Twelve-year-old Ruby Bean has become an Accidental Expert on Missing Mothers.
When her mother, Ruthie, goes missing again due to mental illness and addiction, Ruby and her aunt leap into action to search for Ruthie.
A jewelry store robbery and unexpected kindness from the victim bring more twists to the journey. From Georgia to Washington to New York City, Ruby discovers that sometimes even the worst events can bring the best surprises into one's life, if you keep believing.
As soon as I spotted the digital copy of Somebody's Someone on my NetGalley shelf app, I knew immediately that it was going to be a book written by an author written through a cynical perspective on a subculture which many children's book authors refuse to acknowledge even exists. However, the illustrations of the characters on the cover seem so incredibly likable, and it turns out the cover of this book is a qualifiable judge of the book's character. Young Ruby is the victim of a household where she has never met her father, and her mother often disappears for weeks (or possibly even months?!) at a time. Mostly, Ruby's primary caregiver in her Aunt Marion, a trusted adult and a librarian by profession. At the beginning of the book, the author explains how Ruby has once again been left to the care of her devoted aunt as she helps her Aunt Marion hang up Missing Person posters in their frantic search to find Ruby's mother.
The author leads her readers through a long-distance car trip through the United States from Georgia to New York City and then straight to Washington, D.C. Ruby and her Aunt Marion meet many new people including Daisy, Benny, Nixon, and Julia. Daisy and Beny are homeless people who ruby and her aunt befriend in New York City and Julia is the sole proprietor of a jewelry store. As it turns out, Julia's jewelry store has been robbed and ruby and her aunt Marion assist the police in their search for the armed thieves who stole the money and jewelry from her store. Unfortunately, the thieves may be more well-known to Ruby and her Aunt Marion than either of them would prefer. the author does write a suspenseful scenario which will leave readers well entertained and on their edge of their seats.
Linda Oatman High was successfully written dynamic characters who secretly have likable and redeemable qualities. Aunt Marion is the most unexpected yet nurturing caretaker for young Ruby. Ruby, a 12-year-old who seems to have been abandoned and deserted by both her mother and her father shows the most remarkable penchant for having a level of responsibility that far outshines any character of her profile that a reader might expect to find. Daisy and Benny are unlike any characters who happen to be homeless in New York City than might ever be expected. Even Julia, who appears to be the victim of a robbery and has every right be adopt a flair of uncivility shines through her excerpts that the author has written her throughout this novel. These people are more than believable characters-- they are people a reader might hope to find and befriend if a need ever arose.
Please pick up a copy of this book if you are looking for an unexpected twist on what an author might classify an unredeemable situation but ultimately turns into a situation where an unexpected family of blended strangers merge to teach values lessons about friendship and responsibility.
A short book, but one that packs a punch. Young Ruby’s mother has disappeared, again. Her mental health issues and drug addictions prevent her from providing stability for Ruby, so Aunt Marion is her guardian. When the two go searching for the missing mom, they encounter a number of interesting people, who are surprisingly willing to offer assistance to Ruby and her aunt out of the goodness of their hearts. A great book for middle-grade readers!
