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240 pages, Hardcover
First published May 13, 2025
“Is there anything gayer than three queer former besties showing up to a boy band concert?”
Nights like these can feel life‑altering—the way the music, the dancing, the singing, and the memories old and new all come together to make you feel so alive. It’s thrilling and vulnerable, to be in public singing your heart out with people who understand; to tear up together when the band lets the crowd finish the lyrics; to fully embody the version of yourself from when you first heard these songs you love so much; to appreciate how that one flicker of sadness when the show is halfway through pulls you into the present so you can really be here, now.
That this crowd is almost exclusively made up of women isn’t lost on me. Girls have quietly been carrying the weight of the music industry on their backs for lifetimes, and there is something about the collective fangirl experience that’s transformative. It’s where we find belonging, where we forge new friendships, and where we discover who we are.
I see now that I can create a life on my own terms, and that there isn’t one right way to be or do or exist.
“If I can share even a fraction of the sunshine I feel inside my chest when I’m with my two friends, the world may never have a cloudy day again.”