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To Hell With It
With the warmth and charm of Bridget Jones and a main character as unforgettable as Eleanor Oliphant, this is an irresistible debut about a young woman navigating love, friendship and happiness in a world that doesn’t think like she does.
Pearl O’Reilly is twenty-seven (nearly twenty-eight). She likes salmon pink, the number three and going to the pub with her best friend Una the same night each week. Thanks to her OCD, her other routines – from counting her way downstairs to obsessively washing her hands – pose more of a problem.
But that’s all about to change. Because it’s time for Pearl to say to hell with it – starting with the gorgeous naked man in her bed this morning…
Pearl O’Reilly is twenty-seven (nearly twenty-eight). She likes salmon pink, the number three and going to the pub with her best friend Una the same night each week. Thanks to her OCD, her other routines – from counting her way downstairs to obsessively washing her hands – pose more of a problem.
But that’s all about to change. Because it’s time for Pearl to say to hell with it – starting with the gorgeous naked man in her bed this morning…
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Published June 24, 2025
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June 16, 2025
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I didn't like this book as much as I thought I would. I've never been diagnosed with OCD, but I do have a counting ritual, same as our main character, Pearl. Pearl is half my age, but a lot of what she's dealing with resonated with me. The book isn't completely realistic in my humble opinion when a young woman who has mental health issues says to herself to hell with it.
I wasn't very happy with the way the author tackled OCD with humour. She made it seem easy to overcome, and from what I've seen with loved ones, it isn't. I also didn't like how a man comes into Pearl's life, and that's when she decides to become stronger. The author failed to handle the topic of mental health authentically. Pearl was more of a caricature than a character. If you're looking for a feel-good story, this is the perfect pick, but if you want something with a little more substance, look elsewhere.
Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for the ARC.
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I didn't like this book as much as I thought I would. I've never been diagnosed with OCD, but I do have a counting ritual, same as our main character, Pearl. Pearl is half my age, but a lot of what she's dealing with resonated with me. The book isn't completely realistic in my humble opinion when a young woman who has mental health issues says to herself to hell with it.
I wasn't very happy with the way the author tackled OCD with humour. She made it seem easy to overcome, and from what I've seen with loved ones, it isn't. I also didn't like how a man comes into Pearl's life, and that's when she decides to become stronger. The author failed to handle the topic of mental health authentically. Pearl was more of a caricature than a character. If you're looking for a feel-good story, this is the perfect pick, but if you want something with a little more substance, look elsewhere.
Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for the ARC.
June 21, 2025
💓💅*Dramatic hair flip* To Hell With It💓💅. To Hell With It written by Claire Frances was deeply inspiring, raw, heart felt, pure, honest, and real. Before continuing with my review, I just want to say that there's many different forms of OCD and people cope differently than others, no two people are the same and not everybody has the same OCD, for me it's making sure everything is perfect, for example I like everything to be clean and straight, if something is misplaced or not facing the right way, I will literally go and fix it whether it's out in public or the comfort of my own home. The major and only issue I had with this book was the way the author tackled the subject of OCD with humor and making it seem like it was so easy to overcome, when really it's not that easy to just wake up one morning and be completely cured and everything is okay. I really enjoyed this story and the main character, but like I stated, I didn't agree with the author on how she represented OCD. I felt like the mental health representation was written poorly because the author made it seem like just because a man comes into your life you have to seem strong, when really life is lifing. I can't recommend this book enough, so mark your calendars for June 24th, 2025 because this book could be so relatable for those of you who suffer from OCD. Just because your OCD isn't the same as another person, you still matter, your still worthy, and you don't need a man to feel strong.
THANK YOU TO NETGALLEY AND HARPER 360 FOR AN ARC OF THIS BOOK IN EXCHANGE FOR AN HONEST REVIEW!!!!!!!!
"💓🌹Love is the soul's motivation, not control💓🌹".
"😭💔I hated goodbyes. I always felt left behind. I'm not sure why- maybe because it was always me left behind?😭💔"
"💝We are all wild at heart, dear💝".
"💗💪Just do your best, your best is good enough💗💪".
Pearl O'Reilly is the type of person who I want to sit down and have doughnuts and tea with🍩☕. Pearl is twenty-seven, nearly twenty-eight years old, and she's a true Irish woman with blue eyes, and thick black curls that cause her to always look like a scarecrow every single morning when she wakes up. Pearl was diagnosed with an obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD) at the age of eleven years old, and she possibly thinks she has attention deficit- hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), but she hasn't been confirmed nor tested for ADHD yet. Pearl also suffers from claustrophobia and acrophobia which is a fear of heights, but trees are her safe place, so she finds solace is climbing trees. Pearl's favorite color is salmon pink, her favorite number is three, and she likes going to the pub with her best friend Una the exact same night each week. Thanks to her OCD, Pearl has so many routines, from a checklist system to having the same breakfast each and every single that consists of two pieces of whole meal toast with margarine and peanut butter, Pearl counts the fourteen stairs in her apartment every morning and then eats her breakfast. Pearl has a fear of her hair straightener burning a hole into her bedroom carpet. Every Friday night, Pearl and Una to the pub. Una and Pearl are best friends, but they are more like sisters than anything, they met when they were just fourteen years old. Pearl is so brave, beautiful, and inspiring. I really liked Pearl, she was such a relatable main character, but I just wish she knew that she didn't need a man to make her feel strong, but I guess if it wasn't for Jack, Pearl wouldn't have gone to New Zealand and faced her deepest fears. It's so refreshing to have a character that's closer to your age knowing you aren't alone despite having OCD, everything will be okay. Did I forget to mention that Pearl HATES coffee?
Pearl lives in Drangan, Ireland which is a very small village. Pearl has never ever left her small village, but that is until one man comes into Pearl's life. The best way to describe Peal is a little bird that is too afraid to spread her wings and fly. One morning, Pearl wakes up with a gorgeous man in her bed and decides to say To Hell With It with her routines. Pearl and Jack got drunk at the pub and then decided to sleep with each other. Jack was on his way to Dublin, Ireland when his car broke down and it won't be done for a few days, so Pearl decides to do something she's never done before, she offers Jack her spare bedroom until his car is fixed and out of the shop. pearl hadn't slept with a man for nearly two years before she met Jack. If it wasn't for Jack, Pearl would be stuck in her little world and little life like a weirdo. Jack is twenty-nine years old and lives in New Zealand. Before he leaves Ireland for New Zealand after his car is fixed, Jack convinces Pearl to take a little vacation in New Zealand and come visit him. One day out of the blue, Pearl decides to say To Hell With It and go visit Jack, but when she arrives she learns that Jack is hiding a big secret from her. Pearl spends two weeks in Te Puke, New Zealand which is known for kiwi fruits. In Te Puke, Pearl hikes a mountain, she gives bungee jumping a try, and she gave the ocean a kiss (swimming naked). Despite the turn of events, Pearl has a blast and lives her life to the fullest despite having some fears. I learned something new while reading this book, the color blue in New Zealand symbolizes freedom💙, I don't know if that's true or not, but I thought it would be a cool fact to share with y'all.
THANK YOU TO NETGALLEY AND HARPER 360 FOR AN ARC OF THIS BOOK IN EXCHANGE FOR AN HONEST REVIEW!!!!!!!!
"💓🌹Love is the soul's motivation, not control💓🌹".
"😭💔I hated goodbyes. I always felt left behind. I'm not sure why- maybe because it was always me left behind?😭💔"
"💝We are all wild at heart, dear💝".
"💗💪Just do your best, your best is good enough💗💪".
Pearl O'Reilly is the type of person who I want to sit down and have doughnuts and tea with🍩☕. Pearl is twenty-seven, nearly twenty-eight years old, and she's a true Irish woman with blue eyes, and thick black curls that cause her to always look like a scarecrow every single morning when she wakes up. Pearl was diagnosed with an obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD) at the age of eleven years old, and she possibly thinks she has attention deficit- hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), but she hasn't been confirmed nor tested for ADHD yet. Pearl also suffers from claustrophobia and acrophobia which is a fear of heights, but trees are her safe place, so she finds solace is climbing trees. Pearl's favorite color is salmon pink, her favorite number is three, and she likes going to the pub with her best friend Una the exact same night each week. Thanks to her OCD, Pearl has so many routines, from a checklist system to having the same breakfast each and every single that consists of two pieces of whole meal toast with margarine and peanut butter, Pearl counts the fourteen stairs in her apartment every morning and then eats her breakfast. Pearl has a fear of her hair straightener burning a hole into her bedroom carpet. Every Friday night, Pearl and Una to the pub. Una and Pearl are best friends, but they are more like sisters than anything, they met when they were just fourteen years old. Pearl is so brave, beautiful, and inspiring. I really liked Pearl, she was such a relatable main character, but I just wish she knew that she didn't need a man to make her feel strong, but I guess if it wasn't for Jack, Pearl wouldn't have gone to New Zealand and faced her deepest fears. It's so refreshing to have a character that's closer to your age knowing you aren't alone despite having OCD, everything will be okay. Did I forget to mention that Pearl HATES coffee?
