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BITTERSWEET
Queens, New York 1951…
Lamont is heartbroken and left reeling from his own choices.
Vicki’s fairytale marriage is shattered by reality.
Jack is crushed by a love unreciprocated.
In this compelling polyamorous romance, three beautiful souls come together to experience healing, acceptance, and a love that is Bittersweet.
Lamont is heartbroken and left reeling from his own choices.
Vicki’s fairytale marriage is shattered by reality.
Jack is crushed by a love unreciprocated.
In this compelling polyamorous romance, three beautiful souls come together to experience healing, acceptance, and a love that is Bittersweet.
258 pages, Paperback
Published September 1, 2024
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October 4, 2024
“Sometimes who you fall in love with can go against your sexual inclinations. Love is bigger than the act. Sex and love can be beautiful together. The two can also exist independent of one another.”
My heart is so full after reading this beautiful love story. I mean this was a LOVE story and in so many different forms. I meannnnnnn!! By the time I was done with this book my heart was bursting at the seams and Jack, Vicki and Monte will stick with me for a looooooong time!
Monte and Jack both experienced heartbreak in Sweet Honesty. Monte struggled with identity and who he was at the core of self and his sexuality while Jack stood firm in who he was and what he wanted only for it not to be reciprocated. As both men navigate life and love neither could have imagined what life had in store for them and their journey. Not only did they have to navigate the unknown with each other but with Vicki as well.
Joan really has a gift when it comes to the art of storytelling. The way she can beautifully convey both sensuality and sexuality in a way that is tasteful and artful really makes my heart smile. I have never fancied myself as a lover of same sex love stories but if Joan writes it I’m going to read it because she always understands the assignment. In this polyamorous love story she gave us a love that was founded on respect, kindness, thoughtfulness and care.
And don’t get me started on the extended love by way of their support system! Ugh the love was big from Cynthia to Ms. Lily and everyone in between they way they showed up for this family and the babies were everything!!
The vulnerability in this story, the healing, the forgiveness, the redemption was all rooted in love. It was planted, watered and grew so beautifully!
Joan knew exactly what my heart needed when she wrote this book and I cannot wait to read her next body of work!
My heart is so full after reading this beautiful love story. I mean this was a LOVE story and in so many different forms. I meannnnnnn!! By the time I was done with this book my heart was bursting at the seams and Jack, Vicki and Monte will stick with me for a looooooong time!
Monte and Jack both experienced heartbreak in Sweet Honesty. Monte struggled with identity and who he was at the core of self and his sexuality while Jack stood firm in who he was and what he wanted only for it not to be reciprocated. As both men navigate life and love neither could have imagined what life had in store for them and their journey. Not only did they have to navigate the unknown with each other but with Vicki as well.
Joan really has a gift when it comes to the art of storytelling. The way she can beautifully convey both sensuality and sexuality in a way that is tasteful and artful really makes my heart smile. I have never fancied myself as a lover of same sex love stories but if Joan writes it I’m going to read it because she always understands the assignment. In this polyamorous love story she gave us a love that was founded on respect, kindness, thoughtfulness and care.
And don’t get me started on the extended love by way of their support system! Ugh the love was big from Cynthia to Ms. Lily and everyone in between they way they showed up for this family and the babies were everything!!
The vulnerability in this story, the healing, the forgiveness, the redemption was all rooted in love. It was planted, watered and grew so beautifully!
Joan knew exactly what my heart needed when she wrote this book and I cannot wait to read her next body of work!
September 1, 2024
4.25 ⭐️
I guess Vicki said if she can’t beat em then she might as well join em!
This story picks up right where Sweet Honesty left off. Lamont travels to New York in hopes of getting Michael back but things didn’t work in his favor. Jack opened his home to Lamont for the night and well - it turns into many nights.
As Lamont begins to confront parts of himself that he has tried so hard to keep hidden, feelings begin to blossom but there’s only one thing missing. Vicki. Although Lamont is attracted to Jack, he can’t deny his love for his wife. Vicki comes to New York to confront him with some surprises of her own…
Joan Vassar is truly an amazing author and I always find myself getting lost in the stories she creates. They are always so full of love. My main takeaway from this book is that “family” looks different for everyone. There is no picture perfect family and as long as love is at the center- who cares what anyone else thinks?
Looking forward to reading Sweetest Taboo 🖤
I guess Vicki said if she can’t beat em then she might as well join em!
This story picks up right where Sweet Honesty left off. Lamont travels to New York in hopes of getting Michael back but things didn’t work in his favor. Jack opened his home to Lamont for the night and well - it turns into many nights.
As Lamont begins to confront parts of himself that he has tried so hard to keep hidden, feelings begin to blossom but there’s only one thing missing. Vicki. Although Lamont is attracted to Jack, he can’t deny his love for his wife. Vicki comes to New York to confront him with some surprises of her own…
Joan Vassar is truly an amazing author and I always find myself getting lost in the stories she creates. They are always so full of love. My main takeaway from this book is that “family” looks different for everyone. There is no picture perfect family and as long as love is at the center- who cares what anyone else thinks?
Looking forward to reading Sweetest Taboo 🖤
October 8, 2024
Honest Love
4.5 stars
Lamont had worn me down in the previous book, but he slowly redeemed himself in this one. The fear and shame he felt for being himself, for being unloved by his mother had him sabotaging his relationships. When he realized that the love of his life wasn't just going to accept whatever he dished out, he was sick and tried to make amends. He found himself estranged from his wife and slowly falling for Jack, who was nothing but kind to him.
