Person in Progress: A Road Map to the Psychology of Your 20s

by Jemma Sbeg

A roadmap to navigating the personal and professional transitions of your twenties, with practical insights and reassurance that you’re not alone, from the host of the top podcast The Psychology of Your 20s

“Like sharing a cup of tea with a very knowledgeable ‘near peer,’ Person in Progress will help you feel better about your twenties.”—Meg Jay, PhD, author of The Defining Decade and The Twentysomething Treatment

Jemma Sbeg launched her wildly popular podcast, The Psychology of Your 20s, in the back seat of her car, driven (no pun intended) by the simple desire to understand the universal experiences of twentysomethings through psychological research. She’s done the hard work and lived through these years, and now she shares advice, personal stories, and research-based insights to help you navigate this jungle of a decade, too.

Whether you’re wrestling with a sweaty case of imposter syndrome, doing your best not to self-sabotage, attempting to settle your anxious mind, or trying to keep your head above water in the murkiness of the dating pool, Sbeg will help you deal with the most chaotic personal and professional moments of this decade by understanding the psychology behind them. For example:

• You have a multitude of choices about your career before you. Learn how to reframe the way you think about your future so that you don’t get overwhelmed by the options.
• Whether you’re feeling the stigma of being single, stuck in a probably-going-nowhere situationship, or still hurting after heartbreak, discover how to understand and articulate what you’re looking for in a relationship.
• It’s normal to make mistakes. Unpack how to get comfortable with your mistakes and let them teach you instead of ruminating on them.

To enhance your own self-growth journey, the book includes questions and self-guided moments for your own reflection in each chapter. An invaluable guidebook to your twenties that will help you make the most of this formative decade, Person in Progress reminds us that it’s okay to embrace uncertainty and transitions.

Genres: Self Help, Nonfiction, Psychology, Personal Development, Audiobook, Mental Health, Education

336 pages, Paperback

Published April 29, 2025

Reviews

[Romy · Rating 3 out of 5]

3 out of 5 stars

When I heard Jemma was about to publish a book, I was delighted! I have been listening to her podcast "The Psychology of Your 20s" for a while now and think she offers great insights on a variety of topics. Since she almost feels like a friend talking to me by now, I decided to listen to the audio version of this book too. And it was just that - a big hug from a supportive friend. The content was good, don't get me wrong, but if you are a fan of her podcast and have a general background in psychology the insights are not going to be very groundbreaking. In fact, I think her podcasts episodes go deeper and are therefore more helpful because they allow her to deal with topics at greater length. For those who enjoyed this, I would thus really recommend listening to the podcast too! What Jemma did offer witu this book was reassurance and comfort. She uses personal examples to illusrate how crazy the period of your 20s is. I thought it was fun that she focused on a specific period of time as it was very relatable, being 24 and all. Another 6 years of chaos to go, hey!

[Daphne Guenette · Rating 4 out of 5]

This book felt comforting and empathetic. I really enjoyed reading it, it had the same calming, reassuring voice you get from The Psychology of Your 20s podcast. It didn't quite hit the 5 starts mark for me since I personally found some sections less relevant and would have liked a few more exercises to do throughout the book. Overall, I would recommend.

[Kenzie McCallum · Rating 5 out of 5]

I’ve been listening to the Psychology of your Twenties podcast for a year now. I learn so much and feel so validated with every episode and every chapter of this book. It’s a great tool for anyone feeling lost in their twenties (everyone).

[Dani · Rating 4 out of 5]

As someone who just turned twenty-one, I am incredibly thankful to NetGalley and Penguin Random House for the opportunity to read Person in Progress! I feel as though this was the perfect time to read a nonfiction guide to how to survive my twenties. Throughout reading, I really appreciated the different case studies and experiments that were mentioned. It gave a clear insight and connection to the psychological examples the author used. Additionally, the author's tone throughout the book was my favorite part of my reading experience. Whenever I opened my Kindle to read a few chapters, it felt like I was listening to an older sister or trusted friend give me valuable advice. As someone who typically reads fiction, I really enjoyed reading something different and will definitely be looking into the author's podcast!