Pearl lives in Drangan, Ireland which is a very small village. Pearl has never ever left her small village, but that is until one man comes into Pearl's life. The best way to describe Peal is a little bird that is too afraid to spread her wings and fly. One morning, Pearl wakes up with a gorgeous man in her bed and decides to say To Hell With It with her routines. Pearl and Jack got drunk at the pub and then decided to sleep with each other. Jack was on his way to Dublin, Ireland when his car broke down and it won't be done for a few days, so Pearl decides to do something she's never done before, she offers Jack her spare bedroom until his car is fixed and out of the shop. pearl hadn't slept with a man for nearly two years before she met Jack. If it wasn't for Jack, Pearl would be stuck in her little world and little life like a weirdo. Jack is twenty-nine years old and lives in New Zealand. Before he leaves Ireland for New Zealand after his car is fixed, Jack convinces Pearl to take a little vacation in New Zealand and come visit him. One day out of the blue, Pearl decides to say To Hell With It and go visit Jack, but when she arrives she learns that Jack is hiding a big secret from her. Pearl spends two weeks in Te Puke, New Zealand which is known for kiwi fruits. In Te Puke, Pearl hikes a mountain, she gives bungee jumping a try, and she gave the ocean a kiss (swimming naked). Despite the turn of events, Pearl has a blast and lives her life to the fullest despite having some fears. I learned something new while reading this book, the color blue in New Zealand symbolizes freedom💙, I don't know if that's true or not, but I thought it would be a cool fact to share with y'all.
January 30, 2025
I received a free copy of, To Hell With It, by Claire Frances, from the publisher and Netgalley in exchange for an honest review. Pearl O'Reilly has a bad case of OCD, she has her return and does not like to deviate from it. I did not care for this book, I could not get into it at all.
June 24, 2025
For fans of John Green, Strange Sally Diamond, Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine, and The List of Suspicious Things.
Pearl is 27 years old has OCD. She has time-consuming routines, thoughts she can’t control and a shame that something is definitely wrong with her, but she can’t, and doesn’t want, to change that.
That is until she wakes up to a gorgeous naked man in her bed…
Talk about a distinctive character voice.
Stream of conscious, fanatical and extreme thinking, intrusive thoughts. Yet, it manages to keep a lighter tone that you can’t help but smile at.
Reading this, I was scared it would fall into the pit of fixing everything with love. The Disney version of a cure for mental health.
Thankfully, this is a story about self-discovery and testing your boundaries.
Saying that, I was still frustrated that the need to change stems from a potential relationship. Pearl is a sweet character but unfortunately is a bit of an OCD caricature with the hand sanitiser, having unlucky numbers, running up and down stairs…
At first, I was glad that Pearl’s OCD was not easily overcome, but sadly my opinion changed towards the end.
Especially with the ‘revelation’ that I felt dismissed a lot of Pearl’s self-growth and understanding.
I enjoyed the small town Irish vibes and the way that the community tries to support Pearl without truly knowing what is going on.
The humour is potty, the text messages hysterical, the message ultimately uplifting and inspiring even if I think it was too simplified.
I would recommend the audiobook as the narrator really brings Pearl to life and does lovely accents (Irish, New Zealand).
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Pearl is 27 years old has OCD. She has time-consuming routines, thoughts she can’t control and a shame that something is definitely wrong with her, but she can’t, and doesn’t want, to change that.
That is until she wakes up to a gorgeous naked man in her bed…
Talk about a distinctive character voice.
Stream of conscious, fanatical and extreme thinking, intrusive thoughts. Yet, it manages to keep a lighter tone that you can’t help but smile at.
Reading this, I was scared it would fall into the pit of fixing everything with love. The Disney version of a cure for mental health.
Thankfully, this is a story about self-discovery and testing your boundaries.
Saying that, I was still frustrated that the need to change stems from a potential relationship. Pearl is a sweet character but unfortunately is a bit of an OCD caricature with the hand sanitiser, having unlucky numbers, running up and down stairs…
At first, I was glad that Pearl’s OCD was not easily overcome, but sadly my opinion changed towards the end.
Especially with the ‘revelation’ that I felt dismissed a lot of Pearl’s self-growth and understanding.
I enjoyed the small town Irish vibes and the way that the community tries to support Pearl without truly knowing what is going on.
The humour is potty, the text messages hysterical, the message ultimately uplifting and inspiring even if I think it was too simplified.
I would recommend the audiobook as the narrator really brings Pearl to life and does lovely accents (Irish, New Zealand).
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January 18, 2025
"To Hell With It" introduces us to Pearl O'Reilly, a young woman whose world revolves around the meticulous rituals and routines necessitated by her OCD. From counting footsteps to compulsive handwashing, Pearl's life is a carefully orchestrated dance until an unexpected visitor disrupts her orderly existence.
The arrival of a handsome stranger in Pearl's bed sets in motion a series of events that challenge her structured world, pushing her to confront the fears and desires she had long kept at bay.
Claire Frances' debut novel strikes a delicate balance between humor and heartache, weaving an atmosphere that is both relatable and engrossing.
The characters are vividly rendered and authentic, with Pearl's OCD depicted sensitively and realistically. Her friendship with Una adds a layer of warmth and depth to the story, emphasizing the crucial role of support and understanding in overcoming personal challenges.
Frances' writing style is engaging and approachable, allowing readers to easily connect with Pearl's journey. Themes of love, friendship, and self-acceptance are interlaced throughout the narrative, providing an uplifting reminder of the value of embracing one's uniqueness.
While some may contend that the portrayal of OCD could benefit from more complexity or the romantic elements seem somewhat predictable, Frances' skillful blend of humor and weighty issues makes for an enjoyable reading experience.
In her debut, Claire Frances brings a refreshingly candid perspective to the genre.
Her personal investment in themes of mental health and self-discovery is evident in her passionate storytelling, making "To Hell With It" a rewarding read for those drawn to stories of personal growth and resilience.
The arrival of a handsome stranger in Pearl's bed sets in motion a series of events that challenge her structured world, pushing her to confront the fears and desires she had long kept at bay.
Claire Frances' debut novel strikes a delicate balance between humor and heartache, weaving an atmosphere that is both relatable and engrossing.
The characters are vividly rendered and authentic, with Pearl's OCD depicted sensitively and realistically. Her friendship with Una adds a layer of warmth and depth to the story, emphasizing the crucial role of support and understanding in overcoming personal challenges.
Frances' writing style is engaging and approachable, allowing readers to easily connect with Pearl's journey. Themes of love, friendship, and self-acceptance are interlaced throughout the narrative, providing an uplifting reminder of the value of embracing one's uniqueness.
While some may contend that the portrayal of OCD could benefit from more complexity or the romantic elements seem somewhat predictable, Frances' skillful blend of humor and weighty issues makes for an enjoyable reading experience.
In her debut, Claire Frances brings a refreshingly candid perspective to the genre.
Her personal investment in themes of mental health and self-discovery is evident in her passionate storytelling, making "To Hell With It" a rewarding read for those drawn to stories of personal growth and resilience.
July 18, 2025
A hilarious but really real look at what living with at times crippling OCD and ADHD can be like. Irish born Pearl O'Reilly falls hard for a man from New Zealand who shows up on her porch one day and when he returns home leaving a note wishing he could see her again soon she impulsively books a ticket to follow him.
Cue a madcap adventure that has Pearl stepping outside her comfort zone, trying new things and having the time of her life. I really enjoyed this book a lot and while it was filled with humor and heart, it also touches on childhood trauma and some heavier topics like negative and intrusive thoughts. Many thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for an early digital copy in exchange for my honest review.
Cue a madcap adventure that has Pearl stepping outside her comfort zone, trying new things and having the time of her life. I really enjoyed this book a lot and while it was filled with humor and heart, it also touches on childhood trauma and some heavier topics like negative and intrusive thoughts. Many thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for an early digital copy in exchange for my honest review.
