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Taboo: Conversations We Never Had About Sex, Body Image, Work and Relationships
A vulnerable exploration of modern womanhood that weaves deeply personal stories with opinions and advice on sex, friendship, family, career and beyond.
206 pages, Kindle Edition
First published November 11, 2024
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January 6, 2025
‘Feminism has gone too far' a man told me on a dating app last year. It was his opening line, which was incredibly charming and transformed my vagina into a waterslide, just desperate to have sex with him (read: as dry as the Sahara and I deleted the dating app for a week) it was one of many absolutely sensual, romantic lines I had been presented with in the two years I had spent swiping in Australia's second largest city in a year I wrongly believed to be further progressed than 1912.’
Taboo is an exploration of the often unspoken aspects of womanhood. This part memoir, part feminist manifesto delves into themes of sex, body image, relationships, career, and friendship, intertwining deeply personal anecdotes with sharp, accessible insights. Ferguson’s voice is unapologetically raw and relatable, aiming to dismantle societal stigma and empower readers to have the conversations many avoid.
The book stands out for its candid reflections on the shame and social conditioning that often accompany topics like female sexuality and self worth. Ferguson’s storytelling is equal parts vulnerable and humorous, making heavy subjects approachable. In moments, it feels like a heart to heart with a trusted friend, capturing the messy realities of navigating modern life as a woman.
Taboo serves as a valuable guide offering insights and solidarity during a time of self discovery and societal expectation.
For readers eager for an honest, no frills discussion about womanhood and societal norms, Taboo is a must read. It challenges, inspires, and most importantly, sparks conversations long overdue.
I Highly Recommend.
4.5
Many thanks to Affirm Press for my advanced readers copy.
Taboo is an exploration of the often unspoken aspects of womanhood. This part memoir, part feminist manifesto delves into themes of sex, body image, relationships, career, and friendship, intertwining deeply personal anecdotes with sharp, accessible insights. Ferguson’s voice is unapologetically raw and relatable, aiming to dismantle societal stigma and empower readers to have the conversations many avoid.
The book stands out for its candid reflections on the shame and social conditioning that often accompany topics like female sexuality and self worth. Ferguson’s storytelling is equal parts vulnerable and humorous, making heavy subjects approachable. In moments, it feels like a heart to heart with a trusted friend, capturing the messy realities of navigating modern life as a woman.
Taboo serves as a valuable guide offering insights and solidarity during a time of self discovery and societal expectation.
For readers eager for an honest, no frills discussion about womanhood and societal norms, Taboo is a must read. It challenges, inspires, and most importantly, sparks conversations long overdue.
I Highly Recommend.
4.5
Many thanks to Affirm Press for my advanced readers copy.
October 19, 2024
It’s not often I pick up a non fiction book and just inhale it. On the surface it might seem like another memoir on sex, work, relationships that have flooded the market in recent years. But taboo is whip smart, well researched and unique. Hannah Ferguson is a revelation and completely validates women who are afraid of speaking about subjects women are conditioned to think are ‘taboo’. Every time I’ve wanted to articulate how I feel about something but couldn’t find the words at a drunken dinner party, Hannah has the facts and research and sharp one liners to some up the point. I took a highlighter to so many pages. I only wish I had a pocket sized copy to whip out every time someone tells me the gender pay gap doesn’t exist. She shows why we should write memoirs young and while we’re still learning so we have someone walking alongside us in our twenties instead of writing retrospectively years later.
April 19, 2025
As a raging feminist who loves non-fiction, I cannot believe I didn’t like this, considering the reviews. DNF at page 26—for context, I’ve only DNF’d five books in my life. I simply could not tolerate this book. It infuriated me.
I found it difficult to connect with the author, and many of her statements felt abrasive or misinformed. I'm not religious in the slightest, but I found her comment suggesting that religion is not taboo but instead “institutional child abuse committed by male clergy” to be insanely reductive and offensive. She loves sweeping generalisations, and they are PLENTIFUL.
Her tone throughout the book is whiny and preachy, which might have been easier to overlook if I agreed with her perspectives. For example, she states that “Botox isn’t feminist.”
For me, Botox and literally anything to do with your appearance, is a personal preference, not a political statement. I would still choose to not have wrinkles and wear makeup when I felt like it even if I was the only person on earth. To suggest that these choices are inherently anti-feminist and only exist due to patriarchical oppression oversimplifies women’s autonomy and personal agency—and is therefore, in itself, anti-feminist.
