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Chasing Tarzan
In the 1960s, a relentless school bully makes Catherine's life a living hell. She retreats inward, relying on a rich fantasy life––swinging through the jungle wrapped in Tarzan’s protective arms––and fervent prayers to a God she does not trust. She fasts until she feels faint, she ties a rough rope around her waist as penance, hoping God will see her worthy of His help.
As the second of eight children, Catherine is Mommy’s little helper, and like Mommy, Catherine is overwhelmed. The bullying and the adult responsibilities together foment her anger. She starts smacking her siblings, and becomes her younger sister’s nemesis. Spooked by who she is becoming, Catherine vows to escape for real, before she hurts someone—or herself.
Catherine finds salvation in a high school exchange program: new town, new school, new family, new persona. A passport celebrity. In New Zealand, nobody knows her history or her fears. Except for her Kiwi “mum,” who sees through Catherine’s façade and pulls her out from her inner safe-house.
Exposed, her sense of self implodes. Catherine must finally rethink who she is.
As the second of eight children, Catherine is Mommy’s little helper, and like Mommy, Catherine is overwhelmed. The bullying and the adult responsibilities together foment her anger. She starts smacking her siblings, and becomes her younger sister’s nemesis. Spooked by who she is becoming, Catherine vows to escape for real, before she hurts someone—or herself.
Catherine finds salvation in a high school exchange program: new town, new school, new family, new persona. A passport celebrity. In New Zealand, nobody knows her history or her fears. Except for her Kiwi “mum,” who sees through Catherine’s façade and pulls her out from her inner safe-house.
Exposed, her sense of self implodes. Catherine must finally rethink who she is.
- GenresMemoir
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Published June 27, 2023
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About the author
Catherine Forster
3 books31 followersCatherine Forster honed her powers of observation early on, and later applied them to artistic endeavors. Although it didn’t happen overnight, she discovered that seeing and hearing a bit more than the average person can be beneficial. As an artist, her work has exhibited in museums and galleries across the United States and abroad. Her experimental films have won accolades and awards in more than thirty international film festivals, from Sao Paulo to Berlin, Los Angeles to Rome, London to Romania. Through her work, she explores the dynamics of girlhood, notions of identity, and the role technology plays in our relationship with nature.
In her capacity as an independent curator, she founded LiveBox, an eight-year project that introduced new media arts to communities at a time when few new what media arts was. For the past four years she has been a member of the curatorial team for the Experiments In Cinema Film Festival held annually in Albuquerque, New Mexico. She received a Masters of Fine Arts from the School of the Art Institute of Chicago, a Masters of Business from the London Business School, and a fellowship in writing from the Vermont Studio Center. She is also included in the Brooklyn Art Museum’s Elizabeth A. Sackler Center for Feminist Art.
In her capacity as an independent curator, she founded LiveBox, an eight-year project that introduced new media arts to communities at a time when few new what media arts was. For the past four years she has been a member of the curatorial team for the Experiments In Cinema Film Festival held annually in Albuquerque, New Mexico. She received a Masters of Fine Arts from the School of the Art Institute of Chicago, a Masters of Business from the London Business School, and a fellowship in writing from the Vermont Studio Center. She is also included in the Brooklyn Art Museum’s Elizabeth A. Sackler Center for Feminist Art.
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October 1, 2022
I've never read a book by this author before but I can tell you this won't be the last. This is a captivating story of author Catherine Forster's life. She really knows how to tell a story well. At times I forgot I was reading about someone's true life story and it felt like a novel. How could this all happen to this poor little girl? The bullying she endured from her brother and a boy at school really got to me. She was teased about her weight and boy could I relate to much of this. A lot was going on at Catherine's house as her mom seemed to be having a baby every other year. The author was fulfilling the role of the older sister's life of helping take care of the house and babysitting her siblings. (There were eight children altogether.)
Her journey in life takes her to places and people she probably thought she'd never meet as she became a foreign exchange student. I especially loved this part of the book when she finally found herself with the help of her "Mum" at her new house for a year. The end is very fulfilling as a reader as you've been through every heartache and growing pain that the author went through. It's so impressive to read the Bio and see everything she went on to do in her life. What an amazing woman and an amazing book.
Her journey in life takes her to places and people she probably thought she'd never meet as she became a foreign exchange student. I especially loved this part of the book when she finally found herself with the help of her "Mum" at her new house for a year. The end is very fulfilling as a reader as you've been through every heartache and growing pain that the author went through. It's so impressive to read the Bio and see everything she went on to do in her life. What an amazing woman and an amazing book.
October 30, 2022
Chasing Tarzan is a very well-written Memoir by a very talented and remarkable woman. It is a very poignant tale and never boring. It is heartbreaking at times. Through her writing, the reader can feel the desperation she felt with bullying and being called upon to do so much at such a young age.
Her salvation came with an opportunity to be an exchange student. In preparation, she forced herself to evolve at school in order to fulfill the requirements for becoming an exchange student. Eventually, the day came and she was accepted to be an exchange student in New Zealand. There she discovered a person with insight and a family that actually enabled her to see herself and the world differently.
The story ends with her readjusting to life back in the States with her original family.
This is a story of so many topics, from a child’s feelings of insecurity to devastating, overwhelming anxiety. Much of the first part addresses bullying and faulty parenting.
She complemented her story with sketches she created herself. She is a renowned artist, in addition to her many other talents.
Her verbal descriptions of the various people in her life and of events were very thorough and easily visualized.
I offer a Five Stars rating for this book.
*This book was gifted me with no pressure for a positive review. This is my honest review.
