אהבה ושכחה בניו יורק

by Joshua Henkin, ג'ושוע הנקין (Author's Hebrew name), דנה טל (Translator)

ניו יורק. 1976. פְּרוּ שטיינר מתאהבת במרצה שלה לספרות אנגלית, ספֶּנס רובין. הוא חוקר שייקספיר מוערך, גאון, מטאור בשמי האקדמיה, וגם הוא מתאהב בה.

החיים במשפחה המורכבת שלהם סובבים סביב דמותו המיתית כמעט של ספנס, ובצילו. אלה חיים טובים, נוחים ברובם, מלאים אהבה.

לכן כשספנס מתקשה פתאום להתרכז, פרו יודעת שמשהו לא בסדר. הוא עדיין מלמד באקדמיה, הוא עוד לא בן שישים, אבל הראיות מצטברות מיום ליום, עד שלא נותר מקום לספק. מה קורה למשפחה שעמוד התווך שלה הולך וקמל? איך מתמודדים עם דעיכתו של בן זוג אהוב? ואיך יוצרים מקום לאהבה חדשה, לתקווה?

אהבה ושִכחה בניו יורק הוא רומן סוחף ומלא חמלה על חיי משפחה ונישואים, על התבגרות והזדקנות, ועל כוחה של האהבה בהתמודדות עם משברים.

Genres: Fiction, Literary Fiction, Romance, Historical Fiction, Audiobook, New York, Family

342 pages, ebook

First published June 15, 2021

About the author

Joshua Henkin's new novel, MORNINGSIDE HEIGHTS, has recently been published by Pantheon. He is also the author of the novels SWIMMING ACROSS THE HUDSON, a Los Angeles Times Notable Book; MATRIMONY, a New York Times Notable Book; and THE WORLD WITHOUT YOU, which was named an Editors' Choice Book by The New York Times and The Chicago Tribune and was the winner of the 2012 Edward Lewis Wallant Award for Jewish American Fiction and a finalist for the 2012 National Jewish Book Award. He lives with his wife and daughters in Brooklyn, NY, and directs and teaches in the MFA program in Fiction Writing at Brooklyn College.

Reviews

[Nilufer Ozmekik · Rating 4 out of 5]

Poignant, well analyzed, realistically written bittersweet story with its well developed, layered middle class New Yorker characters.
Such a great novel: Easy to read, easy to connect with the characters and understand things from their POVs.

It starts with Pru and Spence’s meeting and blooming love story at the university. Pru is astonishing student with a brilliant career opportunities ahead of her and Spense is only 6 years older than her but he’s already her professor, published his successful book, became guest on a show at PBS, the golden child and rising star of Columbia University.

They fall for each other and as he asks her to marry with him, she doesn’t think twice even though his ex and his son are still in the picture. She also gives up her academic career because financially Spence’s book sales help them to buy a beautiful house and start a new family together.

Now they have a daughter named Sarah and they let Arlo : Spense’s son from first marriage live with them even though this choice put them into complex situations. Arlo is not a bad kid but he made so many wrong choices because of his mother and it seems like her thoughts still affected him in negative way. He is also clever boy but he suffers from dyslexia which gives him more anxiety!

And Spense is not the brilliant minded man Pru has married. He starts suffering from Alzheimer, slowly turning into a stranger. Pru starts to question and resent herself for giving up her career for her marriage and she meets with a man which pushes her harder to think about moving into a new life path.

It’s emotional, truly powerful story reflect each family members’ perspectives genuinely. I’m giving my 4 New Yorker, complex, heart wrenching, sad, family drama stars! I enjoyed Joshua Henkin’s brilliant story telling skills and I’m looking forward to read more of his works in near future.

Special thanks to Netgalley and Knopf Doubleday Publishing Group for sharing this digital reviewer copy with me in exchange my honest opinions.