She also claims that “preventative Botox isn’t a thing,” which is simply, factually inaccurate. There is a substantial body of scientific literature supporting the effectiveness of early Botox in delaying the development of fine lines and wrinkles. It’s not a matter of opinion—it’s a well-documented physiological process.
The final straw for me was a claim made without evidence or explanation: “beautiful individuals are consistently expected to be more intelligent and thought to be better leaders.” This contradicts not only societal stereotypes but the lived experience of (dare I say) pretty much all women today and in the past. Attractive women are often underestimated, sexualised, or assumed to lack depth or intelligence—not presumed to be brilliant leaders. These kinds of broad, unsupported generalisations made it literally impossible to take her or her “perspectives” seriously.
I’ve read and appreciated MANY feminist books, as well as sociological non-fiction that reflects vastly different worldviews from my own, but I was still able to enjoy and engage with them. Taboo, however, was half unoriginal (“girls, be nice to each other,” “social media isn’t real life,” “sex isn’t shameful”) and half wishy-washy, factually unsupported ramble offering no wisdom or even substance to readers.
To be frank: a waste of time and a waste of money.
I found it difficult to connect with the author, and many of her statements felt abrasive or misinformed. I'm not religious in the slightest, but I found her comment suggesting that religion is not taboo but instead “institutional child abuse committed by male clergy” to be insanely reductive and offensive. She loves sweeping generalisations, and they are PLENTIFUL.
Her tone throughout the book is whiny and preachy, which might have been easier to overlook if I agreed with her perspectives. For example, she states that “Botox isn’t feminist.”
For me, Botox and literally anything to do with your appearance, is a personal preference, not a political statement. I would still choose to not have wrinkles and wear makeup when I felt like it even if I was the only person on earth. To suggest that these choices are inherently anti-feminist and only exist due to patriarchical oppression oversimplifies women’s autonomy and personal agency—and is therefore, in itself, anti-feminist.
She also claims that “preventative Botox isn’t a thing,” which is simply, factually inaccurate. There is a substantial body of scientific literature supporting the effectiveness of early Botox in delaying the development of fine lines and wrinkles. It’s not a matter of opinion—it’s a well-documented physiological process.
The final straw for me was a claim made without evidence or explanation: “beautiful individuals are consistently expected to be more intelligent and thought to be better leaders.” This contradicts not only societal stereotypes but the lived experience of (dare I say) pretty much all women today and in the past. Attractive women are often underestimated, sexualised, or assumed to lack depth or intelligence—not presumed to be brilliant leaders. These kinds of broad, unsupported generalisations made it literally impossible to take her or her “perspectives” seriously.
I’ve read and appreciated MANY feminist books, as well as sociological non-fiction that reflects vastly different worldviews from my own, but I was still able to enjoy and engage with them. Taboo, however, was half unoriginal (“girls, be nice to each other,” “social media isn’t real life,” “sex isn’t shameful”) and half wishy-washy, factually unsupported ramble offering no wisdom or even substance to readers.
To be frank: a waste of time and a waste of money.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
January 9, 2025
3.5 stars: Very well written, loved the self reflection questions, but couldn’t help feeling that this book has been done before. Strongest parts were the autobiographical parts. Maybe because I am interested in these topics personally, but it felt familiar
December 24, 2024
my taboo is that all men should be in therapy from birth until no longer required
April 10, 2025
Loved this! This is exactly the kind of contemporary, political and personal book that I love to read. I felt Hannah had improved upon her already impressive writing (and audiobook narration) from Bite Back and Taboo had seperate, unique and interesting ideas. I really loved Hannah’s vulnerability, she approached so many ideas with care and openness and this book made me admire her even more. 10/10 would recommend!
April 13, 2025
No, I did not write this book.
But I wish I did.. because I thoroughly enjoyed it.
Must be in the name 😉
But I wish I did.. because I thoroughly enjoyed it.
Must be in the name 😉
February 7, 2025
10/10 if you don’t already follow Hannah Ferguson or Cheek media on Instagram, go and do so right away!
