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280 pages, Paperback
Published January 28, 2025
1) the men keep treating the women with condescension/force during sex (even though it's not as bad as the "misogynistic" guys the writing makes a point of addressing) and all the women involved are written to be okay with it,
2) the men keep being emotionally distant and putting all the emotional work on their partners, presented as shyness or independence of course, and being paternalistic and reliant on their partners (i.e., presenting the women as unreasonable/stubborn while still making them do all the emotional labor), and this is presented as a character flaw that the women need to learn to compromise with because they also have character flaws their partners are contending with, completely disregarding this very structurally enforced power dynamic.