As an American who has never travelled around the Cotswolds, this is a distinctly British tale of growing up in approximately the same time or “era” as I grew up in Texas; however, the author writes w/ ferocious detail about his upbringing w/ a modernist perspective, as an only-child near Cheltenham England, west of Oxford, and on an old puzzle map: below Wales, but above Stonehenge.
Chapter one is the phase of early childhood, as the author remembers it, going to Naunton Park Grade School, w/ limited technology, and an active social life, outdoors, in a dominant male friend-group, in post WW-II Britain. The writing style is intelligent, meticulous, humorous, and filled with copious vignettes about the Charlton Park greenspace which was east of Cheltenham.
As the master of the memoir, the prolific author Geoff Dyer, includes his lifetime perspectives on sports, parents, collecting memorabilia, relationships, chores, girls, school, music, romance, and all the aberrant behavior that young boys think is funny. You will be immersed in this skilled, working-class culture, through a young boy’s journey.
As Chapter two unfolds, the small family moves closer to the Cheltenham Grammer School where he was allowed to attend even though slightly outside the district, b/c he passed the national exams w/ flying colors, at age 11+. On Woodlands Road, at the brink of puberty, you would expect wild changes for a young boy trying to find his way in life, wearing purple, bell-bottom hipsters, w/ a soundtrack of popular rock music.
Covering the decades of the sixties, and 70s, in minute cultural detail, in suburban England, may only appeal to a limited audience; however, his singular, complex, intellectual examples, and opinions, often humorous, insightful, and unique; make his creative, non-fiction, a warmly told English boyhood classic, stretching up to and abutting his university years. Covering such phases, makes the reader wonder from a distance: how much is the right amount of sharing what happened in his neighborhood?
I read the first edition by FSGBooks, published in 2025, and it became a page-turner for me, as I became more friendly with the author’s romp through high school, despite having to “cringe-read” some sexually explicit material. He discovers scrubbers, pub-crawls, jankers, conkers, nutting, snogging, cheese-rolling, and Shakespeare, while developing a strong academic record, that ends up as him being a “Fellow” at the Royal Society of Literature. Even in an encapsulated medium of memoir, there is a fancy, funny flair to his writing, and enough "life-lessons" to keep anyone interested in what he learned from history.
In tribute to his burgeoning love for classic books, and despite the minutiae, I kept reading, long after I had figured out what made this boy tick; however, at 80% point, the dysfunctional family trauma-drama flared up at home, and all three involved almost came to blows for reasons of rebellion, frustration, and classic generational conflict in a small house!
These complex musings, from a curious, intellectual life, document and share what he felt growing up, and eventually take on the perspective of losing both his parents. This caused a normal reflection on how he was raised as an only-child, including the successes, and failings of both his "mum" and dad. So as not to give anything more away in spoiler-mode; the last 14% of the book is contained in a powerful Chapter three, that I’ll not discuss, but highly recommend.
Thank-you to my dear Goodreads friend, for this “memoir-gift,” I cannot thank you enough, but now I understand more about this genre, and how with the English, “class” itself, is not a thing, it is a happening.
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