Her salvation came with an opportunity to be an exchange student. In preparation, she forced herself to evolve at school in order to fulfill the requirements for becoming an exchange student. Eventually, the day came and she was accepted to be an exchange student in New Zealand. There she discovered a person with insight and a family that actually enabled her to see herself and the world differently.
The story ends with her readjusting to life back in the States with her original family.
This is a story of so many topics, from a child’s feelings of insecurity to devastating, overwhelming anxiety. Much of the first part addresses bullying and faulty parenting.
She complemented her story with sketches she created herself. She is a renowned artist, in addition to her many other talents.
Her verbal descriptions of the various people in her life and of events were very thorough and easily visualized.
I offer a Five Stars rating for this book.
*This book was gifted me with no pressure for a positive review. This is my honest review.
October 13, 2022
From page one, I knew this will become one of my favourite books. I relate to this book so much. It'll probably be that book I will keep coming to. A book about scars, surviving and trying to find yourself. It shows that one person can change your life completely. I recommend this book to everyone!
January 29, 2023
Chasing Tarzan is an enjoyable and easy to read autobiography, detailing a young girl's growth and shifting identity from childhood until her late teens. Catherine is the second child and oldest daughter in a large, frequently moving family, and from an early age assumes much of the responsibility of looking after her younger siblings. A somewhat pudgy child, she is frequently bullied at school and develops deep insecurities about her weight and appearance. As she enters adolescence, she finds satisfaction in academic achievements, going from being a relatively average student to a one of the top students in her class. Her ambition crystallizes when she first learns about the possibility of becoming a foreign exchange student, ultimately landing her a placement in New Zealand. This, she thinks, will let her escape being the "nobody" she fears she is becoming.
Catherine bonds with her host family, whose dynamic is very different than the one that she grew up with. While she struggles to adjust to the foreign educational system, and has a few mis-steps, she ultimately relishes her experience and matures greatly as a result of it. Returning home, she contemplates her next steps in life, her love for her two, very different families, and the greater awareness of her own character that she has achieved. The title, for those who are curious, refers to Catherine's fondness for Tarzan matinees during childhood.
Overall, I found this to be an engaging memoir. Like virtually all instances I have encountered of an adult writing about childhood, the writer doesn't quite succeed in making me suspend disbelief on this account--her description of her thoughts as a child still sound filtered through an adult perspective, but I have come to accept this as an unavoidable artifact of the genre. I also simply do not understand why the author feels it necessary to include the occasional illustration. Still, I would recommend this one. I appreciate the frank descriptions of the writer's early life, which are refreshingly honest, relatable, and often funny.
Catherine bonds with her host family, whose dynamic is very different than the one that she grew up with. While she struggles to adjust to the foreign educational system, and has a few mis-steps, she ultimately relishes her experience and matures greatly as a result of it. Returning home, she contemplates her next steps in life, her love for her two, very different families, and the greater awareness of her own character that she has achieved. The title, for those who are curious, refers to Catherine's fondness for Tarzan matinees during childhood.
Overall, I found this to be an engaging memoir. Like virtually all instances I have encountered of an adult writing about childhood, the writer doesn't quite succeed in making me suspend disbelief on this account--her description of her thoughts as a child still sound filtered through an adult perspective, but I have come to accept this as an unavoidable artifact of the genre. I also simply do not understand why the author feels it necessary to include the occasional illustration. Still, I would recommend this one. I appreciate the frank descriptions of the writer's early life, which are refreshingly honest, relatable, and often funny.
February 1, 2023
This autobiography was very easy to follow and read. It is all about a girl growing up and how she navigates becoming a teenager. Catherine is her name and she is the oldest daughter in her family. Her family moves a lot and this takes a toll on her. She gets bullied a lot at school because she is a little chubby and doesn't really fit in with the rest of the kids. We learn more about her as she grows into her teenage years. She loves going to school because she loves the educational process. She thrives in school and has become the top student in her class too.
Of course, she gets some opportunities because of her brilliance in school. She has the chance to go to New Zealand to study abroad. She decides that because she is seen as a "nobody" at her school, perhaps this will be a great way for her to be someone else and in a new place. Catherine falls in love with New Zealand. She becomes incredibly close to her host family. She discovers that they are much different from her own family and this helps her to better understand the differences in life and family.
This book really does take a deep look at how we are raised versus being with a family so much different than your own. Catherine learned a lot while she was in New Zealand and feels grateful for having the opportunity to learn there. After reading this memoir, I thought a lot about my own family as well. Being around different families does really put things into perspective for us all.
I would recommend this book to anyone who wants to dive into an autobiography. I was very moved by this book and it really puts things into perspective for the reader. The book is very interesting, moves pretty quickly, and you find out why she chose the title. I won’t give that part away, but it’s very interesting indeed. I generally don’t read this kind of book, but I liked this one and it definitely has changed my mind about this genre.
Of course, she gets some opportunities because of her brilliance in school. She has the chance to go to New Zealand to study abroad. She decides that because she is seen as a "nobody" at her school, perhaps this will be a great way for her to be someone else and in a new place. Catherine falls in love with New Zealand. She becomes incredibly close to her host family. She discovers that they are much different from her own family and this helps her to better understand the differences in life and family.
This book really does take a deep look at how we are raised versus being with a family so much different than your own. Catherine learned a lot while she was in New Zealand and feels grateful for having the opportunity to learn there. After reading this memoir, I thought a lot about my own family as well. Being around different families does really put things into perspective for us all.
I would recommend this book to anyone who wants to dive into an autobiography. I was very moved by this book and it really puts things into perspective for the reader. The book is very interesting, moves pretty quickly, and you find out why she chose the title. I won’t give that part away, but it’s very interesting indeed. I generally don’t read this kind of book, but I liked this one and it definitely has changed my mind about this genre.
