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320 pages, Kindle Edition
Published September 30, 2025
As others have stated, there isn’t much “new” about this book that hasn’t been said by other authors and providers in the trauma space. Dr Apigain also recently posted about taking a pause from her book tour to attend Charlie Kirk’s memorial. She shut down comments on the post after receiving valid concern and criticism and then deleted it altogether. I have a hard time trusting someone in the trauma healing space who doesn’t see the harm in aligning herself with Christian nationalists, especially when she’s chosen to be silent about genocide, school shootings and other acts of gun violence over the last few years. Unfortunately, this seems to be just one more person whitewashing trauma healing and failing to acknowledge the power in their privilege.
What struck me most was the way the author uses her adopted son Miguel’s story. She introduces him as part of her “expert” narrative, but then never tells readers what happened to him. Only if you dig into her podcast do you discover that she rehomed him (terminated her parental rights) just as he was supposed to be getting better while in treatment. For someone who positions herself as a trauma expert and a medical doctor, that omission is disturbing.