*I received a digital copy from Netgalley in exchange for an honest review. All opinions are strictly my own.*
Ruby's been through this before; her mother, Ruthie Bean, has struggled with mental health issues and addiction for years, and has gone missing again. Ruby lives with her Aunt Marion, a librarian, in a small town in Georgia near her grandparents. After getting a call from Ruthie, Marion decides to wait a week until the end of Ruby's school year and take off to Philadelphia, where her missing sister has gone to visit Ruby's dad, Jimmy. Unfortunately, when they finally get to Pennsylvania, Ruthie has moved on, but Jimmy thinks she's gone to New York City. Marion has a process, and soon the two are looking on the streets and at homeless shelters of the Big Apple. They befriend Daisy and Benny (along with his dog, Nixon) who are unhoused and have talked to Ruthie. When evidence points to her having gone to Washington, D.C., all four head there. Staying at an inexpensive hotel, they follow all the leads they can. The biggest one is that Ruthie has been involved in a robbery of a family jewelry store along with Mason, her boyfriend from Georgia and Jimmy. Even though thousands and thousands of dollars as well as merchandise has been stolen, the owner, Julia, not only talks to the group, but offers to let them stay in her posh house while they hunt for Ruthie. When her mother shows up, Ruby wants to call the police, but is hesitant. When Jimmy and Mason also show up, she dials 911, and soon the police have apprehended the trio. Daisy decides to stay in D.C. and Benny gets a bus back to New York. Knowing that her mother will be spending time in jail isn't great for Ruby, but she is glad to know that she is safe. She and Marion return to Georgia along with Nixon the dog, who starts a career as a therapy dog. Ruby has a new appreciation for her aunt's phrase that everyone is valuable because they are "somebody's someone", especially after learning more about her aunt's own troubled past. Strengths: There are an ever increasing number of students struggling with a parent or loved one who is dealing with mental health and/or addiction issues, so Ruby's story will resonate with many readers. I appreciated that she did have the support of her aunt, as well as grandparents who were available, if worn down by life. The look at life on the streets is age appropriate, and kids who don't have any experience with being unhoused will learn some things and hopefully gain some empathy. Traveling from Georgia to Philadelphia to New York to D.C. is quite an adventure. The ending is sad but realistic, and I was glad that Ruby was able to have some joy in her life with her aunt and working with Nixon to help others. The illustrations were very nice; I'd love to see more of these in middle grade literature. Weaknesses: There were several things that made this seem like a title written in the 1960s or 1970s. People in disadvantaged circumstances were sometimes portrayed in a stereotypical way; Jimmy has long hair, tattooes, and is wearing a sleeveless undershirt. There are also some actions that seemed dangerous and unlikely. Marion is very understanding of people with problems, but sending her car keys with Benny, whom she has just met, to get something out of her car was not a safe choice. Julia had some issues in her own life that made her similarly sympathetic, but it seemed odd that she would shelter the family of a woman who robbed her. Young readers won't notice these things as much, but I thought that Marion would have been much more careful with the situations into which she put her long suffering niece. What I really think: This is a good choice for readers who enjoyed Wallace's Nowhere Special (https://msyinglingreads.blogspot.com/...) or Hoyle's Millie (https://msyinglingreads.blogspot.com/...)
High crafts an emotionally rich and powerful story in her latest novel, centered on twelve-year-old Ruby Bean, a young girl navigating a life shaped by the unpredictable presence of her mother, Ruthie. Ruthie’s struggles with mental illness and addiction pull her away from home time and again, leaving Ruby to grapple with the constant cycle of waiting, worrying, and wondering.
Over time, Ruby becomes an “expert on Missing Mothers,” attuned to the subtle cues and unspoken realities of her mother’s absences. When her mother disappears once more, Ruby and her Aunt Marion embark on a cross-country journey, determined to bring Ruthie home. As they travel, Ruby unfolds her story and her mother’s, sharing moments of joy, love, and heartbreak—capturing the complicated beauty of loving someone caught in their own struggles.
High masterfully balances Ruby’s innocent optimism with the forced maturity her circumstances demand, portraying a young girl’s fierce love and resilience in the face of abandonment. The story serves as Ruby’s love letter to her mother and a powerful reflection of the strength of family bonds. The book also delves into broader themes of family, identity, and the ways mental illness can ripple through generations. With unflinching honesty and sensitivity, it captures Ruthie as both a woman besieged by her demons and a mother deeply loved by her daughter.
Yai Dzamesi’s vibrant illustrations add another layer of warmth, illuminating Ruby’s story and emphasizing the quiet strength of belonging. A beautifully illustrated, soul-stirring story that will stay with readers long after they’ve turned the final page.
