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Opposite of Soft

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Nedrick (Ned) Summerson Junior’s picture sits as an illustration for the definition of silent beast. His cool, quiet demeanor was often taken as soft. He moves in stealth mode when it comes to getting the things that he desires. When what he desires seems to be out of reach, will he have to break his own protocol to make it known that he will not be denied? What will happen when a silent beast roars?

Shandeli (Shan) Jasmine Chamberlin has an ice box where her heart used to be. She thinks no amount of heat can thaw it out. Past hurt has caused her to dodge love like she was a master at dodge ball. When love hits her from every angle, will she call it a draw or continue to fight against it?

Ned wants to go about getting want he wants in a soft manner because he knows that’s what she needs. She needs to be handled with soft, white gloves. What happens, though, when he’s the opposite of soft? Find out!

124 pages, Kindle Edition

Published August 13, 2024

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Mel Dau

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Mel Dau (Melvin’s Daughter) was born in Vicenza, Italy but raised in Mount Pleasant, South Carolina. She is the baby girl and only girl of three. She has always had a love for books beginning with the Baby Sitter’s Club, R.L. Stine, and Christopher Pike. She dabbled in writing as she grew up but never took it as seriously as she should have.

Mel Dau graduated from from Wando High School, then later matriculated to Benedict College (BSW) and Webster University (MHRM). She is a mother of a teenage daughter, a HR Professional, and a proud member of Zeta Phi Beta Sorority, Inc.

Her love for Urban Literature did not arrive until Mid-2016.  Reading over 900 books from 2016 to 2017, she was obsessed with reading--an obsession that helped her cope with her father’s illness and death.  In March of 2018, she decided to finally come from behind the wall and submit a short story which resulted in her first Book, Khiaere and Phy: A Charleston Love Story being published under Queens of Lit Presents.  Under Queens of Lit Presents, she successfully published 15 titles that were all debuted in the top fifty on Amazon Top 100.

In May of 2020, she was signed to her new publisher B. Love Publications where she continues her growth as an author. Her purpose as an author is to provide her readers’ with her E³ formula, Entertain, Encourage & Educate. She achieved her first #1 Bestseller with her Erotica title, Pet The Kitty. In August of 2020 she founded Mel Dau Publications, LLC to pursue self-published projects. Penning in a lane all her own, her Informational Dramas fulfills her purpose with every release. Her overall desire is to use her fiction catalog to help change at least one person’s non-fiction reality.

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Profile Image for Toya  Davis-Stokley.
2,550 reviews100 followers
August 16, 2024
You know what they say about the quiet ones right? They are the ones to watch, and Ned was no exception. Just because he was reserved, and hardly ever raised his voice didn't mean he wasn't dangerous. You just didn't know it until it was too late.

I was excited about this story, as Ned and Shan have been playing this cat and mouse game too long, and it is time for them to get it together. Ned is ready, willing, and able, but Shan's independent, hard head ass was not having it. I wondered what her children's father did to her that caused her to be so stubborn, and independent to her own detriment. When it was revealed, I did feel bad for her, but sis you was still doin' the most! 👀 Ned was showing and proving to you all you needed to know that he was a good man, who was all about you. But I see you needed him to boss up on that ass to get you right huh?

I see why Ned and Mega are best friends, as these men have several screws missing not loose, with all of their crazy behaviors. It must be unhinged ni**a season, cause they out in full force, but I'm here for it. 😂 Ned would just cut up out the blue with no warning. That may make him more dangerous than Mega's crazy ass. 🤯

The friend groups that both the men and ladies have are hysterical, and ride or die. You call that bat phone with any request, and they coming. I'm glad that Shan finally got some act right, because anyone could see the love that she and Ned shared. However, her fear of being embarrassed and hurt again was crippling, and it caused her ego and pride to show out. Another good read. 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

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434 reviews4 followers
July 25, 2025
It’s the quiet ones we have to watch out for. Ned was reserved and kept to himself. He didn’t let that stop him from going after Shandeli. She was the perfect fit for him seriously.
Shan had dealt with a horrible bad apple who happens to be her kids father. He was a complete loser.

