If you think you've met delusional, but you haven't read this book, then you've not met delusional. But also, is it delusion if it works?
And I specifically mean Mack. This man is that friend that would change their entire personality, do ANYTHING for their man. And I don't mean that with any positive connotations whatsoever.
That said.
I've never read a book where I genuinely love them equally until this. And I went in thinking I'd hate Davey. They're both at fault. And paradoxically, neither has done anything wrong.
But also, they're both stupid. Their issue isn't stupid. But their approach to it definitely is.
So we have Mack, who issues an ultimatum to his workaholic husband of more than two decades(except he's bluffing). Gag is, this man loves Davey more than life itself.
And then we have Davey. Frustrated by his work that has him away from home more than half the time so he misses his husband and their two little kids all the time, but it's a really good job, and it pays the bills that enable Mack and the kids to lead the life he wants to give them. Gag is, he'd give Mack anything he asks for(except leave his job). And that includes a divorce.
Cue a series of unfortunate events where two people that are still insanely in love with each other have now been divorced for two years, but unable to move on, and unable to reconcile.
These two are like parallel lines. Their reasons are both valid, and I can see both sides, but it just adds to the delicious frustration of how will they fix this?
For Mack, all he sees is that his husband is never around, he has to raise the kids alone, and even when he's home, he says he's too tired to have sex. Naturally he assumes the worst. And it doesn't help when he tries to shock him into a mindset shift by asking for a divorce and instead, he gets immediate acceptance.
Bit of side eye to Davey on that one. Doesn't even ask why. Doesn't suggest an alternative. Just immediate agreement. Had to hurt like a son of a bitch.
Buuuuuuuut,
For Davey, what he sees is that he works himself ragged to provide the best life for the man he loves and their kids, a big house in the suburbs, insurance, medical coverage, college fund and discretionary income. It frees Mack up to be hands on with the kids as they can afford for him to work a part time job. And he tries to spend all his time with the kids when he's around. And he'd give Mack anything, ANYTHING he asks for (minus that one thing 💀), because if he gave him that, he truly believes they'd sink into debt.
Anyway. Davey gets extended leave - 12 weeks and goes home. As usual, they see things in a different light.
Mack sees this as a last chance to show his ex-husband how good they were and make him fall in love with him all over again.
His heart is in the right place. But his actions.......as always are very misguided.
Meanwhile Davey thinks this is his chance to let Mack go once and for all, and free him to start dating if that's what he really wants.
Which he SAYS to Mack. And then proceeds to act like a woman scorned when Mack so much as talks to an available man.
So.....a comedy of errors.
Paradoxically, their main issue seems to be that they loved each other so much that they kept putting the other's needs and wants above their own. Until this naturally devolved into resentment. And this only got fixed when they got so mad at each other that they started honestly shouting at each other.
My favorite scene in the whole book.
"Tell me you didn't suggest getting a divorce on a whim."
Oh, he did.
Davey was so ANGRY😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂And honestly, I got it.
"I didn't expect you not to choose us!
" I thought it's what you wanted! "
" I've been miserable every single day since."
Once they stopped the selflessness bullshit and embraced selfishness, they realized it was them vs the issue and started working together on fixing it.
Hah! No.
They totally immediately reverted to their selfless bullshit and each tried to out-martyr the other 💀
But eventually. They get there.
They're frustrating but in a good way. I really, really loved this one.