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De Ideale Moslima [The Ideal Muslimah]
Door de ware bronnen van de islam; de Qor’an en de soenna te gebruiken, legt Dr. Muhammad Ali al-Hashimi ons uit wat het ideale gedrag is dat de moslimvrouw zich aan zou moeten meten in haar relatie met haar Heer, in haar persoonlijke ontwikkeling, in haar relaties met anderen, of deze nu familie zijn of niet, en in haar algemene sociale betrekkingen. Een ieder die de tijd neemt om deze teksten te onderzoeken, zal versteld staan van hun rijkdom en uitvoerigheid.
This is the Dutch translation of the book The Ideal Muslimah.
This is the Dutch translation of the book The Ideal Muslimah.
512 pages, Hardcover
First published January 1, 1981
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محمد علي الهاشمي
11 books102 followersالدكتور محمد علي الهاشمي
ولد في مدينة حلب بسورية سنة 1925م لأسرة متدينة عريقة، لها نسب مكتوب بآل البيت.
أنهى دراسته الثانوية في حلب، وتقدم إلى مسابقة أجريت لاختيار معلمين سنة 1952، وكان الأول فيها، وعيّن معلما في مدينة حلب حتى عام 1954، إذ تقدم إلى مسابقة أخرى، لاختيار عدد من حملة الشهادة الثانوية من جميع أنحاء سورية، وابتعاثهم لدراسة اللغة العربية والتربية، فكان الناجح الوحيد من المتقدمين إلى هده المسابقة في مدينة حلب.
انتقل بعد ذلك إلى دمشق، حيث أمضى دراسته الجامعية من عام 1954 حتى عام 1959، وحصل على الإجازة في الآداب وعلوم اللغة العربية من كلية الآداب بجامعة دمشق، وعلى الإجازة في التربية وأصول التدريس من كلية التربية بجامعة دمشق أيضاً عام 1960.
عيّن بعد تخرجه مدرساً في ثانويات حلب عام 1960، ولبث في التدريس فيها حتى عام 1974.
حصل على شهادة (الماجستير) من كلية الآداب بجامعة القاهرة عام 1965، ثم على شهادة الدكتوراه عام 1970 من الجامعة نفسها.
قدم إلى المملكة العربية السعودية سنة 1382 هـ، 1962م أول مرة، حيث درّس في كليتي الشريعة واللغة العربية ثلاث سنوات، عاد بعدها إلى سورية.
بعد حصوله على شهادة (الدكتوراه) قام بالتدريس في كلية الآداب بجامعة حلب مدة سنتين، سافر بعدهما إلى المملكة العربية السعودية مرة ثانية بطلب من جامعة الإمام محمد بن سعود الإسلامية، حيث تعاقدت معه على التدريس في كلية اللغة العربية، وكان ذلك عام 1394هـ، 1973م. وقد بقي فيها حتى عام 1408هـ ، 1988م.
انتقل في أول العام الجامعي 1408هـ، 1988م إلى التدريس في كلية الآداب للبنات، وبقي فيها حتى بلوغه السنّ القانونية في أول عام 1416هـ، 1996م. وانصرف بعدها إلى المطالعة والبحث والتأليف.
حضر عدة مؤتمرات علمية وأدبية في المملكة العربية السعودية والبلاد العربية والإسلامية
ولد في مدينة حلب بسورية سنة 1925م لأسرة متدينة عريقة، لها نسب مكتوب بآل البيت.
أنهى دراسته الثانوية في حلب، وتقدم إلى مسابقة أجريت لاختيار معلمين سنة 1952، وكان الأول فيها، وعيّن معلما في مدينة حلب حتى عام 1954، إذ تقدم إلى مسابقة أخرى، لاختيار عدد من حملة الشهادة الثانوية من جميع أنحاء سورية، وابتعاثهم لدراسة اللغة العربية والتربية، فكان الناجح الوحيد من المتقدمين إلى هده المسابقة في مدينة حلب.
انتقل بعد ذلك إلى دمشق، حيث أمضى دراسته الجامعية من عام 1954 حتى عام 1959، وحصل على الإجازة في الآداب وعلوم اللغة العربية من كلية الآداب بجامعة دمشق، وعلى الإجازة في التربية وأصول التدريس من كلية التربية بجامعة دمشق أيضاً عام 1960.
عيّن بعد تخرجه مدرساً في ثانويات حلب عام 1960، ولبث في التدريس فيها حتى عام 1974.
حصل على شهادة (الماجستير) من كلية الآداب بجامعة القاهرة عام 1965، ثم على شهادة الدكتوراه عام 1970 من الجامعة نفسها.
قدم إلى المملكة العربية السعودية سنة 1382 هـ، 1962م أول مرة، حيث درّس في كليتي الشريعة واللغة العربية ثلاث سنوات، عاد بعدها إلى سورية.
بعد حصوله على شهادة (الدكتوراه) قام بالتدريس في كلية الآداب بجامعة حلب مدة سنتين، سافر بعدهما إلى المملكة العربية السعودية مرة ثانية بطلب من جامعة الإمام محمد بن سعود الإسلامية، حيث تعاقدت معه على التدريس في كلية اللغة العربية، وكان ذلك عام 1394هـ، 1973م. وقد بقي فيها حتى عام 1408هـ ، 1988م.
انتقل في أول العام الجامعي 1408هـ، 1988م إلى التدريس في كلية الآداب للبنات، وبقي فيها حتى بلوغه السنّ القانونية في أول عام 1416هـ، 1996م. وانصرف بعدها إلى المطالعة والبحث والتأليف.
حضر عدة مؤتمرات علمية وأدبية في المملكة العربية السعودية والبلاد العربية والإسلامية
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April 4, 2012
This was one of the first books I read after reverting to Islam in 2003 and I still love it today. It's a beautiful and inspirational guide for any Muslim woman...
September 28, 2021
🍂جلست صديقتي القرطاجية قريبا مني في الحديقة تحت شجرة القارص 🍋وسألتني:
⚘هل حقا أعطيت 4 نجوم لكتاب ديني يتحدث عن شخصية المرأة المسلمة ؟
🌸نعم أعطيته 4 نجوم والخامسة تنتظر بعض وقت فقط
لما أنت مستغربة أميرتي الغالية ؟
⚘أظن أنه من بديهي أن أتساءل صديقتي و رفيقتي .فكلانا يعرف وجهة نظرك في هذه نوعية من الكتب.ألست ترين أنها تكرس فكر من نوع خاص ولقد خُضت اناوأنت عدة نقاشات حولها
🍂أمسكت بيد صديقتي القرطاجية و نظرت لها بحنو و صدق و قلت :
🌸 نحن، منذ متى معا؟
⚘ ما معنى هذا سؤال الان، من سنين: منذ أن كنت عاشقة غبية لذلك الكاتب الذي لا أحبه
🌸 إذن أنت تدركين جيدا أنني عنيدة وأدفاع عن موقفي لكن لا يمنع ذلك أن نقول لمن أحسن أحسنت و نرفع له القبعة .