I also think everyone should read this, a lot of this was information I have already had a lot of access to but I know a lot of people would benefit from this
Also loooved the chapter on friendship and having a soulmate in a platonic partner (obviously related to this heavily as Maddy is def my soulmate) 😂
Also I listened to this as an audiobook but couldn’t find that edition on Goodreads
I also think everyone should read this, a lot of this was information I have already had a lot of access to but I know a lot of people would benefit from this
Also loooved the chapter on friendship and having a soulmate in a platonic partner (obviously related to this heavily as Maddy is def my soulmate) 😂
Also I listened to this as an audiobook but couldn’t find that edition on Goodreads
November 14, 2025
I’ve been trying to work my way through some classics and this was a nice change of pace! Who would have thought a nonfiction read would break my reading drought, but I could hear Hannah’s voice so clearly in this book. An easy read for some pretty hefty topics, made me angry in a productive way!
December 1, 2024
This book was so so good - I highly recommend everyone read it. I love everything Hannah does but this was very raw and personal and also made such good points. The type of book where I would want to highlight every second sentence. The last chapter was about female friendship and it made be sob reading it and thinking about my own friendships ❤️❤️
January 9, 2025
3.756512
Memorising the statistics on women’s unpaid labour so next time a bro tries to tell me unequal pay between men and women is illEGAL I can slap him in the face with facts
Memorising the statistics on women’s unpaid labour so next time a bro tries to tell me unequal pay between men and women is illEGAL I can slap him in the face with facts
June 10, 2025
Really enjoyed this, a well articulated and super pragmatic perspective on relatable, everyday topics.
Felt like she was able to articulate and convey a lot of experiences, feelings and questions from my own head onto a page.
Highly recommend :)
Felt like she was able to articulate and convey a lot of experiences, feelings and questions from my own head onto a page.
Highly recommend :)
October 7, 2024
Hands down one of the best books I’ve read in a long time. Laughed, cried and immediately told 34 women all about it. So validating, thought provoking and it truly felt like a conversation with a girlfriend I never wanted to end
December 18, 2024
Seriously the most important non-fiction book anyone, and I mean ANYONE, could read. MUST read. Touched and resonated with me in so many different ways. To being bullied at a young age for my lankiness, to having one of my mothers best friends say to me at 12, “I wonder when you’ll grow into that nose”, to being sexually violated and not being able to talk about it until years later.. to losing a dozen of my closest friends along with my identity. I’ve never felt so seen and heard. This book is so real and raw and so funny and powerful. It sums up how I feel about everything and everyone. I’ve had an incredibly painful year but I can’t think of a better time to have read this than right now. I’ve learnt so much. Thank you Hannah Ferguson. Fuck the patriarchy. EVERYONE needs to read this book. EVERYONE needs to go to therapy. EVERYONE needs to get on the HF train. 🥂 to having uncomfortable conversations.
January 7, 2025
This is a very necessary piece of work and I’m glad she wrote it I wish I went to her live show aaahhhh
December 19, 2024
⭐️4 Stars⭐️
Taboo: Conversations We Never Had About Sex, Body Image, Work and Relationships by Hannah Ferguson
Hannah is not afraid to speak out and embrace feminism and she combines this with humour and vulnerability! Taboo is a modern, bold, unfiltered and unapologetic book about conversations on body image, botox, sex, shame, career, relationships, friendship and more.
Hannah shares many of her own personal stories, examines statistics and hands out knowledgeable advice.
Recommended for anyone who wants to learn more about those sometimes taboo topics in a no-nonsense manner. I particularly enjoyed the chapter about female friendship.
I don’t necessarily agree with Hannah’s thoughts on every subject and this is probably not a book I would normally pick up but I admire her ability to speak up and inspire with passion, she definitely makes you think. Taboo offers a valuable guide and will resonate with many.
Publication Date 12 November 2024
Publisher Affirm Press
A huge thanks to the fabulous team at Affirm Press for a copy of the book and matching bookmark 🔖
Taboo: Conversations We Never Had About Sex, Body Image, Work and Relationships by Hannah Ferguson
Hannah is not afraid to speak out and embrace feminism and she combines this with humour and vulnerability! Taboo is a modern, bold, unfiltered and unapologetic book about conversations on body image, botox, sex, shame, career, relationships, friendship and more.
Hannah shares many of her own personal stories, examines statistics and hands out knowledgeable advice.
