DvH's Wisdom: Cultivating Virtue and Empathy in Daily Life
I am grateful for this particular work of DvH in addition to the other works I have read of his. As a counselor, I find DvH works help deepen my understanding and listening to my clients. In my first reading, I jumped around in various sections for reflection. I am on my second read through of the book going cover to cover.
Even if you are not familiar with DvH's other writings, this is a great starter book for those who want to think along with him. DvH has a way of writing to not just uncover the thoughts of his approach, but the reader gets to explore and uncover these methods to help transform their own personal lives.
Moral evil has origins in both ourselves and the broader context of society. This book highlights proactive steps to cultivate empathy, compassion, and virtue that supports a universal moral responsibility. Every organization is made up of individuals and their choices---the section on laziness, and the collection on pride helped me see how the “seeds” of mediocrity can really start a systemic problem. All by one person at a time.
Reflecting with this book I notice the many subtle ways I often turn toward selfishness and then not embrace the love and agency of another. This book does not judge. It encourages. I value the wisdom and ways DvH invites me to notice my day to day interactions and choices.
Reflecting with DvH's philosophy, I am given hope and encouragement to confront challenges I never took notice of before. Also, empathy as to why others may be “stuck” in the things that they do. It helps me to reconcile things in my relationships and gives me clarity to what striving for living a life rooted in goodness looks like--especially to the good of others. My biggest takeaway is that moral evil is not only a struggle against external forces but an invitation to journey in becoming more grounded in love and grace. Basically, what it takes to be fully human.