أليس هذا من خُلق الأميرات أو بصفة أدق هذا خلق المرأة التي تسعى أن يكون لها حسن الخلق وتقتدي بهدي النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم
🍂انتفضت صديقتي من مكانها و قالت هل بعقلك لوثةٌ ؟ هل نسيت من أنت ؟ هل بك مسٌّ ؟ هل انضممتِ للصف آخر و تخليت عن أفكارك
🍂تبسمت و قلت لها :
🌸اهدئي مازلت كما أنا أرفض الاستغلال والمعاملة السيئة وأتبَنى أفكارك ومواقفك
🌱 لكن تعلمت أن أفتخر بديني وأحبه وأهم من ذلك
لقد قرأت واكتشفت وفهمت أن لنا اعتقادات خاطئة ،تم غرسها في عقولنا وشوهوا بها فطرتنا و الدين لاسلامي برئ منها.
لقد الآن الاوان أميرتي الغالية أن تتقبلي وجهة نظري .
لقد تم إغماض عينيك عنها عدة سنين
🌸 هل تتذكرينا نقاشاتنا ؟
حان وقت للاصطلاح مع هويتنا الإسلامية والقراءة عنها بجدية أكثر.أعتقد أن كلاتنا تعرف جيدا جدا ماذا فعل فينا تبني والتأثر بالثقافة الأوروبية.
🍂 بدأت أرى بعض الهدوء عليها لكن نظرة الشك مازلت
🌸 لا تخافي اطمئني قلنا نقرأ وأنا متأكدة أن كلاتنا ستختار الإختيار الأسلم و الأصدق و المناسب لكلينا.يإذن الله وتوفيقه
فنحن .......
ولأننا نعلم ماذا جنَيْنا نتيجة معتقداتنا السابقة المشوهة و تلك الفترة من حياتنا .أشاحت بوجهها عني وسرحت بعيدا.أعلم أنها حزرتْ أي مرحلة وحين زمت شفتيها.أيقنت بذلك رغم مرور سنين وثقتي أنها تجاوزت الأمر لكن الذكري تغير ملامحها ولم تلتفت لي مرة أخرى إلا لما ذكرتها برحلة البحث عن فكر خاص بنا
🍂أغلقت مفكرتي.انتهيت من الكتاب وأنا أبتسم .
الاميرة والصديقة ستبقى كل منهما في صفحات مفكرتي.
🎈لكن هذا الكتاب سيبقى معي ويعتبر أفضل ما كُتب عن حياة المرأة في مختلف جوانبها .وأنصح به بشدة لانه عالج حياتنا بجمال الاسلوب دون الغاء لشخصيتها وذوبانها في الرجل و دون الاستعلاء .بل بحكمة مستندا إلى الاحاديث النبوية وسيرة الصحابيات. .
انا ممتنة جدا لهذا الترشيح جزاءك الله كل خير أين ما كنت
🍃أجاب على بعض الأسئلة و جعل الاميرة و الصديقة يتفقان
وتحاولان إيجاد فكر خاص بهما يراعي انتمائهم الديني و الجغرافي🍃
🍂النجمة الخامسة في إنتظار قراءة زميلتي في عمل و الانطباعها هذه أول مرة أجعلها تخوض غمار هذه نوعية من الكتب
يارب تكون فاتحة خير لها
🍂الليدي غفران اظن أنك ستغير رأيك الآن.
⚠️⚠️ بعد سنة
لقد اضفتها لانها قراته وأحبته 😍
10/رمضان/ 1440
15/mai/19🌸
⚘هل حقا أعطيت 4 نجوم لكتاب ديني يتحدث عن شخصية المرأة المسلمة ؟
🌸نعم أعطيته 4 نجوم والخامسة تنتظر بعض وقت فقط
لما أنت مستغربة أميرتي الغالية ؟
⚘أظن أنه من بديهي أن أتساءل صديقتي و رفيقتي .فكلانا يعرف وجهة نظرك في هذه نوعية من الكتب.ألست ترين أنها تكرس فكر من نوع خاص ولقد خُضت اناوأنت عدة نقاشات حولها
🍂أمسكت بيد صديقتي القرطاجية و نظرت لها بحنو و صدق و قلت :
🌸 نحن، منذ متى معا؟
⚘ ما معنى هذا سؤال الان، من سنين: منذ أن كنت عاشقة غبية لذلك الكاتب الذي لا أحبه
🌸 إذن أنت تدركين جيدا أنني عنيدة وأدفاع عن موقفي لكن لا يمنع ذلك أن نقول لمن أحسن أحسنت و نرفع له القبعة .
أليس هذا من خُلق الأميرات أو بصفة أدق هذا خلق المرأة التي تسعى أن يكون لها حسن الخلق وتقتدي بهدي النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم
🍂انتفضت صديقتي من مكانها و قالت هل بعقلك لوثةٌ ؟ هل نسيت من أنت ؟ هل بك مسٌّ ؟ هل انضممتِ للصف آخر و تخليت عن أفكارك
🍂تبسمت و قلت لها :
🌸اهدئي مازلت كما أنا أرفض الاستغلال والمعاملة السيئة وأتبَنى أفكارك ومواقفك
🌱 لكن تعلمت أن أفتخر بديني وأحبه وأهم من ذلك
لقد قرأت واكتشفت وفهمت أن لنا اعتقادات خاطئة ،تم غرسها في عقولنا وشوهوا بها فطرتنا و الدين لاسلامي برئ منها.
لقد الآن الاوان أميرتي الغالية أن تتقبلي وجهة نظري .
لقد تم إغماض عينيك عنها عدة سنين
🌸 هل تتذكرينا نقاشاتنا ؟
حان وقت للاصطلاح مع هويتنا الإسلامية والقراءة عنها بجدية أكثر.أعتقد أن كلاتنا تعرف جيدا جدا ماذا فعل فينا تبني والتأثر بالثقافة الأوروبية.
🍂 بدأت أرى بعض الهدوء عليها لكن نظرة الشك مازلت
🌸 لا تخافي اطمئني قلنا نقرأ وأنا متأكدة أن كلاتنا ستختار الإختيار الأسلم و الأصدق و المناسب لكلينا.يإذن الله وتوفيقه
فنحن .......