I was worried for Jack. He was already reeling from the heartbreak he experienced with Alex, only to be falling for Lamont who was in the messiest of situations. However, he went into it with both his heart and mind open. I loved the way he embraced Vicki, and went out of his way to make her comfortable. His love for Lamont allowed him to accept everything that came with him. To Lamont's credit he was finally firm on his love for Vicki regardless of what he wanted for himself. Vicki started off on the defense, but her love for Lamont and attraction to Jack allowed her to try something different. The sweet gestures of love and acceptance were just beautifully done. The families, their support system, the love shown was top tier.
I have read lots of polyamory stories, but something about this one was so....intimate. Their love was strong yet quiet and deeply intense. I don't know if it was because it was basically unheard of back then, but these three stood on business about each other and I loved that for them.
I felt like this book could have been called sweet honesty, because it was the sweet honesty between them that allowed them the freedom to love each other wholly. Although, it was bittersweet that Michael and Lamont nor Alex and Jack worked out, it opened them up to even greater loves than they knew were possible.
4.5 stars
Lamont had worn me down in the previous book, but he slowly redeemed himself in this one. The fear and shame he felt for being himself, for being unloved by his mother had him sabotaging his relationships. When he realized that the love of his life wasn't just going to accept whatever he dished out, he was sick and tried to make amends. He found himself estranged from his wife and slowly falling for Jack, who was nothing but kind to him.
I was worried for Jack. He was already reeling from the heartbreak he experienced with Alex, only to be falling for Lamont who was in the messiest of situations. However, he went into it with both his heart and mind open. I loved the way he embraced Vicki, and went out of his way to make her comfortable. His love for Lamont allowed him to accept everything that came with him. To Lamont's credit he was finally firm on his love for Vicki regardless of what he wanted for himself. Vicki started off on the defense, but her love for Lamont and attraction to Jack allowed her to try something different. The sweet gestures of love and acceptance were just beautifully done. The families, their support system, the love shown was top tier.
I have read lots of polyamory stories, but something about this one was so....intimate. Their love was strong yet quiet and deeply intense. I don't know if it was because it was basically unheard of back then, but these three stood on business about each other and I loved that for them.
I felt like this book could have been called sweet honesty, because it was the sweet honesty between them that allowed them the freedom to love each other wholly. Although, it was bittersweet that Michael and Lamont nor Alex and Jack worked out, it opened them up to even greater loves than they knew were possible.
November 17, 2024
It’s them for me!! Jack , Lamonte & Victoria! wowwww!!!
If you would have told me that Lamont , Jack & Victoria would have me like this man 🥹.. I knew it was going to be a sleepless night / day for me ! Not being able to stop . I was so lost in the world of them! Man just intense . Joan writing man!!! I am seriously mad that these pages were not enough for me . I need more it’s not a want at this point I NEED . I am gone , blown away whatever words you want to describe . IT IS ME !
BREATHTAKING , Beautiful, consuming . It was wrapped in pure bliss! Just give it a chance . Ugh I can’t write it enough . This story is …….. open your mind to the world of Joan !!!
Phenomenal. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
If you would have told me that Lamont , Jack & Victoria would have me like this man 🥹.. I knew it was going to be a sleepless night / day for me ! Not being able to stop . I was so lost in the world of them! Man just intense . Joan writing man!!! I am seriously mad that these pages were not enough for me . I need more it’s not a want at this point I NEED . I am gone , blown away whatever words you want to describe . IT IS ME !
BREATHTAKING , Beautiful, consuming . It was wrapped in pure bliss! Just give it a chance . Ugh I can’t write it enough . This story is …….. open your mind to the world of Joan !!!
Phenomenal. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
September 30, 2024
"Sometimes who you fall in love with can go against your sexual inclinations. Love is bigger than the act."
If you read Sweet Honesty, then you know that we left off with Lamont making his way to Michael in hopes of rekindling their relationship. To Lamont’s surprise, he learns that Michael has happily moved on and doesn’t plan on rekindling things with him anytime soon. After getting the door slammed shut in his face, Lamont is asked to stay with Jack, Alexander’s old fling, where the unexpected begins to blossom between Lamont, Jack, and … Vicki.
Lamont: To be completely honest, I couldn’t stand Lamont in Sweet Honesty because of the way he left Michael and their relationship. But since finishing Bittersweet, I have come to understand him and the reasoning behind many of his reactions. What do you do when you're in love with the man you've known since childhood, but know you can't be the man he needs in all aspects because you're also in love with a woman? Whew! When it came to Lamont's sexuality, his love for Lamont and Vicki, his childhood, and his newfound relationship with Jack, there was so much to unpack that I couldn't help but come to adore Lamont after finishing Bittersweet simply because of the growth that Lamont went through.
Jack: I love Daddy Jack! One of the things that stood out to me about Jack was although he was closed off to love in the beginning due to losing his mother, he ended up opening himself up to not one, but two people who could meet his emotional needs and love him in the way that he thought was not possible. The way that Jack was open to loving and nurturing Vicki and her needs although he had never been intimate with a woman before was telling! He was attentive to her. Although Lamont and Vicki were legally married, they went out of their way to include Jack in every aspect of their relationship and newfound lives. I was so happy when Jack finally found his home within Lamont and Vicki because he truly deserved them.
