied, I would have said that ofc in theory it should all be applied equally for everyone, very black and white. However I glad to say that Judge Caprio's book lead me to pause and think deeper--what is the point of justice? Is to foster a functioning society? Mete out punishment for evil deeds? He's lead me to think that there is reason to take in the context of the circumstance and that there are instances in which one should apply leniency vs. maximum punishment. Anyways, I think we could all use a reminder of being more compassionate to others and feel good doing so.
Thank you NetGalley and Brilliance Publishing for the audio ARC in exchange for an honest review.
A lot of people probably recognize Judge Caprio as the kind and friendly judge who presided over traffic violations and petty infractions on the Caught in Providence television show and on countless viral video clips from the same. This book, in many ways, is the story behind that program.
The first part of the book, consisting of just shy of half its length, is a brief autobiography of the Judge, beginning when his grandparents immigrated from Italy to the United States and culminating in the television show. The remainder of the book consists primarily of simple life lessons typically illustrated by one or more examples from cases in Judge Caprio’s courtroom.
Regular viewers of the show or its social media clips will probably be the book’s primary audience, though admittedly they’ve already seen the clips described in those examples, so the book does threaten to strike some people as a bit repetitive or redundant in that sense, but I think that minor criticism is more than compensated for by the biographical story that demonstrates how Judge Caprio’s fiscally impoverished but emotionally rich upbringing shaped his thinking and turned him into “America’s nicest judge.”
There are a couple points when Judge Caprio briefly detours into some political musings, either in connection with his various political actions over the years or just in the contest of musing about how we might improve our society. Arguably those are the weakest part of the book because they offer a starting point we can all agree on (namely, to have compassion for people) but never really get to the political details. That said, those moments are brief and don’t detract significantly from what is probably going to end up being the best feel-good book of the year.
There’s a lot of wisdom in Judge Caprio’s simple message and a lot of readers would do well to hear him out.
Sometimes you come across a book that could change and have a massive impact on the world - this is THAT book! I wish this could be put in the hands of every politician and member of the justice system.
Frank Caprio is well know for sharing his life in the courtroom on our screens, with a high level of respect and compassion and creating an open and safe space for all who come before him. In this book he shares his life story, his families history, along with cases that were in his courtroom.
Many times while listening to his story, I would find myself just tearing up, I feel that compassion is slowly becoming lost in our world and it gave me back a little bit of hope for future.
It reminds us that just one small act of kindness or thoughtfulness can create a wave of positive change for a person and can truly change their life. We need to admit when we make mistakes and think before we judge, by putting ourselves in the shoes of others and trying to understand their circumstances.
I agree that we all need to aim to be teachers in this world, sharing our strengths with each other and by doing this, we provide support and we don’t stand alone.
Thank-you so much to @netgalley @brilliancepublishing and Frank for an Audio Advanced Readers Copy - I will not be hesitating in adding a copy of this to my personal library and sharing it with those around me.
I've always been very interested in the law. I was a part of mock trials in high school. I sought out legal shows and became active on "Lawtube" (the legal side of youtube). Caught in Providence was a show that caught my attention for all the right reasons. Court show: ✔️. Real: ✔️. A judge with empathy and compassion: ✔️. When I was browsing NetGalley and saw that Judge Caprio wrote a book, I knew I needed to read it.
I thought my favorite part of the book would be the legal stories. I was wrong. I loved every word. I loved reading about his family, his upbringing, his struggles, his triumphs, and the lessons he learned along the way. It's a very timely book, given everything going on in the US right now. His story is important and is an excellent example of the American Dream.
This was an excellent memoir, but it was also the best leadership book I have ever read. As I finished each chapter, I was learning and growing. I am also a public servant. I go to work every day wanting to help people and make a difference. In writing this book, Judge Caprio gave me numerous new reasons to look up to him.
Read it as soon as it's released!
Note: I received an ARC of this book at no cost to myself from NetGalley.
Compassion in the Court: Life-Changing Stories from America's Nicest Judge by Frank Caprio was exactly the memoir I was hoping to read. It was equal parts honest, emotional, and inspiring. It will be published on February 4, 2025 and I recommend it to anyone who, like me, is fascinated by the legal system and wants to know more about this funny, empathetic, and compassionate judge.
Judge Caprio details his childhood as the son of hardworking immigrant parents. He describes pivotal moments in his life where the things that people told him, both positive and negative, went on to shape his worldview and his philosophy as a judge.
In addition to his personal reflections, where this memoir shines most is when he describes the stories of the people he encountered in his courtroom. This is where the compassion and care came through most. I found myself tearing up several times while listening, but I could have listened to many more of those stories.
The audiobook was engagingly narrated by Rob Reider. I would enjoy more stories from Judge Caprio if he were to write more.
Thank you Brilliance Publishing for providing this audiobook for review consideration via NetGalley. All opinions are my own.