I was so hype reading this story.
I love the vibes.

Of course you have Mega crazy nonsense self popping back up. I was giggling so much when he would pop up.

This friend group is absolutely hilarious and I love how the ladies go wild after their men. Yasss!
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455 reviews9 followers
December 7, 2024
This whole friend group has me giggling! 🤭😂🤣
Ned is no exception, quiet, reserved and deadly!
He has his sights set on Shandeli
Shandeli has been hurt in the past, and is strong and independent. Ugh her baby daddy is a loser!
Ned said those my kids - I love a good step daddy ❤️❤️

It was the strip club scene for me- when he booked a private party. These men are something else. Just telling her we together now.

I loved how Shandeli was Ned’s storm and they would act a fools behind each other. 🫶🏾❤️☺️🥰

Mega and Cory were up to their usual shenanigans😬😂🤣🤭
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305 reviews3 followers
April 9, 2025
Trigger Warning: Pedo⚠️⚠️ (not in detail tho)

First few lines....Ned is a donkey. I understand being straight forward with people and what you want. But there is a line between being straight and honest or being rude.

Continuing on...they mo fo's are toxic 😂😂 but I'm here for it. Cause Ned don't play about Shan. Lol. And what happened to Casper was a gasp for me. Lol. Because he was cool when she was bringing in him money, then disrespected her when she couldn't or wouldn't provide for him anymore.

Ruth...😩😭😩😭 I love her already. She's a 'ride or die...and talk some sense into you' kinda friend.

Ooohhhh....🫣y'all nasty🫣😄😄😄

And Ned sending clothes for the funeral ⚱️ 😳 was a bold move because he clearly gives no f's.

Mega is a trip. These characters are funny AF. I can see all these events and conversations going down.😂 He's a firm believer in God and prayer...yet he out here doing what he do🤦🏾‍♀️🫣😄 Apparently I gotta get on Mega and Ruth's relationship. This was a fun read
1,064 reviews8 followers
August 15, 2024
Opposite of soft

I’ve been waiting for this story since Ned and Shan were introduced in Mega and Ruth’s story and this one did not disappoint. Ned may not have talked loud like Mega but he was just as unhinged as his best friend. Ned was all about Shan and I loved it. He had so much patience in dealing with her shenanigans of trying to be Ms. Independent, but Shan had to FAFO that Ned was not to be played with and that he was anything but soft. He wore her down and showed her that she could rely on him and showed her what would happen if she continued being stubborn and trying to be independent when it wasn’t necessary. I really liked these two together and this book had plenty laughs from the unhinged behavior. I would definitely recommend this one.
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481 reviews21 followers
April 14, 2025
2.75⭐️/🌶️
I want to say that one star is solely on the humor in the book. Also, as a crocheter, it annoyed me that they confused knitting and crocheting. I expect authors to do research before they put something in their books. I couldn’t stop laughing at Mega really because he is unhinged funny 😂 Ned is giving top-tier book boyfriend material; he literally had to tell this stubborn dumb ass girl multiple times that if she or her kids needed anything, she didn’t even have to ask; he would give it to her, but no, she wanted to be dumb . I wish I could give this book 2 stars, but it wasn’t that bad. It was just her that made it bad; like I was annoyed every time it came to her part, all the drama in the book was because of her. Also, check your trigger warnings because some of the things disgusting in this book are unhinged, but they don’t go into detail.
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313 reviews
August 14, 2024
I was waiting on this to hit my kindle like a crackhead waiting on their next hit. Ned came through and did exactly what I thought he was going to do ! Get Shan together ! Shan almost got on my nerves but the mama and the hustler in me understood her plight. Sometimes being too independent can be a downfall and luckily for Shan, Ned didn’t let her hit rock bottom. I loved her feisty personality and literally everything else about her. Her friendship with Ruth is always great to hear about. I was so happy to see the gang all together once again and Mega being Mega. Croy and Fiona will always be couples goals for me. It’s safe to say Mel Dau did it again !!! Ned is definitely the opposite of soft ! He’s the definition of show and prove !
727 reviews15 followers
August 25, 2024
Ned..

