With a storyteller’s gift and a scientist’s insights, Draaisma celebrates the unique pleasures of the aging memory
You cannot call to mind the name of a man you have known for 30 years. You walk into a room and forget what you came for. What is the name of that famous film you’ve watched so many times? These are common experiences, and as we grow older we tend to worry about these lapses. Is our memory failing? Is it dementia? Douwe Draaisma, a renowned memory specialist, here focuses on memory in later life. Writing with eloquence and humor, he explains neurological phenomena without becoming lost in specialist terminology. His book is reminiscent of Oliver Sacks’s work, and not coincidentally this volume includes a long interview with Sacks, who speaks of his own memory changes as he entered his sixties. Draaisma moves smoothly from anecdote to research and back, weaving stories and science into a compelling description of the terrain of memory. He brings to light the “reminiscence effect,” just one of the unexpected pleasures of an aging memory. The author writes reassuringly about forgetfulness and satisfyingly dismantles the stubborn myth that mental gymnastics can improve memory. He presents a convincing case in favor of the aging mind and urges us to value the nostalgia that survives as recollection, appreciate the intangible nature of past events, and take pleasure in the consolation of razor-sharp reminiscing.
Douwe Draaisma is professor of the history of psychology at the University of Groningen and author of several best-selling books on topics relating to memory.
koristimo li zbilja tek 10% mozga? kako funkcionira mozak dječaka nica kojem su uklonili 600 g mozga? funkcioniraju li tehnike pamćenja? pogoršava li se sposobnost pamćenja s dobi? u čemu je razlika između staračke zaboravljivosti i demencije? imaju li teškoće s pamćenjem veze s demencijom? što je "kabinet za uspomene"? kako fotografija iz prošlosti utječe na početnu demenciju? zašto su nam neka sjećanja nepouzdana? što je "nostalgie permanente"? i, meni omiljeno: zašto, zapravo, postoje stari ljudi? koja je evolucijska korist od prisutnosti starih osoba?
The Nostalgia Factory takes on the nature of memory, particularly the memory of those who are in their 60s and older – a subject that will affect most of us, one way or another.
Part way through I was going to award this book five stars, and part of the reason for this is the beautifully written translation by Liz Waters. It really was a delight to read. Douwe Draaisma takes us smoothly into the way memories change with time, how memories from youth start to surface more and become more important, and the fragile connection between memory and reality. Two parts particularly stick out to my mind (as far as my ageing memory goes) – a powerful assessment of brain training and the whole ‘use it or lose it’ thing, and some fascinating observations on the differences between the way that we see the world in our late teens/early twenties and the way we remember seeing things at that age when we are 30 to 40 years older.
The reason I’ve not gone for the whole five stars is that the book is very slow. It makes some points over and over again – it is almost as if the whole thing was a magazine article that has been extended to make a (slim) book. There simply isn’t enough in it. I also found the chapter consisting of an interview with Oliver Sacks excruciating. While Sacks is clearly a hero for Draaisma, pretty well all written interviews are boring, and this was no exception. The only thing I got out of it was seriously downgrading Sacks in my opinion because he is apparently so dependent on his psychoanalyst that he has to have sessions over the phone when not at home. That Sacks believes in this pseudo-science is worrying to say the least.
Despite the limitations, though, this is an eloquent and elegant little book with some genuinely interesting (and perhaps worrying for someone in their late 50s) observations about the way memory changes as we get older.
Douwe Draaisma is a great writer who presents psychological issues and topics in a very clear and elegant way. More important: in a humouristic way, with lots of quotes and references from literature. I like this guy and not only because he's of Frisian descent ;-).
In Heimweefabriek verkent Douwe Draaisma de fascinerende en raadselachtige aard van ons geheugen, vooral met ouder worden. Zoals hij scherp stelt: Wijsheid komt met de jaren. Maar vergeetachtigheid gaat haar voor. Deze uitspraak vat het conflict samen dat velen van ons voelen met het verstrijken van de jaren—dat we aan de ene kant wijsheid en ervaring vergaren, maar aan de andere kant worstelen met het verlies van heldere herinneringen.
