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Hate Won't Win: Find Your Power and Leave This Place Better Than You Found It
In this urgent expansion of her viral speech, Michigan State Senator Mallory McMorrow details a life in politics in one of the most precarious moments in our nation’s history - alongside a call to action to use our voices—with actionable steps and advice that anyone can take—to build community, fight for what's right, and create real, lasting change.
Mallory McMorrow was on the verge of giving up. Once the youngest state senator in Michigan's history—a title she assumed after defeating an incumbent in one of the biggest political upsets of 2018—the work of legislating was nothing like she’d hoped. She knew it wouldn’t be easy, but she wasn’t expecting an insidious culture of sexual harassment, armed protestors storming the state Capitol, or colleagues who had zero interest in reaching across the aisle to get anything meaningful done.
And things really needed to get done. A new mother to a baby girl, Mallory was as worried as the rest of us about the state of our country and the world. School shootings, dire climate reports, natural disasters, escalating political violence and extremism, a plummeting life expectancy and birth rate, crippling student and healthcare debt, the rolling back of reproductive rights… the list was overwhelming. Where could one even start?
But then fate forced her hand. A Senate colleague had called her a “groomer” for standing up for LGBTQ+ kids and against attempts to whitewash history in our schools. In response, Mallory delivered a blistering rebuke with a speech from the Michigan Senate floor that reverberated throughout the country (and the world), leading many long-jaded political pundits to hail Mallory’s action as a “blueprint” for fighting back. Here, Mallory breaks down her unlikely journey into politics with a front-row seat to conspiracy theories, division, and democracy at its breaking point, then outlines the tangible, proven steps that she and others have used to drive real systemic change, with practical advice that anyone can follow.
Hate Won’t Win is a step-by-step guide for anyone who’s fed up with the unending nightmare of American politics who wants to make a real difference but has no idea where to start. It’s a book with a big to empower anyone and everyone to find their voice and find their power to leave this place better than we found it and create the communities and country we want to see.
Mallory McMorrow was on the verge of giving up. Once the youngest state senator in Michigan's history—a title she assumed after defeating an incumbent in one of the biggest political upsets of 2018—the work of legislating was nothing like she’d hoped. She knew it wouldn’t be easy, but she wasn’t expecting an insidious culture of sexual harassment, armed protestors storming the state Capitol, or colleagues who had zero interest in reaching across the aisle to get anything meaningful done.
And things really needed to get done. A new mother to a baby girl, Mallory was as worried as the rest of us about the state of our country and the world. School shootings, dire climate reports, natural disasters, escalating political violence and extremism, a plummeting life expectancy and birth rate, crippling student and healthcare debt, the rolling back of reproductive rights… the list was overwhelming. Where could one even start?
But then fate forced her hand. A Senate colleague had called her a “groomer” for standing up for LGBTQ+ kids and against attempts to whitewash history in our schools. In response, Mallory delivered a blistering rebuke with a speech from the Michigan Senate floor that reverberated throughout the country (and the world), leading many long-jaded political pundits to hail Mallory’s action as a “blueprint” for fighting back. Here, Mallory breaks down her unlikely journey into politics with a front-row seat to conspiracy theories, division, and democracy at its breaking point, then outlines the tangible, proven steps that she and others have used to drive real systemic change, with practical advice that anyone can follow.
Hate Won’t Win is a step-by-step guide for anyone who’s fed up with the unending nightmare of American politics who wants to make a real difference but has no idea where to start. It’s a book with a big to empower anyone and everyone to find their voice and find their power to leave this place better than we found it and create the communities and country we want to see.
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Published March 25, 2025
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June 24, 2025
It was local library day for me. I always love this day because I get to walk around the stacks and pick and check-out books to read. I haven’t been doing this lately, especially since we had been busy with our grandsons. So, now that they were back home with their parents, this was a long over-due personal activity.
It was also a few days before #NOKINGSDAY, so having this book staring out at me, seemed like a perfect read.
I found myself loving this author and all that she stood for in service to this country. For those who may want a reminder to her famous 4 minute+ speech in 2022, here is a link: Hate Won’t Win: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4mxWL...
I also loved the title of the book. I really want to believe it and promote the idea of it everywhere. Maybe if we say it enough times, it CAN become true.
Because so far, every indication of what is happening from top/down tells me differently.
As an example, very recently, our California citizens learned of an unwarranted assault and arrest of our own Senator Alex Padilla.
And, consider the morning of Saturday, June 14, 2025 when a lone gunman while posing as a police officer, shot and killed a Minnesota lawmaker and her husband, and their precious pet dog, Gilbert; and, wounded two more who are currently in stable condition.
Even if these events I mention above seem separate, we could always count on Presidents in the past to say something. Not so with this one. A sitting president refusing to call the governor of a state after two elected officials were shot, one fatally, is beyond words. A typical president, regardless of politics, would pick up the phone. Offer condolences. Ask what the federal government can do to help and show leadership. The horrific violence that seems to be celebrated and encouraged by this President is reckless, troubling, dangerous and dehumanizing.
So, reading books like this one feels significant in moments of political discontent. The title of this book, as mentioned earlier, is taken verbatim from a speech that launched the author in to political notoriety. Something she didn’t initially desire for herself. See link above.
I also love the subtitle: “Find your Power & Leave this Place Better than you Found It.” We need a lot more of this too, don’t you think?
The book is divided into three areas: Memoir, Call-to-action, and a Workbook.
Of course, it is nice to learn more about the author’s life, and what makes her such a motivational role model. But the book could also be considered inspirational for anybody who wants to make a difference in their community and beyond. And yet, what makes this book really work is the workbook section which provides many actionable steps towards building community and creating change.