Opposite of Soft. Ned is just that. I mean, he's hard but has the something not soft but sweet and caring about him. His little hobby that he shares with his mom is the most sweetest thing ever. Ok, the love and chemistry is there. Come on, Mel, you out here, making it hard for me to be loyal to a book bae. 😆
Profile Image for Ashanti Burton.
645 reviews13 followers
August 19, 2024
Even tho Shandeli annoyed me half the book I’d give this a 4.5. Ned was tryna stay on his cool tip til Shan kept testing his gangsta lol. Bet she won’t do that no more. I was thoroughly entertained and laughed out loud. Definitely recommend.
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1,029 reviews34 followers
September 1, 2024
If my man’s right hand man isn’t going hard for him like how Mega was, we don’t want him.
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244 reviews18 followers
August 11, 2025
“You gonna keep fucking playing with me and I’m going to fuck the world up behind your ass.”

Ned stayed blowing up stuff with fire!! He was Quiet but deadly lol

Ned x Shan❤️
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471 reviews8 followers
May 4, 2025
It's been sometime since I've disliked both characters so much.

Ned was an asshole and not a loveable asshole but just a dick. He's not particular, he's not weird...he's a jackass.

Shan, is insufferable. I liked her in Mega & Ruth's book and she lost all that good grace in the first 15 pages of this book. She spends most of the book being, argumentative, deviant and making poor decisions.

Now let's talk about a choice the author makes on a random plot point: Ned & Mega are hired to kill a pedophile and for some reason that I still can't make sense of the author decides to make the predator trans. Why? How is the story moved? Who is served by reinforcing a stereotype? We could have skipped all that shit.

The only redeeming thing about this book was the friendships, specifically Mega and Ned's.
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50 reviews1 follower
September 1, 2024
Ned & Shan.. OMG this shyt was the funniest thing I've read in a while.

Ain't nothing like a quiet nonsense man. That was Ned, he gets down. He don't play, unnnkay. Especially when it came to Shan and his babies. The fact that he called them kids his, was it for me.

Shan's super independence was there down fall, not to mention being love scorn by her raggedy azz baby daddy.

Like Mega said hard headedness was the cause for more casualties.

Now let me say this Mega is a FOOL but him and then prayers be having me weak cause he's serious as hell. Then when Ned prayed to, I lost it.

I love a good happily ever after... even though it took everybody getting cussed out by their husbands even good pure pregnant Ruth...bwahahaha Mega is hilarious.
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244 reviews4 followers
March 30, 2025
The was blazin😂

Aye yooooo, I just finished Opposite Of Soft and I didn’t think anyone in this series could be crazier and as unhinged as Mega but I was so wrong. The saying “birds of a feather stick together” is the epitome of this crew. They all have their triggers and are stone cold killaz with a soft side for the ones they love and I like it a lot…(In my Celo voice)🎵Does that make me craaaaazaaaaay”🎵 😏!

Nedrick Summerson, Jr. is that silent calm crazy nukka that will make a mutha go nite nite. Although he’s fine AF, commanding, dominate and insane, It’s the calm that others should worry about and I love that he crochets to stay in his calm but puts it to good use for babies at the NICU (lil spoiler). That light skin ain’t nothing to play with your life about. He loves a woman who is broken, everytime he breaks a barrier, another pops up.

Shan is that broken woman who loves Ned but is afraid of heartbreak and disappointment while fighting her own battles trying to provide for her kids that she does some things that’s unsavory to others to survive but not to Ned because that puddy tat is the match to his flame.

