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Quiet Perseverance: 30 Lessons From an Introverted Outsider's Daughter
202 pages, Paperback
Published September 19, 2024
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About the author
Victoria Liu
1 book6 followersVictoria Liu is a Master Executive Coach and former Chief Operating Officer at a global investment bank. With over twenty years of experience navigating corporate leadership as an introverted immigrant and having coached more than 4,000 executives across various sectors, Victoria is uniquely positioned to empower ‘unconventional’ leaders in today’s extrovert-centric world.
Victoria specialises in helping introverts, neurodivergent individuals and migrants to thrive in leadership roles. Her Quiet Perseverance framework, developed from her unique perspective as an introverted immigrant, transforms quiet strengths into leadership superpowers. Victoria’s expertise spans change management, high performance and mental resilience.
She lives in London, where she continues to champion the power of gentle perseverance and cultural understanding.
Victoria specialises in helping introverts, neurodivergent individuals and migrants to thrive in leadership roles. Her Quiet Perseverance framework, developed from her unique perspective as an introverted immigrant, transforms quiet strengths into leadership superpowers. Victoria’s expertise spans change management, high performance and mental resilience.
She lives in London, where she continues to champion the power of gentle perseverance and cultural understanding.
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December 10, 2024
Victoria's journey of self-discovery and acceptance is inspiring. Her honest take on being an introvert in an extroverted world resonated deeply with me. A truly uplifting read—I highly recommend it!
December 9, 2024
Quiet Perseverance was my constant companion during a long-distance journey, and it made every mile feel meaningful. Victoria Liu's memoir is an intimate and inspiring exploration of resilience, cultural identity, and personal growth.
Victoria masterfully takes readers on a journey through the defining moments of her life, weaving in profound life lessons that shaped her into the trailblazing coach and leader she is today. Her engaging and candid writing style draws you into her struggles, triumphs, and the quiet perseverance she needed to develop to navigate life as a Chinese migrant in the notoriously competitive financial sector. Her father's ethos of holding yourself to the highest standards resonates throughout the book, offering a window into the unique challenges of balancing personal ambition with cultural expectations.
What sets Quiet Perseverance apart is its raw honesty -it is not a glossy, oversimplified guide to success or a puff-piece memoir. Victoria openly confronts the emotional weight of shame, guilt, and ancestral expectations, sharing how these experiences shaped her approach to life and work. Her reflections on the price of success and the emotional toll of striving for excellence are refreshingly honest, offering insights for anyone seeking personal growth. The book's stunning artwork beautifully complements the narrative.
Ultimately, Quiet Perseverance is an honest and thought-provoking read that leaves you inspired by Victoria's journey. Her experiences have forged a coach of depth and empathy, someone who truly understands the complexities of leadership, cultural adaptation, and self-discovery.
The book is particularly compelling for readers interested in personal growth, cultural experiences, and leadership development, as it offers unique insights and lessons from Victoria's journey. Victoria's authenticity and depth make Quiet Perseverance a memorable and inspiring read that stays with you long after the final page.
Victoria masterfully takes readers on a journey through the defining moments of her life, weaving in profound life lessons that shaped her into the trailblazing coach and leader she is today. Her engaging and candid writing style draws you into her struggles, triumphs, and the quiet perseverance she needed to develop to navigate life as a Chinese migrant in the notoriously competitive financial sector. Her father's ethos of holding yourself to the highest standards resonates throughout the book, offering a window into the unique challenges of balancing personal ambition with cultural expectations.
What sets Quiet Perseverance apart is its raw honesty -it is not a glossy, oversimplified guide to success or a puff-piece memoir. Victoria openly confronts the emotional weight of shame, guilt, and ancestral expectations, sharing how these experiences shaped her approach to life and work. Her reflections on the price of success and the emotional toll of striving for excellence are refreshingly honest, offering insights for anyone seeking personal growth. The book's stunning artwork beautifully complements the narrative.
Ultimately, Quiet Perseverance is an honest and thought-provoking read that leaves you inspired by Victoria's journey. Her experiences have forged a coach of depth and empathy, someone who truly understands the complexities of leadership, cultural adaptation, and self-discovery.