For anyone looking for a way out of the divisiveness of politics, this book provides credible insights. It can also be utilized as a viable textbook.
It was also a few days before #NOKINGSDAY, so having this book staring out at me, seemed like a perfect read.
I found myself loving this author and all that she stood for in service to this country. For those who may want a reminder to her famous 4 minute+ speech in 2022, here is a link: Hate Won’t Win: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4mxWL...
I also loved the title of the book. I really want to believe it and promote the idea of it everywhere. Maybe if we say it enough times, it CAN become true.
Because so far, every indication of what is happening from top/down tells me differently.
As an example, very recently, our California citizens learned of an unwarranted assault and arrest of our own Senator Alex Padilla.
And, consider the morning of Saturday, June 14, 2025 when a lone gunman while posing as a police officer, shot and killed a Minnesota lawmaker and her husband, and their precious pet dog, Gilbert; and, wounded two more who are currently in stable condition.
Even if these events I mention above seem separate, we could always count on Presidents in the past to say something. Not so with this one. A sitting president refusing to call the governor of a state after two elected officials were shot, one fatally, is beyond words. A typical president, regardless of politics, would pick up the phone. Offer condolences. Ask what the federal government can do to help and show leadership. The horrific violence that seems to be celebrated and encouraged by this President is reckless, troubling, dangerous and dehumanizing.
So, reading books like this one feels significant in moments of political discontent. The title of this book, as mentioned earlier, is taken verbatim from a speech that launched the author in to political notoriety. Something she didn’t initially desire for herself. See link above.
I also love the subtitle: “Find your Power & Leave this Place Better than you Found It.” We need a lot more of this too, don’t you think?
The book is divided into three areas: Memoir, Call-to-action, and a Workbook.
Of course, it is nice to learn more about the author’s life, and what makes her such a motivational role model. But the book could also be considered inspirational for anybody who wants to make a difference in their community and beyond. And yet, what makes this book really work is the workbook section which provides many actionable steps towards building community and creating change.
For anyone looking for a way out of the divisiveness of politics, this book provides credible insights. It can also be utilized as a viable textbook.
February 27, 2025
I remember when Mallory McMorrow rang our doorbell, campaigning door to door when she first ran for the Michigan Senate. Yes, we voted for her. Hate Won’t Win is both her memoir about how she got into politics and her career in Lansing and a how-to guide on how to become political forces as voters and citizens.
McMorrow was frustrated about the political chaos in the country and was inspired to run for office. She believed in the American dream where everyone mattered. Her mother had patterned a life of service. McMorrow’s education and career had taken her across the county. Then, she married a “fourth-generation Royal Oaker”–where I lived from age 11 to marriage.
McMorrow ran in a traditionally Republican area against a Republican incumbent under criticism for lack of dedication. And she won, the same year that Gretchen Whitmer was elected governor. McMorrow was the youngest woman ever elected to the Michigan Senate.
She soon came up against the ingrained ‘Old Boy’s Club’ acceptance of sexual harassment. At orientation, another senator touched her inappropriately, and when she learned that other women had experienced the same unwanted advances, she reported him. Consequences for the man were limited, but the atmosphere in the Senate changed for the better. Whitmer later told her that “this place has been a snake pit for years.”
But the challenges were just beginning. McMorrow saw the Michigan Capitol overrun with armed extremists, some of whom later participated in a kidnapping plot against Governor Whitmer. There was the COVID-19 crisis, the January 6 violence. Another senator accused her of grooming children.
McMorrow was the second sitting Michigan senator to give birth while in office; the legislature required in-person participation. McMorrow introduced a family leave disclosure act requiring disclosure of family leave policies upon hire.
You are our voice of reason in a world gone mad. from Hate Won’t Win by Mallory McMorrow
McMorrow gave a speech decrying politically based dehumanization. It ended, “I know who I am. I know what faith and service means, and what it calls for in this moment. We will not let hate win.”
She had not planned to run for reelection. She was tired of being targeted by Republicans, tired of introducing bills that went nowhere. But after her speech went viral, she was invited on all the news channels and messages came in supporting her.
McMorrow decries the division that separates and demonizes neighbors. She warns against the cable news designed to bait you into binge watching and rile up emotions. She notes that liking and sharing memes isn’t political action. Then, she clearly offers how to practice politics, influencing those in power or supporting candidates who stand for your values.
People have lost faith in politics and politicians. But to change the world we have to connect, act, and participate. Start local. Find your people. Embrace your civic duty. The state government has more power over you than the Federal, she states. We can’t impact every issue. Voting and protests alone can’t change things. But we can’t retreat, either.
It took five years for McMorrow to get a bill into law, a red flag law that helped the Royal Oak police manage a situation blocks from McMorrow’s home. The fight is always worth it.
She ends, “let’s create the future we want to see, together.”
Thanks to the publisher for a free book through NetGalley.
McMorrow was frustrated about the political chaos in the country and was inspired to run for office. She believed in the American dream where everyone mattered. Her mother had patterned a life of service. McMorrow’s education and career had taken her across the county. Then, she married a “fourth-generation Royal Oaker”–where I lived from age 11 to marriage.
McMorrow ran in a traditionally Republican area against a Republican incumbent under criticism for lack of dedication. And she won, the same year that Gretchen Whitmer was elected governor. McMorrow was the youngest woman ever elected to the Michigan Senate.
She soon came up against the ingrained ‘Old Boy’s Club’ acceptance of sexual harassment. At orientation, another senator touched her inappropriately, and when she learned that other women had experienced the same unwanted advances, she reported him. Consequences for the man were limited, but the atmosphere in the Senate changed for the better. Whitmer later told her that “this place has been a snake pit for years.”
