A collection of poems that I think naturally flows from the previous two - moving away a bit from the instapoet influence of What I Learned from the Trees and maturing a lot from the snippets in Evolution of a Girl. The content has matured along with the author, with a lot of poems focusing on motherhood, marriage, body image, and feeling overwhelmed with the day-by-day while trying to find everyday beauty.
The style is free verse moving into prose poems, and the wording is still pretty direct and accessible. Some of it still borders on feeling like an elevated social media post - for example, one called Adulting (It's called Balance, Darling) ends with "Tomorrow, I'll wake up to a sink full of dishes. Tonight, I'm finishing a $7 bottle of wine and sleeping with my husband instead." These are probably the lowlights of the book for me.
Luckily, they're outweighed by many better pieces - I liked a very similar one in subject, Home, a lot more: "My hair is turning grey, and my stomach has the look of someone who eats okay and doesn't sleep well. ... My husband grasps my curves and calls me sexy. My son clings to my neck and calls me home." Or, in My Son Brings Me Things That He Finds Interesting, "... He rolls in the grass with the family dog, unabashedly learning her pleasures. He follows her into alcoves, bushes grown over, sacred, hidden places you have to dream of to find. ... As the sun dips, he hands me a sprig of clover. I don't need to count the leaves to know how lucky it is."
In a book that tends to skip the metaphor (or drop it before developing it fully), one of my favorite pieces ended up being an extended one. In Mother: "The world is a death trap, but have you noticed her beauty? Even with her snarling lips, even with her snapping jaws. Those lips contain a tongue that licks new life until eyes are open. Those teeth gently carry young. Isn't everything about creation and destruction? Aren't we all born and spend a lifetime slowly dying? Haven't we all wrapped our fingers around someone's throat and called it love?"
The overall collection is incredibly relatable, full of warmth, and a lot of what I was really wanting after reading the last two. I'm looking forward to the next!