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The Relationship Recode: The 5-Gaze Process to Melt Resentment, Restore Connection & Reignite Intimacy

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“I’ve read everything — Deida, LePera, Terry Real, Gottman, Perel… you name it. But The Relationship Recode is the one that made an immediate difference. I now recommend it first — before all the classics.”
— Ann Elizabeth Rea, Fine Artist & Bestselling Author

You still love each other. But something’s off.

Maybe you’re stuck in the same
Fights that go nowhere.
Affection that feels robotic.
Moments of distance you can’t explain.

Or maybe…
You’ve done the work.
You know there’s a next level of intimacy, presence, and devotion — but no matter what you try, you can’t seem to get there.

You’re not in crisis — but you’re stuck.

The Relationship Recode isn’t just another communication tool or conflict-resolution model.
It’s a soul-deep recalibration of how you see and hold each other — emotionally, energetically, and relationally.

At the core of this book is The 5-Gaze Process — a revolutionary eye-gazing practice that’s helped over 1,500+ couples break through years of guardedness and reawaken the pulse of their connection.

Through this book, you and your partner

Melt years of unspoken resentment and emotional armoring

Restore trust, warmth, and erotic aliveness

Experience new levels of devotion, desire, and forgiveness

Understand and heal the “Relationship Body” — the energetic third between you

Protect your relationship from the deeper wounds that precede infidelity

Explore your soul-level purpose together through the lens of a Third Wave Relationship


This isn’t an “entry-level” book.

It’s for those who’ve explored the Love Languages, polarity, and attachment theory — and are now ready to step beyond tools and into transformation.

Whether you’re navigating disconnection or quietly craving more…
this book offers you a path to the kind of love that doesn’t just feel better — it changes everything.

Let this be the moment you stop trying to fix your relationship… and start recoding it.

332 pages, Kindle Edition

Published July 23, 2024

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July 30, 2024
The Relationship Recode gives me both hope and a fresh view on working on my future relationships....
After reading most of the popular relationship books, I was looking to find something deeper and practical...
And it happened. Relationship Recode is practical and I like that, there are many exerices and new perspectives, "Gazes" and other insights that I am getting from reading...
It defenatly will take time to practice and understand this info on a deep level !
Highly recommend reading it!
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