The book is particularly compelling for readers interested in personal growth, cultural experiences, and leadership development, as it offers unique insights and lessons from Victoria's journey. Victoria's authenticity and depth make Quiet Perseverance a memorable and inspiring read that stays with you long after the final page.
December 2, 2024
Victoria Liu's book Quiet Perseverance invites us on an intimate and revealing journey. She explores how our relationship with our parents shapes us as human beings and, more importantly, as women leaders. With a unique sensitivity, Victoria combines personal stories and profound reflections that help us understand the impact of our roots on the way we face the world.
This book leaves you with the certainty that the most valuable lessons about leadership and strength can come from the most fundamental relationships in our lives. A transformative and essential read.
This book leaves you with the certainty that the most valuable lessons about leadership and strength can come from the most fundamental relationships in our lives. A transformative and essential read.
October 4, 2024
I thoroughly enjoyed *Quiet Perseverance* by Victoria Liu, which is a refreshingly honest exploration of resilience and the challenges of life. Drawing from her own experiences, Victoria offers profound insights that are both personal and universally relatable. As an introvert who has faced my own struggles, I resonated deeply with her nuanced observations on navigating the complexities of life.
What stood out to me was how each chapter concludes with an invitation to reflect compassionately on our own experiences through Victoria’s lens. This approach encouraged me to reevaluate my journey from a new perspective, allowing me to gain greater clarity about my responses to various situations over time.
Victoria skillfully guides readers through her story, fostering a sense of shared exploration and self-discovery. Having read many of the books she references, I found *Quiet Perseverance* to be a delicate yet profound reflection on the human condition, rooted in her genuine compassion.
I highly recommend this beautiful book for its enlightening and engaging nature.
What stood out to me was how each chapter concludes with an invitation to reflect compassionately on our own experiences through Victoria’s lens. This approach encouraged me to reevaluate my journey from a new perspective, allowing me to gain greater clarity about my responses to various situations over time.
Victoria skillfully guides readers through her story, fostering a sense of shared exploration and self-discovery. Having read many of the books she references, I found *Quiet Perseverance* to be a delicate yet profound reflection on the human condition, rooted in her genuine compassion.
I highly recommend this beautiful book for its enlightening and engaging nature.
September 30, 2024
A must read for introverts and their allies
The author bravely shares her personal odyssey from migrant daughter in an unfamiliar country to a senior corporate executive, shining a light on the challenges for introverts in finding their voice within society.
Written in a warm and relatable style that doesn't flinch from the hard realities of what she had to overcome, Liu gives the reader a series of mini-stories/lessons that showcase how traits hastily viewed as weaknesses can in fact become sources of great strength and drive. Many of her stories echoed my own experiences as a child and adult, and I wish I'd had this book with me at the time to show me that one doesn't have to be an extrovert to "win the game".
With a growing number of companies embracing the importance of better diversity and inclusion, this book is a powerful guide on how to empower introverts to contribute to their employers and society as a whole to the full extent of their abilities alongside their extrovert peers. To those who feel that their introversion has held them back, Liu provides an uplifting example that there is hope - and help - out there.
The author bravely shares her personal odyssey from migrant daughter in an unfamiliar country to a senior corporate executive, shining a light on the challenges for introverts in finding their voice within society.
Written in a warm and relatable style that doesn't flinch from the hard realities of what she had to overcome, Liu gives the reader a series of mini-stories/lessons that showcase how traits hastily viewed as weaknesses can in fact become sources of great strength and drive. Many of her stories echoed my own experiences as a child and adult, and I wish I'd had this book with me at the time to show me that one doesn't have to be an extrovert to "win the game".
With a growing number of companies embracing the importance of better diversity and inclusion, this book is a powerful guide on how to empower introverts to contribute to their employers and society as a whole to the full extent of their abilities alongside their extrovert peers. To those who feel that their introversion has held them back, Liu provides an uplifting example that there is hope - and help - out there.