Vicki: I felt for Vicki because she had a tough time trying to grasp the fact that although her husband was homosexual, he loved her with all of his well-being. This was truly something that Vicki couldn't compute until .. enter Jack. Watching Vicki and Jack become in tune with one another was a sight to see. Vicki thought Jack was trying to replace her with her, but the whole time, Jack was hurting because he was genuinely starting to fall for Vicki although he had never loved or been intimate with a woman before. Vicki was such an important part to this dynamic, and I am so happy that she was able to come to understand that it is possible to love two people and be in a partnership with them.
One of my favorite highlights was for sure Baby Boy! How we got Baby Boy was crazy because I did not see that coming when it came to Lamont's mother and father. I also enjoyed the family dynamics on each side. The support they gave to Lamont, Jack, and Vicki was unbelievable. 🥹💙
I think Joan did a great job capturing the essence of true polyamorous relationships throughout the depiction of Lamont, Jack, and Vicki's relationship in Bittersweet. With each chapter, we were able to see the importance of self-discovery, communication, trust, how to work through jealousy, emotional labor, and so much more. All things need to make any relationship work, especially a polyamorous relationship. Joan for sure made me think twice about my perception of polyamory relationships and why I have a hard time allowing myself to be a part of one. *Cue the anxious attachment.*
Joan Vassar is for sure becoming one of my favorite authors! She did a great job of telling the story of Lamont, Jack, and Vicki while making you think about your own beliefs regarding love, sex, intimacy, and relationships. I cannot wait for Sweetest Taboo's release because .. BRUCE, what's going on, Sir?
If you read Sweet Honesty, then you know that we left off with Lamont making his way to Michael in hopes of rekindling their relationship. To Lamont’s surprise, he learns that Michael has happily moved on and doesn’t plan on rekindling things with him anytime soon. After getting the door slammed shut in his face, Lamont is asked to stay with Jack, Alexander’s old fling, where the unexpected begins to blossom between Lamont, Jack, and … Vicki.
Lamont: To be completely honest, I couldn’t stand Lamont in Sweet Honesty because of the way he left Michael and their relationship. But since finishing Bittersweet, I have come to understand him and the reasoning behind many of his reactions. What do you do when you're in love with the man you've known since childhood, but know you can't be the man he needs in all aspects because you're also in love with a woman? Whew! When it came to Lamont's sexuality, his love for Lamont and Vicki, his childhood, and his newfound relationship with Jack, there was so much to unpack that I couldn't help but come to adore Lamont after finishing Bittersweet simply because of the growth that Lamont went through.
Jack: I love Daddy Jack! One of the things that stood out to me about Jack was although he was closed off to love in the beginning due to losing his mother, he ended up opening himself up to not one, but two people who could meet his emotional needs and love him in the way that he thought was not possible. The way that Jack was open to loving and nurturing Vicki and her needs although he had never been intimate with a woman before was telling! He was attentive to her. Although Lamont and Vicki were legally married, they went out of their way to include Jack in every aspect of their relationship and newfound lives. I was so happy when Jack finally found his home within Lamont and Vicki because he truly deserved them.
Vicki: I felt for Vicki because she had a tough time trying to grasp the fact that although her husband was homosexual, he loved her with all of his well-being. This was truly something that Vicki couldn't compute until .. enter Jack. Watching Vicki and Jack become in tune with one another was a sight to see. Vicki thought Jack was trying to replace her with her, but the whole time, Jack was hurting because he was genuinely starting to fall for Vicki although he had never loved or been intimate with a woman before. Vicki was such an important part to this dynamic, and I am so happy that she was able to come to understand that it is possible to love two people and be in a partnership with them.
One of my favorite highlights was for sure Baby Boy! How we got Baby Boy was crazy because I did not see that coming when it came to Lamont's mother and father. I also enjoyed the family dynamics on each side. The support they gave to Lamont, Jack, and Vicki was unbelievable. 🥹💙
I think Joan did a great job capturing the essence of true polyamorous relationships throughout the depiction of Lamont, Jack, and Vicki's relationship in Bittersweet. With each chapter, we were able to see the importance of self-discovery, communication, trust, how to work through jealousy, emotional labor, and so much more. All things need to make any relationship work, especially a polyamorous relationship. Joan for sure made me think twice about my perception of polyamory relationships and why I have a hard time allowing myself to be a part of one. *Cue the anxious attachment.*
Joan Vassar is for sure becoming one of my favorite authors! She did a great job of telling the story of Lamont, Jack, and Vicki while making you think about your own beliefs regarding love, sex, intimacy, and relationships. I cannot wait for Sweetest Taboo's release because .. BRUCE, what's going on, Sir?
October 2, 2024
Swoon
Where the first book in this series, Sweet Honesty, was a sweet, refreshing love story, Bittersweet was just what the name suggests. Everything about this story made me consider how this love could be. I grew to love each character, but it took some self reflecting and consideration to accept this story for what it was. What works for one, may not work for another. I loved reading about a love story that is not the norm. While reading a Joan Vassar book, it's best to expect the unexpected.
This story was more sweet than bitter, but it definitely gave me a prick or 2.
Can't wait for the next installment.
Where the first book in this series, Sweet Honesty, was a sweet, refreshing love story, Bittersweet was just what the name suggests. Everything about this story made me consider how this love could be. I grew to love each character, but it took some self reflecting and consideration to accept this story for what it was. What works for one, may not work for another. I loved reading about a love story that is not the norm. While reading a Joan Vassar book, it's best to expect the unexpected.