ولأننا نعلم ماذا جنَيْنا نتيجة معتقداتنا السابقة المشوهة و تلك الفترة من حياتنا .أشاحت بوجهها عني وسرحت بعيدا.أعلم أنها حزرتْ أي مرحلة وحين زمت شفتيها.أيقنت بذلك رغم مرور سنين وثقتي أنها تجاوزت الأمر لكن الذكري تغير ملامحها ولم تلتفت لي مرة أخرى إلا لما ذكرتها برحلة البحث عن فكر خاص بنا
🍂أغلقت مفكرتي.انتهيت من الكتاب وأنا أبتسم .
الاميرة والصديقة ستبقى كل منهما في صفحات مفكرتي.
🎈لكن هذا الكتاب سيبقى معي ويعتبر أفضل ما كُتب عن حياة المرأة في مختلف جوانبها .وأنصح به بشدة لانه عالج حياتنا بجمال الاسلوب دون الغاء لشخصيتها وذوبانها في الرجل و دون الاستعلاء .بل بحكمة مستندا إلى الاحاديث النبوية وسيرة الصحابيات. .
انا ممتنة جدا لهذا الترشيح جزاءك الله كل خير أين ما كنت
🍃أجاب على بعض الأسئلة و جعل الاميرة و الصديقة يتفقان
وتحاولان إيجاد فكر خاص بهما يراعي انتمائهم الديني و الجغرافي🍃
🍂النجمة الخامسة في إنتظار قراءة زميلتي في عمل و الانطباعها هذه أول مرة أجعلها تخوض غمار هذه نوعية من الكتب
يارب تكون فاتحة خير لها
🍂الليدي غفران اظن أنك ستغير رأيك الآن.
⚠️⚠️ بعد سنة
لقد اضفتها لانها قراته وأحبته 😍
10/رمضان/ 1440
15/mai/19🌸
October 21, 2018
When I first saw this book on my friend's bookshelf, I immediately know that I want to own all the series (The Ideal Muslim, The Ideal Muslimah, and The Ideal Muslim Society). Unfortunately, it is nowhere to be found in Indonesia and even not in Book Depository and the only way to get it online I have to pay a very expensive shipping cost. So I use the jasa titip aka personal shopper service in an app I've developed with my previous office, Prelo (who knew I would very grateful to develop it!) and I asked an Indonesian traveler who will do his Umra that time to Saudi Arabia and the two books (The Ideal Muslim and Muslimah) arrived safely, with cheaper price. I haven't bought The Ideal Muslim Society one because it would be very expensive haha.
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After reading both of them (so my review will cover both sides), here are the reviews:
Comprehensive
Both books cover how Muslim should behave according to Islam, divided into ten chapters: to our Lord, our selves, our parents, our spouses, our children, our children-in-law, our relatives, our neighbours, our friends and brothers/sisters in Islam, and our community or society. The “to our children-in-law” part is on the newer and revised editions, so maybe you won’t find it in every copy. Every chapters divided to smaller sections, such as “The believing woman is alert”, “She (Muslim woman) regularly prays five times a day”, in the chapter “The Muslim Woman and Her Lord”.
There are parts that every Muslim should have known, such as worship Allah, regularly prays five times a day, pays zakah, fasts in Ramadan (and another nafl fasts), Hajj, and so on. There are also parts that I was surprised to find, such as how Muslims should mind their mind, body, and soul, because in my social media feed, all those Muslim accounts mostly discuss about soul (power of ikhlas, etc), marriage (the most popular topic), etc. They rarely talk about mind and body. This book emphasise the importance of taking care of your body, cleanliness, and good appearance (within the Islamic rule). The book also talks about how we should never stop studying, both the deen or the “secular” knowledge that will benefit society.
Full of stories
One thing I never expect from the books are the stories. Other than Quran verses and popular hadiths, there are also many stories that support the topic discussed that actually interesting and surprising in a way. One of the stories I want people to read is this one, that is in the section “She (Muslim woman) may attend the jama’ah prayer in the mosque”.
Wa’il al-Kindi reported that a woman was assaulted by a man in the darkness of the early morning, whilst she was on her way to the mosque. She shouted to a passer-by for help, then a large group of people came by, and she called to them for help. They seized the man to whom she had first called for help, and her attacker ran away. They brought the (innocent) man to her, and he said, “I am the one who answered you call for help; the other man got away.”
They brought him to the Messenger of Allah and told him that this man had assaulted the woman, and they had seized him whilst he was running away.
The man said, “I was the one who answered her call for help against her attacker, but these people seized me and brought me here.”
The woman said, “He is lying; he is the one who attacked me.”
The Messenger of Allah said: “Take him away and stone him.”
Then a man stood up and said, “Do not stone him, stone me, for I am the one who did it.”
Now the Messenger of Allah had three people before him: the one who had assaulted the woman, the one who had answered her cries for help and the woman herself. He told the attacker, “As for you, Allah has forgiven you,” and he spoke kind words to the one who had helped the woman.
‘Umar said, “Stone the one who has admitted to the crime of adultery.”
The Messenger of Allah said: “No, for he has repented to Allah” —I think he said, “with an act of repentance so great that if the people of Madinah were to repent in this way, it would be accepted from them.”
Seems relevant to current issues, right? Where women are heard and not questioned “why are you in the darkness? what clothes are you wearing? etc etc”. There are many more interesting stories here for many different topics, but you should read it yourself.
Also, what’s with the writing of hadith that requires everything to be in one paragraph?? It’s confusing.
Difference between Muslim and Muslimah
While I agree that men and women have different physical condition, needs, obligations, and rights, I can’t help but notice the difference between the two books in the the chapter about spouses. I read The Ideal Muslim in English Edition 4 (2005) and The Ideal Muslimah in English Edition 6 (2005). While the other chapters relatively balanced, this one chapter is unfortunately not.
I really like the part of “She (Muslim woman) chooses a good husband”, which emphasises the right of woman to choose a man for whom her heart may be filled with love and respect, and who is pleasing to her both in his appearance and in his conduct (I am tired of those posts that implies chemistry aren’t important in choosing future spouse, because what’s important is religion and character, as if holistic view is not important). However, noticing “The Muslim Man and His Wife” has 9 sections spread in 23 pages, while “The Muslim Woman and Her Husband” is in 59 pages divided into 19 sections such as “She (Muslim woman) fills her husband’s heart with joy”, “She shares his joys and sorrow” (and there is no male counterpart) made me upset a bit. It is as if wife has sooo many responsibilities in making her husband happy, while the husband only has to “understand his wife and respect her feelings”, as if they don’t have to share her joys and sorrows. I really hope it is revised in later editions because it seems so unbalanced.