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December 9, 2024It took a lot for me to put this book down. A compelling read, I felt like I walked with Victoria, saw myself, contemplated and learned throughout this book. Highly recommend
October 18, 2024
I am delighted to have come across this book, which offers profound insights into Victoria's life lessons drawn from her upbringing and experiences. Victoria candidly shares her journey, from being born and raised in Hong Kong and grappling with her introverted nature, to moving to New Zealand with her strict parents. She studied at the same university as I did, traveled extensively, and completed her OE in the UK.
Her words resonated deeply with me, as if we were living in parallel universes. Her stories reflect her truths, and her challenges have transformed into significant achievements. She encourages us to embrace our inner strengths, be courageous in living authentically, and appreciate the sacrifices made by our parents that shaped who we are today.
As I read, I could vividly visualize the Wing On Department Store in Sheung Wan, Hong Kong, and I could feel the strict discipline of her childhood. The sweetness of her hard-earned accomplishments lingered in the air.
I wholeheartedly recommend this book to anyone who has migrated from Hong Kong, or whose parents or grandparents made that journey for better opportunities. It is also a compelling read for anyone interested in Victoria's stories of overcoming obstacles and staying true to oneself. Much respect and admiration for her journey.
Her words resonated deeply with me, as if we were living in parallel universes. Her stories reflect her truths, and her challenges have transformed into significant achievements. She encourages us to embrace our inner strengths, be courageous in living authentically, and appreciate the sacrifices made by our parents that shaped who we are today.
As I read, I could vividly visualize the Wing On Department Store in Sheung Wan, Hong Kong, and I could feel the strict discipline of her childhood. The sweetness of her hard-earned accomplishments lingered in the air.
I wholeheartedly recommend this book to anyone who has migrated from Hong Kong, or whose parents or grandparents made that journey for better opportunities. It is also a compelling read for anyone interested in Victoria's stories of overcoming obstacles and staying true to oneself. Much respect and admiration for her journey.
January 14, 2025
In "Quiet Perseverance," Victoria takes readers on a deeply personal journey that feels both intimate and empowering. At a time when I was wrestling with significant internal doubt, this book became a comforting guide. Unlike many self-help books that promise quick fixes or secret formulas, Victoria offers something much richer—her own experiences, vulnerabilities, and insights.
From the very beginning, she opens up about her life, allowing readers to connect with her struggles and triumphs. It's this honesty that makes her journey feel relatable, providing a roadmap that inspires rather than instructs. Each chapter encourages reflection and introspection, guiding the reader through their own challenges with the understanding that perseverance and investment on our own self often comes quietly, away from the spotlight.
Victoria’s unique approach emphasizes growth through real-life experiences, showing that the path to self-discovery can be filled with uncertainty yet still lead to empowerment. "Quiet Perseverance" isn't just a book; it's a gentle companion for anyone facing their own trials, reminding us that it's okay to navigate life’s complexities at our own pace.
From the very beginning, she opens up about her life, allowing readers to connect with her struggles and triumphs. It's this honesty that makes her journey feel relatable, providing a roadmap that inspires rather than instructs. Each chapter encourages reflection and introspection, guiding the reader through their own challenges with the understanding that perseverance and investment on our own self often comes quietly, away from the spotlight.
Victoria’s unique approach emphasizes growth through real-life experiences, showing that the path to self-discovery can be filled with uncertainty yet still lead to empowerment. "Quiet Perseverance" isn't just a book; it's a gentle companion for anyone facing their own trials, reminding us that it's okay to navigate life’s complexities at our own pace.
October 20, 2024
I’m a slow reader and usually take at least a year to read most non-fiction books. Yet I finished this one in less than a week! I enjoyed ‘Quiet Perseverance’ for many reasons.
The structure is simple, with each chapter being a self-contained story of an episode in Victoria’s life. These mini-stories stand up by themselves as stories, while offering meaningful takeaways with questions for personal reflection. The different chapters touch on different experiences both in and outside the workplace, and while no-one’s personal experience can be the same as another’s, we may find striking echoes in our own lives.
It is Victoria’s openness and vulnerability in recounting these episodes that make this book so easy to connect with. It reads like a conversation over a drink or cup of tea with a trusted friend.