[Angela M · Rating 5 out of 5]

4.5 stars .
This is an ordinary story in many ways about relationships, husbands and wives, sons and daughters, half siblings. At its heart, it’s a story about family. Life isn’t perfect and that’s precisely what makes this such a good story. The characters, their lives, their emotional response to each other and the things that happen are so relatable. What happens to them could happen in our family or in families we know. The progression of diminished mental and physical capacity in someone with Alzheimer’s Disease, a debilitating illness that turns life upside down and makes one of the spouses a care giver after thirty years of marriage is sad and realistically portrayed. A child from a first marriage, feeling abandoned by his father, making his way with an unconventional and unstable life with his mother, becoming part of his father’s family at times, a reflection of the difficulties that life brings. That a family can rise to the challenges is a beautiful testament to love. There’s a nod to New York City, where the majority of the novel takes place, what it’s like to live there. There’s a reflection at times about the character’s Jewish heritage, giving up on a kosher home, returning at times to synagogue. This is such a well written novel, a realistic portrayal of marriage, of family, of life. I was moved.


I received a copy of this book from Knopf Doubleday/Pantheon through NetGalley.

[Barbara · Rating 5 out of 5]

5+ GLOWING STARS!!!!

“Morningside Heights” blew me away as one of the best stories of a contemporary marriage grappling with the devastating damages of early-onset Alzheimer’s disease.

Author Joshua Henkin expertly pens a story following the marriage of Pru and Spence Robin’s courtship and marriage which begins in the 1970’s. Prudence Steiner is pursuing her Ph.D. when she becomes involved with the youngest Professor at Columbia who teaches Shakespeare. He’s a noted genius and charming to boot. After marriage, Spencer achieves two Guggenheims, a Mellon, and a MacArthur, and pens a notable book about Shakespeare that attains the NYTimes best seller list.

At age 57, Spence starts notably to decline. Pru is 51. In her early 50’s she struggles with being a caretaker to her once highly intelligent, physically able spouse. For me, the moving part of this story is the marriage, the impact on the marriage. My heart broke for Pru.

There’s more to the story than dealing with Alzheimer’s disease. The Robin’s marriage has it’s complications, as all do. Spence had a brief marriage to a bohemian woman with whom he has a son, Arlo. Arlo holds grudges based on his mother’s biased information about his father. As so happens in many divorces, one parent poison’s the child’s views which doesn’t help the child or the non-custodian parent. Henkin’s writes the relationship with insider nuance. Pru and Spencer work diligently to bring his son, Arlo, into their family fold.

I absolutely love this story, although heart wrenching and sad. My husband does not have this disease, but while reading this, I felt like I was Pru or at least her best friend. I did identify with the destructive ex-spouse and working with the angry step-child. I was immersed in the story, struggled while they struggled, got frustrated when they were frustrated.

I listened to the audio narrated by Kathe Mazur. I looked forward to my audio time, even when it brought tears to my eyes. When I can get my hands on a hard copy, I will read it. I think I would have adored it more if I read it. This is literature at it’s best, and reading literature, for me, is more fulfilling.

5+ glowing stars!

[Elyse Walters · Rating 5 out of 5]

Audiobook….read by Kathe Mazur and Shane Baker
…..8 hours and 58 minutes

In 1972, Pru Steiner was eighteen when she arrived at Yale.
She grew up in Ohio in a Jewish home, where her family kept kosher.
In Ohio, Pru went to a small school that felt ‘too’ Jewish. At Yale, the school felt too big and not Jewish enough. To her own surprise, Pru continued to keep kosher.

The Yale years moved quickly.
Four years later, 1976, Pru was twenty-two. After graduation, she moved to New York to attend Columbia University as a doctoral student.
On her first day in her Shakespeare class, she meets her professor, Spence Robin, He was only six years older than Pru….the youngest professor in the English Dept.
They begin seeing each other outside of class. They often met at a cafe called ‘Chock Full O’Nuts’ …where the coffee was bad-but the conversations and connection started to take hold. Spencer told Pru that he was Jewish, making him an attractive life contender.
They soon fell in love - and got married - but not before Pru jumped through a hurdle of hoops to conquer the news that Spense Robin had once been married to a woman named Linda, and they had son named Arlo. Spence had been estranged from his son for 15 years.

After marriage…. they have a child named Sarah. Eventually Arlo comes back into his fathers life and moves in with Spence, Pru, and Sarah.

Thirty years later, in 2006, Spence, Fifty-seven years old is diagnosed with early stages Alzheimer’s.

What makes this book great is the ease in which the story flows, the warmth and joy it is to follow, the relatable characters, conflicts, tensions, love, hope, and struggles against daunting days due to Spence’s declining health, painful revelations—about human behavior and a powerful look at the human heart.