ARC Review of Somebody’s Someone by Linda Oatman High @tazshuracasey Pub Date Mar 04 2025 Publisher: Red Chair Press Imprints :One Elm Books My Rating: 💖💖💖💖🩷
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Description Twelve-year-old Ruby Bean has become an Accidental Expert on Missing Mothers.
When her mother, Ruthie, goes missing again due to mental illness and addiction, Ruby and her aunt leap into action to search for Ruthie.
A jewelry store robbery and unexpected kindness from the victim brings more twists to the journey. From Georgia to Washington to New York City, Ruby discovers that sometimes even the worst events can bring the best surprises into one's life, if you keep believing.
My thoughts: Somebody’s Someone is an emotional rollercoaster, filled with heartbreaking struggles, unwavering love, and resilience. Despite being only 12, Ruby shows incredible maturity and strength, holding onto her love for her mother despite Ruthie’s addiction and absence.
Aunt Marion is a true hero—staying strong, clean, and dedicated to giving Ruby a stable life, all while never giving up on searching for her sister. Benny, Daisy, and Julia are the kind of compassionate, selfless people everyone needs, and Nixon, the dog Benny gifts Ruby, symbolizes the love and friendship she gains.
Special applause to Yayira Dzamesi’s illustrations, which beautifully bring life and warmth to the story.
I was completely overwhelmed by this story. It is beautifully written and carries a powerful message about love, family, and making the right choices, even when they are the hardest to make. Linda Oatman High has created a masterpiece that delicately touches the heart and offers hope to those in difficult situations.
Somebody’s Someone is a must-read for children, teenagers, and adults alike—anyone who values family, resilience, and kindness. It’s a story that stays with you long after you turn the last page.
Ruby, a twelve-year-old girl, has a Mom who goes missing frequently due to mental health (schizo-affective disorder, depression, and anxiety) and substance abuse issues. Due to this, she is mostly raised by her Aunt Marion. Ruby and her aunt have become experts on finding her missing mom, although they would rather be an experts in anything else.
Ruby has a lot she is dealing with in her life: being raised by someone other than her parents (for the most part), having a father she doesn’t know, and having a mother who is dealing with substance abuse, mental illness, and homelessness at times. Many children are dealing with some, or many, of these issues themselves, and this book can help them to see that they are not alone in these struggles.
The book does a great job of teaching some lessons that everyone should remember: Even if people have fallen on hard times; they are somebody’s someone and they matter. It is important to do the right thing, even when it is hard. Everyone makes mistakes.
Some parts of the story are a little far-fetched to make it realistic. While Aunt Marion likes to see the best in people, I don’t see someone reasonable for a 12-year-old allowing 2 people they met the day before to join them on a trip to another city. Then with Julia, even though she also sees the best in people, I feel that it is highly unlikely a person would invite multiple strangers to stay at their house a few hours after meeting them. Then Aunt Marion allows Ruthie to stay the night at Julia’s house when she knows that she is mixed up with bad people (one of which has a gun); um.. what?
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This book is deeply moving and beautifully written story that captures the strength and resilience of a young girl navigating the emotional challenges of having a mentally ill parent. Ruby Bean’s journey to find her missing mother is not just about searching for Ruthie—it’s about finding inner strength, hope, and closure along the way. What stands out most is the emotional depth of the characters. Ruby is authentic and easy to root for. She’s vulnerable and has a quiet strength that really shines through. Her bond with her aunt and the unexpected kindness from strangers add depth to the overall narrative. The plot is well-paced, balancing moments of tension and tenderness with just the right amount of surprise to keep you hooked. Oatman High’s writing style is straightforward yet emotionally resonant, making complex themes like addiction, mental illness, and family bonds accessible without being overwhelming. The story doesn’t shy away from difficult truths, but it also offers a sense of hope and redemption that feels genuine rather than forced. This book would be perfect for middle-grade readers who enjoy heartfelt stories about family, resilience, and personal growth. This will also be great for fans of realistic fiction with strong emotional cores. This was so sweet and moving...highly recommend it!