This is an intimate and inspiring work that has given me pointers for reflection and touched me more deeply than a typical self-help book. It is an invitation, rather than a set of instructions. I strongly recommend it to anyone looking to reflect on their own journey in life.
The structure is simple, with each chapter being a self-contained story of an episode in Victoria’s life. These mini-stories stand up by themselves as stories, while offering meaningful takeaways with questions for personal reflection. The different chapters touch on different experiences both in and outside the workplace, and while no-one’s personal experience can be the same as another’s, we may find striking echoes in our own lives.
It is Victoria’s openness and vulnerability in recounting these episodes that make this book so easy to connect with. It reads like a conversation over a drink or cup of tea with a trusted friend.
This is an intimate and inspiring work that has given me pointers for reflection and touched me more deeply than a typical self-help book. It is an invitation, rather than a set of instructions. I strongly recommend it to anyone looking to reflect on their own journey in life.
October 13, 2025
The narratives in the Victoria book serve as a powerful source of inspiration, instilling courage in the face of significant challenges. Victoria exemplifies resilience as she navigates various paths in her quest for meaning, demonstrating unwavering determination despite obstacles.
Engaging with her personally reveals the intricate details of her journey, adding depth to her story. Victoria's experiences vividly illustrate her innovative approaches to healing and her commitment to maintaining authenticity in a world that often pressures conformity. Her journey of self-discovery amidst complexity offers valuable lessons in personal integrity and perseverance.The narratives presented in the Victoria book serve as a profound source of inspiration, instilling a sense of courage and determination in the face of life’s formidable challenges. Victoria embodies resilience, deftly navigating numerous paths in her quest for meaning, and showcasing her unwavering commitment to advance despite the most daunting obstacles.
Engaging with her personally reveals the intricate details of her journey, adding depth to her story. Victoria's experiences vividly illustrate her innovative approaches to healing and her commitment to maintaining authenticity in a world that often pressures conformity. Her journey of self-discovery amidst complexity offers valuable lessons in personal integrity and perseverance.The narratives presented in the Victoria book serve as a profound source of inspiration, instilling a sense of courage and determination in the face of life’s formidable challenges. Victoria embodies resilience, deftly navigating numerous paths in her quest for meaning, and showcasing her unwavering commitment to advance despite the most daunting obstacles.
February 6, 2025
Sessiz Azim' birçok nedenden dolayı keyif veriyor.
Yapısı basit, her bölüm Victoria'nın hayatındaki bir bölümün kendi içinde tutarlı bir hikayesi.
Bu mini hikayeler, kişisel düşünme için sorularla anlamlı çıkarımlar sunarken, kendi başlarına hikayeler olarak duruyor.
Farklı bölümler, hem işyerinde hem de işyerinin dışında farklı deneyimlere değiniyor ve hiç kimsenin kişisel deneyimi bir diğerininkiyle aynı olmasa da, kendi hayatlarımızda çarpıcı yankılar bulabiliriz.
Bu kitabı bu kadar kolay bağlantı kurmamızı sağlayan şey, Victoria'nın bu bölümleri anlatırkenki açıklığı ve kırılganlığıdır.
Güvendiğiniz bir arkadaşla bir içki veya fincan çay eşliğinde yapılan bir sohbet gibi okunuyor.
Bu, bana düşünmem için ipuçları veren ve beni tipik bir kişisel gelişim kitabından daha derinden etkileyen samimi ve ilham verici bir çalışma.
Bir dizi talimattan ziyade bir davet.
Yaşam yolculuğunu düşünmek isteyen herkese şiddetle tavsiye ediyorum.
Yapısı basit, her bölüm Victoria'nın hayatındaki bir bölümün kendi içinde tutarlı bir hikayesi.
Bu mini hikayeler, kişisel düşünme için sorularla anlamlı çıkarımlar sunarken, kendi başlarına hikayeler olarak duruyor.
Farklı bölümler, hem işyerinde hem de işyerinin dışında farklı deneyimlere değiniyor ve hiç kimsenin kişisel deneyimi bir diğerininkiyle aynı olmasa da, kendi hayatlarımızda çarpıcı yankılar bulabiliriz.