Om dit verlies tegen te gaan, doen we vaak van alles om ons geheugen scherp te houden: Van braintraining tot het slikken van vitaminesupplementen. Draaisma stelt echter de vraag of dit allemaal wel echt nodig is, en of al die hersengymnastiek daadwerkelijk helpt. Hij onderzoekt de zin en onzin van geheugentraining en de illusie van een perfect geheugen. Wat blijkt, is dat geheugen nooit perfect is geweest en dat vergeetachtigheid, zelfs in zijn vele nadelen, ook een natuurlijk en soms zelfs waardevol aspect van ouder worden kan zijn.
Draaisma bespreekt ‘de markt van het grote vergeten’—een industrie die inspeelt op onze angsten voor geheugenverlies en veroudering. Terwijl bedrijven ons overladen met supplementen, apps en trainingen die de belofte van een scherp geheugen verkopen, zet Draaisma een stap terug en kijkt hij kritisch naar deze trends. Hij betoogt dat de ‘ongrijpbaarheid van de herinnering’ ons iets leert over wat echt belangrijk is: niet het exacte vasthouden van details, maar het emotionele en persoonlijke belang van herinneringen.
Tot slot wijst hij ook op ‘de onverwachte genoegens van een ouder wordend geheugen’. Vergetelheid, zo stelt Draaisma, kan soms bevrijdend werken. Het laat ons ruimte om opnieuw naar ervaringen te kijken, zonder de last van alles wat we ons herinneren. Een ouder geheugen herinterpreteert, vervaagt, en creëert op subtiele wijze nieuwe inzichten en perspectieven, iets wat uiteindelijk misschien meer waarde heeft dan het blind vastklampen aan alles wat we ooit wisten.
Heimweefabriek is een verhandeling over nostalgie of geheugenverlies; het is een uitnodiging om ons geheugen te waarderen zoals het is, met al zijn fouten, zwaktes en verrassende inzichten. Draaisma’s werk biedt een diep inzicht in hoe onze herinneringen ons vormen, en hoe een veranderend geheugen ons helpt om het leven vanuit een nieuw, vaak wijzer, perspectief te zien.
Bijzonder interessant en boeiend om verder over na te denken. Helaas ben ik waarschijnlijk te oud om het een bepalend boek te kunnen laten zijn, maar ik hoop me hier delen van te blijven herinneren. Qua structuur vond ik het wat warrig.
What is memory? Quote from page viii: "...when you think back to your earliest memory a strange kind of contact is made in the neurological circuits that deal with remembering: the oldest memory becomes the newest for a moment; the first becomes the last."
Page xiii: "Much current research into the psychology of memory concerns the reliability of recollections...come to see an event or experience in a different light, so that it no longer means what it meant at the time...A sixty-year old was once twenty, whereas a twenty-year-old has no idea what it is like to be sixty.
Nice to know I'm not alone. From page 17: "A memory problem that older people mention...frequently is being unable to find the right word...they...resort to 'whatsit' and 'thingummy'...older people should not let themselves be talked out of the idea that just because they cannot instantly come up with the linguistic term for a word...they nevertheless know more than someone who has never heard of...'Oh yes knowledge' is knowledge too.
Page 19: "The problem with names is that they have no inherent meaning...absence of associations means there are no other routes that lead to the name...Relax...accept that there is no reason at all to be ashamed of forgetting names; it is a common ailment."
Page 49: "'THE PALEST INK IS MORE RELIABLE THAN THE MOST POWERFUL MEMORY.'"
"Much of what is on offer under the heading 'improve your memory' comes down to learning tricks for coping with the effects of decline. Anyone who thinks that such tricks...can actually give them a better memory probably also thinks they would be able to walk better if they used a walking frame.