Western obsession
The book made many references to “corrupted western values” that corrupts many Muslims nowadays. Some of them are right, but the author referenced it so many times it almost funny and made me laugh and think “Is he obsessed with Western people?”. I mean, not every so-called Western values are bad, right? I admire their independence, hard-working, and appreciation of individuality. The author wrote it in a way that if you are an alien from another planet, you’ll think Western values are complete evil. However, if someone from the Western world made a praise about Islam, he will referenced it immediately. That’s why I said it’s almost funny.
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That being said, with its plus and minus, the books are something Muslims should read. I suggest people to read both because I think the author put too much attention to The Ideal Muslimah. I really hope there is another edition that is written by female scholars to make it balanced.
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After reading both of them (so my review will cover both sides), here are the reviews:
Comprehensive
Both books cover how Muslim should behave according to Islam, divided into ten chapters: to our Lord, our selves, our parents, our spouses, our children, our children-in-law, our relatives, our neighbours, our friends and brothers/sisters in Islam, and our community or society. The “to our children-in-law” part is on the newer and revised editions, so maybe you won’t find it in every copy. Every chapters divided to smaller sections, such as “The believing woman is alert”, “She (Muslim woman) regularly prays five times a day”, in the chapter “The Muslim Woman and Her Lord”.
There are parts that every Muslim should have known, such as worship Allah, regularly prays five times a day, pays zakah, fasts in Ramadan (and another nafl fasts), Hajj, and so on. There are also parts that I was surprised to find, such as how Muslims should mind their mind, body, and soul, because in my social media feed, all those Muslim accounts mostly discuss about soul (power of ikhlas, etc), marriage (the most popular topic), etc. They rarely talk about mind and body. This book emphasise the importance of taking care of your body, cleanliness, and good appearance (within the Islamic rule). The book also talks about how we should never stop studying, both the deen or the “secular” knowledge that will benefit society.
Full of stories
One thing I never expect from the books are the stories. Other than Quran verses and popular hadiths, there are also many stories that support the topic discussed that actually interesting and surprising in a way. One of the stories I want people to read is this one, that is in the section “She (Muslim woman) may attend the jama’ah prayer in the mosque”.
Wa’il al-Kindi reported that a woman was assaulted by a man in the darkness of the early morning, whilst she was on her way to the mosque. She shouted to a passer-by for help, then a large group of people came by, and she called to them for help. They seized the man to whom she had first called for help, and her attacker ran away. They brought the (innocent) man to her, and he said, “I am the one who answered you call for help; the other man got away.”
They brought him to the Messenger of Allah and told him that this man had assaulted the woman, and they had seized him whilst he was running away.
The man said, “I was the one who answered her call for help against her attacker, but these people seized me and brought me here.”
The woman said, “He is lying; he is the one who attacked me.”
The Messenger of Allah said: “Take him away and stone him.”
Then a man stood up and said, “Do not stone him, stone me, for I am the one who did it.”
Now the Messenger of Allah had three people before him: the one who had assaulted the woman, the one who had answered her cries for help and the woman herself. He told the attacker, “As for you, Allah has forgiven you,” and he spoke kind words to the one who had helped the woman.
‘Umar said, “Stone the one who has admitted to the crime of adultery.”
The Messenger of Allah said: “No, for he has repented to Allah” —I think he said, “with an act of repentance so great that if the people of Madinah were to repent in this way, it would be accepted from them.”
Seems relevant to current issues, right? Where women are heard and not questioned “why are you in the darkness? what clothes are you wearing? etc etc”. There are many more interesting stories here for many different topics, but you should read it yourself.
Also, what’s with the writing of hadith that requires everything to be in one paragraph?? It’s confusing.
Difference between Muslim and Muslimah
While I agree that men and women have different physical condition, needs, obligations, and rights, I can’t help but notice the difference between the two books in the the chapter about spouses. I read The Ideal Muslim in English Edition 4 (2005) and The Ideal Muslimah in English Edition 6 (2005). While the other chapters relatively balanced, this one chapter is unfortunately not.
I really like the part of “She (Muslim woman) chooses a good husband”, which emphasises the right of woman to choose a man for whom her heart may be filled with love and respect, and who is pleasing to her both in his appearance and in his conduct (I am tired of those posts that implies chemistry aren’t important in choosing future spouse, because what’s important is religion and character, as if holistic view is not important). However, noticing “The Muslim Man and His Wife” has 9 sections spread in 23 pages, while “The Muslim Woman and Her Husband” is in 59 pages divided into 19 sections such as “She (Muslim woman) fills her husband’s heart with joy”, “She shares his joys and sorrow” (and there is no male counterpart) made me upset a bit. It is as if wife has sooo many responsibilities in making her husband happy, while the husband only has to “understand his wife and respect her feelings”, as if they don’t have to share her joys and sorrows. I really hope it is revised in later editions because it seems so unbalanced.
Western obsession
The book made many references to “corrupted western values” that corrupts many Muslims nowadays. Some of them are right, but the author referenced it so many times it almost funny and made me laugh and think “Is he obsessed with Western people?”. I mean, not every so-called Western values are bad, right? I admire their independence, hard-working, and appreciation of individuality. The author wrote it in a way that if you are an alien from another planet, you’ll think Western values are complete evil. However, if someone from the Western world made a praise about Islam, he will referenced it immediately. That’s why I said it’s almost funny.
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That being said, with its plus and minus, the books are something Muslims should read. I suggest people to read both because I think the author put too much attention to The Ideal Muslimah. I really hope there is another edition that is written by female scholars to make it balanced.
July 9, 2024
a literal must read for every muslimah, specifically the teenage muslimahs 🤍
"The Muslim woman is convinced that whatever befalls her in life could not have been avoided, and whatever does not befall her could not have been made to happen."
"My servant continues to draw near to Me with supererogatory works so that I will love him. When I love him, I am his hearing with which he hears, his seeing with which he sees, his hand with which he strikes, and his foot with which he walks. Were he to ask [something] of Me, I would surely give it to him; and were he to ask Me for refuge, I would surely grant him it."
"The Muslim woman is convinced that whatever befalls her in life could not have been avoided, and whatever does not befall her could not have been made to happen."
"My servant continues to draw near to Me with supererogatory works so that I will love him. When I love him, I am his hearing with which he hears, his seeing with which he sees, his hand with which he strikes, and his foot with which he walks. Were he to ask [something] of Me, I would surely give it to him; and were he to ask Me for refuge, I would surely grant him it."