January 8, 2025
Chasing Tarzan by Catherine Forster is a poignant, vividly written memoir that explores the journey of self-discovery, resilience, and transformation. Set against the backdrop of a nomadic childhood, the book captures the challenges Catherine faced growing up as the second child in a large family that frequently moved.
From a young age, she took on responsibilities beyond her years, caring for her siblings while grappling with bullying, insecurities about her appearance, and the crushing weight of societal expectations.
Catherine’s connection to the fictional character serves as a recurring theme, symbolizing her yearning for strength, freedom, and belonging. However, as Catherine matures, Tarzan fades into the background, mirroring her growing confidence and newfound ability to face challenges on her own terms.
One of the book’s most profound elements is its depiction of Catherine’s journey toward reinvention. Her determination to prove herself academically and her decision to become a foreign exchange student in New Zealand mark pivotal moments in her growth. The memoir beautifully captures her struggles and triumphs abroad, from cultural adjustments to forming meaningful bonds with her host family, offering readers a touching and relatable account of personal transformation.
Catherine’s storytelling strikes a balance between raw vulnerability and hope, allowing readers to connect deeply with her experiences. While some parts reflect the inevitable influence of an adult lens on childhood recollections, the honesty and relatability of her reflections resonate universally. Forster’s candid exploration of bullying, self-doubt, and the journey to self-acceptance is both heart-wrenching and inspiring.
Chasing Tarzan is a touching reminder that even in our darkest moments, growth is possible. Whether you’re an adult reflecting on your own childhood or someone seeking a story of resilience, this memoir offers a deeply moving and uplifting experience.
From a young age, she took on responsibilities beyond her years, caring for her siblings while grappling with bullying, insecurities about her appearance, and the crushing weight of societal expectations.
Catherine’s connection to the fictional character serves as a recurring theme, symbolizing her yearning for strength, freedom, and belonging. However, as Catherine matures, Tarzan fades into the background, mirroring her growing confidence and newfound ability to face challenges on her own terms.
One of the book’s most profound elements is its depiction of Catherine’s journey toward reinvention. Her determination to prove herself academically and her decision to become a foreign exchange student in New Zealand mark pivotal moments in her growth. The memoir beautifully captures her struggles and triumphs abroad, from cultural adjustments to forming meaningful bonds with her host family, offering readers a touching and relatable account of personal transformation.
Catherine’s storytelling strikes a balance between raw vulnerability and hope, allowing readers to connect deeply with her experiences. While some parts reflect the inevitable influence of an adult lens on childhood recollections, the honesty and relatability of her reflections resonate universally. Forster’s candid exploration of bullying, self-doubt, and the journey to self-acceptance is both heart-wrenching and inspiring.
Chasing Tarzan is a touching reminder that even in our darkest moments, growth is possible. Whether you’re an adult reflecting on your own childhood or someone seeking a story of resilience, this memoir offers a deeply moving and uplifting experience.
January 31, 2025
"Memory is fickle, but it defines who we are. It’s not fact, but it can reveal truth."
TG: Bullying, childhood abuse
The author calls this book 'an excavation of her childhood'. But, I feel this book is also discovering yourself through memories, support, warmth, and love. This book is about surviving and reigniting the spark within you when you feel safe enough to have faith in the light at the end of the tunnel. Yet, this book is also about the impact bullying can have on us.
Bullying can make us go inward and judge ourselves, it can make us do things which can lead us to harm. It can be a nightmare one can't come out of.
Right from the first page, I was with Catherine while she was speaking to ants, or narrating the stories of her childhood. Catherine dealt with so much for her age - be it at the hands of her mother or life. Moving places, schools, and getting a truckload of unkindness - this and more made her childhood bitter and harsh. In ways we fail to explain.
Her inner thoughts came so unfiltered that I felt for her when I read 'We lacked an address' ' It was my birthday but there was no cake'. It was the grief of not feeling loved and celebrated that her childhood highlighted but she didn't let this define her life. Her mother's behavior made me feel sick in the stomach as I couldn't even imagine something like that happening to anyone.
In multiple instances, it seemed that acceptance was her ability. She was able to
show how real memory could be.
A brilliant observer! This book evokes sadness yet gratitude!
Her struggle to look a certain way made me feel so sad because she was too young to not relish the food on her table.
'All pretense of my body being strong crumbled' - as I read this, I felt how relatable it is for each one of us in different aspects.
I can say so many things about this book as it highlights so many themes and emotions we all can relate to! But, to sum it up - I was transformed and I felt her story!
TG: Bullying, childhood abuse
The author calls this book 'an excavation of her childhood'. But, I feel this book is also discovering yourself through memories, support, warmth, and love. This book is about surviving and reigniting the spark within you when you feel safe enough to have faith in the light at the end of the tunnel. Yet, this book is also about the impact bullying can have on us.
Bullying can make us go inward and judge ourselves, it can make us do things which can lead us to harm. It can be a nightmare one can't come out of.
Right from the first page, I was with Catherine while she was speaking to ants, or narrating the stories of her childhood. Catherine dealt with so much for her age - be it at the hands of her mother or life. Moving places, schools, and getting a truckload of unkindness - this and more made her childhood bitter and harsh. In ways we fail to explain.
Her inner thoughts came so unfiltered that I felt for her when I read 'We lacked an address' ' It was my birthday but there was no cake'. It was the grief of not feeling loved and celebrated that her childhood highlighted but she didn't let this define her life. Her mother's behavior made me feel sick in the stomach as I couldn't even imagine something like that happening to anyone.