The humor is fresh, the complications of ‘in sickness & health’, is sad, but real and beautiful…..

I also liked the feeling of eavesdropping (by invitation), in on private mutterings…..
Sorrowful ….loving…..and very full of life.

Hugely compassionate and enjoyable.

[Jill · Rating 5 out of 5]

One of the most satisfying reading experiences is when you feel that the writer is speaking directly to you and that, in a strange parallel universe, you are somehow connected.

So it was with Morningside Heights, a novel about a superstar Shakespeare professor Spence who lives with his one-time doctoral student Pru —now his wife—their daughter Sarah and sometimes, his erstwhile son Arlo from a prior marriage. Spence possesses the trifecta of a good life: a happy marriage, critical acclaim for his work (he’s even earned a MacArthur!) and the means to live in Morningside Heights, where the median price for a home is close to a million dollars.

But then, in his mid 50s, he gets felled by early-onset Alzheimer’s. And that changes everything.

What makes this novel soar is its nuanced portrayal of the characters, who are so real they could walk off the pages. That connection I alluded to? As a New Yorker of Jewish descent, like Spence and Pru, I was forced to pay witness for 10 years to my superstar mom’s slow decline from dementia (in her case, Lewy Body Disorder). The authenticity of some of the scenes crafted by Joshua Henkin are amazingly accurate.

The family dynamics are set up first, and those are beautifully crafted: the dynamic auburn-haired wunderkind professor who is a student favorite, the loving wife from an Orthodox Jewish background who places Spence ahead of her own career plans, the grounded daughter who is on her way to medical school and the dyslexic son, raised by Spence’s bohemian and narcissistic ex-wife, who struggles to fit into a family where intelligence and structure and ambition are all valued.

When Spence begins to lose focus, each family member is affected, particularly Pru, who is forced to transform from a sometimes proud and worshipful wife to a protector and caregiver. The indignities of Alzheimer’s – from being forced out of a career to soiled pants and forgetfulness — are all written with nuance, as is Pru’s desire to find some sort of connection with someone else while honoring the bonds of her marriage vows. Ultimately, the book is about the detours we never expected to take in this journey we call life. I received an advance reader’s copy in exchange for an honest review.

[Liz · Rating 3 out of 5]

This was one of those books that I expected to like more than I did. A story tells of a couple dealing with early Alzheimer’s. But it’s told in a nonlinear timeline, especially at the beginning, and it bounced around too much for my taste. It’s also told from different perspectives - the wife, her stepson, their daughter. I was all over the map when it came to these characters. I felt for them, I hated them. I wanted to hug them, I wanted to hit them over the head. I have dealt with Alzheimer’s on a personal basis, as both daughter and wife. But my father died from other causes before he got too bad and my husband is still in early stages. The fact that I had such mixed emotions means they were realistically portrayed, because that’s just how I feel about my own family. I adored Ginny, as she reminded me of my father’s caregivers.
Henkin doesn’t pull any punches. It’s a graphic story, tackling all the horrors of dealing with this ugly disease. At times, it wasn’t easy to listen to.
Kathy Mazurka was a decent, but not special narrator.

[Linda · Rating 5 out of 5]

Superb!

Spence Robin, an Elizabethan scholar, was the youngest member of Columbia University's English department to receive tenure. He was a Mellon, Guggenheim, and MacArthur fellow and his book on Shakespeare found its way to the New York Times bestseller list. Then, at 57, he was diagnosed with early-onset Alzheimer's Disease.

Morningside Heights chronicles Spence's life and decline by examining his relationships with his immediate family: wife, son, daughter, and sister. Joshua Henkin lost his father to Alzheimer's and described Spence's decline and its impact on the family in a manner that is painfully realistic. His prose is lean, and his characters so finely delineated that I felt I knew them.
Heller McAlpen captured the book's essence in his Wall Street Journal review. He stated, "As in the best fiction, you come away from Morningside Heights reluctantly- attached to its characters and with a new understanding of what it is to be a feeling person dealing with life's unpredictability." Like, McAlpen, I remain haunted by the book's power. I highly recommend it.