August 20, 2025
To Hell With It🦋
THAT WAS SO FREAKING GOOD.SO.FREAKING GOOD.
Okay,let me start calmer,
Pearl is about to change.All her life is surrounded by programs & routines due to her OCD,however in each person's life there is a day that you will say hell and change everything,and today is Pearl's moment to do it.
I fell in love with this story from the prologue-no kidding.The way I laughed from those first words was one my favourite parts of the book🥹.Speaking of laughter,Oh.My.God. the smile lines on my face will take literal weeks to leave from how funny Frances writes.
To continue,she did such a good job representing how an everyday life with OCD is.The thing that stunned out this time was that she gave us moments from Pearl's childhood to adulthood and we actually saw how a child copes with that & how her situation accompained her whole life.I loved seeing her real,vulnurable moments,as the funny ones too🧡.
Now,my FAVOURITE aspect of this story is that we have no romance at all-yes love, you heard it right.
Pearl's journey is no need of a man to guide her or to show her the world.no.no.no.
My girl,is carving her own path with experiences,people,friends and most important her true authentic self, believe me when the right moment for the man is here mushrooms will show again-however this is a story of Pearl's to say!
Long story short,this book touched me,made me feel more powerful myself and uf!a tear is dripping down my face because I am so proud of that girl!PEARL I LOVE YOU🫶🏻
5⭐
THAT WAS SO FREAKING GOOD.SO.FREAKING GOOD.
Okay,let me start calmer,
Pearl is about to change.All her life is surrounded by programs & routines due to her OCD,however in each person's life there is a day that you will say hell and change everything,and today is Pearl's moment to do it.
I fell in love with this story from the prologue-no kidding.The way I laughed from those first words was one my favourite parts of the book🥹.Speaking of laughter,Oh.My.God. the smile lines on my face will take literal weeks to leave from how funny Frances writes.
To continue,she did such a good job representing how an everyday life with OCD is.The thing that stunned out this time was that she gave us moments from Pearl's childhood to adulthood and we actually saw how a child copes with that & how her situation accompained her whole life.I loved seeing her real,vulnurable moments,as the funny ones too🧡.
Now,my FAVOURITE aspect of this story is that we have no romance at all-yes love, you heard it right.
Pearl's journey is no need of a man to guide her or to show her the world.no.no.no.
My girl,is carving her own path with experiences,people,friends and most important her true authentic self, believe me when the right moment for the man is here mushrooms will show again-however this is a story of Pearl's to say!
Long story short,this book touched me,made me feel more powerful myself and uf!a tear is dripping down my face because I am so proud of that girl!PEARL I LOVE YOU🫶🏻
5⭐
September 9, 2025
Pearl O’Reilly woont al haar hele leven in het slaperige Ierse dorpje Drangan. Ze geniet van haar dagelijkse rituelen: lunchen met haar beste vriendin Una, praten met haar therapeut Mairéad en werken in het winkeltje van de O’Callaghans. Haar andere gewoontes – tot tien tellen voor ze de trap op of af gaat en obsessief haar handen wassen – zijn iets minder leuk.
Dan ontmoet Pearl Jack, een Nieuw-Zeelander die op rondreis is door Ierland. Zijn bezoek is kort, maar als hij een liefdesbriefje voor haar achterlaat, begint ze na te denken over een ander leven. Een leven waarin zij en de knappe Jack nog lang en gelukkig leven in Nieuw-Zeeland.
Aangemoedigd door Jacks flirtende berichtjes en Una’s stellige overtuiging dat Pearl de wereld buiten het dorp moet verkennen, pakt Pearl het vliegtuig naar Nieuw-Zeeland. Ze gaat een avontuur tegemoet dat haar over haar grenzen duwt en haar leven verandert, maar wel helemaal anders dan ze het zich had voorgesteld.
De uitgeverij verraste mij een tijdje geleden met deze roman en ik was heel erg benieuwd of dit verhaal mij zou gaan bevallen, aangezien ik bijna altijd thrillers lees. Maar... het was zeker een aangename leeservaring!
Het verhaal draait om Pearl. Ze heeft een dwangneurose, maar dit wordt op een humoristische manier onder de aandacht gebracht. Ze wordt wakker naast een vreemde man, die later Jack blijkt te heten en ze heeft geen idee wat er die bewuste nacht gebeurd is.
Dan lees je over hoe Pearl eerder Jack heeft leren kennen en ze voelt zich meteen tot hem aangetrokken. En hij belandt dus uiteindelijk bij haar in bed... Pearl weet, met haar dwangneurose, totaal niet wat ze met de situatie aan moet en dan laat Jack ook nog een heel lief briefje achter waardoor Pearl een keuze maakt met grote gevolgen...
Ik vond Pearl een erg grappig personage en de schrijfstijl van deze auteur is heel luchtig. Het verhaal zelf vond ik ook eigenlijk best wel leuk, ondanks dat het dus een totaal ander genre is dan ik normaal lees.
De ontwikkelingen tussen Pearl en Jack waren interessant, maar ook andere personages waren heel leuk om te leren kennen!
Heel erg bedankt voor deze verrassing @boekerij!
Beoordeling: 3,5/4,0 ⭐️
Dan ontmoet Pearl Jack, een Nieuw-Zeelander die op rondreis is door Ierland. Zijn bezoek is kort, maar als hij een liefdesbriefje voor haar achterlaat, begint ze na te denken over een ander leven. Een leven waarin zij en de knappe Jack nog lang en gelukkig leven in Nieuw-Zeeland.
Aangemoedigd door Jacks flirtende berichtjes en Una’s stellige overtuiging dat Pearl de wereld buiten het dorp moet verkennen, pakt Pearl het vliegtuig naar Nieuw-Zeeland. Ze gaat een avontuur tegemoet dat haar over haar grenzen duwt en haar leven verandert, maar wel helemaal anders dan ze het zich had voorgesteld.
De uitgeverij verraste mij een tijdje geleden met deze roman en ik was heel erg benieuwd of dit verhaal mij zou gaan bevallen, aangezien ik bijna altijd thrillers lees. Maar... het was zeker een aangename leeservaring!
Het verhaal draait om Pearl. Ze heeft een dwangneurose, maar dit wordt op een humoristische manier onder de aandacht gebracht. Ze wordt wakker naast een vreemde man, die later Jack blijkt te heten en ze heeft geen idee wat er die bewuste nacht gebeurd is.
Dan lees je over hoe Pearl eerder Jack heeft leren kennen en ze voelt zich meteen tot hem aangetrokken. En hij belandt dus uiteindelijk bij haar in bed... Pearl weet, met haar dwangneurose, totaal niet wat ze met de situatie aan moet en dan laat Jack ook nog een heel lief briefje achter waardoor Pearl een keuze maakt met grote gevolgen...
Ik vond Pearl een erg grappig personage en de schrijfstijl van deze auteur is heel luchtig. Het verhaal zelf vond ik ook eigenlijk best wel leuk, ondanks dat het dus een totaal ander genre is dan ik normaal lees.
De ontwikkelingen tussen Pearl en Jack waren interessant, maar ook andere personages waren heel leuk om te leren kennen!
Heel erg bedankt voor deze verrassing @boekerij!
Beoordeling: 3,5/4,0 ⭐️
June 1, 2025
Insightful, uplifting and funny. This book had me laughing and crying.
This book follows Pearl and shares the challenges of living with debilitating OCD, how much of her day is completely consumed by rituals and intrusive thoughts. However, it is told in such a warm, lighthearted way it will have you feeling like Pearl is an old friend. You instantly feel that connection with her and can't help but root for her the whole time.
"You're not a mess, you're just you"
To Hell With It is such an uplifting story. It isn’t about Pearl fixing herself or curing her OCD, she doesn't need to be fixed. It's about her living to the fullest dispute her struggles - Saying To Hell With It! It has given me motivation to be braver and to free my own butterflies.
Thank you to One more chapter for gifting a copy of this book. This is my honest review. (Full review is up on my blog)
This book follows Pearl and shares the challenges of living with debilitating OCD, how much of her day is completely consumed by rituals and intrusive thoughts. However, it is told in such a warm, lighthearted way it will have you feeling like Pearl is an old friend. You instantly feel that connection with her and can't help but root for her the whole time.