[Anouk Elderhorst · Rating 4 out of 5]

Ik ben normaal gesproken nooit zo heel erg fan van dit soort boeken, maar ik vond deze heel fijn! Elk hoofdstuk weer nieuwe topics, zonder al te veel herhaling. Perfect om te lezen als je net rond het einde studeren/begin werken zit en het allemaal een beetje overwhelming is.

[Ailsa S.]

I might come back to this, I might not. I think that right now, I don’t need any more self-help books written by people my own age

[Sheri Cheng · Rating 3 out of 5]

Enjoyable read, but could’ve benefited from a clearer connection between chapters/overarching theme. Nothing felt new to me, but I can see how someone without a psych background would find this easy to digest.

[Sophie Treend · Rating 5 out of 5]

Everyone should totally read this book. Never have I felt more seen or heard & have a better grasp on what it means to be 20 especially in this insane time we live in. It basically goes through every topic from financial stress, trauma/shame, inner child work, career anxiety, quarter life crisis, the list goes on. Each as informative as the last

[Brian · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book came into my life at a time where I really needed it and for that I am forever indebted. Also shout out to Sydney for getting me hooked on the podcast that lead to this book <3

[Paige Huther · Rating 3 out of 5]

Listened to this on audio and enjoyed it but it wasn’t anything earth shattering.

[Elizabeth Jane · Rating 5 out of 5]

My friend wrote a book. What the fuck. This was a great introductory book into wellness! I’d be pretty keen to see Jemma revisit this in her 30s and if her lens on life shifts

[Aleksander Tudorin · Rating 4 out of 5]

It’s a good read for anyone navigating their 20s. It’s structured in a way that makes complex psychological concepts really easy to understand, and the author does a solid job of breaking down common struggles with clarity and empathy. I appreciated how relatable and grounded the insights were – it felt like a genuine guide rather than something overly clinical. It didn’t quite hit a full 5 stars for me, but it’s definitely a book I’d recommend to others in this stage of life.

[Abbie · Rating 3 out of 5]

I think because I listen to her podcast this book didn’t have that much new/groundbreaking stuff in it for me. In saying that I think I would like to have it as a physical book at home cause I think it could be good to read certain parts when going thru different life events.
I think it also would be good to read if u haven’t listened to psychology of your twenties or have only listened to one or two eps and you like her vibe.

[Ayana · Rating 4 out of 5]

This book felt like a mesh between Dolly Alderton, my psychology readings from university & a conversation with a friend. Most sections weren’t mind blowing in terms of the revelations or advice they provided, but were nonetheless welcomed reminders that we are not alone & are all just a person in progress.

[Hunter Radecki · Rating 4 out of 5]

[Audiobook]
Woohoooo! Let’s go Sbeg!

I’d originally been introduced to Jemma’s podcast Psychology of Your 20s a few years ago by a close friend and his now ex-girlfriend. Fantastic recommendation. I think what gives so many things popularity is their relevance, how we can relate to them.

Her podcast is human by science and through regard. It applies psychology to situations we commonly experience. It’s comforting. Reassuring. And, I’ve loved it more than I’ve actually listened to it.

This book is a culmination of a lot of her podcast episodes, many of which I’ve listened to, and feels sort of like a wrapt version. It does not go in depth, and it doesn’t need to. It’s a shoulder to lean on. A hand on your back. A reassurance that everything is okay, and will always be okay.

I hope she continues her podcast with each decade she enters. It’s nice to have the company. We all appreciate a witness to our experiences.

This is a great passive listen for those who’ve maybe felt a little off or distant or disconnected, as this will help begin to ground you. If you want to be pulled back in further, you can dive into her podcast, or you can follow her recommendations as to where to look next.

Thanks Bailey and Emelia.

[Alexis Miranda · Rating 4 out of 5]

3.75 ⭐️ As someone who is in their early twenties, this was definitely a helpful and insightful read! Being a twenty year old is filled with confusion, uncertainty, and anxiety. The tips Jemma gave were realistic and could be used on a daily basis. It could be somewhat repetitive or obvious at times, but it’s nice to hear these ideas in the form of a rule book. Kind of like the do’s and don’ts as a person trying to figure their life out. I think Person In Progress can help many young people. 💛

Thank you so much Rodale for the e-arc on Netgalley!