Thank you Netgalley for an ARC of this amazing book
A story of resilience and hope What I loved most about this book was the raw honesty in its storytelling. It doesn’t sugarcoat the hardships Ruby faces, but it also doesn’t leave you feeling hopeless. The balance between pain and hope was handled beautifully. Ruby’s journey to find her mother, while grappling with her own feelings, was inspiring. It reminded me of the power of persistence and belief, even when things seem impossible. The relationships in the story were another highlight. They felt real and full of depth. Ruby’s bond with her aunt was heartwarming, and the kindness she encountered along the way showed how even small acts of compassion can make a big difference. The twists were surprising yet believable, and they kept me eager to see what would happen next. The writing was straightforward and clear, which made the book easy to read while still being emotionally rich. This is a story about the strength of love and the unexpected beauty that can arise from life’s challenges.
Linda Oatman High’s Somebody’s Someone is a deeply moving and beautifully written story that explores the complexities of family, addiction, and resilience through the eyes of twelve-year-old Ruby Bean.
Ruby, who considers herself an “Accidental Expert on Missing Mothers,” is no stranger to the chaos that comes with her mother Ruthie’s struggles with addiction and mental illness. When Ruthie disappears again, Ruby and her determined aunt set out on a cross-country journey to find her. Along the way, they have unexpected encounters—including a jewelry store robbery and a surprising act of kindness.
What makes this book so compelling is Ruby’s voice—honest, heartfelt, and brimming with quiet strength. Despite the hardships she faces, she never loses her sense of hope. The novel also masterfully balances difficult themes with moments of warmth, humor, and unexpected joy, reminding us that even in the darkest times, light can still break through.
I absolutely loved this book. It was deeply moving and sentimental, standing out as one of the most impactful reads of the year for me. The story follows a young girl navigating life in a series of foster homes after being abandoned by her mother. Her big dreams of being "somebody’s someone" are beautifully portrayed, capturing her yearning for stability, love, and belonging. The book delves into themes of neglect, abuse, and self-worth while highlighting the protagonist’s unwavering hope and determination to overcome her circumstances. The author’s poetic writing style is exceptional, blending emotional depth with vivid imagery. The use of free verse adds a unique and powerful touch, allowing readers to fully immerse themselves in the protagonist’s inner world and experience the highs and lows of her journey with profound intensity. This heart-wrenching and thought-provoking story is a must-read, offering a poignant exploration of resilience and hope that will resonate with many.
This middle grade novel brings awareness to issues such as abandonment, addictions, mental illness, and homelessness.
12-year-old Ruby has never met her father, and her mother struggles with mental health issues and addictions. There are times when Ruby's mother leaves for weeks to months, leaving Ruby with her aunt Marion. Ruby knows the routine of what to do when her mom goes missing. This time, she goes with her aunt to find her Mom and travels to New York and Washington, DC Along the way, they meet some interesting and kind people who help them.
Throughout the story, situations seem unrealistic, such as giving your car keys to a person you just met or allowing random people to stay at your home after a traumatizing situation.
I would recommend this to middle-grade students who are comfortable with difficult topics, teachers, and anyone else who wants to see things from a new perspective.
Somebody’s Someone is a deeply emotional and heartfelt book that explores themes of love, loss, and hope. It tells the poignant story of Ruby, a 12-year-old girl searching for her mother, Ruthie, who struggles with mental illness and addiction. Ruby’s journey is both heartbreaking and inspiring, offering a profound look at family relationships and human resilience. The story vividly conveys the pain and hope Ruby experiences through small yet powerful details, such as the missing posters she creates for her mother. These moments are deeply touching and create a strong emotional connection between the reader, Ruby, and Ruthie. Ruby’s unwavering determination to find her mother, supported by her journey with her Aunt Marion, highlights the power of hope and the small joys she clings to along the way. Be prepared for an emotional rollercoaster with this moving and unforgettable story.