[Lisa (NY) · Rating 4 out of 5]

[4+] A tender, terrifying novel about a family forced to deal with early onset Alzheimer's disease. Spence, a Shakespearean scholar, is at the center of the book but his wife and children are the pulsing heart of it. I felt especially invested in Flo and Arlo - never sure what would come next. In spite of the devastating subject, I found it difficult to put down.

[Cheri · Rating 5 out of 5]

4.5 Stars

This story begins in the 1970’s in New York City, where 22-year-old Prudence Steiner is attending Columbia University, taking a course on Shakespeare taught by a 28-year-old professor, Spence Robin, a previously married and now divorced father of a young son. A relationship develops between them, much to the chagrin of many of the other female students. Eventually, a marriage follows, and eventually a daughter arrives.

Meanwhile, Spence would love to spend more time than his ex allowed with his son, Arlo, named, of course, after Arlo Guthrie at his mother’s insistence. Arlo has lived a rather bohemian lifestyle, following his mother’s whims on where and how they live and who they live with. Arlo has never really been to school on a regular basis, his mother apparently believing he could learn on his own, despite having some degree of learning difficulties. As the years pass Arlo’s struggles with dyslexia improve, and eventually he takes a job at Yahoo, where his real genius quickly becomes apparent. Around the same time, the reason behind his father’s memory issues become more apparent when he is diagnosed with early-onset Alzheimer’s.

A story about families, life and the unexpected turns that life gives us. Some which are welcome, and others which are devastating. How we navigate those moments that shatter our beliefs, and leave us to traverse the grief and loss that follow.


Many thanks to my friend Angela whose review prompted me to read this. Her review: https://www.goodreads.com/review/show...

Many thanks to the Public Library system, and the many Librarians that manage, organize and keep it running, for the loan of this book!

[Carol · Rating 4 out of 5]

The author realistically portrays a marriage between a couple coming to terms with Alzheimer’s disease. The husband, Spence Robin is a brilliant Shakespeare professor. In the third decade of their marriage, Spence begins to gradually slip away with the disease. His wife, Pru’s anguish over her husband’s decent into total oblivion is compelling and poignant.

I recently read an excellent memoir with the same theme, In Love: A Memoir of Love and Loss by Amy Bloom. Even though this story was fiction, there were similarities in how the wife took on the caregiving role for her husband’s illness. One major difference was that Amy Bloom and her husband, Brian Ameche decided on “accompanied suicide” before Brian progressed into total dementia.

I thoroughly enjoyed this novel and found the story compelling. But I was shattered by Amy Bloom’s memoir. It was an emotionally powerful and heartbreaking account of this disease and its effect on a marriage.

[Larry H · Rating 4 out of 5]

Joshua Henkin's newest book, Morningside Heights , is an emotional, well-written look at love, marriage, and family.

Pru has big dreams when she moves to New York from Ohio in the mid-1970s. What an impact she’ll have on the world! But it’s not long after that she finds herself falling in love with Spence Robin, her Shakespeare professor, already a hotshot on the academic literary scene.

After a few years of dating, Spence wants to marry Pru and despite the life she thought she’d live, she wants to marry him, too. He throws her for a loop when he reveals he was married before and has a young son he rarely sees, but after realizing she’d be lost without him, she agrees to marry him.

They have a good life and raise a daughter, Sarah. But as Spence approaches his 50s, he just doesn’t seem the same anymore. He can’t seem to write, his teaching ability has declined, his personality has changed, and he’s forgetting things. He is diagnosed with early onset Alzheimer’s disease.

Morningside Heights follows Spence’s family as they deal with the diagnosis and the course of their lives change. Pru is devoted to caring for her husband but what does that mean for the rest of her life? Will there ever be another chance for her happiness? What hope can Arlo, Spence’s estranged son, who is now a wealthy tech entrepreneur, bring?

This is an emotional story but not an entirely sad book. It’s a love story, a story of relationships—marital and parental—and a story about hope. I’ve always been a fan of Henkin’s writing and his stories are always full of complex characters and emotions.

NetGalley and Pantheon provided me a complimentary advance copy of the book in exchange for an unbiased review. Thanks for making it available!!

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[Amy · Rating 3 out of 5]

Perhaps one could argue that there was plenty about books in this novel, but its sort of a stretch to fit the "books about books" tag. I mean its there without having to look too hard, but that wasn't what the thrust of the novel was about.

