Naomi is Junichiro Tanizaki’s stunningly evocative work exhibiting a man’s romantic-erotic obsession with his unfaithful wife.
“I wanted to boast to everyone, “This woman is mine. Take a look at my treasure.”
This is a tale of agony, emotionally and sexually. Joji, a successful professional almost in his thirties, is bewitched by a modest and innocent eurasian waitress of fifteen so much so that the he propositions her and takes her guardianship as his own. Initially unsure of what he wanted, they start off being friends but as men and women often do when they live under one roof, they become man and wife. They start as the very image of happiness and he spoils her and educates her, as one would do to a pet domesticated from the wild, that is until the curtain drops and his pet bares her fangs and reveals the beast inside untamed. His little pet, his Naomi, was never a pet but rather a puppeteer deploying her masterful strings of deceit and stringing him along with her lies. The image of chastity shatters and out comes a harlot so wily yet so terrifyingly breathtaking. In his contempt he falls further into depravity and a giant passion takes hold of him.
“I realized that a woman’s face grows more beautiful the more it incurs a man’s hatred.”
Joji becomes blinded by love and lust, repeatedly experiencing suffering and betrayal at her hand, he marches on unceasingly in his pathological desire for her beauty. And so little by little he grows accustomed to the pain, to the torment, he becomes numb, and he emerges a docile man completely under the spell of his little Naomi.
“I’ve known all along that she’s fickle and selfish; if those faults were removed, she would lose her value. The more I think of her as fickle and selfish, the more adorable she becomes, and the more deeply I am ensnared by her.”
It is difficult to ascertain what quality in Joji is to blame. Perhaps lechery? Maybe stubbornness? Or is it self-deception? As an introverted person he knows he does not enjoy her personality especially when they are with other people. He even admits that her level of intelligence is a disappointment to him. However every time they escape the prying eyes of society, when only her and him exist, she transforms into the most beautiful creature he can ever imagine. The Naomi that matters to him is the Naomi who is alone with him, the Naomi of other people he does not care about. Is this enough? He envisions a closed off union with only the two of them, like pet and master, man and wife, nobody else, as if to say “let the world burn, but give me Naomi.”
Romantic love is a fragile, jealous, and possessive concept that needs trust to blossom, while in turn, for trust to thrive it needs fidelity. But what if fidelity is not there, can romantic love transpire? It might be possible. The emotional and sexual aspects of a romantic relationship are two different but codependent functions. Our cultural and moral upbringing has instilled in us the notion that these two are one function only, but cases like Joji and Naomi present us with the probability that perhaps sexual and emotional can be separate. Maybe copulation does not dictate emotion. Maybe a woman is a woman first, and she can be a sexual being without the label of ‘wife.’ Don’t misunderstand my intentions; I am not defending Naomi’s actions. I am merely trying to understand Joji’s mindset and their unusual marriage unweighed by pride and compromised with acceptance.
There are a different number of ways to look at their relationship. In the end all he ever wanted was to love her fully, unconditionally. Instead, all he did was put himself deeper and deeper inside her pocket until he was barely felt at all, as light as air, as forgettable as innocence. She was the master and he the little pet. Well, at least, that’s how society would see this.
However, for Joji, he has merely done what a husband in love would do: accept his wife despite her flaws. Is this folly or is this virtue? Is he a victim or is he the victor?
“For myself, it makes no difference what you think of me; I’m in love with Naomi.”