In multiple instances, it seemed that acceptance was her ability. She was able to
show how real memory could be.
A brilliant observer! This book evokes sadness yet gratitude!
Her struggle to look a certain way made me feel so sad because she was too young to not relish the food on her table.
'All pretense of my body being strong crumbled' - as I read this, I felt how relatable it is for each one of us in different aspects.
I can say so many things about this book as it highlights so many themes and emotions we all can relate to! But, to sum it up - I was transformed and I felt her story!
February 4, 2023
CHASING TARZAN depicts the plight of Catherine Forster who endures childhood trauma and narrates the magical journey of self-actualization.Catherine Foster is the second born in a family of eight siblings. She is confronted with bullying and overwhelming responsibilities during her teenage years in the 1960s. At school she faces relentless abuse based on her weight and turns to fantasy as an escape route from her predicaments. She idolizes Tarzan as her savior who can redeem her from the predicaments. It also turns out that Tarzan is her favorite action movie hero. Back at home things are thick; she is overwhelmed with responsibilities such as taking care of her younger sisters and house chores. Neither the parents nor the teachers come to her rescue. The burden becomes heavy to bear and she becomes emotionally unable to withstand the pressure. The only option left is escaping before things escalate to a worst-case scenario. A high school exchange program in New Zealand comes to her aid as it is there where she dreams again to become a different person. While she perceives that no one knows her past, her host mother, Kiwi discerns her true identity and helps her fight her battles and rise above the fears.
Reading the book is more than an overcoming the odds story but invites readers into a more compelling story with a fusion of fantasy that shifts one’s attention from the reality. Forster captures the details vividly as she takes us through her amazing journey. For a moment the introduction feels like a travelogue thanks to entertaining vocabulary and description of the Maori culture. Catherine has also used drawing illustrations that help the reader grasp the commentary as they flip the pages. It is an interesting read one that captures the details of self-growth and discovery of a once naïve girl but eventually overcomes.
Reading the book is more than an overcoming the odds story but invites readers into a more compelling story with a fusion of fantasy that shifts one’s attention from the reality. Forster captures the details vividly as she takes us through her amazing journey. For a moment the introduction feels like a travelogue thanks to entertaining vocabulary and description of the Maori culture. Catherine has also used drawing illustrations that help the reader grasp the commentary as they flip the pages. It is an interesting read one that captures the details of self-growth and discovery of a once naïve girl but eventually overcomes.
August 2, 2024
Chasing Tarzan is a captivating and accessible autobiography that chronicles a young girl's journey of growth and self-discovery from childhood to late adolescence. Catherine, the second child and eldest daughter in a large, nomadic family, shoulders the responsibility of caring for her younger siblings from an early age. Her childhood is marred by frequent bullying at school, leading to deep-seated insecurities about her weight and appearance.
As she transitions into adolescence, Catherine finds solace in her academic achievements, transforming from an average student to one of the top in her class. Her ambitions solidify upon learning about the possibility of becoming a foreign exchange student, ultimately securing her a placement in New Zealand. She views this opportunity as a chance to escape the "nobody" she fears she is becoming.
In New Zealand, Catherine forms a strong bond with her host family, whose dynamics starkly contrast with her own. Despite struggling to adapt to the foreign educational system and facing a few setbacks, she ultimately embraces the experience, emerging more mature and self-aware. Upon returning home, Catherine reflects on her next steps in life, her affection for her two very different families, and the profound understanding of her own character she has gained.
The title, "Chasing Tarzan", alludes to Catherine's childhood fondness for Tarzan matinees, symbolizing her pursuit of adventure and identity. This autobiography is a testament to resilience and the devastating impact of bullying. It is a must-read for anyone who has faced self-doubt, bullying, or a lack of support, offering a poignant reminder of the strength of the human spirit.
As she transitions into adolescence, Catherine finds solace in her academic achievements, transforming from an average student to one of the top in her class. Her ambitions solidify upon learning about the possibility of becoming a foreign exchange student, ultimately securing her a placement in New Zealand. She views this opportunity as a chance to escape the "nobody" she fears she is becoming.
In New Zealand, Catherine forms a strong bond with her host family, whose dynamics starkly contrast with her own. Despite struggling to adapt to the foreign educational system and facing a few setbacks, she ultimately embraces the experience, emerging more mature and self-aware. Upon returning home, Catherine reflects on her next steps in life, her affection for her two very different families, and the profound understanding of her own character she has gained.
The title, "Chasing Tarzan", alludes to Catherine's childhood fondness for Tarzan matinees, symbolizing her pursuit of adventure and identity. This autobiography is a testament to resilience and the devastating impact of bullying. It is a must-read for anyone who has faced self-doubt, bullying, or a lack of support, offering a poignant reminder of the strength of the human spirit.
February 11, 2023
First of all, my rating is based solely on the resilience and determination of the author, Catherine, as she navigates through the challenges in her life. Despite being pushed to take on adult responsibilities at a young age of 6, Catherine never lost hope for a better future. Her determination to change the trajectory of her life is truly inspiring, and I have nothing but admiration for her strength.
The book, Chasing Tarzan, details Catherine's journey as a young girl who is constantly on the move with her family, finally settling in a place that only adds to the challenges she faces. Struggling with bullying and belittlement both at school and at home, Catherine felt like she was losing control of her life and the person she wanted to be.
However, Catherine makes the brave decision to become an exchange student in New Zealand. This experience and the new people in her life changed her perspective for the better, providing her with a new outlook on the world and a newfound sense of hope, self-discovery and forgiveness.