Their romance is wild, crazy and uncontrolled like an inferno (IYKYK). They are nuts about each other and I love that Ned accepts Shan and everything that comes with her and it’s a lot. This ninja doesn’t care and doesn’t play about her or her kids, “That’s a good man Savannah.”

Get into this story, you won’t be disappointed, it gives as good as Mega Man and then some. You get the laughs and the seriousness of what their love is all about with plot twist and a lot of drama.
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504 reviews54 followers
August 24, 2024
Ned was definitely the opposite of soft but also the definition of annoying. The constant cursing and attempts at humor were irritating. I understand that not every man is stoic, but as an author, you need to know how to balance it. I didn’t enjoy Mega’s character, so his repeated appearances throughout the book—loud, obnoxious, and ignorant—dropped the rating for me. The personalities of the men were so overwhelming that they distracted me from the romance story that was supposed to be unfolding.

Honestly, I felt like this story should have been a novella or not told at all. The interactions between Ned and the female lead were strange, with the female lead being especially off-putting. It’s hard for me to get into stories where one character wants commitment and the other is afraid, yet both go out of their way to block the other from finding someone else. I really dislike that trope.

Overall, the story was just okay to me. If the author could tone down some of the characters to focus more on the love, romance, or deeper aspects of the story, it might have fared better. Every moment of vulnerability that wasn’t sex was overshadowed by obnoxious commentary. This book felt like reading a continuous scene where someone is trying too hard to be funny at the worst times. I usually enjoy this author’s work, but this series wasn’t it for me.
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630 reviews14 followers
August 16, 2024
Another hit

This book was amazing when I tell you ned is just as bad s*** as mega I can't even.... Shandeli I love her so much, He is a strong independent woman who literally knows what she wants but is she scared to get her heart broken again. Mega and Ned are latterly the same person just in different fonts. When I saw you mega might be crazy but ned ain't that far behind him, The audacity this man had with the chick in the beginning try to give him the best oral of his life and he was like yeah not as aint it I guess he plus during it sent me. Hymn literally just often people not even forget to get those just for having the audacity... Burning down a strip club and marking the owner and his lil head giving girl, sent me. Ned merking Edward and his big head b**** a** wife I think I'm a cake. But what really got me is mega sitting in that dangle kitchen making a sandwich tell my son they got boars head deli meat...had me cackling. I like how all the girls rode for each other literally no matter the circumstance. All of them will be touched in the head but I love that for this group of friends. This is definitely a very fun read and I can't wait to get the physical copy of it.
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927 reviews8 followers
August 17, 2024
Yes, ma'am!!!!!

Mel Dau got me screaming, laughing on a Saturday afternoon!! This book was fire!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥 Ned and Shan had me in me on a Rollercoaster throughout this whole book. Ned is trying to be anything and everything to Shandeli. But girl and get shenanigans got Ned out in them streets unaliving people left and right. And she got the nerve to involve Mega, Croy, AND Riker's women in her mess. You KNOW Mega is crazy about Ruth. You can just imagine how that all went down. Lmao!! Yes, indeed, this book was such a pleasure to read. To finally have answers about why Shandeli refused to give her heart to Ned and become his woman. And Ned always was present for Shandeli and the kids no matter what he had going on. The journey to their happily ever after was not neat, clean, simple, or easy. But it was truthful and eye-opening into what made these characters into the people that they are. I loved loved LOVED the ending. Got this girl tearing up over these pages. But that's ok because this book was worth it. 💯💯💯 I know I'll be re-reading this book in the near future for sure. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
51 reviews
September 17, 2024
5 across the board.

I know her 3 (I think) books aren’t a series but they low key connect so I’ve been reading them out of order

I’m gonna just rate them all here since I just ate this book up like I did with the other too. I love how they’re all short, they got to the point and it captured my attention from start to finish. I only have Mega’s book to read and I’m so excited cause this man has me dyinggggggg.