July 30, 2017
بحث في شؤون المرأة الخاصة والعامة، يجمع النصوص الواردة في القرآن الكريم وسنة المصطفى عليه الصلاة والسلام، ويقدمها كنصائح محاولة لتوضيح شخصية المرأة كما شكلها الإسلام، مصنّفة كالتالي :
* المرأة المسلمة :
- مع ربها
- مع نفسها
- مع والديها
- مع زوجها
- مع أولادها
- مع كنائنها وأصهارها
- مع أقربائها وذوي رحمها
- مع جيرانها
- مع أخواتها وصديقاتها
- مع مجتمعها
* المرأة المسلمة :
- مع ربها
- مع نفسها
- مع والديها
- مع زوجها
- مع أولادها
- مع كنائنها وأصهارها
- مع أقربائها وذوي رحمها
- مع جيرانها
- مع أخواتها وصديقاتها
- مع مجتمعها
February 20, 2014
I would say this book is definitely a keeper. It's translated to be an easy read for Muslimahs striving to better themselves. It covers all aspects of a woman's life, beginning with her relationship with the Lord, and moving on the family, neighbors, and society at large. The author uses beautiful verses from the Quran and hadiths to support a point.
At times, I found the explanations to be repetitive, especially when it was common sense. Perhaps the repetitiveness was to reiterate how easy it is to be a good Muslimah and to put greater emphasis on what is an 'Ideal Muslimah.'
Overall, there were more positives than negatives; I learned much and have much to practice on.
At times, I found the explanations to be repetitive, especially when it was common sense. Perhaps the repetitiveness was to reiterate how easy it is to be a good Muslimah and to put greater emphasis on what is an 'Ideal Muslimah.'
Overall, there were more positives than negatives; I learned much and have much to practice on.
May 22, 2022
A book written by a man telling women how to be good women. It is depressingly painful to read.
November 5, 2021
Questions were raised while reading the book, things like women’s main role to take care of the family, her deep faith and how it withstand being tested, her role in society especially confronted with modern (Westernised?) interpretation of the role. Message is read differently nowadays, cultural might play a role. The intertwining influences between what was taught at school, how one was raised, society, culture, evolution - all determines how one integrate the message, and to decide on whether to accept or challenge it. The book really got me thinking hard.
October 8, 2018
كتاب مهم يلزمه تسجيل وعمل.
January 25, 2021
انفعنا يارب بما علمتنا .. واجعله حجة لنا لا علينا ..
تم
٢٤ يناير ٢٠٢١
تم
٢٤ يناير ٢٠٢١
February 11, 2024
كتاب سأحرص على إهدائه لابنتي في المستقبل في مرحلة نضوجها الوعيي. ❤️
June 28, 2024
I just finished this book and it made me fall in love deeper with my religion subhanAllah , I would honestly recommend it to very women : Muslim , non Muslim , young , old , married , unmarried ect… how can you tell me that us , Muslim women , are oppressed when in reality we have the most freedom subhanAllah, it is also a very educative book if you wanna learn about the great Muslim women who existed , how they acted , you should read that book it will open your eyes and it’s telling you what you should aimed to be just like our mothers Aisha عضي الله عنها or Zaynab عضي الله عنها and many more that it would take me more than a day to write about.
September 7, 2020
كتاب يستحق القراءة ومن الكتب المهمة في حياة كل امرأة، ففي هذا الكتاب يبين الكاتب مواضيع متعددة تتعلق بالمرأة من كيفية تكوين الإسلام لشخصية المرأة المسلمة؟ وكيف تعامل المرأة الأجانب؟ وكيف تعامل ربها و زوجها و والديها وجيرانها وأولادها؟ ... فالمرأة المسلمة ليست مجرد قعيدة بيت ومدبرة منزل وإنما هي مربية أجيال، وصانعة أبطال، ورائدة دعوة.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
March 25, 2020
وأخيرا.. انتهيت منه،
كتاب جيد يبرز الصفات البارزة التي جاء بها الإسلام، ووجه الكاتب الحديث فيه للنساء كشقائق الرجال، فهن مكلفات تسري عليهن الواجبات كما الحقوق..
سردها في عشرة أبواب مرتبة بحسب الأولوية وهي:
-علاقتها بربها
-علاقتها بنفسها (روحا وعقلا وجسما)
-علاقتها بوالديها
-علاقتها بزوجها
-علاقتها بأولادها
-علاقتها بكنائنها وأصهارها
-علاقتها بأقربائها وذوي رحمها
-علاقتها بجيرانها
-علاقتها بأخواتها وصديقاتها
-علاقتها بالمجتمع (و يضم ثلث الكتاب تقريبا)
يعيبه كثرة التكرار والإكثار من المقدمات في أغلب الفقرات فشعرت بالملل قليلا،
ايضا أرى أنه جانبه الصواب في الاستدلال في موضع واحد وهو جعل علة تحريم لبس البنطال الضيق إنه تشبه بالرجال، والصحيح أن علة تحريمه هو إبراز مفاتن الجسد لذا فلا يحرم لبسه عند عدم الاشتباه بوجود غير المحارم، وهو يعد الآن من سبل الزينة ولو كان تشبها بالرجال لحرم لبسه في أي مكان وفي كل وقت ولو كانت وحدها.
كتاب جيد يبرز الصفات البارزة التي جاء بها الإسلام، ووجه الكاتب الحديث فيه للنساء كشقائق الرجال، فهن مكلفات تسري عليهن الواجبات كما الحقوق..
سردها في عشرة أبواب مرتبة بحسب الأولوية وهي:
-علاقتها بربها
-علاقتها بنفسها (روحا وعقلا وجسما)
-علاقتها بوالديها
-علاقتها بزوجها
-علاقتها بأولادها
-علاقتها بكنائنها وأصهارها
-علاقتها بأقربائها وذوي رحمها
-علاقتها بجيرانها
-علاقتها بأخواتها وصديقاتها
-علاقتها بالمجتمع (و يضم ثلث الكتاب تقريبا)
يعيبه كثرة التكرار والإكثار من المقدمات في أغلب الفقرات فشعرت بالملل قليلا،
ايضا أرى أنه جانبه الصواب في الاستدلال في موضع واحد وهو جعل علة تحريم لبس البنطال الضيق إنه تشبه بالرجال، والصحيح أن علة تحريمه هو إبراز مفاتن الجسد لذا فلا يحرم لبسه عند عدم الاشتباه بوجود غير المحارم، وهو يعد الآن من سبل الزينة ولو كان تشبها بالرجال لحرم لبسه في أي مكان وفي كل وقت ولو كانت وحدها.
June 19, 2021
عظيم!
الكتاب عظيم ومهم جدًّا، وبقترح نطبع منه نسخ كثيرة ونوزعها على كل البنات والأمهات لأهمية الكتاب فعلا..