There are two intertwining storylines here of import. On surrounds a couple and family dealing with the father's early onset of Alzheimers, at the very young age of 58 or so. The father is a brilliant and dynamic Shakespeare professor at Columbia, and a shining star in both his field and his family. The other storyline, surrounds his son Arlo, who he had before his current lengthy marriage and family. Arlo is quite compelling and also disturbing as a character. Unreliable narrator isn't even the half of it. With early abandonment issues and a totally crazy (likely borderline) mother, Arlo has zero foundation for any kind of truth, attachment, or stability. By the time it is offered by the father and the father's family, it is too late. He is trapped between the lies he spins and those he tells himself are true. So we are looking at quality of mind in both father and son, as it develops and deteriorates. In many ways, its like a Shakespearean tragedy - although the women in the book are like heroines (other than Arlo's mother) who fight for clarity and connectivity amongst all of this seeming madness. I liked it, but didn't love it. It is getting a lot of rave reviews, but I felt sad. For the diminishing of Spencer, the professor, and for the intractable mind and mood of Arlo. It was in many ways a hard read, but excellently written. You become very close to this family and the people they pull close. It was good, but hard to digest in some ways. 3.5 stars.

[Holly R W · Rating 5 out of 5]

"Morningside Heights" is a family drama of a secular Jewish family living in New York City. At the center are Spence and Pru, who meet each other and marry, creating a great marriage. Spence, a Shakespeare scholar, is a professor at Columbia University. He is charismatic and considered a genius. Pru herself is intelligent, but chooses to forgo a career in deference to him. They marry in the 1970's.

Spence has a child, Arlo, from a short-lived, previous marriage. Arlo lives with his mother, but sees Spence and his family sporadically. He develops an ambivalent bond with them, which causes misunderstandings. Arlo is jealous of Spence and Pru's daughter (Sarah), who seems to be the apple of their eye.

Each member of the family is engaging to read about, with the possible exception of Arlo. He does his best to upset and aggravate them. At times his behavior stinks (there's no other way to describe it.) Yet, even he has his charms.

It is not a spoiler to say that Spence gets early onset dementia and his whole life changes with the illness. How each person in the family responds to his decline makes up a large part of the book. Given the subject matter, the book may not appeal to every reader.

Here's why I liked it so much. The writing was original and there were many interesting developments in the story. I liked being surprised by the characters. Also, after having read many books about cultures different than my own, I enjoyed how the author portrayed a reform Jewish family, being Jewish myself.

The novel is warm-hearted, witty and poignant. Highly recommend!


Here is an interview with the author. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zw2Rg...

[Suzanne · Rating 3 out of 5]

Brilliant husband, smart enough wife, competitive daughter and technically-gifted stepson all circle one another through intimacy, anger, hostility and change. MORNINGSIDE HEIGHTS uses Jewish characters to stage a story, mostly because of the ability to investigate multiple levels of belief throughout a lifespan. And these characters do move in and out of belief easily and frequently, their actions mostly defined by their surroundings. I wished for more in this tale; the characters seemed out of reach and a touch trope-y. I didn’t find anyone particularly likeable or engaging. When illness strikes, the family adapts, in a somewhat predictable manner. The most compelling character is the aide who cares for the husband for a decade; I wanted her to succeed. I received my copy from the publisher through NetGalley.

[Diane S ☔ · Rating 4 out of 5]

3.5

[Mare · Rating 1 out of 5]

I read the first two chapters of this book and I couldn’t stomach anymore. I have so much to say about this novel, but I don’t think a full-fledged analysis is what I should do right now. My brain was just constantly picking apart every little thing of the first two chapters, because I couldn’t fathom how this came into existence. There were issues on issues on issues and I don’t think I have the space to air them all.

The two biggest issues I have are the A) the student- teacher romance and B) how the main female character, Pru, was written. There were lines in there that made me nauseous. I am a woman in my twenties, and in the first two chapters so was Pru. She was not written as a young woman, she was written by the author who wrote her as if he was a young woman. Those are two very different things and it was so clear and obvious to me that time was not spent on making her a believable young woman.

