When Wallflowers Dance: Becoming a Woman of Righteous Confidence

by Angela Thomas

This ISBN is not a study guide When we were two, we were no longer babies-we were becoming little girls. And when we were thirteen, we were leaving childhood behind, becoming young women. But somewhere along the way, we stopped becoming. We became "un-women." Wallflowers who are just breathing and smiling and blending in to stay out of the way. That is not what God had in mind when He created us. He wants us to keep becoming. He wants us to become strong, decisive, wise, creative, passionate, courageous-all the things we've dreamed of becoming. When Wallflowers Dance is a fresh challenge to women who have lived hesitant, cautious lives but long to break free and dance! Using both Scripture and story, Angela Thomas addresses the attributes of "becoming" and the freedom we have in Christ to keep developing the characteristics that reflect our God-given longings.

Genres: Christian, Nonfiction, Christianity, Christian Living, Faith, Womens, Adult

224 pages, Paperback

First published March 13, 2005

About the author

Angela Thomas is the best-selling author of numerous books including DO YOU THINK I'M BEAUTIFUL and MY SINGLE MOM LIFE. She is a gifted teacher and story-teller speaking to thousands each year. Angela teaches and transparently shares life experiences that draw her and others into a deeper passion for knowing God. Thomas graduated from the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill & Dallas Theological Seminary. Angela has filmed and written four video studies with LifeWay including WHEN WALLFLOWERS DANCE. Living in Greensboro, North Carolina, Angela is also a wife, mother and an ordinary woman.

Reviews

[Tusialei · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book really helped me focus on God's plan for my life. It has broadened my perspective on myself, people, and things. It has made me realize the importance of knowing that I am BEAUTIFUL, NEEDED and LOVED by HIM who is in Heaven. If you need a boost in your weariness, confidence, or you just want to know how to break free from the chains, I HIGHLY recommend this book. Angela Thomas is such a good author. She knows the importance of sticking with GOD through the highs and the lows. She knows how it feels like to be unloved, unimportant, and the "un-woman" in this society. But she wants you to know the gifts that God bestows on you.

[Erin House · Rating 5 out of 5]

A few years ago I joined a neighborhood bible study. We actually read this book instead of the bible. Though I had no real connection initially to the content, I found I was able to take away a good deal of insight into my own situation. I grew to be more appreciative of my own situation and empathetic towards others. I am so thankful for all I have. If I need change, I know it is only up to me. I can change me, no one else. I can change how I react to others, not how others act.

Good read.

[Christine Castillo · Rating 3 out of 5]

Accidentally ordered this book thinking it was a study guide much like "Stronger" by Angela Thomas for our small study group. Took it chapter by chapter which I thought would be easy. Unfortunately, I had a hard time feeling "sucked in" to the book except for the first and the last chapters. I loved her book Stronger but When Wallflowers Dance I felt was a little lacking to capture the readers attention.

This doesn't go to say that she doesn't have very good points in this book. She definitely does and backs it up with plenty of scripture. It just wasn't what I was looking for.

[Melissa Mann · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book magnifies the fact that God's desire is for us to live life and love life under the sun while we wait for His return. Even in the midst of chaos and confusion I can dance in the arms of the One who made me. "Dancing is about being held by the lavish love of God that heals your heartaches. It's about loving people and enjoying a grown up, passionate life, free of emptiness and fear. Inside the strength of His embrace, you can become the woman you have always wanted to be...the one He dreamed of when He dreamed of you." -Angela Thomas

[Jennifer L. · Rating 5 out of 5]

I read this in one sitting. I love Angela Thomas' books, and this one had me taking notes and making myself feel not like I was putting on dancing shoes, but more like I was growing wings and that I'll be able to fly. I love her suggestion of taking time off of everything except what you HAVE to do. I've told people this is "my year" and I'm not doing anything beyond what I HAVE to unless I really want to do it! Great book, and excellent read for any woman who feels "tired" in life!

[Val · Rating 3 out of 5]

It wasn't bad. Some people commented that it didn't seem to fit them, but that's because you have to be in that place or have been in that place to understand what she is talking about. But I was disappointed because in the end it really talked about becoming a Christian and that wasn't what I needed. Even as a Christian, you can become like a wallflower in life. The main points I got from the book were affirming to what I felt God had been teaching me lately though.

[Barbara Cook · Rating 4 out of 5]

I read this book as a book study in a small group this summer. The group was excellent! The book reminded me of Gods great love for me. "Closed position is not the only dance we can do with the King." "Allowing 'depenDANCE' to become my default step in the dance of life." Psalm 30a "You have turned my mourning into dancing ... And girded me with gladness."

[Marisa · Rating 3 out of 5]

Heard her speak. It is an interesting look at becoming the woman that God designed you to be. She speaks of the many women who get wrapped up in their many roles and forget who they are.
It seemed a bit redundant, so I stopped reading it.

[Catherine · Rating 5 out of 5]

I LOVED this Bible study!

[Amy · Rating 3 out of 5]

This book was okay. I liked the stories and there was some good advice in it, but nothing spectacular.

[Gail · Rating 5 out of 5]

Loved the things this book made me think about. I am even considering doing the Bible study.

[Wendy · Rating 5 out of 5]

Loved this book and am doing the bible study too. Came to me at the right time and made an impression. Really enjoyed how much it made me think and inspire me to build my relationship with God.

[Mary Beth · Rating 3 out of 5]

This is an excellent Bible study for beginners.

[Priscilla Schubert · Rating 5 out of 5]

Another great one by Angela. I love her genuine heart!!

[Tracey Kenard]

Just starting, but soaking it up already.

[Daphne Wheeler]

Currently doing the Bible study... great material!!! Really convicting, yet reassuring at the same time. Want to really grow in & with God? Worthwhile read and/or study.

[Lori Palmer · Rating 1 out of 5]

Skip it.

[Angela Gamble-muncy · Rating 5 out of 5]

Absolutely Loved this book!!

[Leanne Joy · Rating 2 out of 5]

A few good nuggets!