Mini essay bc fun for me. Two queer women who are partners and both have bipolar! How awesome is that! Doctors and researchers may be experts on the scientific side, but these women have developed rich expertise, not accidentally, in how to manage and live with their illness. Like how to actually DO that and have it stick. And it’s just as invaluable as the scientific/genetic/biochemical etc. You can’t really realize how many knowledge gaps there are that scientific lit, psych advice, and even therapy can’t cover until you’re actually reading something like this and learning SO much more than expected.
Ok yeah just looking at the cover this book may come across as cheesy af & maybe reductive & out of touch, but it’s anything but. Its casual tone, format, and tense means that Wendy & Honora spend the whole book speaking directly TO you, at YOUR level, which is also not something possible in scientific lit. It’s super comfortable, not bogged down by jargon, only supported and enhanced by science intermittently. It’s about little things and big things. They do not dull or dim any of their experiences or methods or findings.
The book’s purpose is “how to fine tune this illness when you’re at sea level” & “fuel up” and that’s spot on. If you’re not at sea level and wanting to read this while experiencing some amount of depression, I’d recommend skipping through to sections/tips in the table of contents that feel like they could contain things that would feel good for you to hear, not like work. Most of this book won’t land while you’re depressed.
But! It sure does when you have recently come out of an episode and already achieved some amount of stability, and it’s incredibly useful. In that case I also recommend just reading the whole thing straight through, even sections that you feel like won’t apply to you- I got something super helpful out of lots of sections I wasn’t expecting to! I feel like there’s always more to learn than you think there is, and there are always more methods, treatments, answers than it feels like there is too.
Outside of specific tips, even just being immersed in their mindsets and learning how to consider your life through the lens of bipolar was really useful to me.
Overall super easy read that is still really useful so what’s not to like!