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Extraordinary Doctor: How Emotional Intelligence Drives a Physician’s Success
Discover the essential people skills you didn’t learn in medical school
As a physician, you’ve devoted years of your life to training. From classrooms and textbooks to residency and beyond, you’ve honed your clinical expertise and technical abilities. But these skill sets are only half of the equation to achieving excellence. What is the other half? Emotional intelligence.
In Extraordinary Doctor, top neurosurgeon Nimesh H. Patel explores the importance of emotional intelligence in physicians and how it is pivotal to succeeding in the field. Drawing on his decades of experience along with extensive conversations with colleagues and other professionals, Dr. Patel takes you beyond medical school and into the real world of medicine—where pleasant bedside manner can only get you so far, and dynamic human connections are critical in every situation.
By focusing on communication skills, self-awareness, and empathy, Dr. Patel brings an understanding to the fundamental skills every doctor needs to build relationships, earn trust, and connect positively with patients, families, coworkers, and administration. With his incisive insights, Dr. Patel will convince you why your people skills need to be as scalpel-sharp as your clinical ones. And when you apply his teachings, you’ll upskill from an MD to an extraordinary doctor.
As a physician, you’ve devoted years of your life to training. From classrooms and textbooks to residency and beyond, you’ve honed your clinical expertise and technical abilities. But these skill sets are only half of the equation to achieving excellence. What is the other half? Emotional intelligence.
In Extraordinary Doctor, top neurosurgeon Nimesh H. Patel explores the importance of emotional intelligence in physicians and how it is pivotal to succeeding in the field. Drawing on his decades of experience along with extensive conversations with colleagues and other professionals, Dr. Patel takes you beyond medical school and into the real world of medicine—where pleasant bedside manner can only get you so far, and dynamic human connections are critical in every situation.
By focusing on communication skills, self-awareness, and empathy, Dr. Patel brings an understanding to the fundamental skills every doctor needs to build relationships, earn trust, and connect positively with patients, families, coworkers, and administration. With his incisive insights, Dr. Patel will convince you why your people skills need to be as scalpel-sharp as your clinical ones. And when you apply his teachings, you’ll upskill from an MD to an extraordinary doctor.
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Published September 3, 2024
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November 11, 2024
Dr. Nimesh Patel provides easily understood and actionable points of advice on how to be successful and impactful as a physician (or person, patient, or parent for that matter.) The advice he gives centers around the key building blocks of emotional intelligence and feels as though a wise and measured physician is talking to his younger, eager yet naive self about things he wished he knew back then. Dr. Patel not only presents clear and useful advice, but he connects to the reader through vulnerable personal moments woven with stories from his life and his training in a way that solidifies these lessons with a mental/visual example. Through his successes, failures, misunderstandings, and keen observations, every kind of reader can learn how to be a better person and enjoy the reading journey at the same time. I highly recommend this book to all readers!
December 27, 2024
Dr. Nimesh Patel provides insightful and practical advice for navigating life as a (Doc), patient, or person. His reflections on emotional intelligence and lessons from his personal and professional journey resonate deeply, especially for those in high-stakes roles.
Through honest anecdotes of triumphs and challenges, Dr. Patel offers clear, actionable guidance while connecting with readers on a human level. This book is a must-read for anyone seeking wisdom and growth in the face of serious challenges like a lot of cases we take on when someone comes to us for aid.
Through honest anecdotes of triumphs and challenges, Dr. Patel offers clear, actionable guidance while connecting with readers on a human level. This book is a must-read for anyone seeking wisdom and growth in the face of serious challenges like a lot of cases we take on when someone comes to us for aid.
October 25, 2024
This is a must read
As far as emotional intelligence books go, this is one of the best ever written! I’m so glad I read this and I will be implementing into my life. These are things I was never taught but are so valuable.
As far as emotional intelligence books go, this is one of the best ever written! I’m so glad I read this and I will be implementing into my life. These are things I was never taught but are so valuable.
February 13, 2025
One of my 2025 goals was to read more nonfiction, and this was a great one to start with!
I liked the medicine approach communication tips, and the personal stories made it enjoyable! Listened to this one on Audible.
I liked the medicine approach communication tips, and the personal stories made it enjoyable! Listened to this one on Audible.
April 16, 2025
Very practical book with lots of real world knowledge as it pertains to emotional intelligence as a physician. At times it felt like a long list of stories and life lessons that aren’t connected. However, the stories were very approachable and relatable.
May 13, 2025
Very good, honest, & practical read for how to communicate, listen, and respond. It was also refreshing to read the words “it’s ok to struggle” and to hear how Dr. Patel had struggles with becoming a neurosurgeon. I will definitely treasure this book up as I pursue a position in medicine.
September 29, 2024
Excellent book identifying the ways to treat patients/people. How to have emotional intelligence
November 9, 2024
Great read! 10/10 recommend
Nimesh does a great job blending the sophistication of a physicians world, with humor and humility that everyone can enjoy
This book gives a peek behind the curtain to see the hardships medical professions face. Would definitely recommend giving this a read
Nimesh does a great job blending the sophistication of a physicians world, with humor and humility that everyone can enjoy
This book gives a peek behind the curtain to see the hardships medical professions face. Would definitely recommend giving this a read
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