This story was more sweet than bitter, but it definitely gave me a prick or 2.
Can't wait for the next installment.
June 3, 2025
In the words of Candi Staton, “You’ll get the babies, but you won’t have your man.”
But in Joan Vassar’s latest novel Bittersweet, you can have your baby, your man, and your other man. Don’t worry—you’ll figure out the plot as soon as you realize what’s happening in Chapter 1. It picks up right where Sweet Honesty left off, and Vassar doesn’t make you wait long for the mysteries to unfold—some are even solved early on.
This story is beautiful, heart-achingly tender, and warm. The characters are flawed, human, and unapologetically Black—and by the end, they’ll feel like your family. It’s so refreshing to see the emotional intelligence of Lamont shine in this book as he grapples with his sexuality, heartbreak, and his move to New York. He’s trying to find a new identity to escape the one he had to perform in Georgia.
Michael and Alex make a few appearances, but they stay in their lane and let Monty take the spotlight. By the end of this slice-of-life poly romance, everything is just as beautiful and complex as Black love often is. Everyone is surrounded by loving family and friends, and their sweetness still shocks me in the best way.
And don’t worry—the spicy scenes had me gasping for air. I had to pause the audiobook, take a lap, and come back with a cold drink.
Listen to the audiobook—you won’t regret it. I had to replay a few chapters more than once. I really hope a third book is in the works, because I can hardly wait to step back into this world again.
But in Joan Vassar’s latest novel Bittersweet, you can have your baby, your man, and your other man. Don’t worry—you’ll figure out the plot as soon as you realize what’s happening in Chapter 1. It picks up right where Sweet Honesty left off, and Vassar doesn’t make you wait long for the mysteries to unfold—some are even solved early on.
This story is beautiful, heart-achingly tender, and warm. The characters are flawed, human, and unapologetically Black—and by the end, they’ll feel like your family. It’s so refreshing to see the emotional intelligence of Lamont shine in this book as he grapples with his sexuality, heartbreak, and his move to New York. He’s trying to find a new identity to escape the one he had to perform in Georgia.
Michael and Alex make a few appearances, but they stay in their lane and let Monty take the spotlight. By the end of this slice-of-life poly romance, everything is just as beautiful and complex as Black love often is. Everyone is surrounded by loving family and friends, and their sweetness still shocks me in the best way.
And don’t worry—the spicy scenes had me gasping for air. I had to pause the audiobook, take a lap, and come back with a cold drink.
Listen to the audiobook—you won’t regret it. I had to replay a few chapters more than once. I really hope a third book is in the works, because I can hardly wait to step back into this world again.
January 16, 2026
4.5 ⭐️ This book was so compelling. It really made me think people go through so much and you never know it because they keep it to themselves. I love how the three of them communicated with each other to gauge what each other needed. They were there to support each other through everything. They worked together to make things work and include each other in all of their decisions. Jack found his happiness.
It is great to have a wonderful village. Lamont’s mom was evil and who was she to judge her skeletons ran deep. Happy that the brothers were able to mend and move on without her damaging their relationship any further.
It is great to have a wonderful village. Lamont’s mom was evil and who was she to judge her skeletons ran deep. Happy that the brothers were able to mend and move on without her damaging their relationship any further.
January 3, 2025
I was excited about the sequel to Sweet Honesty, which was surprising because this genre is out of the norm for me. Joan Vassar did not disappoint. I fell in love with these characters when reading Sweet Honesty. Well, except for Lamont. With the depth of emotions portrayed in this novel, Ms. Vassar made me understand him, which in turn made me feel more compassion for him as well. This story definitely did not play out as I expected. The unfolding of the love story between Lamont, Victoria, and Jack helped me understand just how complex love can be when one is unable to live and love out loud, and the lengths one will go to in order to preserve a love they are unwilling to give up. Family values, friendship, betrayal, and an overall sense of community played tremendous roles in this story…in addition to the very sensual love scenes.
As an author, Joan Vassar creates characters who are so well developed and scenes that are so descriptive that you can picture every scene as they occur as if watching a movie. You can tell she took great care to insure the love scenes were handled with care, not feeding into stereotypes . She was also careful to use vernacular that was true to that era (1950’s), regardless of how uncomfortable it may make readers in 2024. Unfortunately, certain words were used in that time and being “politically correct” just wasn’t a thing. She never disappoints.
As an author, Joan Vassar creates characters who are so well developed and scenes that are so descriptive that you can picture every scene as they occur as if watching a movie. You can tell she took great care to insure the love scenes were handled with care, not feeding into stereotypes . She was also careful to use vernacular that was true to that era (1950’s), regardless of how uncomfortable it may make readers in 2024. Unfortunately, certain words were used in that time and being “politically correct” just wasn’t a thing. She never disappoints.
March 4, 2025
nice with a warning.
These books are very sensual and full of sexual content. Raw content. Read Sweet Honesty, then come back.
Mike still loves Lamont he is extremely hurt that Lamont left and married. Learned if Lamont could have admit to make his homosexuality preference and if Mike could have accepted Vickie the outcome may had differ. Jack was aware for sure. I knew the next kid would be Jacks. Now they have 3. I wanted Monte and Mikey to make up. But I like Jack, and I like Alex so don’t want them hurt. The revelation regarding the pastor, and their mom Eartha was crazy. Oh,and Vickie and all her cursing had me spent. LOL…too funny.