I really enjoyed this book and found it refreshing to find something so honest and raw in a children's book.
I especially liked Ruby's narrative voice, and seeing the story unfold through her perspective as a child caught up in the midst of these chaotic adult lives.
Once or twice, I felt the story was a little rushed, and there was suddenly an easy way out of some of the predicaments the characters found themselves in, and it felt somewhat naive that every single character they met along the way was a charming, kind person - I kinda wished they'd been faced with some less helpful characters to make it feel more believable, but I do appreciate that this was done to emphasise the theme of everyone being Somebody's Someone.
Overall, I did really enjoy this book and would recommend it.
This was book was a treasure, a mix of heartbreaking, funny, real, and hopeful. I grew up with a mother, who was later diagnosed with a mental illness. I'm 40 now, but reading this book was healing, inspiring, and deeply resonant with my own experience of making sense of the world as a child when one of your main nodal points is not quite stable, yet also the person you love most in the world. The mix of compassion, frustration, and confusion that Ruby and her aunt possess for their mom and sister, respectively, beautifully captures the depths of loving someone. This book emotionally moved me and has stuck with me. I wish it existed when I was a girl, but grateful that it is here for young readers and old ones too who are still finding ways to extend grace and love our someones even when it feels impossible.
(Actual rating: 3.5 stars) This book has a solid concept in which the main character learned how to navigate her unusual family with a mom who struggled with a mental illness and addiction and an aunt who served as her primary caregiver. The story opens with the main character putting up missing posters for her mom...again. From there, she and her aunt go on a journey to find her mom, tracking down leads that take them to NYC and DC. Along the way, they just so happen to meet people who happen to have interacted with and remember her mom, some who come along for the ride with them. It stretches the suspension of disbelief too far for me. The characters also lack depth with most of the secondary characters existing as near caricatures. Ultimately, this book had a lot of potential that it, unfortunately, wasted.
This book is a touching story novel exploring the lives of children society ignores. The story is about a young girl, Lily. She lives in a trailer park with her financially struggling mother. She goes to a school but she doesn't feel seen. She does not shy away from showcasing the challenges of her poverty and the emotional distress it places on a family. It also skillfully shows the moments of tenderness and resilience, which illustrates the unbreakable bond between Lily and her mother and the small joys they discover in their hardships. The book shows the raw emotions of Lily's experiences, making her both relatable and sympathetic. The story pace is slow. But it definitely allows us to fully engage with Lily’s world and grasp her feelings.
I think this story had so much potential but ultimately fell flat in my expectations. I loved the concept of a main character navigating her feelings about having a parent with mental illness. There were many scenes where I teared up for Ruby and it could have been really impactful but it was overshadowed by the eccentric storytelling. I was very disappointed by the use of stereotypes throughout the book which could have easily been fixed with critical thinking. I was hoping that the ending would redeem the story, but ultimately all the adults in the story were unsafe and enabled dangerous behavior.
Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for supplying me an advanced reader copy of Somebody’s Someone.
3/5 ✨ First of all, thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for an ARC of “Somebody’s someone”. This books message is very important, and the themes it touches regarding mental illness, but i found that some aspects of the story made me very angry. As i said, the issue regarding Ruby’s mother and how her mental illness affects their family’s life is very important and is well treated, but outside of that, i still cannot believe that Ruby had to be the adult one in some situations…Sometimes, even more adult than her aunt. That made me feel very angry and frustrated, and I didn’t liked it. Her aunt is supposed to be the one that has to take care of her after everything that happened with Ruby’s mother, and some of the things she did made me think she shouldn’t be able to keep Ruby.
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This was both heartwarming and heartbreaking. It's hard to put into words how much this affected me.
While I loved that this tackled the very real struggles of mental health, homelessness, etc., there were several moments and personalities that fit a more stereotype-mold. Not to mention that some decisions were highly ill-advised. The preferred target audience may not notice these things, but adults / teachers may.