Overall, Chasing Tarzan is a testament to the power of resilience and the damaging effects of bullying. This book is a must-read for anyone who has ever struggled with self-doubt, bullying, or a lack of support.
Note: I wasn’t a fan of the Tarzan illustrations and lengthy descriptions, but I understand that helped the author to find a way around the things in her life well out of her control.
The book, Chasing Tarzan, details Catherine's journey as a young girl who is constantly on the move with her family, finally settling in a place that only adds to the challenges she faces. Struggling with bullying and belittlement both at school and at home, Catherine felt like she was losing control of her life and the person she wanted to be.
However, Catherine makes the brave decision to become an exchange student in New Zealand. This experience and the new people in her life changed her perspective for the better, providing her with a new outlook on the world and a newfound sense of hope, self-discovery and forgiveness.
Overall, Chasing Tarzan is a testament to the power of resilience and the damaging effects of bullying. This book is a must-read for anyone who has ever struggled with self-doubt, bullying, or a lack of support.
Note: I wasn’t a fan of the Tarzan illustrations and lengthy descriptions, but I understand that helped the author to find a way around the things in her life well out of her control.
February 4, 2025
This book grabs your attention & never lets go. Catherine is bullied at school, suffocating at home & drowning in a religion that finely gets worse and worse. She drifts off to imagined fantasies of Tarzan rescuing her and punishes herself praying that God would notice her. But the weight mounts and before long she lashes out at everyone, especially her little sister—by accident (or on purpose). It frightens her to realize that. She has to get out before she turns into a monster she can undo.
The exchange trip to New Zealand looks ideal for running away. It's a new place, and Catherine is new. Her past is a secret, and she likes it that way. But her mother has other plans. The reason why this story hits so hard is that it comes so very raw and real. Catherine is more than a victim, she is complicated. She shows her anger, she is afraid and at other times she is very unpleasant. But you get her.
The writing completely immerses you into her inner thoughts that you feel every bit of her stress, guilt and starving for control. And how is healing described? There are no magic fixes, no big epiphanies — just the boring business of working out who you are. It is a hard read at times, but it's necessary.
This book is one of those that stays with you forever. It’s raw and heartbreaking, yet it also offers hope, which is the most important thing.
The exchange trip to New Zealand looks ideal for running away. It's a new place, and Catherine is new. Her past is a secret, and she likes it that way. But her mother has other plans. The reason why this story hits so hard is that it comes so very raw and real. Catherine is more than a victim, she is complicated. She shows her anger, she is afraid and at other times she is very unpleasant. But you get her.
The writing completely immerses you into her inner thoughts that you feel every bit of her stress, guilt and starving for control. And how is healing described? There are no magic fixes, no big epiphanies — just the boring business of working out who you are. It is a hard read at times, but it's necessary.
This book is one of those that stays with you forever. It’s raw and heartbreaking, yet it also offers hope, which is the most important thing.
October 26, 2022
The Review
This was both a heartbreaking and inspiring read all at once. The author’s story truly held an emotional depth that so many readers are going to be able to relate to, and the authenticity for which the author writes captures the intensity of the author's experiences growing up that led to her behavior and struggles to go into the exchange program.
The imagery and tone the author struck early on in the book were so passionate and heartfelt and highlighted the anxiety and hardships that the author endured early in life. The themes were the heart of this narrative, as the exploration of the impact bullies has on a child, the cost of trauma on our outlook on life, and the need for changes in our lives to thrive and grow all played a pivotal role in the author's story.
The Verdict
A moving and captivating coming-of-age meets memoir narrative, author Catherine Forster’s “Chasing Tarzan” is a must-read book filled with emotional storytelling, thoughtful attention to themes, and an honesty that cannot be replicated. The relatability that this story has will compel readers to dive into the story, while the travel and foreign exchange program aspect of the book will have readers invested as the author’s journey continues.
This was both a heartbreaking and inspiring read all at once. The author’s story truly held an emotional depth that so many readers are going to be able to relate to, and the authenticity for which the author writes captures the intensity of the author's experiences growing up that led to her behavior and struggles to go into the exchange program.
The imagery and tone the author struck early on in the book were so passionate and heartfelt and highlighted the anxiety and hardships that the author endured early in life. The themes were the heart of this narrative, as the exploration of the impact bullies has on a child, the cost of trauma on our outlook on life, and the need for changes in our lives to thrive and grow all played a pivotal role in the author's story.
The Verdict
A moving and captivating coming-of-age meets memoir narrative, author Catherine Forster’s “Chasing Tarzan” is a must-read book filled with emotional storytelling, thoughtful attention to themes, and an honesty that cannot be replicated. The relatability that this story has will compel readers to dive into the story, while the travel and foreign exchange program aspect of the book will have readers invested as the author’s journey continues.
February 11, 2023
I particularly liked the build-up to the climax of the story. It brings to the surface several emotions battling each other in an authentic way without any exaggeration. People who have been through similar experiences will find the story highly relatable and believable.
There is a great amount of detail that has gone into describing food and clothes. However, the same level of detail is noticably missing when other aspects of the environment are described. Also, some of the vocabulary might come across as archaic, although explanations are given for certain slang terms.
The plot does a good job of highlighting how post-traumatic stress disorder can have lingering side-effects for a long time even though people around the victim might feel that it is time to "move on". Repeated mentions of past experiences bring in the necessary amount of reinforcement that is needed to make the reader realize how much of an impact those experiences create.
The title of the work doesn't sound very relevant as the story progresses ahead in the later chapters. Also, the book has some occasional illustrations, which although do give life to the words expressed and also lend an air of authenticity, are not strictly necessary to visualize what is going on.