"You're not a mess, you're just you"
To Hell With It is such an uplifting story. It isn’t about Pearl fixing herself or curing her OCD, she doesn't need to be fixed. It's about her living to the fullest dispute her struggles - Saying To Hell With It! It has given me motivation to be braver and to free my own butterflies.
Thank you to One more chapter for gifting a copy of this book. This is my honest review. (Full review is up on my blog)
June 12, 2025
4,5/5 ⭐️ Heb me echt kostelijk vermaakt met dit boek en af en toe ook hardop gelachen. Dit boek gaat over Pearl en zij heeft OCD. Love dit personage
June 1, 2025
Where to start with this review?!
Firstly, it’s a debut novel, you would never know that from the quality and style of writing.
Secondly, the cover!! Gorgeous!!
Thirdly, what a story!
Meet Pearl, Pearl has OCD, but Pearl isn’t prepared for OCD to take over her life anymore. Pearl is about to say to hell with it!!
Poignant, heartfelt, expressive and considerate, this story will get the reader thinking, changing their opinions and maybe just taking a chance. For some I think it really will be eye opening, told from Pearls point of view, you really do get an inside look of OCD and how crippling it can be.
The characters are all brilliant and well developed, whether they are in the whole book or just a small part of Pearl’s journey. Pearl learns from every single person she meets.
I love how this book is written and the addition of the text conversations works well. There’s humour too, despite the serious nature of the topics.
I really admired how Pearls ‘condition’ as some may refer to it, is treated as her normal, everyone accepts it, just gets on with it, treats it as a part of her, which it is. Because of this, her close friends can make jokes around it, and their relationships get stronger because of this. Una is such a good best friend, honest, outspoken, but would move mountains for her friend.
The association between Pearl and butterflies is wonderful, thought provoking and a sentiment many will be able to understand, express and use to help themselves.
You will all love Bunty, a real addition to this story!
All in all a fantastic, moving, emotional read which will leave you considering how you feel about the topics raised, your own life and those around you and maybe, just maybe, it will help you release a few of your own butterflies and make you want to run off into the sunset to kiss the sea!! It’s easy to read and will give you a giggle, but you certainly won’t want to put it down.
This book has inspired me to be even more considerate of other people, you really never know what they are going through. Even just listening to someone for a few minutes can make such a difference. Also, take the opportunities to do something new, take the trip, jump from the crane, take a chance on a relationship, you never know what good may happen!
Thank you to Claire Frances, One More Chapter and NetGalley for the advanced copy. My views are completely my own.
Firstly, it’s a debut novel, you would never know that from the quality and style of writing.
Secondly, the cover!! Gorgeous!!
Thirdly, what a story!
Meet Pearl, Pearl has OCD, but Pearl isn’t prepared for OCD to take over her life anymore. Pearl is about to say to hell with it!!
Poignant, heartfelt, expressive and considerate, this story will get the reader thinking, changing their opinions and maybe just taking a chance. For some I think it really will be eye opening, told from Pearls point of view, you really do get an inside look of OCD and how crippling it can be.
The characters are all brilliant and well developed, whether they are in the whole book or just a small part of Pearl’s journey. Pearl learns from every single person she meets.
I love how this book is written and the addition of the text conversations works well. There’s humour too, despite the serious nature of the topics.
I really admired how Pearls ‘condition’ as some may refer to it, is treated as her normal, everyone accepts it, just gets on with it, treats it as a part of her, which it is. Because of this, her close friends can make jokes around it, and their relationships get stronger because of this. Una is such a good best friend, honest, outspoken, but would move mountains for her friend.
The association between Pearl and butterflies is wonderful, thought provoking and a sentiment many will be able to understand, express and use to help themselves.
You will all love Bunty, a real addition to this story!
All in all a fantastic, moving, emotional read which will leave you considering how you feel about the topics raised, your own life and those around you and maybe, just maybe, it will help you release a few of your own butterflies and make you want to run off into the sunset to kiss the sea!! It’s easy to read and will give you a giggle, but you certainly won’t want to put it down.
This book has inspired me to be even more considerate of other people, you really never know what they are going through. Even just listening to someone for a few minutes can make such a difference. Also, take the opportunities to do something new, take the trip, jump from the crane, take a chance on a relationship, you never know what good may happen!
Thank you to Claire Frances, One More Chapter and NetGalley for the advanced copy. My views are completely my own.
September 11, 2025
Pearl O'Reilly woont al haar hele leven in het rustige Ierse dorpje Dragan. Ze geniet van haar dagelijkse rituelen: lunchen met haar beste vriendin Una, praten met therapeut Mairead en ze werkt in het winkeltje van de O'Callaghans. Daarbij heeft ze nog andere gewoontes: tot tien tellen voor ze de trap op en af gaat, haar pissebedden tellen en obsessief haar handen wassen.
Dan ontmoet ze Jack, een Nieuw-Zeelander die op rondreis is door Ierland. Ondanks zijn korte bezoek laat hij een liefdesbriefje achter, waardoor Pearl voor het eerst droomt over een ander leven. Een leven zonder dwangneurose, waarin zij en Jack een lang en gelukkig leven leven. Aangemoedigd door flirterige berichtjes en Una's vertrouwen en steun in haar is Pearl overtuigd om de wereld buiten het dorp te verkennen. Ze pakt het vliegtuig en reist naar Nieuw-Zeeland. Ze gaat een avontuur tegemoet die haar voorbij haar grenzen laat gaan en daarmee haar leven verandert, alleen wel op compleet andere wijze dan dat ze ooit had kunnen denken.
Mijn ervaring:
Wat een heerlijke, grappige, vermakelijke en pakkende roman. Claire Frances heeft een hele filmische, vlotte en fijne schrijfstijl en weet Pearl zo neer te zetten, dat je je zonder moeite in haar kan verplaatsen, je haar in je hart sluit en met haar op een indrukwekkend, verrassend en erg tof avontuur gaat. Daarbij weet Claire Frances de OCD van Pearl met een knipoog en een grap te beschrijven, waardoor het verhaal lekker luchtig en leuk blijft.
We lezen het verhaal van Pearl. Het is een jonge, liefdevolle en leuke vrouw die je eigenlijk al direct vanaf het begin in je hart sluit. Claire Frances weet het personage realistisch en op natuurlijke wijze weg te zetten en ook haar OCD weet ze goed te beschrijven. Niet enkel wat het gedrag van Pearl is, maar ook wat er in haar hoofd om gaat. Naast Pearl zijn ook de andere personages realistisch, divers en mooi uitgewerkt.
Het verhaal begint met een fijne beschrijving van het rustige, regelmatige en fijne leventje van Pearl. Haar hele leven bestaat uit een dagelijks ritme van rituelen wat structuur en rust voor Pearl brengt. Ondanks dat OCD haar leven wel redelijk heftig beheerst, is ze gelukkig met haar leven. Na haar ontmoeting met Jack en wat aanmoediging van Una, haar beste vriendin, besluit Pearl ondanks haar OCD en dat ze nog nooit buiten het dorpje geweest is, naar Nieuw-Zeeland te vliegen en daar Jack te verrassen. Het wordt een verrassend, indrukwekkend, grappig en bijzonder avontuur. Mede door de aanmoediging van whatsapp berichten van Niall, Mairead en Una, weet Pearl op indrukwekkende wijze haar grenzen te verleggen en nieuwe zelfkennis en inzicht op te doen. Het is echt een pakkend avontuur, waarbij Claire Frances de gedachten en emoties Pearl krachtig weet te verwoorden en Pearl een mooie groei doormaakt. Tot slot weet ze het verhaal op erg mooie wijze af te ronden.
De regels van Pearl is een pakkende, indrukwekkende en erg grappige roman. Claire Frances heeft een filmische, vlotte en fijne schrijfstijl en het realistische en leuke hoofdpersonage Pearl zit al snel in je hart. Ze weet haar OCD met een knipoog maar wel erg goed te beschrijven en Pearl maakt een prachtige groei en transformatie door als ze besluit om naar Nieuw-Zeeland te reizen om Jack te verrassen. Ondanks dat het avontuur compleet anders loopt dan verwacht is, het echt een prachtige, indrukwekkende en erg toffe reis waarin Pearl nieuwe vrienden maakt en veel nieuwe zelfkennis en zelfinzichten opdoet onder aanmoediging van whatsapp berichten van haar vrienden thuis. Echt een heerlijke en vermakelijke aanrader.