Bu kitabı bu kadar kolay bağlantı kurmamızı sağlayan şey, Victoria'nın bu bölümleri anlatırkenki açıklığı ve kırılganlığıdır.
Güvendiğiniz bir arkadaşla bir içki veya fincan çay eşliğinde yapılan bir sohbet gibi okunuyor.
Bu, bana düşünmem için ipuçları veren ve beni tipik bir kişisel gelişim kitabından daha derinden etkileyen samimi ve ilham verici bir çalışma.
Bir dizi talimattan ziyade bir davet.
Yaşam yolculuğunu düşünmek isteyen herkese şiddetle tavsiye ediyorum.
January 7, 2026
Reading "Quiet Perseverance" truly resonated with me. As an introvert myself, so much of what Victoria shares felt familiar — the quiet noticing, the inner processing, and the steady determination that often happens behind the scenes.
I appreciate how she reframes perseverance. There’s no pressure to be louder or to fit a certain mould. Instead, the book values consistency, patience, and staying true to yourself, even when progress isn’t obvious.
I also loved the way the book is broken into short, reflective lessons. It made it easy to take things slowly and really sit with the ideas. I often found myself pausing after a chapter and recognising moments from my own life in what she shares.
It’s a calm, grounding read that feels reassuring rather than directive. A reminder that quiet strength is still strength — and that steady, thoughtful work truly matters.
A brilliant read and a book I'd genuinely recommend!
I appreciate how she reframes perseverance. There’s no pressure to be louder or to fit a certain mould. Instead, the book values consistency, patience, and staying true to yourself, even when progress isn’t obvious.
I also loved the way the book is broken into short, reflective lessons. It made it easy to take things slowly and really sit with the ideas. I often found myself pausing after a chapter and recognising moments from my own life in what she shares.
It’s a calm, grounding read that feels reassuring rather than directive. A reminder that quiet strength is still strength — and that steady, thoughtful work truly matters.
A brilliant read and a book I'd genuinely recommend!
December 17, 2025
I felt sadness, anger, and hope as I listened to Victoria Liu narrate her book, Quiet Perseverance.
I was also impressed by the range of her voice, which adds a rich, entertaining dimension to the book. Sadness for the love her father clearly felt for her, yet never knew how to express. Anger for the abuse she endured, especially in her professional life. And hope for all that Victoria has achieved through courageous love and deep compassion for herself and others.
Victoria’s book is also a remarkable resource. Each chapter closes with thoughtful questions that invite deep reflection, and she offers an outstanding collection of resources, allowing readers to choose where to begin or continue their own healing journey.
You don’t need to be an introvert to benefit from Victoria’s powerful story or from the depth and effectiveness of her coaching expertise.
I was also impressed by the range of her voice, which adds a rich, entertaining dimension to the book. Sadness for the love her father clearly felt for her, yet never knew how to express. Anger for the abuse she endured, especially in her professional life. And hope for all that Victoria has achieved through courageous love and deep compassion for herself and others.
Victoria’s book is also a remarkable resource. Each chapter closes with thoughtful questions that invite deep reflection, and she offers an outstanding collection of resources, allowing readers to choose where to begin or continue their own healing journey.
You don’t need to be an introvert to benefit from Victoria’s powerful story or from the depth and effectiveness of her coaching expertise.
October 5, 2024
Quiet Perseverance is a deeply impactful book that blends practical advice with inspiration, offering a fresh perspective on resilience, inner strength, and achieving long-term success.
I found this book particularly insightful, especially for those of us in high-pressure, fast-paced careers where persistence and quiet determination are often undervalued.
Victoria illustrates how perseverance in the face of adversity is a critical component of personal and professional growth. The tips and lessons in this book will provide the necessary framework you need to find your path in life and succeed in your endeavours.
The book is a must-read for professionals seeking to cultivate resilience and gain new perspectives for their personal and professional lives.
I found this book particularly insightful, especially for those of us in high-pressure, fast-paced careers where persistence and quiet determination are often undervalued.
Victoria illustrates how perseverance in the face of adversity is a critical component of personal and professional growth. The tips and lessons in this book will provide the necessary framework you need to find your path in life and succeed in your endeavours.