The mantra 'use it or lose it' is true only in its most restricted sense. There is a convincing amount of research to show that the memory will decline if no longer stimulated. The best way to prevent this is to remain active...The good news is that social activities are sufficient. They involve all the variety and challenges needed to keep the memory up to scratch."
Page 52: "There is much reassurance to be derived from insight into the differences between dementia and the forgetfulness of old age. The latter falls within the limits of what is natural and normal, and practically all elderly people suffer from it to some extent. Dementia is a disease. Forgetfulness is annoying and troublesome but does not turn you into an invalid, whereas dementia does...dementia also affects the capacity to do everyday things: to get dressed, to make coffee or to drive a car."
Page 123: "Writing about W.H. as a school chum...Grass cannot ignore what he now knows about the course of W's life then and later...memories...are both charged and illuminated by what followed, and this has turned them into different memories. They are no longer available in their original form.
Do we underestimate the extent to which memories change and vanish? It seems probable that we do."
''Yaşlı olduğu insanın yüzüne söylenmez. Yaşlı olan başkalarıdır, bizimle aynı yaşta olsalar bile''. Bir psikolog olan yazar bellek yaşlılıkta nasıl işler sorusunun yanıtını arıyor. İnsanlar yaşlandıkça çocukluk ve gençlikte yaşadıklarını daha net hatırlamaya başlıyorlar. Çoğu yazar özyaşam öykülerini 60 yaşından sonra kaleme alıyor. Anılar niye ille de bellek yaşlanınca gösteriyorlar kendilerini? Bu eski anıları geri getiren aslında nedir? Bu dönüş ne zaman başlar? Üzücü anılar da güzel anılar kadar kolay hatırlanılır mı? Kişinin erken dönemde yaşadığı şeyi iyi hatırlaması biyolojik olgunluk meselesi midir? Yoksa yaşamın ilk yıllarında daha mı çok hatırlanmaya değer olay yaşanır? Hayatın geç dönemine ait anılar bunca az olduğu için mi erken döneme ait anılar bu kadar çoktur? Hatırlama bir kez ortaya çıkınca yaşın ilerlemesiyle birlikte daha da güçlenir mi? Unutkanlık yaşlılığın bir parçası mıdır? Bellek antremanı yapılabilir mi? Yazar bu sorulara yanıt vermeye çalışıyor. Yaşlılıkta bellek hakkında bilimsel ve nitelikli bir kitap.
For me, the best thing about this book is how easy it is to skim, which is not intended as a backhanded compliment. It’s just that much in this book didn’t interest me, and some of it did. The book’s skimmability allowed me to pick and choose; poorly organized books would have prevented this.
Also, it was interesting to read a nonfiction book whose examples came large from the Netherlands. Too few books like this are translated into English.
V interesting book written is sort of a storytelling way, about memories and how they change with age. And in 1688 the Swiss Dr J Hofer chose a Swiss dialect word, Heimweh (homesickness), to describe the illness associated with symptoms of loss of appetite, loss of weight, poor sleep, etc. He also derived the word 'nostalgia' from nostos (homecoming) and algia (pain). Who new?
While the information contained in this small book is interesting, it doesn't make me happy to be getting older, and I think there are things that can be done to enhance one's memory skills as one ages like use your brain and dust off some of those older neural pathways.
The topic of memory is considered through the glasses of aging. It is a fascinating look I to an area not commonly researched but important nonetheless. It is written so well that you do not need to have studied psychology to understand the message.
A light overview of memory. I would like to see a little more insight into the physiology and neurology behind memory. A discussion of false memories would have been interesting.
I learned some new information from this book but overall, it disappointed me. I expected to learn more than I did. It seemed as though just as the book really got going it ended.
Een soort vervolg op zijn andere boek uit 2002 – ‘Waarom het leven sneller gaat als je ouder wordt’. Dat vond ik ook erg goed, de Heimweefabriek gaat vooral over het reminiscentie-effect: dat je je na je 55 steeds meer en scherper van je jonge jaren gaat herinneren. Wel interessant gegeven, maar op een gegeven moment weet je het wel ;-)