The writing also was very, very poor. I think it is why I was so unsettled and unmoored by the first two chapters, as the writing did nothing to aid me in interpretation. Dialogue clogs up everything, and there are few descriptions. Multiple reviews call this heartfelt and emotional. This book was unfeeling and clunky. If the intent was to make this a story that could be interpreted in many different ways, that goal was not achieved and only brought confusion and, honestly, rage. I was left with so many questions, but my extreme discomfort made me not want any of them answered, in fear of what I would find.

Finally, this book has gotten favorable reviews and a starred review from Publishers Weekly. Many goodreads reviews have also been granting extremely positive reviews. Some major novelists have also blurbed this. How on earth could this happen? I am in utter shock.

I wish the author could have made it a nonlinear narrative or picked other themes to highlight rather than gender and womanhood. Jewish identity also seems to be a major theme, and I wish that would have become the focal point for Pru, rather than her attraction to older men that begins the book. Maybe if these things were changed, I would have wanted to finish it.

[Michael Finocchiaro · Rating 4 out of 5]

This was another interesting book that was well-written and quite poignant about how a stable marriage between a soft-spoken grad student and her famous English professor at Columbia is impacted by the sudden and inexplicable onset of Alzheimer's three decades later. I felt that Pru, Spencer, Arlo, and Sarah (as well as Ginny and Rafe) were all rather three-dimensional characters and that the book was an interesting, if rather rapid, read. The relationships between each of the characters is painted in an impressionistic manner and it was nice seeing New York in the 70s and 00s through their eyes. There were also some great insights into Jewish culture which I enjoyed.
I don't think that it is in the sphere of books that could really win a Pulitzer this year, but I am very glad to have read this one.

My Pulitzer list for 2022 here - please come and vote on your favorites!

[Kasa Cotugno · Rating 5 out of 5]

We enter Pru and Spence's lives in a rush, the early years dealt with only glancingly, which caused me initially to wonder why so many readers whose opinions I trust were so high on this book. After hearing about it almost a year ago, salivating over its topicality and unable to snag an early ARC, I was thrilled when it finally became available. But after that inauspicious start, when Spence's early onset dementia begins to wreak its destruction on not just himself but his circle, the inner fortitude and strong, unconventional familial connections caught me by the throat, and I could not put it down. Even the auxiliary players, each an original construct, were so well drawn that they came alive as real people, not merely characters. And of course the City of New York, almost a character itself, which held its magic over the entire story. Kudos.

[Nina Sankovitch · Rating 5 out of 5]

I loved this book, a captivating chronicle of family love and family dysfunction, of the many ways we try to understand each other and how we fail, and yet we try again, and again. The love between parents, between siblings, between parents and children, between ex-wives and ex-husbands: all of it is explored in this wonderful and moving book. Like another reviewer, I read it in two days. I just could not put it down and the various characters will stay with me for a long time. Not only is this an insightful and compelling story about family, but it is also a love song to New York City, an amazing place that allows so many very different people to live and love in close proximity, finding sustenance not only in each other but also in the city itself.

[Nancy · Rating 5 out of 5]

During my wedding rehearsal I giggled at ‘for richer and for poorer’. My future sisters-in-law had taken me aside and told nineteen-year-old-me that my husband would never make any money and it was up to me to have a money career, like data processing. My blue collar childhood wasn’t flush with money but I had what I needed. I was not motivated by money and I continued with my plans for an English major, a surefire guarantee of unemployability.

But I didn’t think about ‘in sickness and in health’ much then, and even 49 years later I still don’t dwell on it. My husband’s people are long lived; mine are not. But recently, my husband has become concerned. His brother, seven years older than him, has developed Alzheimer’s disease. Their dad became confused in his nineties, and their grandmother had mini-strokes and senility in her upper eighties. Now, he is worried.

I suppose I should be, too. Especially after reading Joshua Henkin’s Morningside Heights, his novel about a woman who marries a brilliant, but eccentric, professor who is seven years her senior and develops early onset Alzheimer’s disease.

The book is the story of Spence Robin and Pru Steiner’s whirlwind romance and marriage. Spence was Pru’s Shakespeare professor. She gave up her Ph.d for him. She has a boring job and they have a lovely daughter, Sarah. She plans to become a doctor.

Spence has a child from an early marriage. Arlo struggles with an aging hippie mom and was raised in a commune, and without proper education to help his dyslexia. He moves in with his dad but has trouble adjusting to normal life, blending into the family, plus his dad seems more interested in raising a scholar than loving a son. He returns to life with his peripatetic mother.