Recommended for anyone who wants to learn more about those sometimes taboo topics in a no-nonsense manner. I particularly enjoyed the chapter about female friendship.
I don’t necessarily agree with Hannah’s thoughts on every subject and this is probably not a book I would normally pick up but I admire her ability to speak up and inspire with passion, she definitely makes you think. Taboo offers a valuable guide and will resonate with many.
Publication Date 12 November 2024
Publisher Affirm Press
A huge thanks to the fabulous team at Affirm Press for a copy of the book and matching bookmark 🔖
December 5, 2024
This is the second book of Hannah’s and confirmed I’d read anything she writes. She is such an intelligent force; able to combine the perfect amount of research and knowledge with experiences and wit. A book that blended validation on taboos and challenged others through insightful discussion.
This book is the exact reason why people should write memoirs young. I agreed with most of Hannah’s taboos, finding myself frequently saying “YES” in my head. I’m sure most women will have had similar experiences discussed in the book. I had a handful, particularly resonated with the experience of trying to discuss female pleasure and sex with my peers and getting shamed for that.
This book is the exact reason why people should write memoirs young. I agreed with most of Hannah’s taboos, finding myself frequently saying “YES” in my head. I’m sure most women will have had similar experiences discussed in the book. I had a handful, particularly resonated with the experience of trying to discuss female pleasure and sex with my peers and getting shamed for that.
April 28, 2025
This book had me feeling empowered and gave me more courage to stand up for what is right. So many amazing points made in this that I would have never thought of before hand. Really gets you thinking about everything you’ve ever thought about society. I think everyone should read this book. Powerful.
January 15, 2025
Such a clever mix of engaging anecdotes, literature and academic texts. Love you Hannah !!!
March 8, 2025
borderline unreadable 😭…. not really sure who the audience of this is supposed to be tbh
January 11, 2025
Had to read this with a bit of an open mind but I really enjoyed it and would recommend to all my friends 😁😁😁
January 18, 2025
4.5 ⭐
I agree with most of Hannah's opinions, but not all. Regardless, Taboo is an incredibly thoughtful and informative read - a book EVERYONE should read to educate and dispel misinformation. The chapter on friendship is 🤌🏻 divine. Looking forward to reading more of Hannah's work and voting for her as PM in future ❤️
I agree with most of Hannah's opinions, but not all. Regardless, Taboo is an incredibly thoughtful and informative read - a book EVERYONE should read to educate and dispel misinformation. The chapter on friendship is 🤌🏻 divine. Looking forward to reading more of Hannah's work and voting for her as PM in future ❤️
January 12, 2025
This book is one I will think about for weeks to come. It has rewritten how I view parts of society, myself and our interactions with others. Hannah’s honesty and self-awareness is a gift.
November 5, 2024
I received a copy of Taboo from Affirm Press as an ARC read and this review has been written honestly and wholeheartedly. Thank you to Affirm Press for providing me an opportunity to read this memoir.
Taboo by Hannah Ferguson is an absolute gem—one of those rare books that feels like an unfiltered heart-to-heart with a close friend. From sex and body image to career hurdles and family dynamics, Ferguson dives headfirst into the topics we’re often told to tiptoe around. Her honesty is refreshing and raw, and she somehow captures the unspoken truths about modern womanhood with such sharpness that you can’t help but feel seen. Every chapter reads like a validation of thoughts we’ve all had but rarely say out loud.
One of the book’s strongest aspects is Ferguson’s knack for blending her personal stories with cultural insights and research. There’s a sense of balance here, where she’s able to make bold, empowering statements without alienating readers who might see things differently. I found her reflections on friendship especially relatable—honest without being heavy-handed, and so full of understanding for the complexities of real-life relationships. It’s clear she’s thought deeply about these experiences, and she has a way of breaking down taboos that feels both thought-provoking and necessary.
Whether you’re looking for a validation boost or some eye-opening conversation starters, this book delivers. Ferguson’s witty, unapologetic voice is as empowering as it is entertaining, and I found myself flying through the pages, laughing, tearing up, and jotting down quotes to share later.
Taboo by Hannah Ferguson is an absolute gem—one of those rare books that feels like an unfiltered heart-to-heart with a close friend. From sex and body image to career hurdles and family dynamics, Ferguson dives headfirst into the topics we’re often told to tiptoe around. Her honesty is refreshing and raw, and she somehow captures the unspoken truths about modern womanhood with such sharpness that you can’t help but feel seen. Every chapter reads like a validation of thoughts we’ve all had but rarely say out loud.