لوهلة تشعر أن ما في الكتاب معروف وليس جديدًا لكنّه غائب عن عقول كثير من الفتيات في وقتنا الحالي، وأظن أنهم في أشد الحاجة لما فيه أكثر من أي وقت مضى حقيقة يعني.
هامش*
استمتعت كثيرًا وأنا أقرأ")
الكتاب عظيم ومهم جدًّا، وبقترح نطبع منه نسخ كثيرة ونوزعها على كل البنات والأمهات لأهمية الكتاب فعلا..
لوهلة تشعر أن ما في الكتاب معروف وليس جديدًا لكنّه غائب عن عقول كثير من الفتيات في وقتنا الحالي، وأظن أنهم في أشد الحاجة لما فيه أكثر من أي وقت مضى حقيقة يعني.
هامش*
استمتعت كثيرًا وأنا أقرأ")
October 19, 2008
الكتاب جيد، لكني أعيب عليه التكرار الملحوظ، وعدم التوازن بين الفقرات
سواء في الشرح أو طرح الأمثلة
لا أتوقع أن كتاب
شخصية المسلم
لنفس الكاتب سيكون مختلفا كثيرا، فأغلب ماكتب هنا مشترك بين الجنسين
سواء في الشرح أو طرح الأمثلة
لا أتوقع أن كتاب
شخصية المسلم
لنفس الكاتب سيكون مختلفا كثيرا، فأغلب ماكتب هنا مشترك بين الجنسين
July 24, 2015
Jika ditanya buku apa terbaik pernah aku baca tentang wanita Muslim, memang buku ini jawapannya - The Ideal Muslimah, tulisan Dr Muhammad Ali al-Hashimi. Dari prakata hingga ke helaian akhir, buku ini amat memuaskan. Boleh aku katakan, buku ini patut dijadikan teman pendamping sehingga bila isinya telah kau hadam lunyai dan tersebati menjadi amalan dan diri kau. Buku-buku yang bagus selalunya akan buat kau terduduk, terhenyak, lalu remuk, hancur. Tapi di saat itu juga membina kembali jalan-jalan untuk kau lalui. Ia berat kerana perasaan yang kau tanggung ketika membacanya, bukan kerana patah katanya yang sukar difahami. RM70 yang aku hulur, yang membuat tangan terasa berat ketika membayar buku ini, dan keputusan melepaskan 3 buku lain kerana buku ini, sekarang terbalas. Bahkan jauh lebih berharga dari sekadar RM70.
July 16, 2019
شاملٌ بيّن، ممّا يجعلني أصنّفنه ضمن فئة ما لا بُدّ من قراءته!
شخصيّة المرأة المسلمة؛ أخلاقها، أولويّاتها وقدواتها.. في كلّ مرحلة من حياتها لها قدوة من السّلف الصالح وفي كلّ موقف تواجهه تجد في شرعة الله نهجًا ترجع إليه. وفي خُلق رسول الله صلوات ربّي وسلامه عليه أحسن تأسي وأفضل اقتداء.
والحمد لله الّذي أنعم علينا بالإسلام.
جزى الله الأستاذ الهاشمي عنّا خير الجزاء.
شخصيّة المرأة المسلمة؛ أخلاقها، أولويّاتها وقدواتها.. في كلّ مرحلة من حياتها لها قدوة من السّلف الصالح وفي كلّ موقف تواجهه تجد في شرعة الله نهجًا ترجع إليه. وفي خُلق رسول الله صلوات ربّي وسلامه عليه أحسن تأسي وأفضل اقتداء.
والحمد لله الّذي أنعم علينا بالإسلام.
جزى الله الأستاذ الهاشمي عنّا خير الجزاء.
April 27, 2023
A refreshing and (in my opinion) necessary read for all muslim women. It serves as a stern- yet non-judgemental- reminder of how we should live our lives.
It's a guide to be the most excellent forms of ourselves that we're able to do. Filled with reminders about our purpose on earth and how we should put Allah first in everything that we do. I love it.
It's a guide to be the most excellent forms of ourselves that we're able to do. Filled with reminders about our purpose on earth and how we should put Allah first in everything that we do. I love it.
May 5, 2015
The kind of book I see myself gifting my future daughter on her 13th birthday. Insha'Allah.
November 3, 2018
من أروع الكتب التي قرأتها بخصوص المرأة
ويجب أن يكون دستورا للمرأة بعد كتاب ربها وسنة نبيها
ويجب على جميع النساء قراءته والاستفادة مما فيه
جزى الله كاتبه خير جزاء
ويجب أن يكون دستورا للمرأة بعد كتاب ربها وسنة نبيها
ويجب على جميع النساء قراءته والاستفادة مما فيه
جزى الله كاتبه خير جزاء
October 19, 2024
I love the citations and references.
September 10, 2024
For the first time in history, women were to be the ones issuing instructions, whereas everywhere else except in Islam they had been the ones to receive instructions.
Islam gave women a high social standing when it gave her this great social responsibility of enjoining what is good and forbidding what is evil.
A comprehensive, phenomenal book!
The author has similar books on IDEAL MUSLIM, & IDEAL SOCIETY.
In this one, he sliced through each aspect of life, and dived deep into references from Prophet&Companions , presenting them eloquently, for uplifting the women of today from crippling pettiness, towards the exalted standards of Allah-azz wa jal.
“A woman does not keep quiet about any deviance, weakness or negligence in her family or home, unless she is lacking in religion, her character is weak, and her understanding is incomplete.”
The book is divided into 10 chapters, each dealing with some aspect of women’s life.
1: Woman And Her Lord.
-how and why accept will of Allah, repent, sense of responsibility, main concern is pleasure of Allah, understanding the meaning of being servant of only Allah, working for glorification of His name, loyalty only to him, obedience only to him…
2: Woman And Her Own Self
-Body : food, exercise, clothing, hygiene, appearance, preventing extremes
-Mind : pursuing knowledge, what she needs to know, women achievements in knowledge.
-Soul : purification of soul/heart, what is righteous company, duaa
3: Woman And Her Parents
4: Woman And Her Husband
5: Woman And Her Children
6: Woman And Her In Laws
7: Woman And Her Relatives
8: Woman And Her Neighbours
9: Woman And Her Friends, Sisters
10: Woman And Her Community/Society
Each chapter is heavily referenced, and expands upto 300 ahadith references, all unique, least repetitive.
Author also charts a contrast between a Muslim women’s exalted standards and limping standards of Western society due to their necrotic philosophies.