They have another book, interesting exactly whom the third book life revolves around, like his story begins with him losing his job, and being busted.
Ms. Vassar waiting for the third (3rd,) book.
These books are very sensual and full of sexual content. Raw content. Read Sweet Honesty, then come back.
Mike still loves Lamont he is extremely hurt that Lamont left and married. Learned if Lamont could have admit to make his homosexuality preference and if Mike could have accepted Vickie the outcome may had differ. Jack was aware for sure. I knew the next kid would be Jacks. Now they have 3. I wanted Monte and Mikey to make up. But I like Jack, and I like Alex so don’t want them hurt. The revelation regarding the pastor, and their mom Eartha was crazy. Oh,and Vickie and all her cursing had me spent. LOL…too funny.
They have another book, interesting exactly whom the third book life revolves around, like his story begins with him losing his job, and being busted.
Ms. Vassar waiting for the third (3rd,) book.
May 13, 2025
Bittersweet Love
Rating: ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Spice: 🌶️🌶️🌶️
“Sometimes who you fall in love with can go against your sexual inclinations. Love is bigger than the act.”
This was indeed bittersweet, like the first book. I felt like this one also had a melancholy vibe. There were some bitter moments, but I think the sweet moments outweighed them.
Starting this book, I was still upset with Monte—he really made a mess of things and hurt the people who loved him in the process. By the end of the book, I would say he redeemed himself. I was happy that he finally embraced and accepted who he was. I think I understand a little better now why he wasn’t able to accept who he was with Michael. It seems like he was in a constant battle with himself, and he also wanted love and acceptance from his family, which left him in denial.
I was looking forward to this, because I was really curious to see how the author would write about their dynamic. I found myself wondering: how is a poly relationship going to work between two homosexual men and a heterosexual woman? But I was pleasantly surprised to find out that Jack was actually bisexual and very much attracted to Vicki.
It also left me thinking about how it’s possible to be deeply in love with someone, but still have a different sexual preference. It’s complicated, but not entirely impossible. It’s just a very interesting element to their love story, and I really enjoyed seeing how it played out.
I’m not gonna lie—my heart was breaking for Vicki at the beginning of the book, and I was so mad. I’m still kind of bitter about it, because damn, he really played in her and Michael’s face. I did appreciate that we got a little more backstory on the whole situation, but yeah—he handled things between the three of them all wrong.
I was happy to see him and Michael make up, and I could really feel Michael’s hurt too. But it was good to see them come back together as friends in the end. The support system—the family and friends they had backing them up—was just beautiful. Definitely one of my favorite parts of the book.
Jack and Vicki together were so cute, and once Vicki got comfortable with both of them, it became easier for them to love each other. At first, I felt like the dynamic between the three of them didn’t come naturally and felt kind of forced, but eventually it fell into place.
I loved how Jack was able to love Monte and accept Vicki so easily—not just because of his attraction to her, but eventually because of his love for her too. It was so beautiful to see them grow together.
Their dynamic felt like a slow burn at first, but as it progressed, they really won me over with how they were willing to compromise, be together, and love each other unconditionally. It was beautiful. I was happiest for Vicki, because I didn’t know what her role in all of this would be, but she is definitely a strong woman. For her to be able to accept her husband and his lover—it just shows what a beautiful and selfless person she is.
Jack really won me over—he was so loving. Lamont redeemed himself by the end of the book, and I’m just happy they made their unconventional, complicated, but beautiful relationship work.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
September 27, 2024
🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟
I recently finished my first polyamory-themed novel, and I have to say, it was a complete eye-opener. Going into it, I didn’t know what to expect—having never read a book that openly explored multiple intimate relationships. But now, having completed it, I can honestly say this experience was nothing short of fascinating.
What stood out immediately was how thoughtfully the book handled the concept of multiple relationships. It wasn’t just about romance or sex, but about communication, trust, and the genuine emotional dynamics that come with navigating polyamory. The relationships felt layered and nuanced, and each character’s experience was treated with respect and care. It was refreshing to read about adults embracing alternative lifestyles, making informed decisions, and facing challenges in a way that felt realistic, relatable, and never sensationalized.
The dialogue between the characters was rich, deep, and sometimes heart-wrenching. It shed light on the intense emotional labor required in polyamorous relationships, something I hadn’t fully considered before. It was also eye-opening to see the contrast between societal norms and the characters’ willingness to question those norms, showing a different but equally valid way to love.
Another highlight for me was the honest exploration of jealousy. I appreciated how the book didn’t shy away from the more complex emotions that come with polyamory. The characters weren’t immune to jealousy or insecurity, but they dealt with it through communication and self-awareness, which made the story all the more compelling.
I recently finished my first polyamory-themed novel, and I have to say, it was a complete eye-opener. Going into it, I didn’t know what to expect—having never read a book that openly explored multiple intimate relationships. But now, having completed it, I can honestly say this experience was nothing short of fascinating.
What stood out immediately was how thoughtfully the book handled the concept of multiple relationships. It wasn’t just about romance or sex, but about communication, trust, and the genuine emotional dynamics that come with navigating polyamory. The relationships felt layered and nuanced, and each character’s experience was treated with respect and care. It was refreshing to read about adults embracing alternative lifestyles, making informed decisions, and facing challenges in a way that felt realistic, relatable, and never sensationalized.