The book is a must-read for professionals seeking to cultivate resilience and gain new perspectives for their personal and professional lives.
February 6, 2025
Przeczytałam Quiet Perseverance Victorii Lui, która bardzo mi się podobała i wiele się po drodze nauczyłam. W książce autorka wykorzystuje swój własny sposób i doświadczenia, aby podkreślić wyzwania, z którymi, jestem pewna, wielu z nas może się utożsamić, przynajmniej z niektórymi, jeśli nie wieloma, a następnie wykorzystuje swoje dopracowane doświadczenie, aby zapewnić czytelnikowi prowokujące do myślenia pytania i wnikliwe wskazówki. Uważam, że warto przeczytać i doceniam, jak Victoria otwiera się i dzieli wieloma szczegółami ze swojego życia, aby pomóc innym. Każdy rozdział jest krótki, wpływowy i zamknięty w sobie, więc można przeskakiwać, jednak podobało mi się, jak wszystko to złożyło się w sekwencję, aby podzielić się historią Victorii. naprawdę polecam
June 4, 2025
Victoria Lui’s book offers an honest and intimate account of her personal and career journey and demonstrates how our relationships shape our leadership style. Liu shares thirty transformative lessons that highlight how perceived weaknesses can be turned into strengths. Quiet Perseverance provides a practical guide for embracing differences and persevering with confidence. Liu's storytelling invites the reader to reflect on their own journeys. Each chapter is complemented by reflective prompts, encouraging readers to apply the lessons to their own lives.
It is an inspiring read for anyone seeking to harness their unique strengths in challenging environments and find success without conforming to conventional expectations. Highly recommended!
It is an inspiring read for anyone seeking to harness their unique strengths in challenging environments and find success without conforming to conventional expectations. Highly recommended!
June 23, 2025
Quiet Perseverance by Victoria Liu is a thoughtful and inspiring read that resonated deeply with me. The book consists of 30 short chapters, each offering a glimpse into different aspects of her life—as an introverted leader, immigrant, and outsider navigating high-pressure environments. I especially appreciated her candid, personal stories and the reflective questions that invite the reader to pause and look inward. The writing style is varied and engaging, moving seamlessly between memoir, insight, and gentle guidance. Liu shows how quiet strength, perseverance, and authenticity can be powerful leadership qualities. A book I’d highly recommend to anyone looking to lead in their own way, without needing to be the loudest voice in the room.
October 27, 2024
I recently read Quiet Perseverance by Victoria Lui, which I thoroughly enjoyed and I learned a lot along the way. In the book, she uses her own journey and experiences to highlight challenges that I am sure many of us can related to at least some, if not many of, she then uses her well-honed coaching experience to provide thought provoking questions and insightful guidance to the reader. I found it well worth the read and appreciate how Victoria opens up and shares much about her life to help others. Each chapter is short, impactful and self contained, so that you could jump around, however, I liked how it all came together as a sequence to share Victoria’s story.
February 6, 2025
Cieszę się, że przeczytałam tę książkę, która oferuje głębokie spojrzenie na życiowe lekcje Victorii zaczerpnięte z jej wychowania i doświadczeń. Victoria szczerze dzieli się swoją podróżą, od urodzenia i wychowania w Hongkongu i zmagania się ze swoją introwertyczną naturą, po przeprowadzkę do Nowej Zelandii ze swoimi surowymi rodzicami.
Jej historie odzwierciedlają jej prawdy, a jej wyzwania przekształciły się w znaczące osiągnięcia.
Zachęca nas do zaakceptowania naszych wewnętrznych sił, bycia odważnym w autentycznym życiu i doceniania poświęceń naszych rodziców, które ukształtowały to, kim jesteśmy dzisiaj.
Szczerze polecam tę książkę każdemu.
Jej historie odzwierciedlają jej prawdy, a jej wyzwania przekształciły się w znaczące osiągnięcia.
Zachęca nas do zaakceptowania naszych wewnętrznych sił, bycia odważnym w autentycznym życiu i doceniania poświęceń naszych rodziców, które ukształtowały to, kim jesteśmy dzisiaj.
