Grapevine: A Mother and Daughter's Tangled Journey Through an Eating Disorder

by Alexa Doerr, Michelle Doerr

Mother and daughter Michelle Doerr and Alexa Doerr share their intertwined experiences as they confront the complexities of a seemingly elusive eating disorder diagnosis. Michelle Doerr, a devoted mother, found herself navigating uncharted territory when her daughter Alexa was diagnosed with an eating disorder at an unusually young age. Their journey through ambiguous diagnoses, clinic visits, and counseling sessions is candidly depicted, providing a real-world view of the challenges faced by families dealing with similar issues. Alexa Doerr bravely recounts her struggles and triumphs, offering a rare insight into the mind of a young person battling an eating disorder. Her perspective sheds light on the internal dialogue, tactics, and mental health of someone with an eating disorder.
They lay their raw and intimate memories side by side, intentionally choosing not to correct or edit the other's recollection. Stories are told as if they are happening in the present, from the start of their journey through their lasting recovery, as well as reflections, desires for change in the system, and hope for the future. "Grapevine" explores the dynamics of relationships and the impact a mental health challenge can have on the entire family unit. It is a powerful testament to individual perspectives and interpretations, the importance of empathy, and the enduring lessons gained from adversity. In the vineyard of life, our vines may wither and entangle, but through perseverance and the nurturing touch of love, we can bloom and thrive.

211 pages, Kindle Edition

Published July 11, 2024

Reviews

[Stephanie Giesin · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book was so good and hard to put down. I appreciate that Alexa and her mom Michelle each told of their experiences. I often felt myself to relating to both of them in different ways. Whether you know anyone that has experienced an eating disorder this book is so good to reflect on conflict within a family dynamic and trying to see and understand someone else's perspective and how they felt in a hard situation. This is a book for anyone to read and take something from.

[Macy Lee · Rating 5 out of 5]

I am so proud to be close friends with these authors and to be a witness in their journey.

This book is truly special - what an absolutely incredible read.