There is a great amount of detail that has gone into describing food and clothes. However, the same level of detail is noticably missing when other aspects of the environment are described. Also, some of the vocabulary might come across as archaic, although explanations are given for certain slang terms.
The plot does a good job of highlighting how post-traumatic stress disorder can have lingering side-effects for a long time even though people around the victim might feel that it is time to "move on". Repeated mentions of past experiences bring in the necessary amount of reinforcement that is needed to make the reader realize how much of an impact those experiences create.
The title of the work doesn't sound very relevant as the story progresses ahead in the later chapters. Also, the book has some occasional illustrations, which although do give life to the words expressed and also lend an air of authenticity, are not strictly necessary to visualize what is going on.
April 13, 2023
This memoir is really captivating and inspiring, Catherine Forster's lived through experience and the passages of life are something that some of us can relate to. The thing is that even though all fingers belong to the same hand yet they are never equal and this is how she grew up in a family. It is how life goes and Catherine in her childhood experiences it and in the end, it is separation that leads to her individual freedom.
A tough childhood with 7 siblings, happy and bitter memories are always around the corner and what really matters is which memory leaves a lasting impression. How traumatic it is to be bullied in childhood and despite the struggle, she had to bear the torments for life.
It leads to many consequences of what Catherine went through in her early age, but at the same time, it tells how she handled it with self realisation, grew herself to be mature and dealt with the obstacles of life with a bold attitude.
This is a life lesson for all of us, we go through it and don't speak it or deal with it so casually. Stories are written, that is fact but only some writers can do it with an artistic sort of influence and the authenticity that allows the reader to emotionally connect and I feel that Catherine Forster has really connected me with her story.
A tough childhood with 7 siblings, happy and bitter memories are always around the corner and what really matters is which memory leaves a lasting impression. How traumatic it is to be bullied in childhood and despite the struggle, she had to bear the torments for life.
It leads to many consequences of what Catherine went through in her early age, but at the same time, it tells how she handled it with self realisation, grew herself to be mature and dealt with the obstacles of life with a bold attitude.
This is a life lesson for all of us, we go through it and don't speak it or deal with it so casually. Stories are written, that is fact but only some writers can do it with an artistic sort of influence and the authenticity that allows the reader to emotionally connect and I feel that Catherine Forster has really connected me with her story.
August 7, 2024
Forster recounts her childhood and journey of self-discovery in her memoir, "Chasing Tarzan." Growing up as the second oldest of eight children, Catherine was tasked with taking care of her siblings from a young age, earning the nickname of "Mommy's little helper". But Catherine feels overwhelmed with her adult responsibilities and the bullying she faces at home. Unfortunately, her situation at school is no better as she is bullied and teased about her weight, marking the start of her insecurities with her appearance and weight. From early on in her childhood, Catherine uses her imagination as a coping mechanism to escape the stress of her home and school life, depicted in the form of vivid, fantastical daydreams. As she grows older, Catherine throws herself into her schoolwork to become a top student. Now in high school, Catherine seizes the opportunity to join a foreign exchange program and travels to New Zealand. Her time in New Zealand allows her to have new experiences and meet new people, giving her a new, more hopeful outlook on life. Forster's narrative is engaging with humor scattered throughout the book. It helps bring awareness to the effects of bullying as well as the dynamic of girls and body image. Readers are sure to enjoy Forster's emotional story of resilience.
August 11, 2024
Chasing Tarzan is a classic coming-of-age story of a girl named Catherine, who despite facing adversities like childhood bullying, manages to show resilience and come out victorious on the other side.
The book touched upon many sensitive topics like body image issues that young girls develop which often continue into their adulthood as well. It also explored family dynamics and the love-hate relationship we often have with our family.
I did think that the book moved too fast and that there was space for more nuanced exploration of Catherine's life, particularly as she grew up and developed complex thinking. I also did not understand the relevance of the title. There is a little bit in the novel where she compares her situation to that of being in a jungle, but beyond that, I did not really see how they complemented each other.
What I really liked about the book was the message that you can choose to work hard and get out of a bad situation. I especially started liking Catherine as a character when she decided that she is going to work hard to become an exchange student and manages to do it. What waits for her on the other side of that daunting decision is a new life and joy which she has not experienced in school before. The cultural exchange that she participates in when she goes to New Zealand was also refreshing to see.
To me, ultimately, this was a story about how pushing through your comfort zone can help you grow and truly become yourself.
The book touched upon many sensitive topics like body image issues that young girls develop which often continue into their adulthood as well. It also explored family dynamics and the love-hate relationship we often have with our family.
I did think that the book moved too fast and that there was space for more nuanced exploration of Catherine's life, particularly as she grew up and developed complex thinking. I also did not understand the relevance of the title. There is a little bit in the novel where she compares her situation to that of being in a jungle, but beyond that, I did not really see how they complemented each other.
What I really liked about the book was the message that you can choose to work hard and get out of a bad situation. I especially started liking Catherine as a character when she decided that she is going to work hard to become an exchange student and manages to do it. What waits for her on the other side of that daunting decision is a new life and joy which she has not experienced in school before. The cultural exchange that she participates in when she goes to New Zealand was also refreshing to see.
To me, ultimately, this was a story about how pushing through your comfort zone can help you grow and truly become yourself.
October 17, 2022
Chasing Tarzan is an intricate and gripping memoir about one girl’s troubled childhood and bullying, both verbal and physical, and how her experience as a foreign exchange student in New Zealand causes her to rethink who she is.
This book has much to offer: Honesty and authenticity. Angst and anxiety. Disappointment and heartbreak. Tears and triumph. Love, laughter, and family. An in-depth look at the effects of bullying. All wrapped in an articulate and tightly written narrative that’s as bright as a spring sunrise after a winter freeze.