Dan ontmoet ze Jack, een Nieuw-Zeelander die op rondreis is door Ierland. Ondanks zijn korte bezoek laat hij een liefdesbriefje achter, waardoor Pearl voor het eerst droomt over een ander leven. Een leven zonder dwangneurose, waarin zij en Jack een lang en gelukkig leven leven. Aangemoedigd door flirterige berichtjes en Una's vertrouwen en steun in haar is Pearl overtuigd om de wereld buiten het dorp te verkennen. Ze pakt het vliegtuig en reist naar Nieuw-Zeeland. Ze gaat een avontuur tegemoet die haar voorbij haar grenzen laat gaan en daarmee haar leven verandert, alleen wel op compleet andere wijze dan dat ze ooit had kunnen denken.
Mijn ervaring:
Wat een heerlijke, grappige, vermakelijke en pakkende roman. Claire Frances heeft een hele filmische, vlotte en fijne schrijfstijl en weet Pearl zo neer te zetten, dat je je zonder moeite in haar kan verplaatsen, je haar in je hart sluit en met haar op een indrukwekkend, verrassend en erg tof avontuur gaat. Daarbij weet Claire Frances de OCD van Pearl met een knipoog en een grap te beschrijven, waardoor het verhaal lekker luchtig en leuk blijft.
We lezen het verhaal van Pearl. Het is een jonge, liefdevolle en leuke vrouw die je eigenlijk al direct vanaf het begin in je hart sluit. Claire Frances weet het personage realistisch en op natuurlijke wijze weg te zetten en ook haar OCD weet ze goed te beschrijven. Niet enkel wat het gedrag van Pearl is, maar ook wat er in haar hoofd om gaat. Naast Pearl zijn ook de andere personages realistisch, divers en mooi uitgewerkt.
Het verhaal begint met een fijne beschrijving van het rustige, regelmatige en fijne leventje van Pearl. Haar hele leven bestaat uit een dagelijks ritme van rituelen wat structuur en rust voor Pearl brengt. Ondanks dat OCD haar leven wel redelijk heftig beheerst, is ze gelukkig met haar leven. Na haar ontmoeting met Jack en wat aanmoediging van Una, haar beste vriendin, besluit Pearl ondanks haar OCD en dat ze nog nooit buiten het dorpje geweest is, naar Nieuw-Zeeland te vliegen en daar Jack te verrassen. Het wordt een verrassend, indrukwekkend, grappig en bijzonder avontuur. Mede door de aanmoediging van whatsapp berichten van Niall, Mairead en Una, weet Pearl op indrukwekkende wijze haar grenzen te verleggen en nieuwe zelfkennis en inzicht op te doen. Het is echt een pakkend avontuur, waarbij Claire Frances de gedachten en emoties Pearl krachtig weet te verwoorden en Pearl een mooie groei doormaakt. Tot slot weet ze het verhaal op erg mooie wijze af te ronden.
De regels van Pearl is een pakkende, indrukwekkende en erg grappige roman. Claire Frances heeft een filmische, vlotte en fijne schrijfstijl en het realistische en leuke hoofdpersonage Pearl zit al snel in je hart. Ze weet haar OCD met een knipoog maar wel erg goed te beschrijven en Pearl maakt een prachtige groei en transformatie door als ze besluit om naar Nieuw-Zeeland te reizen om Jack te verrassen. Ondanks dat het avontuur compleet anders loopt dan verwacht is, het echt een prachtige, indrukwekkende en erg toffe reis waarin Pearl nieuwe vrienden maakt en veel nieuwe zelfkennis en zelfinzichten opdoet onder aanmoediging van whatsapp berichten van haar vrienden thuis. Echt een heerlijke en vermakelijke aanrader.
May 31, 2025
most rom coms are much the same, being easy, light reads but I really enjoyed this one, covered the seriousness of OCD & showed how exhausting it must be! ...it was a funny, sweet story & I cared about Pearl almost immediately!
I couldn't' wait to see where her story was taking me, I'll be looking out for more Claire Frances books in the future
I couldn't' wait to see where her story was taking me, I'll be looking out for more Claire Frances books in the future
January 23, 2025
This was my first five-star read of 2025, and I absolutely devoured this book!
Claire Frances’s debut novel, To Hell with It, is a beautifully crafted and deeply engaging story centred on Pearl O’Reilly, a protagonist who lives with obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD).
While Pearl has developed coping mechanisms and strategies to navigate her daily life, she longs for the sense of freedom that seems so effortless for those around her and to set those butterflies finally free.
A chance encounter with a stranger sets off a series of transformative events, forcing Pearl to choose between the safety of her carefully curated life and the possibilities of something new and uncertain.
The character arc in this book is beautifully crafted.
Pearl’s struggles with OCD are portrayed with sensitivity and authenticity, offering a glimpse into the complexities of living with the condition.
Claire Frances handles this delicate subject matter with grace, capturing both the challenges and nuances of OCD without oversimplifying or glamorising the experience.
I found myself rooting for Pearl, admiring her bravery as she confronted her fears and resisted the pull of her compulsions.
Her journey is messy, imperfect, and profoundly real, which only made me love her more.
What truly sets this book apart is its unique narrative style.
Told in the first person, the story frequently breaks the fourth wall - a technique more commonly associated with theatre - and it absolutely works here.
This approach fosters a sense of intimacy between the reader and Pearl, making her struggles and triumphs feel deeply personal.
One of the most commendable aspects of To Hell with It is its realistic portrayal of OCD. While Pearl makes significant progress and experiences remarkable personal growth, the book doesn’t offer a simplistic resolution or suggest that OCD can be “cured.”
Instead, it highlights the ongoing nature of the condition, celebrating Pearl’s strength and resilience without diminishing the reality of her challenges.
The depiction of Pearl’s support network is another highlight. From small, thoughtful gestures by acquaintances - like the farmer who leaves hand sanitiser for Pearl with her weekly eggs - to the steadfast love and encouragement of her best friend and quirkly colleague and friend Niall, the story emphasises the importance of understanding and community.
These relationships are free of judgment, offering support in a way that empowers Pearl to step outside her comfort zone.
I especially appreciated how her best friend balanced gentle encouragement with tough love, fostering growth without infantilising or enabling her.
Niall’s gestures, infused with kindness and sincerity, added a touching layer of warmth to the story. His actions reflect genuine care for Pearl and a desire to meet her where she is, making their dynamic one of the most heartfelt aspects of the book.
To Hell with It is an excellent debut novel, combining wit, heart, and authenticity.
Claire Frances has crafted a story that is as insightful as it is entertaining. I am eagerly anticipating her next work and can’t wait to see what she writes next.
This book is a must-read for anyone seeking a heartfelt and nuanced exploration of personal growth, mental health, and the power of community.
With thanks to NetGalley and One More Chapter HarperCollins for the ARC in exchange for an honest review.
Claire Frances’s debut novel, To Hell with It, is a beautifully crafted and deeply engaging story centred on Pearl O’Reilly, a protagonist who lives with obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD).
While Pearl has developed coping mechanisms and strategies to navigate her daily life, she longs for the sense of freedom that seems so effortless for those around her and to set those butterflies finally free.
A chance encounter with a stranger sets off a series of transformative events, forcing Pearl to choose between the safety of her carefully curated life and the possibilities of something new and uncertain.
The character arc in this book is beautifully crafted.
Pearl’s struggles with OCD are portrayed with sensitivity and authenticity, offering a glimpse into the complexities of living with the condition.
Claire Frances handles this delicate subject matter with grace, capturing both the challenges and nuances of OCD without oversimplifying or glamorising the experience.
I found myself rooting for Pearl, admiring her bravery as she confronted her fears and resisted the pull of her compulsions.
Her journey is messy, imperfect, and profoundly real, which only made me love her more.
What truly sets this book apart is its unique narrative style.
Told in the first person, the story frequently breaks the fourth wall - a technique more commonly associated with theatre - and it absolutely works here.
This approach fosters a sense of intimacy between the reader and Pearl, making her struggles and triumphs feel deeply personal.
One of the most commendable aspects of To Hell with It is its realistic portrayal of OCD. While Pearl makes significant progress and experiences remarkable personal growth, the book doesn’t offer a simplistic resolution or suggest that OCD can be “cured.”
Instead, it highlights the ongoing nature of the condition, celebrating Pearl’s strength and resilience without diminishing the reality of her challenges.
The depiction of Pearl’s support network is another highlight. From small, thoughtful gestures by acquaintances - like the farmer who leaves hand sanitiser for Pearl with her weekly eggs - to the steadfast love and encouragement of her best friend and quirkly colleague and friend Niall, the story emphasises the importance of understanding and community.