One of the book’s strongest aspects is Ferguson’s knack for blending her personal stories with cultural insights and research. There’s a sense of balance here, where she’s able to make bold, empowering statements without alienating readers who might see things differently. I found her reflections on friendship especially relatable—honest without being heavy-handed, and so full of understanding for the complexities of real-life relationships. It’s clear she’s thought deeply about these experiences, and she has a way of breaking down taboos that feels both thought-provoking and necessary.
Whether you’re looking for a validation boost or some eye-opening conversation starters, this book delivers. Ferguson’s witty, unapologetic voice is as empowering as it is entertaining, and I found myself flying through the pages, laughing, tearing up, and jotting down quotes to share later.
April 19, 2025
Every woman, all of my friends on goodreads, (yes, hi, you reading this) should read/ I suggest listen, it's only 5hrs!!!! What a wonderfully insightful, yet simple enough book that explores feminism, sex, relationships, body image and more. Please listen to this, it will give you a perspective on your own brain and self image that you may not have explored before and hopefully a little more self compassion too.
June 13, 2025
Unsure if slightly biased because I love almost everything Hannah does but this was such a vulnerable book. Made me feel so validated for some similar situations I had experienced. Super relatable, down to earth whilst also being written in such an articulate way and tackles big, important topics. Highly recommend
February 3, 2025
The way Hannah Ferguson writes about women’s issues and feminism broadly is both powerful and refreshing. I cried while listening to her discussion on the gender pay gap (in the chapter ‘Motherhood is Work’).
January 31, 2025
I obviously love the sentiment but parts of it felt like a first draft with underdeveloped takes. It could have done with a good proofread.
September 19, 2025
FAN-FUCKING-TASTIC!!!!
I inhaled this book! A must-read for all young women (and everyone, every age to be honest)
Although it contained a lot of information I already knew, the way Hannah compiled it and interwove the facts and statistics with her own personal experiences made it so much more engaging. The political and social commentary was great, and it was so good to read a book written in such strong and confident language, rather than dancing around issues or being unable to state something out of fear of offending people. It is also nice to read a book from an Australian author because there are many uniquely Australian experiences I can relate to, plus the social commentary is based on Australian culture, is a welcome reprieve from the US-based commentary typical of this style of book.
More of this please!
Quotes I liked:
-'I reflect on all the shame-fuelled things I may have said that I cannot recall, of all the people I hurt when I didn't know better than to shame girls and hate myself.'
-'We are to be seen and not heard - to such an extent that men liking women, being intrigued by our interests, wanting our company or aligning with our feminism is more socially taboo than the men who commit violence against us.'
-'How can we discern what we want when all we have known is a system built to benefit men?'
I inhaled this book! A must-read for all young women (and everyone, every age to be honest)
Although it contained a lot of information I already knew, the way Hannah compiled it and interwove the facts and statistics with her own personal experiences made it so much more engaging. The political and social commentary was great, and it was so good to read a book written in such strong and confident language, rather than dancing around issues or being unable to state something out of fear of offending people. It is also nice to read a book from an Australian author because there are many uniquely Australian experiences I can relate to, plus the social commentary is based on Australian culture, is a welcome reprieve from the US-based commentary typical of this style of book.
More of this please!
Quotes I liked:
-'I reflect on all the shame-fuelled things I may have said that I cannot recall, of all the people I hurt when I didn't know better than to shame girls and hate myself.'
-'We are to be seen and not heard - to such an extent that men liking women, being intrigued by our interests, wanting our company or aligning with our feminism is more socially taboo than the men who commit violence against us.'
-'How can we discern what we want when all we have known is a system built to benefit men?'
May 31, 2025
I can see the merit of this book for Gen Z/Alpha women where contemporary rhetoric about the “trad wife” and honouring the “masculine/feminine” within relationship dynamics are merely the rebranding of the patriarchy. However, I also found some parts of the text idealistic. It’s easy to wax lyrical about some women’s issues with the benefit of age on your side. Overall, a thought provoking read-every generation has its feminist beacon, and Ferguson has firmly positioned herself as this generations’ mouth piece for equality amongst the genders.
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