The dialogue between the characters was rich, deep, and sometimes heart-wrenching. It shed light on the intense emotional labor required in polyamorous relationships, something I hadn’t fully considered before. It was also eye-opening to see the contrast between societal norms and the characters’ willingness to question those norms, showing a different but equally valid way to love.
Another highlight for me was the honest exploration of jealousy. I appreciated how the book didn’t shy away from the more complex emotions that come with polyamory. The characters weren’t immune to jealousy or insecurity, but they dealt with it through communication and self-awareness, which made the story all the more compelling.
September 3, 2024
A MUST READ
If "Sweet Honesty" was captivating, then "Bitter Sweet" is a mind-blowing spaceship ride to another galaxy! This story is like a potion of love that had me floating in a dreamy haze of words. It's a siren song, pulling me into a world where love, emotions, and vulnerability dance cheek to cheek. The emotional richness of the story was irresistible.
The author has the audacity to romanticize human emotion and love. How dare she draw me into a world where ignorance is bliss and societal norms challenged me mentally pulling into an open mindsets to simply see that love is love is love is love!.
In this story, Lamont, Vicki, and Jack embark on a journey of self-discovery, sacrifice and evolution. They unravel layers of their souls, discovering connections mentally and sexually that are as moving as a symphony while navigating through feelings, self-exploration, and challenges that redefine who they are as individuals and as a throuple.
This narrative beautifully portrays vulnerability through openness, honesty, transformation, and compromise. It evokes a range of emotions, from heartwarming to poignant, sensual to erotic capturing the essence of love, sexuality, family, bonding, and friendship. This story is a compelling exploration of acceptance, presenting a beautifully written, well-crafted, and exceptional narrative that unfolds flawlessly and is a must that you experience this unstoppable love that transcends everything you though love was.
If "Sweet Honesty" was captivating, then "Bitter Sweet" is a mind-blowing spaceship ride to another galaxy! This story is like a potion of love that had me floating in a dreamy haze of words. It's a siren song, pulling me into a world where love, emotions, and vulnerability dance cheek to cheek. The emotional richness of the story was irresistible.
The author has the audacity to romanticize human emotion and love. How dare she draw me into a world where ignorance is bliss and societal norms challenged me mentally pulling into an open mindsets to simply see that love is love is love is love!.
In this story, Lamont, Vicki, and Jack embark on a journey of self-discovery, sacrifice and evolution. They unravel layers of their souls, discovering connections mentally and sexually that are as moving as a symphony while navigating through feelings, self-exploration, and challenges that redefine who they are as individuals and as a throuple.
This narrative beautifully portrays vulnerability through openness, honesty, transformation, and compromise. It evokes a range of emotions, from heartwarming to poignant, sensual to erotic capturing the essence of love, sexuality, family, bonding, and friendship. This story is a compelling exploration of acceptance, presenting a beautifully written, well-crafted, and exceptional narrative that unfolds flawlessly and is a must that you experience this unstoppable love that transcends everything you though love was.
November 18, 2024
I loved Michael and Alexander's love story in the first installment of this series. But I must say this book, which is the second installment, was wonderful.
Bittersweet was very well written and great to read! The triangle of love was definitely fulfilling in so many ways for Lamont, Jack and Victoria. I wasn't sure they were going to make it work but they did. I loved how they were very intuitive to each others feelings and worked through things as adults. Their love for each other was beautiful. The family they created with each other and their support system from friends and family added to the story. So glad Michael and Lamonte were able to work through their past hurts and become friends and thank God Lamonte, Greg and Miles were able to see their mother for who she was and reconnected with each other. Victoria showed a strength and determination that I didn't think she had, Lamont showed a very forgiving spirit and Jack was truly the glue to it all! Looking forward to the next installment in the series!
Bittersweet was very well written and great to read! The triangle of love was definitely fulfilling in so many ways for Lamont, Jack and Victoria. I wasn't sure they were going to make it work but they did. I loved how they were very intuitive to each others feelings and worked through things as adults. Their love for each other was beautiful. The family they created with each other and their support system from friends and family added to the story. So glad Michael and Lamonte were able to work through their past hurts and become friends and thank God Lamonte, Greg and Miles were able to see their mother for who she was and reconnected with each other. Victoria showed a strength and determination that I didn't think she had, Lamont showed a very forgiving spirit and Jack was truly the glue to it all! Looking forward to the next installment in the series!
August 27, 2025
Jack x Lamont x Vicki
You can’t help who you love….you’re not supposed to. This is the situation Lamont found himself in. He was in love with his wife, still in love with his best friend and falling in love with his roommate.
You could tell the level of care the author put into crafting this beautifully written love story. The characters’ love was intense, their passion was thick and their intentions were bold. Even though they were in an unconventional relationship, they did not stray away from loving each other out loud. They faced racism and judgement with their heads held high all while nurturing their growing family.
This was an immersive reading experience with dual narration. The audio portion wasn’t my favorite, but it wasn’t horrible.
I’m looking forward to the 3rd installment of this series.
You can’t help who you love….you’re not supposed to. This is the situation Lamont found himself in. He was in love with his wife, still in love with his best friend and falling in love with his roommate.
You could tell the level of care the author put into crafting this beautifully written love story. The characters’ love was intense, their passion was thick and their intentions were bold. Even though they were in an unconventional relationship, they did not stray away from loving each other out loud. They faced racism and judgement with their heads held high all while nurturing their growing family.