But the challenges were just beginning. McMorrow saw the Michigan Capitol overrun with armed extremists, some of whom later participated in a kidnapping plot against Governor Whitmer. There was the COVID-19 crisis, the January 6 violence. Another senator accused her of grooming children.
McMorrow was the second sitting Michigan senator to give birth while in office; the legislature required in-person participation. McMorrow introduced a family leave disclosure act requiring disclosure of family leave policies upon hire.
You are our voice of reason in a world gone mad. from Hate Won’t Win by Mallory McMorrow
McMorrow gave a speech decrying politically based dehumanization. It ended, “I know who I am. I know what faith and service means, and what it calls for in this moment. We will not let hate win.”
She had not planned to run for reelection. She was tired of being targeted by Republicans, tired of introducing bills that went nowhere. But after her speech went viral, she was invited on all the news channels and messages came in supporting her.
McMorrow decries the division that separates and demonizes neighbors. She warns against the cable news designed to bait you into binge watching and rile up emotions. She notes that liking and sharing memes isn’t political action. Then, she clearly offers how to practice politics, influencing those in power or supporting candidates who stand for your values.
People have lost faith in politics and politicians. But to change the world we have to connect, act, and participate. Start local. Find your people. Embrace your civic duty. The state government has more power over you than the Federal, she states. We can’t impact every issue. Voting and protests alone can’t change things. But we can’t retreat, either.
It took five years for McMorrow to get a bill into law, a red flag law that helped the Royal Oak police manage a situation blocks from McMorrow’s home. The fight is always worth it.
She ends, “let’s create the future we want to see, together.”
Thanks to the publisher for a free book through NetGalley.
July 16, 2025
This is an inspiring book from someone who decided to run for office to try to bring change. However, in her early days she experienced sexual harassment, armed protestors at their state capital, and those more interested in their political party than in working together to bring change. When standing up for LGBTQ+ young people, she was attacked and called a groomer. She responded with a heartfelt speech from the Michigan Senate floor, which went viral.
In times when many of us are frustrated, Mallory McMorrow shares ideas for becoming engaged and active in making change. She acknowledges it’s easy to feel lost in national politics, uncertain how to work toward change. She encourages becoming involved in local issues and politics.
I took it slow with this audiobook, listening between other books and activities.
In times when many of us are frustrated, Mallory McMorrow shares ideas for becoming engaged and active in making change. She acknowledges it’s easy to feel lost in national politics, uncertain how to work toward change. She encourages becoming involved in local issues and politics.
I took it slow with this audiobook, listening between other books and activities.
February 26, 2025
This book was so empowering & a breath of fresh air in the midst of the tense political climate we are in! If you are feeling, like myself, powerless and hopeless right now, because you are only one person and don’t know how you can make a difference, this book is for you. I love how the author used her personal experiences in the state senate to give a bipartisan how-to on how to effectively get involved in your community & state politics. While I’m a political science major and really enjoy politics, I get that politics can be very intimidating and draining, and this book gives really great resources for small things you can do to make a difference as well as providing purpose for why those actions are important.
I would recommend anyone read this, no matter what party or views you align with. It was enlightening, well researched, and truly made me feel like I can make a difference.
Thank you to Grand Central Publishing, Mallory McMorrow, & NetGalley for sending me ARC of this book in exchange for my honest review.
I would recommend anyone read this, no matter what party or views you align with. It was enlightening, well researched, and truly made me feel like I can make a difference.
Thank you to Grand Central Publishing, Mallory McMorrow, & NetGalley for sending me ARC of this book in exchange for my honest review.
July 17, 2025
This was such an inspiring book. I loved Mallory’s story about her campaign for Michigan State senate, and her experiences. It's about her life and how to take action yourself in this political climate with great tips. America needs more caring politicians like Mallory that can add some positivity to the fight for democracy. I loved it!
Thank you to the publisher for the gifted copy. All opinions are my own.
Thank you to the publisher for the gifted copy. All opinions are my own.
August 8, 2025
Currently when so much feels uncertain, and when true leadership often seems absent—I find myself feeling deeply unsettled.
Hate Won’t Win arrived in my life like a steadying voice in the storm, reminding me of the power of conviction, compassion, and hope.
I have admired Mallory McMorrow since I first heard her viral speech, and this book feels like an extension of that moment--a deeper, more intimate unfolding of everything she stands for. Her words resonate with me not just because of what she says, but because of how she says them--with clarity, courage, and a sincerity that feels all too rare today.
I chose to listen to the audiobook rather than read an ebook copy, something I rarely do. But hearing Malory narrate her own story made it feel personal, as if she were speaking directly to me, as if I were getting a long and warm hug from her. That experience made the book all the more meaningful.
Hate Won’t Win is not only a book I loved—it’s one I will return to again and again. In a time that feels fractured and disheartening, it reminds me that love, truth, and resilience still have a place... and that I can, in my small way, make a difference and leave this world a little better than I found it.
Hate Won’t Win arrived in my life like a steadying voice in the storm, reminding me of the power of conviction, compassion, and hope.
I have admired Mallory McMorrow since I first heard her viral speech, and this book feels like an extension of that moment--a deeper, more intimate unfolding of everything she stands for. Her words resonate with me not just because of what she says, but because of how she says them--with clarity, courage, and a sincerity that feels all too rare today.
I chose to listen to the audiobook rather than read an ebook copy, something I rarely do. But hearing Malory narrate her own story made it feel personal, as if she were speaking directly to me, as if I were getting a long and warm hug from her. That experience made the book all the more meaningful.