These relationships are free of judgment, offering support in a way that empowers Pearl to step outside her comfort zone.
I especially appreciated how her best friend balanced gentle encouragement with tough love, fostering growth without infantilising or enabling her.
Niall’s gestures, infused with kindness and sincerity, added a touching layer of warmth to the story. His actions reflect genuine care for Pearl and a desire to meet her where she is, making their dynamic one of the most heartfelt aspects of the book.
To Hell with It is an excellent debut novel, combining wit, heart, and authenticity.
Claire Frances has crafted a story that is as insightful as it is entertaining. I am eagerly anticipating her next work and can’t wait to see what she writes next.
This book is a must-read for anyone seeking a heartfelt and nuanced exploration of personal growth, mental health, and the power of community.
With thanks to NetGalley and One More Chapter HarperCollins for the ARC in exchange for an honest review.
May 31, 2025
To Hell With It was such a refreshing read. Pearl doesn’t apologise for her OCD, and I really appreciated that. It wasn’t some neat story where everything gets “fixed” — even at the end, she’s still figuring things out, just learning how to manage life with it. And that’s what made it feel so real.
I found myself properly rooting for her, and I loved meeting all the characters she crossed paths with. I especially wanted more of her and Niall — their connection had me hoping for a little more closure (or maybe a sequel?!).
It’s funny, touching, and full of those moments that sneak up and get you in the feels. But it’s also a solid reminder that mental illness doesn’t just disappear. There’s no magical cure, and people don’t just “snap out of it.”
Claire Frances wrote something special here — messy, funny, relatable, and ultimately hopeful. I flew through it, and I’ll definitely be keeping an eye out for whatever she writes next.
I found myself properly rooting for her, and I loved meeting all the characters she crossed paths with. I especially wanted more of her and Niall — their connection had me hoping for a little more closure (or maybe a sequel?!).
It’s funny, touching, and full of those moments that sneak up and get you in the feels. But it’s also a solid reminder that mental illness doesn’t just disappear. There’s no magical cure, and people don’t just “snap out of it.”
Claire Frances wrote something special here — messy, funny, relatable, and ultimately hopeful. I flew through it, and I’ll definitely be keeping an eye out for whatever she writes next.
July 15, 2025
One of my fave books of the year
June 13, 2025
To Hell With It by Claire Francis, pearl O’Reilly is 28 lives in a small village in Ireland and severely suffers from OCD. She works at the local shop has a best friend named Una and has her rituals down to a precise science or as much as you can when having OCD. When a traveler breaks down in the little town pearl is shocked because not only is he the most handsome guy she’s ever seen but he seems to also be attracted to her as well. so everyone is shocked when he leaves to go back to New Zealand in a few weeks later pearl decides to go there and visit him. she travels all the way to Tapuke, New Zealand, and despite the mini setbacks along the way it doesn’t turn out how she fantasizes it to be. Although it does turn out to be the best thing she could’ve done. let me start the opinion section of this review by saying Miss Francis has done a brilliant job honestly portraying a severely debilitating disorder. I thought she did it with the utmost respect honesty and lots of lol moments. I absolutely loved pearls response with Ginger the cat and the pearl necklace but that is just one instance where I laughed out loud while reading this book. I did not like the potty humor there were many times throughout the book were talk of body functions made me cringe and I get that some of it was relative to the book but asking Niles about what he did while closing her window and other times I thought it was too much and over the top but having said that I still totally loved this book it is a happy feel good read I loved how nice and kind Niles was to pearl I thought her and Una’s friendship was a great one there’s just a lot to Love about this book and it’s way more than the remarks about bathroom activity I mentioned above. if not for so much bathroom talk I would’ve definitely given this five stars but if you don’t mind that then for you it will absolutely be a five star read. #NetGalley,#HarperCollinsUK, #TheBlindReviewer, #MyHonestReview, #ClaireFrancis, #ToHellWithIt,
May 20, 2025
Pearl works for the parents of her childhood friend (Niall) at a local shop in her hometown. Since she was young she has struggled with her OCD symptoms, and she's been working to cope with them with mixed results. Enter Jack, a handsome New Zealander in Ireland on vacation. Pearl is thrown into a personal and romantic tizzy as her world suddenly and dramatically opens up. She lives a minimized and semi-manageable life but her best friend Una worries that Pearl is stagnating and hiding. Does Pearl feel the same, and does she have the courage to do something about it?
I really liked Pearl and I felt for her. Her bravery and tenacity made her incredibly endearing and I was invested in seeing how she chose to shape her life. Her OCD symptoms took up a lot of space on the page, but it was fitting since they also take up a lot of space in her life (and it was an interesting insight into her personal symptom experience and management). There's tension as Pearl navigates new choices while trying to be true to herself, and you had to wonder how it would all work out. I rooted so hard for her happiness! There is more humor in this story than I expected, although not a huge amount. It's just enough to keep things interesting. Pay attention to trigger warnings as there is some difficult content. I enjoyed this self-journey/romance and I was happy that there was a satisfying conclusion for Pearl. I have not read this author before but I would gladly read her again! Publishes June 1, 2025. Thank you to NetGalley and HarperCollins UK/One More Chapter for providing an eARC of this story, all opinions in this review are my own.
I really liked Pearl and I felt for her. Her bravery and tenacity made her incredibly endearing and I was invested in seeing how she chose to shape her life. Her OCD symptoms took up a lot of space on the page, but it was fitting since they also take up a lot of space in her life (and it was an interesting insight into her personal symptom experience and management). There's tension as Pearl navigates new choices while trying to be true to herself, and you had to wonder how it would all work out. I rooted so hard for her happiness! There is more humor in this story than I expected, although not a huge amount. It's just enough to keep things interesting. Pay attention to trigger warnings as there is some difficult content. I enjoyed this self-journey/romance and I was happy that there was a satisfying conclusion for Pearl. I have not read this author before but I would gladly read her again! Publishes June 1, 2025. Thank you to NetGalley and HarperCollins UK/One More Chapter for providing an eARC of this story, all opinions in this review are my own.
August 10, 2025
A refreshingly hilarious yet heartfelt story that I literally didn’t want to put down!
Following the awkward (but utterly endearing) Pearl, we get to explore the complexities that life with OCD entails; and how her routines and rituals can shape the relationships she builds, both with herself and the people closest to her.
Firstly, I absolutely loved the prose which was soo compelling. Lighthearted and engaging, yet also nuanced in a way that only someone who’s familiar with OCD could portray in such a sensitive in-depth and authentic way. I really resonated with this!
The insight into Pearl’s world, her struggles and her decision to branch out from her daily routines (by solo travelling to New Zealand) was incredible too. And I couldn’t help but root for her every step of the way!
I was also really impressed with all the ways she learns to cope with her OCD. Expanding her world beyond the small town she grew up in, learning to embrace the chaos life throws her way (be it glow worms, sound bath meditations or kissing the sea.) aAnd also finding an empowering sense of confidence and self acceptance along the way.
The Bridget Jones meets Eleanor Oliphant vibes in Pearl were fabulously spot on as well! Especially in her humorous interactions with bestie Una (whose fierce support and bluntness is very Shazzer-coded) and childhood friend/ co-worker, Niall (who gave me strong cinnamon-roll vibes I adored.)
There’s not much else I can say without accidentally spoiling anything. But I can say Pearl’s raw emotional honesty, flawed yet wonderfully relatable journey, and laugh out loud moments (which had me desperate for another 200 pages) made this a standout, 5 star read for me.
Contemporary rom-com fans should definitely consider adding this to their TBRs ASAP!
Also, a huge thank you to One More Chapter for the proof.
Following the awkward (but utterly endearing) Pearl, we get to explore the complexities that life with OCD entails; and how her routines and rituals can shape the relationships she builds, both with herself and the people closest to her.
Firstly, I absolutely loved the prose which was soo compelling. Lighthearted and engaging, yet also nuanced in a way that only someone who’s familiar with OCD could portray in such a sensitive in-depth and authentic way. I really resonated with this!
The insight into Pearl’s world, her struggles and her decision to branch out from her daily routines (by solo travelling to New Zealand) was incredible too. And I couldn’t help but root for her every step of the way!
I was also really impressed with all the ways she learns to cope with her OCD. Expanding her world beyond the small town she grew up in, learning to embrace the chaos life throws her way (be it glow worms, sound bath meditations or kissing the sea.) aAnd also finding an empowering sense of confidence and self acceptance along the way.