**“I wish that our country was like the lands of the Muslims, where modesty, chastity and purity are like a garment. Servants and slaves there live the best life, where they are treated like the children of the house and no-one harms their honour. Yes, it is a source of shame for England that we make our daughters examples of promiscuity by mixing so much with men. Why do we not try to pursue that which makes a girl do work that agrees with her natural temperament, by staying at home, and leaving men's work for the men, to keep her honour safe.”
-Anna Ward**
There was much new content for me, reminders, new examples and practical steps from lives of Companions, in chapters of Husband, Neighbours, Society, Relatives.
Specially the manners and etiquettes to live and improve the society!
“The one who spreads news of scandal throughout the community is like the one who actually commits the scandalous deed. Both are equal, there is no difference”.
Jabir (RAA) said: "I came to the Prophet (PBUH) and knocked at the door. He said, `Who is this?' I answered, `Me,' and he said, `Me? Me?' as if he disliked this answer."
A book to keep in home library, physical copy.
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Some excerpts:
“French scholar Gustave le Bon, in the late nineteenth century and early twentieth century, stated in his book "The Psychology of Peoples" that woman had never been equal to man except in periods of decline; this comment came in his refutation of demands that women should be made equal with men by giving them the same right to vote.”
“Prophet (PBUH) cursed men who act effeminate and women who act like men, and said, `Expel them from your houses.' The Prophet (PBUH) expelled So-and-so [a man], and Abu Bakr expelled So-and-so [a woman]”
She rejects, with fierce pride, that false "progress" that calls for women to come out uncovered, adorned with make up, to work alongside men in offices. With this wise, balanced, honourable attitude, she is in fact doing a great service to her society and nation, by calling for an end to this ridiculous competition of women with men.
When a girl reaches a certain age - usually seventeen years old - neither her father, her brother nor any of her male relatives are obliged to support her. She has to look for work to support herself, and to save whatever she can to offer to her future husband. If she gets married, she has to help her husband with the expenses of the home and children.
The alert Muslim woman, no matter where she lives, examines every custom that is followed in her society and measures it against the rulings, values and principles of Islam. Whatever is compatible with Islam, she accepts, but whatever contradicts Islam, she rejects outright, whether it is a custom relating to betrothal and marriage, or in family or social life. What matters is whether the custom is compatible with Islam, not how widely it is spread among people.
“I never saw two women more generous than `A'ishah and Asma', but their ways of being generous were different. `A'ishah would accumulate things and then share them out, whilst Asma' would never keep anything until the next day."
"Every morning that the servants of Allah (SWT) get up, two angels come down. One of them says, `O Allah, give compensation to the one who spends,' and the other says, `O Allah, cause loss to the one who is stingy.'”
A man praised another man in the presence of the Prophet (PBUH), so He said: “Woe to you! You have cut your companion's throat!” several times.
Then he said: `Whoever of you insists on praising his brother, let him say:
"I THINK that (name of person) is such-and-such, BUT Allah knows the exact truth, and I DONOT CONFIRM anyone's good conduct before Allah (SWT), BUT I THINK him to be such-and-such," if he knows that this is the case.'
Islam gave women a high social standing when it gave her this great social responsibility of enjoining what is good and forbidding what is evil.
A comprehensive, phenomenal book!
The author has similar books on IDEAL MUSLIM, & IDEAL SOCIETY.
In this one, he sliced through each aspect of life, and dived deep into references from Prophet&Companions , presenting them eloquently, for uplifting the women of today from crippling pettiness, towards the exalted standards of Allah-azz wa jal.
“A woman does not keep quiet about any deviance, weakness or negligence in her family or home, unless she is lacking in religion, her character is weak, and her understanding is incomplete.”
The book is divided into 10 chapters, each dealing with some aspect of women’s life.
1: Woman And Her Lord.
-how and why accept will of Allah, repent, sense of responsibility, main concern is pleasure of Allah, understanding the meaning of being servant of only Allah, working for glorification of His name, loyalty only to him, obedience only to him…
2: Woman And Her Own Self
-Body : food, exercise, clothing, hygiene, appearance, preventing extremes
-Mind : pursuing knowledge, what she needs to know, women achievements in knowledge.
-Soul : purification of soul/heart, what is righteous company, duaa
3: Woman And Her Parents
4: Woman And Her Husband
5: Woman And Her Children
6: Woman And Her In Laws
7: Woman And Her Relatives
8: Woman And Her Neighbours
9: Woman And Her Friends, Sisters
10: Woman And Her Community/Society
Each chapter is heavily referenced, and expands upto 300 ahadith references, all unique, least repetitive.
Author also charts a contrast between a Muslim women’s exalted standards and limping standards of Western society due to their necrotic philosophies.
**“I wish that our country was like the lands of the Muslims, where modesty, chastity and purity are like a garment. Servants and slaves there live the best life, where they are treated like the children of the house and no-one harms their honour. Yes, it is a source of shame for England that we make our daughters examples of promiscuity by mixing so much with men. Why do we not try to pursue that which makes a girl do work that agrees with her natural temperament, by staying at home, and leaving men's work for the men, to keep her honour safe.”
-Anna Ward**
There was much new content for me, reminders, new examples and practical steps from lives of Companions, in chapters of Husband, Neighbours, Society, Relatives.
Specially the manners and etiquettes to live and improve the society!
“The one who spreads news of scandal throughout the community is like the one who actually commits the scandalous deed. Both are equal, there is no difference”.
Jabir (RAA) said: "I came to the Prophet (PBUH) and knocked at the door. He said, `Who is this?' I answered, `Me,' and he said, `Me? Me?' as if he disliked this answer."
A book to keep in home library, physical copy.
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Some excerpts:
“French scholar Gustave le Bon, in the late nineteenth century and early twentieth century, stated in his book "The Psychology of Peoples" that woman had never been equal to man except in periods of decline; this comment came in his refutation of demands that women should be made equal with men by giving them the same right to vote.”
“Prophet (PBUH) cursed men who act effeminate and women who act like men, and said, `Expel them from your houses.' The Prophet (PBUH) expelled So-and-so [a man], and Abu Bakr expelled So-and-so [a woman]”
She rejects, with fierce pride, that false "progress" that calls for women to come out uncovered, adorned with make up, to work alongside men in offices. With this wise, balanced, honourable attitude, she is in fact doing a great service to her society and nation, by calling for an end to this ridiculous competition of women with men.
When a girl reaches a certain age - usually seventeen years old - neither her father, her brother nor any of her male relatives are obliged to support her. She has to look for work to support herself, and to save whatever she can to offer to her future husband. If she gets married, she has to help her husband with the expenses of the home and children.