My favorite def has to be about my favs croy and fee (pressure cooker) then RIP and Whimsey (can’t be broken) and now them… I don’t even need to read Mega’s to know I’m gonna fall in love with it. 10000/10 on all

ALSO ned and mega calling each other “Bubba” PLZZZZ I literally smiled to big every time that would happen. The family and love between all the friends… I love that cause it’s so important to have black couple friends in my opinion. And the messages spread out through the stories were chefs kiss.

Edit: okay I just finished Mega’s story and honestly my only complaint is that she didn’t make this a series. I feel like it would’ve been way more satisfying if I read them in order. But again 1000/10 idc I ate all 4 stories up in 2 days
176 reviews4 followers
August 18, 2024
This book opened on on a “ oh damn “ moment and that set the tone for what I was about to read. Imagine you asking a man how he likes your “skills” and he tells you ehh it could use some work or ehh it’s just okay. That’s a straight blow to your ego right??? Well Ned is n to easily impressed and he has no issues with letting you know. Though Ned is fine and could have anyone he wants his 🍆 only gets excited by one woman…Shandeli.

Ned is a man who isn’t afraid to take care of anyone who is threatening the people he loves or people who are doing vile things. Shandeli on the other hand is a single mother of 2 kids and is struggling to pay her bills and give her children the the things they want. Both Ned and Shan are difficult in their own ways but they both seem to be drawn back to each other. Ned will do anything to make sure Shan and her kids are okay and happy …even if that means some people lose their life in the journey lol. Two hurt souls come together and make a life despite their stubbornness.
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789 reviews3 followers
August 20, 2024
Nedrick Doesn't Play About His Family!!

Ned wasn't waiting around for Shan to satisfy his needs that is why Bea was over. Not even before she made it outside Shan is there to beat her up. Ned told Bea to go home. Ned questioned Shan like what are you doing? Shan said boy f you. Then she disappeared on him saying she's busy. He didn't like that. He thought he told her to stop dancing. She didn't. He's quietly unhinged. Mega is loud boisterous unhinged and doesn't care what comes out his mouth. That's why they are the best of friends. Shan was going to miss out on blessing from Ned because what her goof troop baby daddy said. Ned loves on Shan and the kids real hard. Juliet wanted Shan's daughter but not so much her son. Edward didn't want either one. Their whole friend group is unhinged. Shan realize how much time she was wasting by not accepting Ned's because she was afraid to love again. Edward paralyzed her of not being able to love. Ned proposed to Shan, Mega clowned Ned because his proposal wasn't like his. It's
Profile Image for Denise Newman.
229 reviews
July 13, 2025
on point

Opposite of Soft is definitely what Ned is, so it’s the perfect title for his book. We were introduced to Ned in Mega’s book as his best friend. They calm crazy to Mega’s loud crazy.

Ned and Shaun’s love story was complicated but very beautiful. Ned being quiet and observant person that he is, knew that Shaun had some trust issues and tried to be gentle and respect her boundaries but that didn’t last long.

Shaun is definitely his peace and as much as she tried to fight it, she was madly in love with him. He loved her kids as his own and was there to support her when the drama made its appearance.

I loved this book so much and recommend it to it to everyone.
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169 reviews7 followers
September 29, 2025
funny

Lawd, I couldn’t stop laughing Mega is a fool, that man needs a check!

I really enjoyed Ned. He’s laid-back and deadly my kinda man. It’s refreshing to read about a character who doesn’t do all the back-and-forth; he says what he means and means what he says.

Now Shan? Whew, she’s a crash out for sure. But I’m glad she’s got Ned. He’s the calm to her storm, though he can flip and bring the chaos when needed too.

And I love that all four women are friends. I can definitely see Shan learning a thing or two from Fiona, lol.

Sidenote

I-yay ove-lay at-thay ega-may oke-spay ig-pay atin-Lay
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259 reviews1 follower
November 11, 2025
Ned and Shan

Ned and Shandeli are opposites in many way.