I loved these people, so very real and likeable. They have their troubles but they are the kind of problems that every family faces. Henkin’s insights into people have a touch of humor. A character realizes that “what we didn’t know could be as much a source of pride as what we did know.” Um, is he talking about me?

The story turns somber when Spence develops signs of dementia and loses his position at Columbia. Pru must juggle work, caring for Spence, and the financial burden of round the clock care. And, the loneliness of a marriage to a man who can no longer provide companionship or affection.

A man comes into Pru’s life and she must decide if she can turn to him for what Spence is no longer able to give, or if her vow to Spence does not allow bending to circumstances.

It was here that I suddenly considered my husband’s brother’s wife. We saw them nearly a year ago, when his brother sat quietly docile, every now and then surprising us with a pertinent question. But this spring, they went on a trip, and on the plane going back home, he panicked and was hospitalized.

What would I do, if my husband developed this dreadful disease? We don’t have the money for round the clock care. I don’t have the physical strength to aid a man who towers over me. Like Pru and Spence, we have one child to help out.

What I love about Morningside Heights is that it is a story about a marriage that I can relate to and even be inspired by. The problem they encounter is tragic, leaving a brilliant man bereft of his intelligence and personality, but it’s not really a story about a disease. It’s a story about life and love and how we face the unimaginable. It’s about the friendships that support us along the way. How we all muddle through the best we can, staying true to ourselves and our values. What an inspiration.

I received a free book from the publisher through the First Look Book Club. My review is fair and unbiased.

[Mary Lins · Rating 5 out of 5]

Oh, what a delight to instantly become immersed in Joshua Henkin’s latest novel, “Morningside Heights”! Henkin’s writing is so intimate and real; I was happily pulled into the fascinating story of this family, so beautifully rendered I felt as if I had become a part of it.

First set in NYC in the mid-late 1970s, we are introduced to grad-student, Pru Steiner. Pru has always been attracted to older men and her (brilliant) Shakespeare professor, Spence Robin, though only 6 years her senior, quickly becomes the man of her dreams.

Henkin creates characters with true grace and humane skill. I love a “fish out of water” story so I was mesmerized by Spence’s son, Arlo, from his first marriage as he moves in with Pru and Spence after living for years on a commune with his mother, Linda (another great character!)

Because this is a story about a particular family (although Pru and Spence are the main characters), we are also privy to a look inside their daughter Sarah’s life, as well as Arlo’s; both when they all function as a family unit, and also when they move apart. Henkin’s stunning insight filled me with emotions on behalf of these characters, and of course, as good novels do, it had me reflecting on my own family and our similar experiences.

Ultimately the story revolves around something that befalls Spence, that of course affects them all. Henkin vividly captures the shock, heartbreak, denial, and love that families – real and fictional – experience when faced with adversity. Every family is different, and we all deal with difficulties such as illness and financial problems differently, but I suspect it’s universal that for most of us, our lives don’t turn out exactly as we had planned or expected, and we can all relate to that.

[Karen · Rating 4 out of 5]

This is a real and touching story about a well-loved Shakespeare teacher a Columbia who gets early onset Alzheimers. It's also a story about a complicated family with ex-wives and step-children and abandonment and love and belonging. It's also a love letter to New York City and its people.

I've lived in New York for all of my twenties and the characters in this story jump off the paper and are real and textured. They try, they fail, and they try again. They let each other down, they love each other fiercely. They take care of each other. They stand by each other. They show up for each other.

Each character in this book is unique and familiar and it's not possible not to fall in love with them.

with gratitude to netgalley and Knopf Doubleday Publishing Group for an advanced copy in exchange for an honest review.

[Kate · Rating 3 out of 5]

Thank you to BookBrowse.com and Pantheon for copy of Morningside Heights in exchange for my honest review. A variation of this review appears on BookBrowse.com. Joshua Henkin writes family dysfunction very well and this novel did not disappoint. Pru Steiner has subverted herself to her husband, starting with their affair when she was his Grad Student. Academic novels are my catnip, but the characters in this book felt too flat to me, not completely fleshed out. The estranged son from the prior relationship, Arlo, was just too depressing. The writing and descriptions kept me reading, but ultimately, I liked his prior novel, The World Without End better.