I still highly recommend this read, but do so with caution and check trigger warnings.
Thank you NetGalley and publishers for allowing me to read and review this e-arc.
For 12 year-old Ruby life has been hard given that her mother suffers from mental health issues. Determined to find her yet again, Rudy along with her aunt begin a search that takes them on a journey that spans many, many miles.
This was a journey with heart that took many detours but along the way help is found in unexpected places. It was written for a younger audience while dealing with some strong subject matter. A good opportunity for discussions.
It was illustrated nicely and I'm sure in book form it will be better then on my kindle.
My thanks to One Elm Books (via Netgalley) for a digital arc in exchange for a honest review.
Somebody’s Someone is a deeply moving story that follows Ruby on an emotional journey to find her mother, a lost addict battling mental illness. Linda Oatman High crafts a powerful narrative filled with heartbreak, resilience, and hope. Ruby’s experiences are painful to witness. No middle grader should have to endure what she does, but her strength and determination make Ruby a compelling protagonist. The diverse cast of characters adds richness to the story, and Ruby’s growth throughout her journey is beautifully portrayed. This book brought me to tears, but it also left me with a sense of hope. A touching, unforgettable read.
This story follows Ruby through yet another bad episode from her Mama. While Ruby and her aunt put up missing posters for her Mama, they follow leads into three different states and meet an eccentric cast of characters to help them. The narrative was straightforward enough for the genre while really getting into the mind space of a kid just trying to survive in these circumstances.
It is so valuable to see these kinds of struggles in kids’ books, both for the kids who see themselves in Ruby or for those who never thought about kids like Ruby. Every person is special to someone no matter how the cards lay.
Ruby Bean’s journey captivated me from the start, blending raw struggles with moments of joy and surprise that made the book truly special. The characters were vivid and well-rounded, with Ruby’s resilience making her especially relatable. The people she encounters added variety and depth, enriching the narrative. The author’s inclusion of kindness and unexpected connections added authenticity to Ruby’s journey. I highly recommend Somebody’s Someone to readers who enjoy stories about family, resilience, and the unexpected ways life connects us. It’s a beautifully written, memorable book that lingers long after you’ve finished it.
Ruby's mom has gone missing. Again. She and her aunt are used to this because her mom has mental health issues. When her mom has a crisis, whether it is drug use or some other psych crisis, she often runs away from home as a result. Ruby and her aunt set out to find mom, with some interesting encounters along the way. This is a fantastic insight at how mental health affects the whole family/community, how we don't know everyone's story, and how every person is "somebody's someone". It could really help develop empathy and/or understanding for other people's situations.
A story following a girl named Ruby on the hunt of her mom Ruthie. Ruthie deals with addiction and mental illness and is often on the run. This time, Ruby and her Aunt try to track her down, but has Ruthie already gotten into too much trouble? This is an important story of a young girl trying to cope with her mother’s addiction, while also reminding grown-ups that her mom is ‘somebody’s someone.’
'Somebody's Someone' is a very heartfelt children's novel with illustrations woven in. Ruby's mother Ruthie goes missing so Ruby and her aunt go on a journey to find her. It tackles topics such as mental health struggles and addiction is a way that isn't overly detailed but is perfect for explaining to younger audiences.
This story will hit home with many of your kids from families where adoption is part of their story. A, “Someone” who is lost in a cycle of addiction, poor choices, and running away is familiar. I can see keeping this on my 7-8 shelves for the right readers to find. Every Somebody’s Someone matters.
I become continuously impressed with the bold topics in today's middle grade fiction. This an incredibly clever perspective on a very important topic of homelessness, mental health, and how every person matters.
SOMEBODY'S SOMEONE deals with serious issues such as homelessness, addiction, mental illness and incarceration, but High's snappy storytelling should be able to snag readers who are not directly affected by such problems.