Solid and sturdy, this highly engaging coming-of-age tale is hard to put down. It’s tough, tender, and effervescent, and features an impressive command of the language plus careful attention to detail.
Chasing Tarzan pulls no punches. It includes reportage of “acerbic drivel," “predatory insults,” and the like. This is balanced with honest introspection and personal reflection amid vibrant settings, lively descriptions, and warm remembrances. Equal parts guts and grace, Chasing Tarzan opens a window into the heart and soul of a bullying survivor, offering a hand up and out of the jungle.
This book has much to offer: Honesty and authenticity. Angst and anxiety. Disappointment and heartbreak. Tears and triumph. Love, laughter, and family. An in-depth look at the effects of bullying. All wrapped in an articulate and tightly written narrative that’s as bright as a spring sunrise after a winter freeze.
Solid and sturdy, this highly engaging coming-of-age tale is hard to put down. It’s tough, tender, and effervescent, and features an impressive command of the language plus careful attention to detail.
Chasing Tarzan pulls no punches. It includes reportage of “acerbic drivel," “predatory insults,” and the like. This is balanced with honest introspection and personal reflection amid vibrant settings, lively descriptions, and warm remembrances. Equal parts guts and grace, Chasing Tarzan opens a window into the heart and soul of a bullying survivor, offering a hand up and out of the jungle.
August 12, 2024
Reinventing and redefining yourself is a journey of a lifetime. Catherine Forster’s childhood was filled with challenges, shocking moments, and the revelation of one thing: bullying. Catherine was bullied so much that she became a bully to her sisters and others. She was becoming the person she despised the most. Imagining herself in Tarzan’s arms, living the nature lifestyle, she did everything she could to prove herself worthy to God, others, and herself. Now, she’s given a chance of a lifetime, a new life. She can start fresh and reinvent herself. This book was a treat to read and listen to. The narrator was clear and enthusiastic at the necessary parts. I love books that emphasize imagery, and Catherine Forster executed that brilliantly. I felt connected with the challenges and obstacles Catherine experienced in the book. That, alone, added an extra layer of love I had for the book. I was invested from beginning to end.
There was nothing I did not like about the book. It was exciting, mind-bending, and inspiring. I loved how it was written, narrated, and structured. There is no reason not to give this book five stars for these reasons.
There was nothing I did not like about the book. It was exciting, mind-bending, and inspiring. I loved how it was written, narrated, and structured. There is no reason not to give this book five stars for these reasons.
November 20, 2022
I was sent this book in exchange for an honest review. I really loved it. I found Catherine’s telling of her life from a young child to the end of high school really engaging and elements of it to be very relatable. I didn’t grow up in a large family nor did I feel bullied for years, but I think anyone can relate to feeling forgotten, taken for granted, like your every action is up for scrutiny. I will say I think the blurb is a little misleading because it makes it sound like Catherine became this mean and abusive person due to the bullying she endured and while she did do a few less than nice things it didn’t take her long to recognize her bad behavior and she knew she didn’t want to be like that. It was a great read!
February 2, 2023
I did not want to put this book down!
The storytelling is captivating and emotional right from the beginning. At times I wanted to cry for the author. Her story is laid right out, open and honest.
Some of the topics may be sensitive to some people, I know I struggled a bit at first because it was very relatable. But I think this just testifies to the great storytelling.
You definitely don't wanna miss out on this book if you love biographies. I was totally sucked into the world, as if I were living it myself. The way emotions are described or certain scenes were told completely brought this story to life. I have an inner perception of myself and personally this book was, in a way, a comfort knowing I'm alone in some of those feelings.
Definitely give this one a read!
The storytelling is captivating and emotional right from the beginning. At times I wanted to cry for the author. Her story is laid right out, open and honest.
Some of the topics may be sensitive to some people, I know I struggled a bit at first because it was very relatable. But I think this just testifies to the great storytelling.
You definitely don't wanna miss out on this book if you love biographies. I was totally sucked into the world, as if I were living it myself. The way emotions are described or certain scenes were told completely brought this story to life. I have an inner perception of myself and personally this book was, in a way, a comfort knowing I'm alone in some of those feelings.
Definitely give this one a read!
July 21, 2024
Catherine Foster’s memoir takes you on a journey through the years of her life. We get to follow her as she and her family move from city to city during her formative years, with each new chapter of her life bringing its share of troubles. However, Catherine makes for a great character to share that journey with. She’s likeable and unique, full of deep thoughts that allow you to get a special glimpse into what makes her tick. We are introduced to her as a little girl playing on the sidewalk, entranced in a world of her own. An experience every kid is familiar with. We go along with her as she grows, changes schools, experiences bullying and tries to overcome it.
All in all it’s a very touching journey that we can all relate to, and Catherine comes off as a very likeable person.
All in all it’s a very touching journey that we can all relate to, and Catherine comes off as a very likeable person.
August 2, 2024
Enlightening
Chasing Tarzan was an interesting look into the author's life. The details were so life like it had me conjuring up images of my own childhood and adolescence.
Although my childhood was in a different time and in different circumstances, I could relate to those feelings of being lonely in a crowd of people and being afraid of hurtful words. I think there are times when many of us have withdrawn into ourselves and created fantasy worlds to survive our reality.
However, as in this book, often distance can bring a new perspective and forgiveness.
This is a great book for adults who have had time to distance themselves from their childhood and are ready to look back with new eyes.
Chasing Tarzan was an interesting look into the author's life. The details were so life like it had me conjuring up images of my own childhood and adolescence.