This was an immersive reading experience with dual narration. The audio portion wasn’t my favorite, but it wasn’t horrible.
I’m looking forward to the 3rd installment of this series.
September 1, 2024
Another Masterpiece!
Author Joan Vasset has a way of telling a story that totally captures the reader. I started this book with the intention of not liking Lamont. I made up my mind in book one, but Joan told this story so elegantly, that I had no choice but to reevaluate my feelings. This story, like so many of Ms. Vassar's takes the reader on a rollercoaster of emotions. Once I began I simply could not put it down. This series is the story that you didn't even know you needed. I cried with them, got angry with them, felt helpless with them and celebrate with them. I wholeheartedly recommend this series.
Author Joan Vasset has a way of telling a story that totally captures the reader. I started this book with the intention of not liking Lamont. I made up my mind in book one, but Joan told this story so elegantly, that I had no choice but to reevaluate my feelings. This story, like so many of Ms. Vassar's takes the reader on a rollercoaster of emotions. Once I began I simply could not put it down. This series is the story that you didn't even know you needed. I cried with them, got angry with them, felt helpless with them and celebrate with them. I wholeheartedly recommend this series.
September 2, 2024
More Sweet than Bitter
Seeeeee Joan & differ on opinion about this experience for all parties involved to "Bittersweet". Cuz babbbyyy there was nothin bitter but Lamont's egg & nut donors! 🥴🙄
The sweetness was everything else! This triangle of love was definitely fulfilling in so many ways for all 3 of them! 🥰 Every cheek got kissed, every hug was filled with authenticity, & the love was genuine between them as a whole. It worked for them! But I absolutely adored the strength of Vicki! Lamont showed a very forgiving spirit & Jack was truly the glue to it all! The Jackson family was enjoyed! 💜💛💚🫶🏽💯
Seeeeee Joan & differ on opinion about this experience for all parties involved to "Bittersweet". Cuz babbbyyy there was nothin bitter but Lamont's egg & nut donors! 🥴🙄
The sweetness was everything else! This triangle of love was definitely fulfilling in so many ways for all 3 of them! 🥰 Every cheek got kissed, every hug was filled with authenticity, & the love was genuine between them as a whole. It worked for them! But I absolutely adored the strength of Vicki! Lamont showed a very forgiving spirit & Jack was truly the glue to it all! The Jackson family was enjoyed! 💜💛💚🫶🏽💯
July 4, 2025
Listen… Bittersweet had me wide eyed, deep sighing, and fanning myself through scenes I was NOT emotionally prepared for.
Lamont? Heartbroken.
Vicki? Living in a marriage that’s falling apart in slow motion.
Jack? Loving hard and getting nothing in return.
So what do they do? They find love in the most unexpected, spicy, complicated way. Joan Vassar gave us a messy, healing, grown folks love story with vintage vibes and polyamory done RIGHT.
The tension? Thick.
The intimacy? Tender and toe-curling.
The chemistry? Baby, I felt that in my soul.
This book said love doesn’t have to look like anyone else’s as long as it feels right. If you’re into emotional depth, entanglements with purpose, and a slow burn that ends in a full body exhale?
Whewwww, Bittersweet is calling your name.
Lamont? Heartbroken.
Vicki? Living in a marriage that’s falling apart in slow motion.
Jack? Loving hard and getting nothing in return.
So what do they do? They find love in the most unexpected, spicy, complicated way. Joan Vassar gave us a messy, healing, grown folks love story with vintage vibes and polyamory done RIGHT.
The tension? Thick.
The intimacy? Tender and toe-curling.
The chemistry? Baby, I felt that in my soul.
This book said love doesn’t have to look like anyone else’s as long as it feels right. If you’re into emotional depth, entanglements with purpose, and a slow burn that ends in a full body exhale?
Whewwww, Bittersweet is calling your name.
October 21, 2025
The tender moments are everything!
I love how delicately and intentionally the author handled each character. My favorite thing about this book is how everything progressed at an even pace. I love all of the intimacy and tender moments. I love how they chose each other, even at the risk judgement and rejection. I am so happy that the judgement and rejection didn't overwhelmingly overshadow their love for one another and their love story. This was such a sweet story. It was also sweet how the middle spoon depended on who needed it the most. This was a wonderful read that gave me absolutely everything I needed in a romance novel.
I love how delicately and intentionally the author handled each character. My favorite thing about this book is how everything progressed at an even pace. I love all of the intimacy and tender moments. I love how they chose each other, even at the risk judgement and rejection. I am so happy that the judgement and rejection didn't overwhelmingly overshadow their love for one another and their love story. This was such a sweet story. It was also sweet how the middle spoon depended on who needed it the most. This was a wonderful read that gave me absolutely everything I needed in a romance novel.
September 11, 2024
I liked it
Monte is a homosexual. Jack likes men AND women. And Vicki? She just wants her husband back, whatever that means.
I complain a lot about triad representation, but I think that this one was handled very well. I loved that everybody’s wants and feelings were considered here. I liked that MOST of the families were good to each other. I enjoyed this book and am looking forward to the next one.
If you like MMF/MFM triads, depictions of Black Americans in the ‘60s, and people who will loved you through all of it, this is for you.
Monte is a homosexual. Jack likes men AND women. And Vicki? She just wants her husband back, whatever that means.
I complain a lot about triad representation, but I think that this one was handled very well. I loved that everybody’s wants and feelings were considered here. I liked that MOST of the families were good to each other. I enjoyed this book and am looking forward to the next one.