The Bridget Jones meets Eleanor Oliphant vibes in Pearl were fabulously spot on as well! Especially in her humorous interactions with bestie Una (whose fierce support and bluntness is very Shazzer-coded) and childhood friend/ co-worker, Niall (who gave me strong cinnamon-roll vibes I adored.)
There’s not much else I can say without accidentally spoiling anything. But I can say Pearl’s raw emotional honesty, flawed yet wonderfully relatable journey, and laugh out loud moments (which had me desperate for another 200 pages) made this a standout, 5 star read for me.
Contemporary rom-com fans should definitely consider adding this to their TBRs ASAP!
Also, a huge thank you to One More Chapter for the proof.
August 30, 2025
Pearl O’Reilly woont haar hele leven al in het rustige Drangan, waar haar dagen bestaan uit vaste rituelen, ontmoetingen met haar beste vriendin Una en gesprekken met haar therapeut. Maar diezelfde routines verhullen ook haar worsteling met OCD. Wanneer de avontuurlijke Jack uit Nieuw-Zeeland onverwachts haar pad kruist, wordt Pearl uitgedaagd om buiten de veilige grenzen van haar dorp én haar dwanggedachten te stappen.
Wat dit boek voor mij bijzonder maakt, is hoe realistisch en invoelbaar de dwangstoornis wordt beschreven. In 2020 las ik een non-fictieboek over OCD dat veel indruk maakte en het is indrukwekkend om datzelfde thema nu via fictie en een hoofdpersonage als Pearl te ervaren. Haar manier van denken, voelen en handelen voelt geloofwaardig en menselijk.
Maar De regels van Pearl is niet enkel een verhaal over OCD; het is bovenal een romance. En normaal gesproken lees ik zelden romantische boeken, maar Pearl wist me volledig voor zich te winnen. Haar kwetsbaarheid en humor maken haar een personage dat je in je hart sluit. Ook de bijfiguren zijn stuk voor stuk levendig en (veelal) charmant.
De schrijfstijl is licht en toegankelijk, met veel dialogen die het tempo hoog houden. Je vliegt door de hoofdstukken heen. Bovendien zijn de settings prachtig beschreven: van het knusse, ietwat slaperige Drangan tot de overweldigende natuur en landschappen van Nieuw-Zeeland. Je waant je er zelf, en dat maakt de reis van Pearl des te boeiender.
Kortom: De regels van Pearl is een hartverwarmende roman die je niet alleen een vleugje romantiek geeft, maar je ook laat nadenken over angst en het doorbreken van patronen. Ik hoop stiekem dat er een vervolg komt, want van Pearl en haar wereld wil ik nog wel meer lezen.
Wat dit boek voor mij bijzonder maakt, is hoe realistisch en invoelbaar de dwangstoornis wordt beschreven. In 2020 las ik een non-fictieboek over OCD dat veel indruk maakte en het is indrukwekkend om datzelfde thema nu via fictie en een hoofdpersonage als Pearl te ervaren. Haar manier van denken, voelen en handelen voelt geloofwaardig en menselijk.
Maar De regels van Pearl is niet enkel een verhaal over OCD; het is bovenal een romance. En normaal gesproken lees ik zelden romantische boeken, maar Pearl wist me volledig voor zich te winnen. Haar kwetsbaarheid en humor maken haar een personage dat je in je hart sluit. Ook de bijfiguren zijn stuk voor stuk levendig en (veelal) charmant.
De schrijfstijl is licht en toegankelijk, met veel dialogen die het tempo hoog houden. Je vliegt door de hoofdstukken heen. Bovendien zijn de settings prachtig beschreven: van het knusse, ietwat slaperige Drangan tot de overweldigende natuur en landschappen van Nieuw-Zeeland. Je waant je er zelf, en dat maakt de reis van Pearl des te boeiender.
Kortom: De regels van Pearl is een hartverwarmende roman die je niet alleen een vleugje romantiek geeft, maar je ook laat nadenken over angst en het doorbreken van patronen. Ik hoop stiekem dat er een vervolg komt, want van Pearl en haar wereld wil ik nog wel meer lezen.
June 19, 2025
Oh wow, this is the comfortread the world needs!
I have to admit, I didn't immediately love this book, so I will say in advance: although I will strongly encourage people to read this book (probably for the rest of my life), it needs some getting used to.
This book is about Pearl, het OCD and her trying to learn to really *live* with it. One of my loved ones struggles with OCD, so I do know a thing or two about this matter, and to me, it is displayed realistically.
I am happy that Pearl's OCD is not her entire personality, she has a wonderful friend, Una, and a job (with a great colleague) she is happy with. This in itself is a great reason to pick this book up.
Pearl is a lovely character, she is honestly interested in other people (something characters from other books rarely are) and as a reader, you immediately understand why people like her instantly.
Her trip through New Zealand is fantastic, now I want to go there, too.
The people she meets there all add value to the story and Pearl's character development.
I laughed out loud multiple times, Tim made me tear up a little and Bunty is the friend we all need.
To put it more concisely: this is SUCH a heart-warming novel. Please do yourself a favour and pick it up.
Thank you Netgalley, for the e-arc. All opinions are my own.
I have to admit, I didn't immediately love this book, so I will say in advance: although I will strongly encourage people to read this book (probably for the rest of my life), it needs some getting used to.
This book is about Pearl, het OCD and her trying to learn to really *live* with it. One of my loved ones struggles with OCD, so I do know a thing or two about this matter, and to me, it is displayed realistically.
I am happy that Pearl's OCD is not her entire personality, she has a wonderful friend, Una, and a job (with a great colleague) she is happy with. This in itself is a great reason to pick this book up.
Pearl is a lovely character, she is honestly interested in other people (something characters from other books rarely are) and as a reader, you immediately understand why people like her instantly.
Her trip through New Zealand is fantastic, now I want to go there, too.
The people she meets there all add value to the story and Pearl's character development.
I laughed out loud multiple times, Tim made me tear up a little and Bunty is the friend we all need.
To put it more concisely: this is SUCH a heart-warming novel. Please do yourself a favour and pick it up.
Thank you Netgalley, for the e-arc. All opinions are my own.
August 31, 2025
Thanks to Netgalley and the publisher for providing me with an e-arc of this book! my opinions are my own.
In this book, we meet Claire. Claire lives in a small village in Ireland and works in a shop. Nothing much changes in her day to day life, and that's how she likes it. It's predictable. It's safe. You see: Claire has OCD, and ADHD. Living life comes with difficulties, for Claire.
Until one day, a handsome stranger from New Zealand travels through her sleepy town. So when he says, you should come visit me one time... She takes on the challenge.
This book has a romance story in it, but the main theme, for me at least, is Claire's growth as a person. I thought her struggles were portrayed very realistically, including how hard it is to change those habits. Even when you can logically see your own behaviour is not helping you.
I loved reading about all her preparations for the big adventure she impulsively decided to go on. It really shows the day to day impact of OCD (and adhd), and how debilitating it can be. But it also shows her resilience. Claire is not depicted as a victim, but as a person.
Despite the topic, this is a very lighthearted book that made me laugh on more than one occasion! I enjoyed reading it a lot.
In this book, we meet Claire. Claire lives in a small village in Ireland and works in a shop. Nothing much changes in her day to day life, and that's how she likes it. It's predictable. It's safe. You see: Claire has OCD, and ADHD. Living life comes with difficulties, for Claire.
Until one day, a handsome stranger from New Zealand travels through her sleepy town. So when he says, you should come visit me one time... She takes on the challenge.
This book has a romance story in it, but the main theme, for me at least, is Claire's growth as a person. I thought her struggles were portrayed very realistically, including how hard it is to change those habits. Even when you can logically see your own behaviour is not helping you.
I loved reading about all her preparations for the big adventure she impulsively decided to go on. It really shows the day to day impact of OCD (and adhd), and how debilitating it can be. But it also shows her resilience. Claire is not depicted as a victim, but as a person.
Despite the topic, this is a very lighthearted book that made me laugh on more than one occasion! I enjoyed reading it a lot.
May 19, 2025
Pearl O'Reilly has OCD (and ADHD), and spends hours every day on her rituals. She doesn't leave the small Irish village of Drangan (nor does she want to), and everything in her life has its place. Until she wakes up with Jack naked in her bed after a night out. This (significant) break in her routine sets off a chain reaction for Pearl...
