Ian (H) and Harlow (h) were genuinely made for each other and it was precious. I loved that the story begins where their friendship began as children in the prologue and how little Ian was immediately protective of little Harlow. That never changes, despite years passing and them falling out of touch, he would do anything for her and that's how I love my men to be. It was also self-aware and realistic of their younger selves to recognize that they were co-dependent and to be careful of how they needed to be in order to still pursue their dreams, even if it took them away from each other for a time. And they did achieve success, Ian as a woodworker and Harlow as a published author. Then they both find themselves returning to their small town, though for different reasons, since Ian had come home to be with family before his father passed away and Harlow's daughter wanted to be close to family. Their reintroduction to their adult selves had me grinning like a fool and then Ian's first meeting with Sage had the same result.
Written in first person, dual POV. No ow drama (though an ow does hit on H and he declines), tiny amount of om drama when h is hit on by another man and H has lots of feelings about it, and both are experienced (both have also been celibate for a long time and very little was shared about their histories other than they had them).
My heart honestly felt full through this entire book, sometimes it thumped a little more slowly and harder during a moment of grief or a little faster when all the sexy tension kept ratcheting up with no relief, but I just felt hard and consistently throughout. I also appreciated that this wasn't a second chance romance, it was a "you are my person, but I never allowed myself to consider anything romantic because I need you as my person but hey, it's been almost two decades and we're really different but you're still my person and oh look, we're kinda falling in love and this is scary but I need you" romance. Whew, that was a mouthful y'all, sorry. Also, I'm a sucker for a single mom romance especially when the H and the h's child(ren) bond, which Ian absolutely does with Sage.
This is strictly character and relationship driven with loads of time spent of the characters talking, their daily lives, their relationships with others, and most definitely all the ways they interact with each other. Quick shoutout to the rest of the Wilder clan for always being entertaining, supportive, and nosy as hell. I did feel the pacing didn't quite work for me personally and some of the internal monologues felt repetitive in places over certain details, which is why this was a four star and not a five star for my reader experience. Ian's arc also didn't quite hit the right notes in my mind, though it was heart aching.
I did cry, but I knew I was likely to and I also cheered (mostly at Sage). Plus, once Harlow and Ian finally, FINALLY, faced their fears, confessed their feelings, and started tossing clothing off (it's late in the book, just settle in to wait), man it felt good. The epilogue was also a short jump ahead in time and sweet in their HEA. I'd been putting this book off, as you do sometimes when your reading is driven by some weird internal mood gauge that makes no sense, but I'm glad I made myself pick it up and I did enjoy Ian and Harlow's childhood friends to lovers journey.