[Dana Sachs · Rating 5 out of 5]

What happens to a family when the person who has been holding it together begins to fall apart? Joshua Henkin’s masterful Morningside Heights explores that question as Spence Robin, a renowned Shakespeare scholar, develops dementia. With Spence no longer able to give his university lectures, or even read the morning paper, his wife, daughter, and estranged son have to come together to help him through this last challenge of his life. And, though this is a story about dementia, it’s not a tragedy. Rather, it’s a warm and often funny novel about the ups and downs of life, and about how love, even complicated and difficult love, binds us together and elevates us.

I imagine that many book clubs will select this novel because it offers so many intriguing avenues for discussion.

[Carla Bayha · Rating 5 out of 5]

The first page of Henkin’s engrossing novel has our protagonist meeting her life partner in Ann Arbor, so of course I’m going to continue reading it. The additional scenes that take place in Brooklyn, Columbus, San Francisco, Ames, Iowa and DC made me feel like I was being stalked. These are all places where I have a close family connection as well. But there is another oft-written story arc here, that many will also relate to: girl with promise throws her lot in with a “great man” and eventually comes to question whether she sacrificed too much of herself when she did. Not only is Pru’s professor husband Spence somewhat older than she is, he comes with baggage- a troubled young son, a needy ex-wife, and a severely disabled sister, all of whom need financial assistance. Henkin concisely tells the backstory of these characters, including a hired caretaker and her son, as they come together to take care of Spence, who develops early onset Alzheimer’s. I can speak from personal experience to say that this part of the novel is authentic and heartbreaking. But if you are inclined to pass over books that hit too close to a remembered dark reality, do not. The author weaves his character’s stories into a web of acceptance, hope, and renewal that very much is what we need right now.

[Denise · Rating 5 out of 5]

I have been a fan of Joshua Henkin for years, and I loved this very readable novel. Spence Robin is a Shakespeare scholar who is diagnosed with early-onset Alzheimer's. His wife, Pru Steiner, who is hilarious, is still deeply in love with Spence after many years of marriage and does everything possible to make sure Spence is treated with respect throughout the disease's progression. Their daughter, Sarah, is a medical student. Then there's Arlo, Spence's son from a short first marriage whose mother is a self-centered vagabond. Arlo has always felt a complicated emptiness and resentment towards his father, mostly thanks to his mother.

All of these characters come together for a story that I couldn't put down. I loved how the story was told in a unsentimental way, yet I felt their struggles, hope, pain and love.

[Debbi · Rating 5 out of 5]

A lovely book. I was immediately engaged with the story and the characters. It is rare for an author to develop characters over thirty years without out leaning into the emotional whirlwind of family tragedy. Early Alzheimer's is tragic but it isn't sudden and everyone's story is different. One of the things I appreciated about the novel is the way it brings about unexpected responses from friends, family members and caretakers. Each person seemed familiar and I could easily imagine walking in their shoes. There are no villains or heroes in this story, only a group of people doing their best to navigate uncharted territory. Highly recommended.

[Joey Gremillion · Rating 5 out of 5]

Finished this book in two days. To say that Mr. Henkin’s storytelling is engaging is an understatement. It’s phenomenal.

[Natalie · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book captured my interest from page 1. The story of Pru and her husband is so much like my own that reading this was both poignant and painful. Both of us living on the Upper Westside of Manhattan trying to believe that the earliest symptoms were quirkiness and eccentricity until it became abundantly clear it was Alzheimer’s. We both had stepsons and had dealt with McArthur awards.

The characters are beautifully drawn and multi-dimensional. I loved everyone in this book. It does take a village to care for an Alzheimer’s patient and I loved Pru’s village!

Obviously this well-written book pierced my heart. I cannot wait to share this with book groups. Pru was braver than me because I could never start over.

Thank you Netgalley for this touching read.

[Joy · Rating 2 out of 5]

I don’t understand the hype about this. I felt like the characters were flat and unappealing, and I felt like the handling of Alzheimer’s was more factual than emotional. The whole thing felt blah and did not pull me in. I also didn’t like how this (male) author wrote women. I just couldn’t get into this story, and was eager for it to end.