This was an impressive debut (high 4 stars from me). It's written in the first person, and depicts Pearl's life with OCD with sensitivity and humour. I really enjoyed seeing the world through Pearl's eyes, especially her friends and neighbours in Drangan, who made for an excellent support system. The village and the people in it felt very realistic to me. While technically a romance novel, the plot focuses primarily on Pearl's personal journey with her mental health rather than her romantic relationships. The pacing is a bit slow at first but speeds up after a while, the writing style is smooth with wry and gentle humour. I had a lot of fun reading this, and have developed a whole new appreciation for woodlice (IYKYK).
Many thanks to HarperCollins UK, One More Chapter for letting me read an eARC of this via Netgalley. All opinions are, of course, my own.
This was an impressive debut (high 4 stars from me). It's written in the first person, and depicts Pearl's life with OCD with sensitivity and humour. I really enjoyed seeing the world through Pearl's eyes, especially her friends and neighbours in Drangan, who made for an excellent support system. The village and the people in it felt very realistic to me. While technically a romance novel, the plot focuses primarily on Pearl's personal journey with her mental health rather than her romantic relationships. The pacing is a bit slow at first but speeds up after a while, the writing style is smooth with wry and gentle humour. I had a lot of fun reading this, and have developed a whole new appreciation for woodlice (IYKYK).
Many thanks to HarperCollins UK, One More Chapter for letting me read an eARC of this via Netgalley. All opinions are, of course, my own.
February 6, 2025
4.5 stars 🌟 This book surprised me in a great way. I wasn’t sure what to expect going in and ended up unable to put it down.
I don’t know a lot about OCD but this was a great insight into how hard it must be to have this condition. Pearl has many rituals she must do in certain situations and lots of intrusive thoughts that control her life. Whilst I don’t have OCD I know what anxious thoughts can do to you and I really sympathised with Pearl and rooted for her throughout the book.
Pearl goes on a journey through this book and I was with her the whole way, and as a kiwi living in the UK I loved the New Zealand references which I wasn’t expecting.
The writing was raw and honest and confronting in places which I loved. I also really loved the different friendships / connections Pearl has with different characters in this story - both old and new.
This book will be published on the 19th of June 2025 and I would highly recommend it! Thank you to Harper Collins UK, One More Chapter and NetGalley for an advanced copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.
I don’t know a lot about OCD but this was a great insight into how hard it must be to have this condition. Pearl has many rituals she must do in certain situations and lots of intrusive thoughts that control her life. Whilst I don’t have OCD I know what anxious thoughts can do to you and I really sympathised with Pearl and rooted for her throughout the book.
Pearl goes on a journey through this book and I was with her the whole way, and as a kiwi living in the UK I loved the New Zealand references which I wasn’t expecting.
The writing was raw and honest and confronting in places which I loved. I also really loved the different friendships / connections Pearl has with different characters in this story - both old and new.
This book will be published on the 19th of June 2025 and I would highly recommend it! Thank you to Harper Collins UK, One More Chapter and NetGalley for an advanced copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.
April 6, 2025
Pearl O’Reilly’s incredibly difficult journey across the world to follow a stranger is intriguing as she finds herself on the way.
Pearl is a young woman with OCD. Her familiar routine changes when she wakes up to discover a naked man in her bed. Talk about a game changer. It’s in that moment when her life takes a chaotic turn that leads her on a journey of self-discovery.
Pearl’s struggles are exhilarating and exhausting, and her escapades are hilarious and courageous. What really struck a chord with me was how this book goes beyond just romance. Pearl’s relationship with her best friend, Una, adds the perfect splash of warmth, humor, and relatability, and their dynamic is incredibly funny and meaningful.
As we follow Pearl’s funny and crazy antics, we also dive deep into her inner turmoil. The author does a truly inspiring job portraying Pearl’s journey toward embracing life’s unpredictability. I found it refreshing and empowering to see a character face her challenges with such authenticity.
If you’re looking for a read that’s both entertaining and insightful, add this one to your list. I promise you won’t regret it.
Thank you to Ms. Frances for giving me the opportunity to read this book with no expectation of a positive review.
For more of my reviews, visit The Eclectic Review.
Pearl is a young woman with OCD. Her familiar routine changes when she wakes up to discover a naked man in her bed. Talk about a game changer. It’s in that moment when her life takes a chaotic turn that leads her on a journey of self-discovery.
Pearl’s struggles are exhilarating and exhausting, and her escapades are hilarious and courageous. What really struck a chord with me was how this book goes beyond just romance. Pearl’s relationship with her best friend, Una, adds the perfect splash of warmth, humor, and relatability, and their dynamic is incredibly funny and meaningful.
As we follow Pearl’s funny and crazy antics, we also dive deep into her inner turmoil. The author does a truly inspiring job portraying Pearl’s journey toward embracing life’s unpredictability. I found it refreshing and empowering to see a character face her challenges with such authenticity.
If you’re looking for a read that’s both entertaining and insightful, add this one to your list. I promise you won’t regret it.
Thank you to Ms. Frances for giving me the opportunity to read this book with no expectation of a positive review.
For more of my reviews, visit The Eclectic Review.
June 16, 2025
To Hell With It is a very enlightening book that highlights OCD and one's everyday struggles while dealing with OCD. Pearl has severe OCD and finds it difficult to navigate through her everyday life because of it. Although I feel like a lot of her actions and choices she made were a bit farfetched considering the only reason she made them were because of a hot guy she met, I do feel like this book is much needed. I loved how this book stresses the importance of having support and a community. By the end of the book, I was very proud of Pearl and thankful she had this community. This book is very informative, and I enjoyed watching Pearl make her journey to find a sense of normalcy.
Thank you NetGalley, HarperCollins UK, One More Chapter, and Claire Frances for this enlightening read!
Thank you NetGalley, HarperCollins UK, One More Chapter, and Claire Frances for this enlightening read!
June 1, 2025
God, I fell hard for the character of Pearl!! I'll say this over and over- I LOVE PEARL 🦋❤️🦋. She is an absolute vibe and I just love how brave she is in this book!
She is extremely likable and I really wanted the best for her from the moment I read the first chapter. It is rare to find such a strong connection to a character in a book- so full credit lies with Claire Francis. I laughed out loud for the majority of the book and didn't want it to end ! I've been sharing my thoughts throughout this readalong- which can be found in my highlights! But honestly this is such a fun read that I really would reccomend picking it up for your next read!! Run don't walk for this one 🏃♀️💃😍.
She is extremely likable and I really wanted the best for her from the moment I read the first chapter. It is rare to find such a strong connection to a character in a book- so full credit lies with Claire Francis. I laughed out loud for the majority of the book and didn't want it to end ! I've been sharing my thoughts throughout this readalong- which can be found in my highlights! But honestly this is such a fun read that I really would reccomend picking it up for your next read!! Run don't walk for this one 🏃♀️💃😍.
April 7, 2025
I went into this book expecting nothing and we didn't really get much more than that. Although it centers on a very important topic, OCD, the majority of the book just felt very unbelievable to me. OCD is a very crippling disease and despite being a world within itself, much of the stuff Pearl suddenly did just didn't make sense. I think the message is very important and it was very entertaining experiencing the world alongside her, but I have a hard time believing that patterns that have been with you for over a decade can be changed just because you meet some random dude.
August 28, 2025
4.5⭐️ (rounded up) I absolutely loved Pearl - she made me laugh and was unapologetically herself. This taught me a lot about how OCD forms in a different way than what’s widely known. Being taken through Pearl’s thought process throughout the story had me feeling her anxiety and sighing out her reliefs with her. Definitely recommend if anyone wants a light hearted read with an quirky main character!
June 15, 2025
4.5 stars
To Hell With It captured me from the first page right until the end. It focusses on Pearl, a young woman with OCD, and her journey to accepting herself. I don't know much about OCD but felt like I got a real sense of what it's like and how exhausting it can be. I loved Pearl and her mannerisms, she just seemed like a sweet person, content with her life, but ready for more. Pearl had some great friends in her corner, which really added depth to the story. Part romance, part finding herself, overall it was just fun to read.
To Hell With It captured me from the first page right until the end. It focusses on Pearl, a young woman with OCD, and her journey to accepting herself. I don't know much about OCD but felt like I got a real sense of what it's like and how exhausting it can be. I loved Pearl and her mannerisms, she just seemed like a sweet person, content with her life, but ready for more. Pearl had some great friends in her corner, which really added depth to the story. Part romance, part finding herself, overall it was just fun to read.
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