Hate Won’t Win is not only a book I loved—it’s one I will return to again and again. In a time that feels fractured and disheartening, it reminds me that love, truth, and resilience still have a place... and that I can, in my small way, make a difference and leave this world a little better than I found it.
March 28, 2025
In April of 2022, I found myself captivated by a speech spoken by a woman who healed the hearts of many, not just in the state of Michigan, but in the US and that is what we needed and what we still need.
While this is about Ms. McMorrow’s life, this is also a carefully laid-out how to guide that gives the reader insight on making a difference in today's political climate. She gives us a road map on how we can do better and on how we can help fight this current malignancy so hate won't win.
I really loved this book.I highly recommend this to those who want to make a change in the world around them.
While this is about Ms. McMorrow’s life, this is also a carefully laid-out how to guide that gives the reader insight on making a difference in today's political climate. She gives us a road map on how we can do better and on how we can help fight this current malignancy so hate won't win.
I really loved this book.I highly recommend this to those who want to make a change in the world around them.
March 24, 2025
Like many of us, Mallory McMorrow found herself horrified by the results of the 2016 election. Wanting to channel her outrage into something that could enact change, she googled “how to run for office” and started taking the steps that would lead to her Michigan Senate run…which would then lead to her viral speech against slanderous attacks from a colleague.
Hate Won’t Win is part memoir detailing her rise to state politics and The Speech, and is also part workbook on how to more productively engage in politics.
This is very accessibly written, which helps to demystify local government and help us, the readers, take actionable steps for causes we care about. I especially loved her take on our reliance on social media for politics, the way we feel like we’re consuming political content all day long but few of us take extra steps to actually do anything political. She even highlights the fact that over 80% of Americans don’t even know who their local legislature is! In Hate Won’t Win, she validates the fear tons of us are feeling from the 24 hour news cycle surrounding the president and federal government, and then shows us how to channel that in smaller ways that make a big impact, like drilling down into one core issue to dedicate yourself to, or getting more involved in your community.
This helped me shift my mindset to a more local scale and made me think more about what I’m capable of doing beyond dozens of online petitions and form letters to my legislators. Even if you’re not in Michigan, I think this is a worthy read if you are feeling stuck in fear and want to productively contribute to change you want to see.
*I received a free digital review copy from the publisher.
Hate Won’t Win is part memoir detailing her rise to state politics and The Speech, and is also part workbook on how to more productively engage in politics.
This is very accessibly written, which helps to demystify local government and help us, the readers, take actionable steps for causes we care about. I especially loved her take on our reliance on social media for politics, the way we feel like we’re consuming political content all day long but few of us take extra steps to actually do anything political. She even highlights the fact that over 80% of Americans don’t even know who their local legislature is! In Hate Won’t Win, she validates the fear tons of us are feeling from the 24 hour news cycle surrounding the president and federal government, and then shows us how to channel that in smaller ways that make a big impact, like drilling down into one core issue to dedicate yourself to, or getting more involved in your community.
This helped me shift my mindset to a more local scale and made me think more about what I’m capable of doing beyond dozens of online petitions and form letters to my legislators. Even if you’re not in Michigan, I think this is a worthy read if you are feeling stuck in fear and want to productively contribute to change you want to see.
*I received a free digital review copy from the publisher.
October 16, 2025
I highly recommend reading this book, it is excellent.
I have read more than my fair share of biographies and autobiographies on political figures / appointees, and this one stands out as being positively inspiring and pragmatically useful. I am even more geeked about it knowing that she is our Michigan state senator.
I have read more than my fair share of biographies and autobiographies on political figures / appointees, and this one stands out as being positively inspiring and pragmatically useful. I am even more geeked about it knowing that she is our Michigan state senator.
March 25, 2025
This book is SO well written. Senator McMorrow has somehow turned a political career bio into a page turner. I laughed, I cried, I found myself FURIOUS then inspired. When the political climate seems too heavy to bear, read Hate Won’t Win. I’m so tired of hearing frustration and despair when it comes to American politics. I was so pleasantly surprised to find ACTION and SOLUTION within these pages.
September 7, 2025
Let me start by saying, I truly dislike politics. McMorrow shares a very relatable heartfelt story of entering into her run for MI State Senate. She shares so much backstory from her legendary speech where she addressed being accused of being a child groomer to her experience with sexual harassment by a fellow Senator. She shares with vulnerability and an open heart. Sen. Mallory makes getting involved feel less scary and approachable, including a closing workbook with actionable steps for making change starting in your community and on a larger scale. I will recommend this book to anyone that will listen. Good work Mallory, keep fighting the good fight!!
May 14, 2025
Hate Won’t Win by Mallory McMorrow
I have been on a nonfiction book kick!
Mallory was once the youngest senator in Michigan’s history and she was about to give up. She was labeled a groomer (she’s not) by republicans because she read a book I have in my classroom, Dragon’s Love Tacos. (I’m not a groomer either) and the book is literally about a dragon who loves tacos.
She had a speech go viral and here we are. The reason I loved this book so much is because it encompasses everything I believe. We need so much reform in our country and the majority of people either don’t care, don’t think it will affect them, don’t vote, etc etc. We need healthcare reform, campaign financing reform, voting reform, so many things need to be done that the majority of people agree with, but collectively as a whole, we are not ready to make it happen because of so much apathy. While the news might be hard to tune into, it’s important to be aware of the constitutional crisis we are in. I hope after reading my review you will check out this book or at least vote in your local elections and be aware of what’s going on with the people that represent you in government.
Another reason, I thought this book was great as it gave practical examples for you to do if you want there to be change.
I hope I’ve convinced you to either read this book or take action in someway.
I have been on a nonfiction book kick!
