Becoming a Service Submissive: A Workbook to Discover Your Style and Enhance Your D/s Dynamic

by Luna Carruthers

Discover the Joy of Service Submission

Unlock the potential of your submission with "Becoming a Service A Workbook to Discover Your Style and Enhance Your D/s Dynamic." This essential workbook is designed for submissives who wish to explore service submission with their Dominant partners. Whether you are new to submission or looking to deepen your skills, this workbook provides a comprehensive and approachable way to understand and integrate service into your D/s dynamic.

What’s

Five chapters of articles and activities will help you explore service submission and learn to apply it to your dynamic.Dozens of thought-provoking questions and introspection to help you learn how to apply each element to your life.Identify what types of service you prefer to offer in your dynamic.Adapt and change everyday tasks into intentional, purposeful service activities in just a few steps.What You’ll

Foundations of Start with a solid foundation to understand the concept of service in submission.

Types of Explore different types of service and discover which ones resonate with you.

Transform Everyday Learn how to shift your perspective on daily tasks and turn them into meaningful acts of service.

Negotiation and Ensure safe and consensual practices by learning to negotiate and communicate effectively with your partner.

Why This Workbook?

Authored by Luna Carruthers, this workbook shares personal insights and practical advice. The activities included will guide you through understanding your submissive motivations, exploring new service opportunities, and enhancing your existing skills. By the end of this workbook, you will have a comprehensive understanding of service submission and the confidence to enrich your relationship with your Dominant.

Begin Your Journey

Are you ready to enrich your submission through service? Start your journey and transform how you view and perform acts of service in your D/s relationship.

Kindle Edition

Published October 11, 2024

About the author

Hi, I'm lunaKM. I'm an obese, fat, not ashamed of my size submissive with a lot of passion for what I do and how I serve. My Master has taught me to think beyond the basic responses (ie. Why do I serve? "To please him," wouldn't go over well.) and get to the meat of the issues each and every time. I thank him each day for that.

I've been in the active scene since 2003. I explored online before that and found that it just wasn't enough, I needed the real thing.

I met my Master online in a chat room late 2003. He moved from England to be with me in October 2004. We got engaged on Valentine's Day 2010. We were married June 4, 2011.

My Master and I have been together since 2003. We met when we were both new to BDSM so learning has been wonderful. We have the same likes and dislikes which makes pleasing him easier. I received my permanent collar February 2007 and have bloomed and grown so much since then.

I'm a stay at home submissive and totally immersed in the lifestyle as I have no outside or inside interference. (No kids, no close family, no job) This makes for an ideal way for us to live.

Reviews

[TammyJo Eckhart · Rating 5 out of 5]

As someone who is also a kink educator and has been in a successful M/s dynamic now for 25 years, I read a paperback version of this workbook with a critical eye. I loved it! Carruthers grounds her exercises and information in her own journey supplementing that with experiences and advice from others she's interviewed and studied. There is not set time guideline to work through this book, but I echo her repeated suggestion that you take the time you need. I would use this as part of a formal training period, but the book is really designed to be used solo by someone who identifies as submissive but wants to be of service to their partner.

I want to urge anyone who is interested in D/s or M/s dynamics at least read through this book because it may give you ideas even if it doesn't resonate with you 100%. Nothing that others do should be your template for how your life works, but we may be able to learn from everything that comes from people with real life experiences similar to what we want.

If you are on the topside of kinky relationships, it is necessary for you to have knowledge from all sides and this will help you if you want to have training as a formal or informal part of your dynamics. I didn't find it difficult to turn the questions and exercises slightly around to think about what I like and want from service and why it may be difficult for me to accept that at times. It also gave me insight to internal struggles my consensual slave can have even after many years.