Although my childhood was in a different time and in different circumstances, I could relate to those feelings of being lonely in a crowd of people and being afraid of hurtful words. I think there are times when many of us have withdrawn into ourselves and created fantasy worlds to survive our reality.
However, as in this book, often distance can bring a new perspective and forgiveness.
This is a great book for adults who have had time to distance themselves from their childhood and are ready to look back with new eyes.
September 9, 2024
The inner truth
Not knowing what to expect when reading the title, I was expecting a life with monkeys or living in the jungle. Neither of which was true! I was amazed, heartbroken, joyous, and sad as Catherine tells her story, her memoir. The audio was nice when I was driving or doing chores around the house, so I didn't have to stop reading. So many people have experienced turmoil and berating, I myself included. I could relate to not wanting to give anyone a reason to make fun of me. I did notice Tarzan faded out as she grew confident. I am proud of her for telling her story so that others who are going through the same thing have insight on how to deal with it before it's too late.
Not knowing what to expect when reading the title, I was expecting a life with monkeys or living in the jungle. Neither of which was true! I was amazed, heartbroken, joyous, and sad as Catherine tells her story, her memoir. The audio was nice when I was driving or doing chores around the house, so I didn't have to stop reading. So many people have experienced turmoil and berating, I myself included. I could relate to not wanting to give anyone a reason to make fun of me. I did notice Tarzan faded out as she grew confident. I am proud of her for telling her story so that others who are going through the same thing have insight on how to deal with it before it's too late.
April 21, 2023
I have so often found memoirs to be a little introspective but this one is not. The author's writing style opens the door to her challenging childhood and to an inspiring story of how she overcame the issues that she faced prior to a life-changing move to New Zealand. The author's writing is honest, raw and open. She doesn't invite the reader's pity but the story that she lays out is very relatable (and may challenge those who struggle with these issues in their own lives). At times I found the style a little old fashioned, and some of the descriptions a bit long-winded, but it is in my view worth pushing through to read this one.
July 19, 2024
The name of this book resembles a vivid jungle-based fantasy. And although it’s not a fantasy, Catherine Foster definitely whisks you into her world.
Catherine’s way with words allows her to vividly and succinctly portray her world to readers, placing us right beside her as the events of her life take place. She adequately draws us into not only the events that happened, but her imagination, which helps enhance the story.
I almost forgot that this was a biography because of this. Although Catherine lived a relatively normal life, she portrayed it very beautifully, keeping us hooked all through. Great book.
Catherine’s way with words allows her to vividly and succinctly portray her world to readers, placing us right beside her as the events of her life take place. She adequately draws us into not only the events that happened, but her imagination, which helps enhance the story.
I almost forgot that this was a biography because of this. Although Catherine lived a relatively normal life, she portrayed it very beautifully, keeping us hooked all through. Great book.
July 26, 2024
Chasing Tarzan was a wonderful read that brought back a lot of memories for me from when I was growing up. In fact, at times, it almost seemed like one of my sisters might have written it; I found it so familiar. I even went to a Catholic school that was connected to a church by a parking lot.
The writing is some really great storytelling that stays interesting from beginning to end. There are great descriptions, excellent dialogue, and even several wonderful illustrations that help make the story even clearer.
I recommend this book to anyone who wants to read a great story about a girl growing up.
The writing is some really great storytelling that stays interesting from beginning to end. There are great descriptions, excellent dialogue, and even several wonderful illustrations that help make the story even clearer.
I recommend this book to anyone who wants to read a great story about a girl growing up.
January 14, 2025
"Chasing Tarzan" is a heartwarming memoir of Catherine Foster. The story covers the obstacles, adversities, and bullying faced by Catherine and how she copes with them. It tells the story of the resilience and strength of the protagonist.
The author has given a befitting title as Catherine finds solace in her dream world where she is protected by Tarzan. I will not spill the beans.
The story touches on the grave issue of bullying and its devastating effects on one's personality.
The book is a page-turner as it is relatable and intriguing at the same time. The narrative is simple and impactful. A much-recommended read.
The author has given a befitting title as Catherine finds solace in her dream world where she is protected by Tarzan. I will not spill the beans.
The story touches on the grave issue of bullying and its devastating effects on one's personality.
The book is a page-turner as it is relatable and intriguing at the same time. The narrative is simple and impactful. A much-recommended read.
November 3, 2022
This was such a compelling memoir. There were so many moments that just absolutely tore up my heart and made it ache. Forster does an amazing job of bringing scenes from her childhood to life, and evoking strong emotions in the reader. Watching her as she grows, changes, learns, and goes through various phases kept me turning pages and reluctant to put the book down. There were a few things I could absolutely relate to - especially the bullying and escaping into fantasy to cope. If you're looking for an emotional read that will spark a bit of hope in you, then you've found your next read.
April 16, 2023
I really enjoyed reading this! I was cheering Catherine on as we're introduced to Catherine, the second child in a large family, but the first daughter. She is given the responsibility to watch the younger children a lot, as they move around frequently. As an older child, she is bullied by her older brother and a classmate at school because of her weight. Catherine uses her imagination (her with Tarzan) in order to survive the bullying and taunting; in addition, to using her imagination, she focuses on becoming the best student in her class.
September 19, 2022
I found Chasing Tarzan a remarkable story about resilience and bravery. Catherine’s journey captivated me from the first page until the last and left me wanting a sequel or more chapters.
Being bullied can leave life long scars, I hope this book reaches kids and adults everywhere. It’s funny and sad and loving and honest. Such a great read.
Being bullied can leave life long scars, I hope this book reaches kids and adults everywhere. It’s funny and sad and loving and honest. Such a great read.
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