Mallory was once the youngest senator in Michigan’s history and she was about to give up. She was labeled a groomer (she’s not) by republicans because she read a book I have in my classroom, Dragon’s Love Tacos. (I’m not a groomer either) and the book is literally about a dragon who loves tacos.
She had a speech go viral and here we are. The reason I loved this book so much is because it encompasses everything I believe. We need so much reform in our country and the majority of people either don’t care, don’t think it will affect them, don’t vote, etc etc. We need healthcare reform, campaign financing reform, voting reform, so many things need to be done that the majority of people agree with, but collectively as a whole, we are not ready to make it happen because of so much apathy. While the news might be hard to tune into, it’s important to be aware of the constitutional crisis we are in. I hope after reading my review you will check out this book or at least vote in your local elections and be aware of what’s going on with the people that represent you in government.
Another reason, I thought this book was great as it gave practical examples for you to do if you want there to be change.
I hope I’ve convinced you to either read this book or take action in someway.
May 19, 2025
Not your average political memoir. Mallory McMorrow only spends half of this book describing her improbable political career and the other half is dedicated to how you (yes, you) can be a more engaged participant in our political system and work to improve the things that matter to you. Very few people can so clearly explain not only why you should pay attention to local and state politics, but also how to do it, and it starts with getting to know your neighbors and plugging into your community.
September 21, 2025
Mallory McMorrow is a phenomenal communicator and public servant. She knows how to speak to audiences in the simplest terms by making the game of politics transparent for everyday American voters. I read this book feeling empowered rather than hopeless.
December 13, 2025
A great book Mallory McMorrow is so smart, insightful, and practical. I loved every page of this book.
May 5, 2025
An empowering read with very practical advice and action steps that can make the most impact and bring about real change!
April 27, 2025
Part memoir, part guidebook, Senator McMorrow gives us a glimpse into the reality of being an elected government official and a roadmap to how we can be effectively involved. As issues that affect our lives seem to be piling up by the day, she helps us focus. I recommend this for anyone seeking to bring about change.
April 5, 2025
Damn good self-help book on politics
Bravo to Mallory McMorrow for having the gifts of guts and words. Mallory goes beyond the “There I was” stories and tries to pass on tips to help yourself better your community. There are also many good quotes herein worth highlighting and taking to heart.
Bravo to Mallory McMorrow for having the gifts of guts and words. Mallory goes beyond the “There I was” stories and tries to pass on tips to help yourself better your community. There are also many good quotes herein worth highlighting and taking to heart.
July 10, 2025
I just realized I never reviewed this. Busy days. I listened to the author read this herself and she was great - I sure wish there were more young smart people out there willing to do what she did and fight the system to make a difference in politics at all levels. I have nothing but respect and admiration for her willingness to take action and persevere against the jerks in power. She needs to clone herself a few thousand times in all the states and Congresses! She gives good advice for others who want to do something - it takes time and persistence that most of us won’t make ourselves summon. Sadly, we are a nation of people consumed or stressed out by our daily lives and responsibilities who count on sound bites from our echo chambers to keep us informed. If you read nothing else in the book, check out her discussion about choosing your media sources. It’s about halfway through.
May 24, 2025
First, a disclaimer: I won this book in a #GoodreadsGiveaway. This is a voluntary and honest review. I really liked Part One, the memoir, of this book. This is the part that drew me to the book in the first place. Mallory McMorrow has an uplifting voice in her writing. It is always a joy to read memoirs of positive and inspiring people. Her storytelling is engaging and appealing.
Part Two, the how-to section, is also well written. I didn’t have as much interest in reading this section but I don’t like to leave a book unfinished, especially if I plan on writing a review. That said, I am happy I read it and I started to think I can do this as I read her instructions. I think for those that are interested it would be a great help in learning to be a constructive activist. The author makes many valid points on the effectiveness of person to person contact versus ranting on social media.
I highly recommend this book. I decided to give it five stars because the memoir was wonderful and the how-to section engrossed and educated me more than I expected any how-to book could.
BTW, my copy of Hate Won't Win is not marked as an advance reader copy, even though I received it before the publication date.
Part Two, the how-to section, is also well written. I didn’t have as much interest in reading this section but I don’t like to leave a book unfinished, especially if I plan on writing a review. That said, I am happy I read it and I started to think I can do this as I read her instructions. I think for those that are interested it would be a great help in learning to be a constructive activist. The author makes many valid points on the effectiveness of person to person contact versus ranting on social media.
I highly recommend this book. I decided to give it five stars because the memoir was wonderful and the how-to section engrossed and educated me more than I expected any how-to book could.
BTW, my copy of Hate Won't Win is not marked as an advance reader copy, even though I received it before the publication date.
December 23, 2024
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Thank you, Grand Central Publishing, for providing this book for review consideration via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review. All opinions are my own.
Mr. Book just finished Hate Won’t Win: Find Your Power and Leave This Place Better Than You Found It, by Mallory McMorrow.
This book will be published on March 25, 2025.
This book is by Mallory McMorrow, who was the youngest woman ever elected to the Michigan State Senate. She made national news when a speech she made on the floor of the Senate went viral in April 2022.
I felt like I was reading two different books. The first part of the book, when she limited herself to politics was very interesting. The author wrote about how she got started and defeated an entrenched Republican incumbent. She then was victimized by sexual harassment during her Senate initiation sessions by another member of the Senate. The speech that went viral came after she was the target of a vicious slandering by one of the Republican Senators.