Szczerze polecam tę książkę każdemu.
November 25, 2024
Victoria Liu’s Quiet Perseverance is not just an inspiring guide—it’s a deeply personal journey that allowed me to learn more about her story while also teaching me lessons I’ll carry for life. Through her Quiet Perseverance framework, Victoria shares how she turned challenges into strengths, offering powerful insights on navigating cultural differences and leading authentically.
As someone fortunate enough to know Victoria, this book gave me an even greater appreciation for her resilience, grace, and wisdom.
As someone fortunate enough to know Victoria, this book gave me an even greater appreciation for her resilience, grace, and wisdom.
January 12, 2025
Victoria Liu has expertly articulated the experience of many Asian children who are growing up in a world where they’re being protected by their cautious parents (whose own lived experiences inform their fears and perspectives) but who also know they have no option but to excel in every way. Absolutely loved how the author demonstrates that her father’s ways were rooted in his own struggles and resilience and his deepest desire to see his children thrive. Super easy read! Highly recommend for anyone open to self reflection.
January 1, 2026
I started reading this book after attending one of Victoria Liu's workshops, as I was curious to learn more about her story and glean more of her career coaching insights. Working my through the book, I found my self immensely enjoying each chapter, which are written in short digestible formats based on themes. What stood out to me most wasn't just an inspiring story, but rawness of experience and perspectives shared from Victoria, and her family. Anyone looking to live and work with intention in life and their career should read this book!
January 16, 2025
These 30 lessons in perseverance despite all odds are inspirational for immigrant women like myself. Reading this book makes you feel you are not alone in your struggles to fit in and to learn what version of you will be acceptable in your new home country. Some really thought provoking stories and questions at the end of each chapter encouraged me to reflect on my past experiences in a way I have not done before.
May 10, 2025
This book resonated deeply with me. What touched me most was how it portrays the quiet strength so many of us carry - the delicate balance between staying true to our heritage, honouring the sacrifices of our parents, adapting to unfamiliar cultures, and still striving to find and hold onto our own voice. The storytelling is subtle yet powerful, perfectly embodying the quiet perseverance the title evokes.
January 17, 2025
Victoria Liu writes with honesty and intimacy. I LOVED this book because Liu invites you to step into her world then subtly asks you to question yours. She is beautifully human and communicates both hope and reflection. Reading it felt good and I enjoyed the peaceful nature of reflection that it encouraged.
February 5, 2025
Victoria's authenticity shines through the triumph and heartache of her stories. Her lessons are profound, recognizing outcome and process. The questions at the end of each vingette challenge us to find the path that works for one's own set of circumstances and priorities. Never prescriptive, always curious and always learning.
April 3, 2025
This book made me laugh, made me cry, and made me appreciate again just how many points of view there are and how much we all stand to learn from each others' experiences if we are just willing to be open and 'hear' them. Thank you, Ms Liu, for your heartfelt rendering of the life lessons you've gleaned up until now--you're an inspiration!!
May 9, 2025
Easily we read things and forget them weeks later.
.. But reading this book felt both deeply personal and practical for both writer and reader.
It provided an avenue of intimate reflection and related steps to put into practice.
Thank you Victoria for sharing with us. It makes a difference and is of inspiration.
5 stars given.
.. But reading this book felt both deeply personal and practical for both writer and reader.
It provided an avenue of intimate reflection and related steps to put into practice.
Thank you Victoria for sharing with us. It makes a difference and is of inspiration.
5 stars given.
May 9, 2025
Knowing Victoria for some years, I can say this book is an authentic reflection of who she is: quietly strong, deeply thoughtful, and profoundly honest. Each lesson is lived, not theorized, woven with resilience, self-awareness, and grace. It’s a gentle, powerful guide for anyone who’s ever felt like an outsider, written by someone who has turned that experience into quiet strength.
January 21, 2025
Un libro lleno de historias de superación, sacrificios y situaciones que puedes llevar a diferentes aspectos de tu vida que te llenarán de motivación, y darán la fuerza para seguir adelante. Una mujer valiente que nunca se rindió, incluso cuando hubiese sido lo más fácil
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