[Sangjun · Rating 5 out of 5]

Reading this book felt like having a conversation with a good friend. The author does a great job of making the reader feel like they're in a safe space with some of the sensitive topics that are discussed, and I found myself jotting down notes and quotes from the book to keep for myself as reminders. I appreciate the perspective of how all experiences serve a purpose and contribute to your personal narrative. I've heard of the author's podcast before but haven't listened to it yet; if her podcast is anything like her book, I am excited to dive right in! :)

[Brentley · Rating 4 out of 5]

3.5🌟🌟🌟💫

This book was good, just not really my cup of tea. Certain parts of it I enjoyed and felt as though they were applicable to my life, but other sections i found to be increasingly repetitive and they did not seem to provide practical advice. Overall, I can see the appeal of this book for people who are interested in psychology specifically, but it may not be for everyone in their 20s.


Thank you Net Galley, Penguin Random House, and Rodale Books for the advanced copy!

[Orla McGrath · Rating 3 out of 5]

One of my favourite podcasts!!! But, I feel that if you regularly listen to the podcast, you won’t gain a whole lot more from the book. My favourite element of the podcast is the wide variety of scientific studies, papers, and personal stories she brings in regarding each topic, and there just wasn’t as much of this (or when there was, it was studies already mentioned in the podcast). But, this of course won’t apply to everyone :)

[Sidia Mustapha · Rating 5 out of 5]

Ever since Jemma announced that she was writing a book, I’d been counting down the days until it was released. It was worth the wait because I thoroughly enjoyed reading this book. I’m a bit biased as I enjoy Jemma Sbeg’s podcast, The Psychology of Your 20s and also have a degree in Psychology and an obsession with neuroscience. With that being said, this book is not an and all be all and it doesn’t hold all of the answers to the confusion we experience in this decade. I think that’s what I enjoy about the book the most, the author doesn’t pretend to know it all or give an easy fix because the themes we encounter as 20 something’s aren’t black and white, they’re complex. Jemma does a wonderful job explaining that our woes can be explained by science and by understanding that, we’re able to think about them differently and learn how to navigate them more efficiently. If you’re looking for a book to give you all the answers to fixing your life right at this moment, this is not the book for you. It leans towards learning why we think, feel and act the way we do in our 20s and tools to manage and work through this decade and the ones to follow, and honestly isn’t that what psychology is all about?

[Hope Diamond · Rating 5 out of 5]

As a 27 year old college student reading this books was something I didn’t know I needed in my life. It was very eye opening that I’m not the only person in the world who is going through an identity crisis or even having thoughts that I’m not mean to be a teacher.
However, reading Person In Process I felt better about myself and my feeling, this also made me want to go back to therapy.
5/5 stars!

[jess f &#x1f331; · Rating 4 out of 5]

all hail jemma sbeg 💞💞💞

[Bianca Busch · Rating 4 out of 5]

A very encouraging and reassuring book. One star off because I knew a lot of what she wrote about already, from life or I had heard it in her podcast (Psychology of your 20s - check it out :))

[Upeka Herath · Rating 4 out of 5]

lovely bit-sized read!! Summarising so many of the different aspects that make this decade equally beautiful and hellish. Grateful to start a new year with this book and carry these lessons with me 😛

[Fee Devoogdt · Rating 3 out of 5]

3,5 ⭐️

[Kelsey · Rating 4 out of 5]

Need to get the physical book because DAMN does she have poignant advice. 💕 her

[Abby Foust · Rating 4 out of 5]

I didn’t relate to ~everything~ in the book, but she articulated a lot of the 20yo experience. And I’m convinced no one lives a unique life...in fact I think she read my journal to write this book. (I don't have a journal.)

[Charissa Love · Rating 4 out of 5]

I think this is a book I’ll keep coming back to as I round out the rest of my 20s, also it’s given me a new podcast to dive into while I figure out what’s next for me in this 30-flirty-thriving era in the next couple of years.

Thank you Rodale for the eARC in exchange for an honest review :)

[Emily Frymark · Rating 4 out of 5]

A great book that gave action items that were realistic to apply

[Ava Dadmehr · Rating 5 out of 5]

I highly recommend this book to all my friends that enjoy self help books! I am probably very biased as I am an avid listener of her podcast but truely this book was filled with pearls of wisdom and allows for a lot of self reflection (was the perfect book for my solo trip)!!