But, then the second part was a mixture of life tips, as well as sometimes incorporating politics into it. When she was writing politics and was writing about her interactions with people., that part was effective, but when she started talking about politics in general, it felt too much like a “politics for dummies” book. I wouldn’t say she was talking down to the audience, but it did seem like her audience was people who are not interested in the topic. And, when she wasn’t writing about politics in that part of the book, I was definitely not the target audience for that either.
I became a fan of Senator McMorrow while reading the book and hope she has a great future ahead of her in politics. But, when it comes to this book, unfortunately, the best I can do is give it a B.
Goodreads and NetGalley require grades on a 1-5 star system. In my personal conversion system, a B equates to 3 stars. (A or A+: 5 stars, B+: 4 stars, B: 3 stars, C: 2 stars, D or F: 1 star).
This review has been posted at NetGalley, Goodreads and Mr. Book’s Book Reviews
Mr. Book finished reading this on December 23, 2024.
Thank you, Grand Central Publishing, for providing this book for review consideration via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review. All opinions are my own.
Mr. Book just finished Hate Won’t Win: Find Your Power and Leave This Place Better Than You Found It, by Mallory McMorrow.
This book will be published on March 25, 2025.
This book is by Mallory McMorrow, who was the youngest woman ever elected to the Michigan State Senate. She made national news when a speech she made on the floor of the Senate went viral in April 2022.
I felt like I was reading two different books. The first part of the book, when she limited herself to politics was very interesting. The author wrote about how she got started and defeated an entrenched Republican incumbent. She then was victimized by sexual harassment during her Senate initiation sessions by another member of the Senate. The speech that went viral came after she was the target of a vicious slandering by one of the Republican Senators.
But, then the second part was a mixture of life tips, as well as sometimes incorporating politics into it. When she was writing politics and was writing about her interactions with people., that part was effective, but when she started talking about politics in general, it felt too much like a “politics for dummies” book. I wouldn’t say she was talking down to the audience, but it did seem like her audience was people who are not interested in the topic. And, when she wasn’t writing about politics in that part of the book, I was definitely not the target audience for that either.
I became a fan of Senator McMorrow while reading the book and hope she has a great future ahead of her in politics. But, when it comes to this book, unfortunately, the best I can do is give it a B.
Goodreads and NetGalley require grades on a 1-5 star system. In my personal conversion system, a B equates to 3 stars. (A or A+: 5 stars, B+: 4 stars, B: 3 stars, C: 2 stars, D or F: 1 star).
This review has been posted at NetGalley, Goodreads and Mr. Book’s Book Reviews
Mr. Book finished reading this on December 23, 2024.
October 17, 2025
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Hate Won’t Win by Mallory McMorrow
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
I have voted in one election in Michigan, shortly after moving here to Royal Oak a year ago. I’ve only ever know Illinois politics (which was interesting…to say the least!) I really knew nothing about Michigan politics.
One afternoon I was strolling along Washington Avenue in Royal Oak and went in @sidetrackbookshop to browse before I met my group for dinner. I noticed this book on display and recognized the woman on the cover, @mallorymcmorrow , as she’s been popping up on my social media asking for support as she runs for a new open seat in the US Senate. I was intrigued ~ young, excellent speaker and seemed to share the same interests as me. I opened the book, found it to be a signed copy from her visit to this bookstore, and this is her hometown where she is our current State Senator! The little bit I read in the store made me want to know more, so I impulsively bought it (that’s not this library girl’s norm!)
Then I went home and googled her ~ and found her infamous YouTube video of her viral powerful speech on the state senate floor in 2022 that brought her into the national spotlight! (Go watch!)
I read the book in a few sittings. What I appreciate most, is her call to action (with specific action steps) to get involved in local politics. Learn who represents you in your city and state and become involved at a level where you can make a difference. I’m not too old to learn this. In a politically divided family and home, finding that voice can be tricky. But because of that, I also am not living in a political bubble and actually understand the values of my family’s opposing views. But that doesn’t mean I can’t continue to learn and educate myself and vote in a way that is empathetic towards all people.
Hate Won’t Win by Mallory McMorrow
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
I have voted in one election in Michigan, shortly after moving here to Royal Oak a year ago. I’ve only ever know Illinois politics (which was interesting…to say the least!) I really knew nothing about Michigan politics.
One afternoon I was strolling along Washington Avenue in Royal Oak and went in @sidetrackbookshop to browse before I met my group for dinner. I noticed this book on display and recognized the woman on the cover, @mallorymcmorrow , as she’s been popping up on my social media asking for support as she runs for a new open seat in the US Senate. I was intrigued ~ young, excellent speaker and seemed to share the same interests as me. I opened the book, found it to be a signed copy from her visit to this bookstore, and this is her hometown where she is our current State Senator! The little bit I read in the store made me want to know more, so I impulsively bought it (that’s not this library girl’s norm!)
Then I went home and googled her ~ and found her infamous YouTube video of her viral powerful speech on the state senate floor in 2022 that brought her into the national spotlight! (Go watch!)
I read the book in a few sittings. What I appreciate most, is her call to action (with specific action steps) to get involved in local politics. Learn who represents you in your city and state and become involved at a level where you can make a difference. I’m not too old to learn this. In a politically divided family and home, finding that voice can be tricky. But because of that, I also am not living in a political bubble and actually understand the values of my family’s opposing views. But that doesn’t mean I can’t continue to learn and educate myself and vote in a way that is empathetic towards all people.
June 2, 2025
Mallory McMorrow is a smart, strong, and determined woman, who shares her journey in politics as well as clear and easy-to-follow advice for all of us. It is a wonderful how-to guide for voters, helping us to become better citizens ... forces of change. She has served in the Michigan State Senate since 2019, and is currently running for US Senate. I lived in Michigan for 12 years, and if I were still there I would definitely vote for her.