The alert Muslim woman, no matter where she lives, examines every custom that is followed in her society and measures it against the rulings, values and principles of Islam. Whatever is compatible with Islam, she accepts, but whatever contradicts Islam, she rejects outright, whether it is a custom relating to betrothal and marriage, or in family or social life. What matters is whether the custom is compatible with Islam, not how widely it is spread among people.
“I never saw two women more generous than `A'ishah and Asma', but their ways of being generous were different. `A'ishah would accumulate things and then share them out, whilst Asma' would never keep anything until the next day."
"Every morning that the servants of Allah (SWT) get up, two angels come down. One of them says, `O Allah, give compensation to the one who spends,' and the other says, `O Allah, cause loss to the one who is stingy.'”
A man praised another man in the presence of the Prophet (PBUH), so He said: “Woe to you! You have cut your companion's throat!” several times.
Then he said: `Whoever of you insists on praising his brother, let him say:
"I THINK that (name of person) is such-and-such, BUT Allah knows the exact truth, and I DONOT CONFIRM anyone's good conduct before Allah (SWT), BUT I THINK him to be such-and-such," if he knows that this is the case.'
August 29, 2022
إذا في شئ طلعت بيه و اتعلمته من الكتاب ده و هو إنه كيف الإسلام عمل على تقوية المرأة..
انا لا أعرف حقاً من الذي زرع فكرة انه المرأة المسلمة إنسانه لازم تكون ضعيفه و مكسورة و يعتبرونه حتى جزء من التدين
لو بس بنقرأ في كتب التاريخ الإسلامي و بنشوف قوة المرأة و دورها الكبير في عهد الرسول صلى الله عليه وسلم ما كان حسينا بالدونيه المعظمنا بحس بيها عادة.
أكثر شئ حبيته في الكتاب انه كان بعتمد على
أحاديث وآيات و قصص من زمن الرسول ليثبت وجهة نظره أكتر من كونه بيسرد في رأيه الشخصي و خلاص و هذا كان مشكلتي مع الكتب الدينية البتتكلم عن المرأة عموماً.
بي صورة عامة حيكون كتاب مرجعية انو لازم يقرأ من فترة ل فترة لأنه الإنسان بي طبعه بنسى.
شكراً لي صديقتي رحمة على الترشيح اللطيف 💖
انا لا أعرف حقاً من الذي زرع فكرة انه المرأة المسلمة إنسانه لازم تكون ضعيفه و مكسورة و يعتبرونه حتى جزء من التدين
لو بس بنقرأ في كتب التاريخ الإسلامي و بنشوف قوة المرأة و دورها الكبير في عهد الرسول صلى الله عليه وسلم ما كان حسينا بالدونيه المعظمنا بحس بيها عادة.
أكثر شئ حبيته في الكتاب انه كان بعتمد على
أحاديث وآيات و قصص من زمن الرسول ليثبت وجهة نظره أكتر من كونه بيسرد في رأيه الشخصي و خلاص و هذا كان مشكلتي مع الكتب الدينية البتتكلم عن المرأة عموماً.
بي صورة عامة حيكون كتاب مرجعية انو لازم يقرأ من فترة ل فترة لأنه الإنسان بي طبعه بنسى.
شكراً لي صديقتي رحمة على الترشيح اللطيف 💖
November 11, 2012
In defining what an ideal Muslimah's character would look like, there are a few key attributes which separate her from the average woman. The Qur'an also defines specific characteristics that distinguish her from her male counterpart in the way that she worships her Lord and she lives her life. Entailed in this book are verses from the Qur’an and examples from Prophet Muhammad (blessing and peace of Allah be upon him) to help guide the Muslim woman towards the righteous path of Allah. This book is truly a precious gift to give your sister, daughter, wife or friend.
July 29, 2013
This is a very thorough book, hitting on every aspect and relationship a Muslimah has - both in the present and future.Everytime I read it I come away with something different because things change in my life.This is not a book that the reader can outgrow.It will never become obsolete.Every Muslim woman-every woman for that matter-could benefit from this book.It is wonderful encouragement and guidance on being as excellent a woman as possible.
February 6, 2017
This book perfectly shows that us, muslim women, are not oppressed as society and media suppose we are. Islam has raised our status so high that when we are children we open a door of Jannah(Paradise) for our parents, when we get married we complete our husband's Deen(Faith), and when we become mothers Jannah is at our feet.
This book taught me a lot of valuable lessons how to improve myself, my behaviour and to become a better person.
This book taught me a lot of valuable lessons how to improve myself, my behaviour and to become a better person.
December 31, 2016
"كتاب يجسد شخصية المرأة كما أراد لها الإسلام أن تكون، طبقًا لتوجيهاته لها في شتى جوانب الحياة، ووِفاقا لهديِه الحكيم في صياغة عقلها وروحها ونفسيتها وأخلاقها وسلوكها، وقد نطقت بذلك كله الآيات البينات والأحاديث الصحيحة، مُحققة التوازن الدقيق في شخصيتها، بحيث لا يطغى جانب منها على آخر، وراسمةً السلوك الأمثل في التعامل مع الوالدين والأقربين والزوج والأولاد والجيران والصديقات، وغيرهن ممن تلقاهن في المجتمع."
October 30, 2021
لطيف و بديهي جدا يكاد يكون شخصيه المرء المسلم اذا نزعنا منه ضمائر المؤنت فهو عباره عن معظم ما ذكر في السنه عن النبي في المعاملات موجهه بضمير مؤنث.
غير إن فصل اعلام سير النبلاء من الصحابيات يبرد القلب ، وهو نجمتين من نجمات الكتاب الثلاث ، فسماع تصرفات هؤلاء النسوة وتخيل إن اعتي ال مؤرخين و الشيوخ يكتبن عنهن ما فعلنه غير قادرين علي ليه للحد من مكانه المرأه لشئ منعش!
الحمدلله علي نعمة الاسلام اللهم أرنا الحق حقا و ارزقنا إتباعه و أرنا الباطل باطلا و ارزقنا إجتنابه
غير إن فصل اعلام سير النبلاء من الصحابيات يبرد القلب ، وهو نجمتين من نجمات الكتاب الثلاث ، فسماع تصرفات هؤلاء النسوة وتخيل إن اعتي ال مؤرخين و الشيوخ يكتبن عنهن ما فعلنه غير قادرين علي ليه للحد من مكانه المرأه لشئ منعش!
الحمدلله علي نعمة الاسلام اللهم أرنا الحق حقا و ارزقنا إتباعه و أرنا الباطل باطلا و ارزقنا إجتنابه
February 5, 2012
This is a pretty good book! I got the general idea of what it is to be an "Ideal Muslimah" Although i am 100% sure that no Muslim women infact no human being can be perfect. But they can be "people perfect" and that is a whole other discussion!
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