So here’s where I try to “review” this collection of Brian Doyle essays. These essays are sharp, roomy, poignant, commonplace, apt, wild, grandfatherly, cool, funny, woolly, eye-opening, eye-closing, hysterical, familiar, tickling. Please indulge my attempt at a Brian Doyle–esque exercise.
I was genuinely moved by this collection. I had little tiny post-its to mark the essays and lines that I particularly liked…and then I realized that just about every other essay was marked. Hardly a useful exercise. I should just put a regular size Post-it on the front that says “really good stuff.” Anyways. Brian Doyle has a way of writing ideas that seemed so familiar and so fresh at the same time. I could hardly choose a favorite line, but here’s a really good passage:
"I believe with all my hoary heart that stories save lives, and the telling and hearing of them is a holy thing, powerful far beyond our ken, sacramental, crucial, nutritious; without the sea of stories in which we swim we would wither and die; we are here for each other, to touch and be touched, to lose our tempers and beg forgiveness, to listen and to tell, to hail and farewell, to laugh and to snarl, to use words as knives and caresses, to puncture lies and to heal what is broken." (p. 145)
Don’t you feel that? I read that and thought, I feel that way and I have my whole life, but I’ve never been able to put it into words quite like that. Brian Doyle’s language isn’t hard to read or understand, but it’s beautiful and hard to ignore. To put it in his own terminology, Brian Doyle’s writing understands “the power of powerlessness.” And that’s why his insights were so… I don’t know? I don’t want to say life-changing, but refreshing and thought-provoking might describe what I’m feeling.
And it just doesn’t hurt that he quotes my favorite, Mary Oliver. He loves her just as much as I do. And I have a feeling that this volume will sit next to hers on the bookshelf, and when I pull hers down to read a poem or two at night, his will come down after.
I recommend this book to everyone.