Like many of us, McMorrow is frustrated by the current state of affairs, believing that the chaos is not conducive to good government. She believes that all of us matter.
Unsurprisingly, McMorrow has been subjected to sexual harassment in her role as senator. But she didn't sit back and allow it to continue. She reported it, and because of her bravery the senate changed for the better. I hope that other women will follow her example and force a wave of change.
She served during the Covid crisis, a kidnapping plot of her governor, and a day when the state capitol was overrun with armed terrorists. She has been accused of grooming children, by the same people who say this about all of our teachers. She fought for family leave, after learning that she must be in-person to participate in legislation, even after giving birth.
But the best part about the book is her ability to show the reader that we are more powerful together, that our voices matter, and that we can effectuate change. The title of the book is perfectly chosen, as this is her overriding message.
Hate won't win. Hate. Won't. Win.
Thank you @grandcentralpub for mysterious #gifted copy of this powerful book!
Like many of us, McMorrow is frustrated by the current state of affairs, believing that the chaos is not conducive to good government. She believes that all of us matter.
Unsurprisingly, McMorrow has been subjected to sexual harassment in her role as senator. But she didn't sit back and allow it to continue. She reported it, and because of her bravery the senate changed for the better. I hope that other women will follow her example and force a wave of change.
She served during the Covid crisis, a kidnapping plot of her governor, and a day when the state capitol was overrun with armed terrorists. She has been accused of grooming children, by the same people who say this about all of our teachers. She fought for family leave, after learning that she must be in-person to participate in legislation, even after giving birth.
But the best part about the book is her ability to show the reader that we are more powerful together, that our voices matter, and that we can effectuate change. The title of the book is perfectly chosen, as this is her overriding message.
Hate won't win. Hate. Won't. Win.
Thank you @grandcentralpub for mysterious #gifted copy of this powerful book!
December 7, 2024
Mallory McMorrow is a state senator of Michigan. You may have seen her on various news outlets and at the recent DNC convention, holding a giant Project 2025 plan book. But you have never heard her story. How did she get the urger to run for her local state Senate? She explains her path in this book, and how you can be involved in local politics. She advocates that if you want to see change, get involved. Ms. McMorrow's story is inspiring and heartwarming, but it is also a story with dark themes, so there is a trigger warning of SA and suicide.
Ms. McMorrow is like a friend who encourages you to be a change-maker instead of sitting there and complaining. At the end of this book is a workbook showing how to start making those changes slowly. This book was an interesting read and she weaved in stories of real people throughout her book on both sides of the aisle. We learn an honest look at the world of public life and it will not be easy there is a lot of cutthroat competition. If you are interested in learning about her life and getting involved in local politics this is an excellent book to have in your library.
I received this book free in exchange for an honest review. I already have it on pre-order and can't wait to see the finished book.
Ms. McMorrow is like a friend who encourages you to be a change-maker instead of sitting there and complaining. At the end of this book is a workbook showing how to start making those changes slowly. This book was an interesting read and she weaved in stories of real people throughout her book on both sides of the aisle. We learn an honest look at the world of public life and it will not be easy there is a lot of cutthroat competition. If you are interested in learning about her life and getting involved in local politics this is an excellent book to have in your library.
I received this book free in exchange for an honest review. I already have it on pre-order and can't wait to see the finished book.
March 22, 2025
Michigan State Senator Mallory McMorrow became well known for a speech she made several years ago, and I was interested to learn more about her in her first memoir /political how-to.
McMorrow's book serves two functions. Part of the book serves as an introduction to McMorrow and her reasons for entering the political arena. In short, she did it because things needed to be fixed and no one was fixing them. Her commentary on how words without action mean nothing and how many people people send mixed messages by vocally supporting things without doing anything themselves struck a nerve, and I enjoyed hearing about how she bravely spoke out against wrongdoings and tried to set a positive example in her position.
Part two is a how-to about getting involved in politics in a way that can actually make a difference. The biggest thing I took away from that section was that we should all start small, focusing on the community around us and the local representatives that can actually make a difference in our daily lives. Her suggestions made sense, and it becomes quite clear that we should start at home to make real change in our world.
Thank you to Grand Central Pub for the gifted copy; all opinions are my own.
McMorrow's book serves two functions. Part of the book serves as an introduction to McMorrow and her reasons for entering the political arena. In short, she did it because things needed to be fixed and no one was fixing them. Her commentary on how words without action mean nothing and how many people people send mixed messages by vocally supporting things without doing anything themselves struck a nerve, and I enjoyed hearing about how she bravely spoke out against wrongdoings and tried to set a positive example in her position.
Part two is a how-to about getting involved in politics in a way that can actually make a difference. The biggest thing I took away from that section was that we should all start small, focusing on the community around us and the local representatives that can actually make a difference in our daily lives. Her suggestions made sense, and it becomes quite clear that we should start at home to make real change in our world.
Thank you to Grand Central Pub for the gifted copy; all opinions are my own.
April 8, 2025
If you are like me, you have lost faith in America's politics and politicians. Our citizens are impacted on every issue. Even though voting and protest marches alone will not change things, we can't sit back and retreat. Together we must continue to act, unite and participate. It all sounds good, however, since January 20, 2025, in a whirlwind frenzy, the new US president has not only shaken the executive branch , but European security and liberal international order and global economics.
If you are feeling like this reader. . . powerless, hopeless. You are only one person, how can you, whatever your age or sex, make a difference, then this book is for you. "Hate Won't Win, is empowering and a breath of fresh air among the tenseness of our current political climate. The author, Mallory McMorrow, uses her personal experiences while running for the state senate to give you a bipartisan look into becoming involved. As we all know, politics can be intimidating, often draining, however, this small little book provides you with great resources on how-to- make a difference and provide purpose. I highly recommend it. No matter what "view" you may be aligned with, this well researched book will. . . once again let you feel I can still make a difference!