If you like MMF/MFM triads, depictions of Black Americans in the ‘60s, and people who will loved you through all of it, this is for you.
February 19, 2025
Ok, so I am so in love with these characters. Man to be so at war with yourself bc you can't live your truth is horrifying. To live in those time and to be forced not to be yourself, feels like history has gotten no where especially now, here in the twentieth century and still dealing with ethnic cleansing as they call it. I love how they still made it work and the family just became a community. It has some hard conversations between, Lamont, Jack and Rose. but baby when the communication was fixed they had a love that was defiantly unmatched. This was an amazing story and I can't wait for book 3 to come out. I am so giddy.
June 10, 2025
Oh my heart 🥹
At the end of sweet honestly I was ready to send Lamont’s ass packing ! I’m glad I stuck beside him! He really won me over.
Seeing him stand tall and proud in his truth just had me beaming. He really deserved it after all those years of hiding.
Again, I am happy to see a story with gay black men loving out loud with basically no trauma.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Vicky is the realest ! From cussing out mamas, being a bomb ass mother herself, and being with all the sexy ish. Let’s goooo girl.
4.5 ⭐️
The time jump at chapter 21 was a little jarring and the ending was kinda abrupt
At the end of sweet honestly I was ready to send Lamont’s ass packing ! I’m glad I stuck beside him! He really won me over.
Seeing him stand tall and proud in his truth just had me beaming. He really deserved it after all those years of hiding.
Again, I am happy to see a story with gay black men loving out loud with basically no trauma.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Vicky is the realest ! From cussing out mamas, being a bomb ass mother herself, and being with all the sexy ish. Let’s goooo girl.
4.5 ⭐️
The time jump at chapter 21 was a little jarring and the ending was kinda abrupt
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
October 29, 2024
Astonishing Family Circle
Honestly, I was a little upset that the book ended so soon. Vicki was heart broken but finally accepted the fact that her husband left her for another man. However he still loved her because she was his wife . It's not that often that a wife would accept her husband's lover and become one big happy family. I loved both books. I'm waiting patiently for the next chapter. Yes, I recommend both books. We'll done.
Honestly, I was a little upset that the book ended so soon. Vicki was heart broken but finally accepted the fact that her husband left her for another man. However he still loved her because she was his wife . It's not that often that a wife would accept her husband's lover and become one big happy family. I loved both books. I'm waiting patiently for the next chapter. Yes, I recommend both books. We'll done.
November 6, 2024
Mesmerizing!
I honestly didn't think book 2 would be close to the awesomeness of Sweet Honesty. But bae-bay, Ms. Joan did it AGAIN! I'm absolutely in love with the Jacksons. The love, tenderness, affection, care, intimacy 🥵🥵🥵, and family unit they created from hurt & pain is mesmerizing. I'm starting from page one to relive each beautiful moment. This book is a masterpiece! Bravo, Ms. Joan, bravo 👏🏾 👏🏾👏🏾
I honestly didn't think book 2 would be close to the awesomeness of Sweet Honesty. But bae-bay, Ms. Joan did it AGAIN! I'm absolutely in love with the Jacksons. The love, tenderness, affection, care, intimacy 🥵🥵🥵, and family unit they created from hurt & pain is mesmerizing. I'm starting from page one to relive each beautiful moment. This book is a masterpiece! Bravo, Ms. Joan, bravo 👏🏾 👏🏾👏🏾
September 9, 2024
This author did it again!
All I can say to those who seek to read this book, “buckle up”! You will definitely be in for a ride. What a journey to love and along the way it was an intricately beautiful experience. Jack is that dude and Vicki, whew! Monte’s parents are trash! Nevertheless this author delivered again!!!
All I can say to those who seek to read this book, “buckle up”! You will definitely be in for a ride. What a journey to love and along the way it was an intricately beautiful experience. Jack is that dude and Vicki, whew! Monte’s parents are trash! Nevertheless this author delivered again!!!
September 22, 2024
The Sweet Series, Book 2
This book showed so much character growth. At first I was wondering if Vicky had time enough to adjust to what would be her new life with Monte and Jack, but she adjusted to what she later chose and accepted. Lamonte definitely needed that stability. With a mother like his who needed enemies. Sheesh. Enjoy!
This book showed so much character growth. At first I was wondering if Vicky had time enough to adjust to what would be her new life with Monte and Jack, but she adjusted to what she later chose and accepted. Lamonte definitely needed that stability. With a mother like his who needed enemies. Sheesh. Enjoy!
September 12, 2024
Joan ❤️
Nope, this isn't bittersweet. It's just sweet love. If nobody else will make you want to love unconventional, The Joan Vassar will. I have nothing but love for this piece of historical literature. And I'm a cover girlie and this is just pure art.
Nope, this isn't bittersweet. It's just sweet love. If nobody else will make you want to love unconventional, The Joan Vassar will. I have nothing but love for this piece of historical literature. And I'm a cover girlie and this is just pure art.
September 20, 2024
Bittersweet
Such a good read. I couldn’t imagine how a poly relationship would work but it was so natural between the 3 of them.
Such a good read. I couldn’t imagine how a poly relationship would work but it was so natural between the 3 of them.
September 26, 2024
I didn’t expect what I read. This book was so unexpected and the love that was shared was unreal. I commend anyone who could love some so much that they would do such a thing.
November 14, 2024
4.5. Loved! Review to follow
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