Ned is the strong and silent type. He speaks and moves when he needs to. Due to his personality he is often not seen as a threat.

Shandeli is the opposites, she is a single mother of two and louder with her dislike of something or someone.

They met through Mega and Ruth. Their ciupling was a just a physical thing. Ut started getting confusing when he wanted more, but she was afraid of past hurt.

Ned eventually sat her down and let her know he aint with the games. She in or she out?!?!

Mega is right there throwing in his two scents and encoraging foolishness....lol
438 reviews5 followers
August 15, 2024
A wild ride

Ned and Shan gave me a HEADACHE! Well, more so Shan. I wanted to jump through the pages and shake her. Your knight in shining armor was right there waiting and you were playing with his heart. I think if Ned had put her on ice for real, she would have folded sooner. It’s sad he had to go as far as he did for her to get with the program. Edward really did a number on her, but he got his. Now, all that said, I wish we got to see them more as a couple. I wanted to bask in their love a bit more. Mega and Ruth were still hilarious, but down to ride for their friends.
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640 reviews16 followers
August 19, 2024
It’s always the quiet ones that are the most lethal! Ned was not playing with or about Shan. These two were so toxic it was sweet and kinda endearing 😆 I always look forward to a Mel Dau release, but this one was highly anticipated because I knew Ned would be trouble. There's no way he can be best friends with Mega and not be🤷🏾‍♀️
I truly loved everything about this couple. They were entertaining and set on go for sure but their actions were coming from a place of love. I understood why Shan moved the way she did because her history with relationships left a lot to be desired. Ned handled her exactly as she needed; he tried the soft approach initially but had to switch up on her because my girl was stubborn for real.
This book was filled with drama, action, tomfoolery, hilarity, acceptance, and soul-deep love. I'm here for more from this group. Fiona and Croy are up next, and I know they are about to be next level!
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651 reviews4 followers
August 15, 2024
GURRRLLLLLL

As always there was never a dull moment the characters and stories are developed so well I love the dynamics amongst the friend group.. Ned was a quiet storm ready to protect now Ms Shandeli was too independent for her own good she was getting in my nerves if ya man said come to me if you have a need than listen to him now Fiona don’t play it’s kill or just kill no questions but those alpha males wasn’t playing about that strip club…as always THERE WAS NEVER A DULL MOMENT….JOB WELL DONE
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210 reviews2 followers
August 18, 2024
Number One Priority

I really enjoyed Ned and Shan's story. It definitely had drama, suspense, death, romance, and laughter. That Ned was something else, in addition to being persistent. He warned Shan about not listening to him and she had a hard lesson to learn.

When he said she was his girl and that he would protect Shan and the kids, he meant it. Bea, Casper, Cinnabon, Edward, and goofy Juliet learned before their untimely demise.

Ruth was that best friend who was your ride and die and didn't bite her tongue. Her and Mega were perfect together.
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263 reviews4 followers
September 3, 2024
Come scootch in!!! I can't even find the words...just know when Ned has to show that he's the opposite of soft, clear the area because that man does not play. He is truly the show and prove kind that people really shouldn't ignore. While he didn't intend to fall for Shandeli, once he did, he acknowledged it and meant that they were going to be together. He also realized that she was pushing back against him because of past hurt that had nothing to do with him. When he and his friends pull up on the girls...Just trust me and read this book!!!
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1,706 reviews6 followers
September 10, 2024
Opposite of Soft

All scootched in on the continuation of one of the craziest crew around.
Ned was as the title stated…opposite of soft…until came to his loved ones. Shan finally got over her fear and got her happiness….. At one point If I was Ned, I’d have left her where she stood 😒
Edward had to be dumbest around to let his wife put them in a
situation that never was going to have a good outcome.
Ned’s hobby was a surprising shocker in a good way!!
The rest of the crew is still a hoot..especially Mega
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