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If you are feeling like this reader. . . powerless, hopeless. You are only one person, how can you, whatever your age or sex, make a difference, then this book is for you. "Hate Won't Win, is empowering and a breath of fresh air among the tenseness of our current political climate. The author, Mallory McMorrow, uses her personal experiences while running for the state senate to give you a bipartisan look into becoming involved. As we all know, politics can be intimidating, often draining, however, this small little book provides you with great resources on how-to- make a difference and provide purpose. I highly recommend it. No matter what "view" you may be aligned with, this well researched book will. . . once again let you feel I can still make a difference!
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May 15, 2025
I’ve been fan of Mallory’s for quite a while - I think she has the potential to be a genuine difference maker on a national level. There are several strong candidates in the upcoming US Senate race in Michigan, so I was interested in reading this book to see what she had to say. Overall, this was a quick and easy read that I enjoyed. It is written in a very conversational, straight talk kind of style which is the impression I have had of her from the various media pieces I have seen. I definitely feel that I have a better understanding of who she is and what motivates her, which is what makes here a compelling candidate. I also thought the “workbook” aspect of the book was an interesting and unique approach. Like the author, I am not happy with what is happening with our government on multiple levels and have been struggling to find the right way to get involved. I thought she offered some interesting and practical solutions for finding the right way to do this that suits everyone’s individual comfort level.
As a final note…I rarely read the acknowledgements section at the end of the book. For some reason I chose to do that with this book, and LOVED the shout out to Dairy Deluxe in the final sentence (although I have always been partial to Dairy Mat).
As a final note…I rarely read the acknowledgements section at the end of the book. For some reason I chose to do that with this book, and LOVED the shout out to Dairy Deluxe in the final sentence (although I have always been partial to Dairy Mat).
November 10, 2025
Mallory McMorrow’s Hate Won’t Win is part memoir mixed with part rallying cry that equals one inspiring read. From her viral Senate floor speech to the behind-the-scenes realities of politics, Mallory shows what it really means to fight for justice in a system that can wear you down and why it’s still worth fighting.
What really stands out is her honesty. Mallory doesn’t sugarcoat the harassment, misinformation, and burnout that come with public life. What makes this book so powerful is that it’s more about hope than what’s broken. Her story of finding her voice again is a reminder that everyday people can make a difference when they refuse to stay quiet.
The writing is sharp and engaging, and her passion comes through on every page. The advice she shares feels doable, even if you’re just starting to figure out how to make your voice heard.
If you’ve ever felt frustrated or helpless about the state of the world, Hate Won’t Win is the kind of book that helps you channel that energy into something meaningful. It’s not just a memoir, it’s a reminder that decency, courage, and truth still matter.
Thanks to NetGalley and Grand Central Publishing for the ARC in exchange for my honest thoughts!
What really stands out is her honesty. Mallory doesn’t sugarcoat the harassment, misinformation, and burnout that come with public life. What makes this book so powerful is that it’s more about hope than what’s broken. Her story of finding her voice again is a reminder that everyday people can make a difference when they refuse to stay quiet.
The writing is sharp and engaging, and her passion comes through on every page. The advice she shares feels doable, even if you’re just starting to figure out how to make your voice heard.
If you’ve ever felt frustrated or helpless about the state of the world, Hate Won’t Win is the kind of book that helps you channel that energy into something meaningful. It’s not just a memoir, it’s a reminder that decency, courage, and truth still matter.
Thanks to NetGalley and Grand Central Publishing for the ARC in exchange for my honest thoughts!
May 4, 2025
I've loved McMorrow since her incredible speech on the Michigan State Senate floor several years ago. She's articulate, passionate, and preaches to the fact that everyone should be treated equally. Her book displays all of these things. I appreciated the structure of this book: the first half allows her to introduce herself and to share how she became a politician, and the second half is more of a how-to guide about getting involved (and fighting back against the right-wing agenda). There were some really helpful tips in here (especially about how to not get overwhelmed, how to limit your media exposure to a level that feels manageable, etc.). The only thing that kept this from being a five-star read for me has more to do with my hopelessness these days. McMorrow has written a hopeful, clear-eyed book, but my perspective feels so downtrodden that some of this felt a little too optimistic (again, this has way more to do with how I'm feeling than this book). Overall, I'd recommend this to anyone who wants to look towards the future (or who wants to learn more about McMorrow herself).
*Free ARC provided by Netgalley and the publisher in exchange for an honest review*
*Free ARC provided by Netgalley and the publisher in exchange for an honest review*
April 30, 2025
Too often, time in a state legislature is treated as a brief stop in a political memoir: if we're reading the book by this president or governor, odds are they quickly moved on to higher office. So as someone who ran for local office (state representative) in 2024, I was really excited to see a memoir from someone who is a local official. I really appreciated how honest she is about the process of running for office, since even running for local office involves raising such an incredible amount of money, and how local elected officials have so much more influence over your life than a presidential candidate. I appreciated the tips that a lot of people don't know - making an appointment with your local representative (so much easier than finding your local congressman), and her focus on the importance of childcare and paid family leave.
To a lot of people, the world feels scary right now. McMorrow's book is a great start if you're wondering what to do next for your community.. I'd recommend to anyone who is wondering "how can I help?"
To a lot of people, the world feels scary right now. McMorrow's book is a great start if you're wondering what to do next for your community.. I'd recommend to anyone who is wondering "how can I help?"
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